All lost items are supposed to be sold at govdeals.com but I have been faithfully checking there for a long time and I have never seen a crypto coin for sale, so it can only mean that "lost" crypto coins are really stolen.
So here is my question to you, I hosted a raffle, used escrow, and send my package out to germany, it got lost because the tracking stopped updating, should the escrow release the funds of everyone but the winner's btc to me? Because the losers where not going to receive anything, but it wouldnt be fair to charge the winner their raffle spots because they didnt receive the coin
How is this a scam accusation?
As for the escrow - read your contract. What you're saying doesn't sound right since you didn't fulfill your end of the deal but it all depends on your contract with the escrow and with the participants.