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山东农村部分地区现天价彩礼 专家:莫过分啃老
March 18, 2017, 03:07:56 AM
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中新社济南3月17日电 (赵晓 曾洁)“万紫千红一片绿”“三斤三两”“三万一千八,婆家娘家一起发”……山东农村部分地区如今男婚女嫁仍延续着高额彩礼的习俗,给一些家庭造成经济负担。专家表示,天价彩礼源于攀比、夸浮的社会风气,年轻人不应过分“啃老”。
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据网上流传的山东结婚彩礼排行榜显示,菏泽彩礼最高,青岛紧随其后,威海“垫底”。其他如济南、临沂、泰安、聊城等地彩礼讲究“万里挑一”,金额在10001元人民币左右。
记者在采访中发现,虽然“天价彩礼”的现象时有发生,但多数家庭表示不会强人所难。家在菏泽单县的刘先生2015年与同县的女孩结婚,“当时彩礼8.8万,配手镯、耳环、项链这‘三金’,再加上房子和汽车,所谓‘一动一不动’”。刘先生介绍,当地农村流行“万紫千红一片绿”,但自己家境并不富足,女方考虑到这一点,未按习俗要求。据他所知,他哥哥的朋友结婚时按照习俗给女方提供了20万见面礼和10万彩礼。
家在烟台蓬莱三赵村的女孩战云2014年结婚时,除金银首饰外收彩礼三万一千八,战云说,“胶东送彩礼的金额讲究带‘一’,寓意‘万里挑一’,而‘八’则寓为‘发’”,后来村里结婚也有收五万一千八、十万一千八。
嫁到烟台南王镇的赵静,生在农村家庭,2011年结婚时,男方以28000元人民币的彩礼配一栋房子的条件娶妻进门,“如今彩礼一年一个价地涨,但具体还是根据男方的家庭条件来决定”,赵静说,她的妈妈1986年结婚,那时收彩礼约五、六百元。不到30年的时间里,彩礼价格上涨了40多倍。
山东是全国性别比失衡较为严重的省份之一。再加上大量农村女性进入城市,农村的初婚性别比更高。因而,山东地区彩礼近年上涨幅度较大。
中国民俗学会副会长、山东民俗学会会长刘德龙说,夸浮、攀比之风一直存在,越是经济、文化不发达地区,越容易出现“天价彩礼”。在他看来,现在虽时有极端现象发生,但总体已大为改观。中国人具有很强的家庭观念,父母长辈给出的彩礼多用于儿女新婚“垫家底”,这无可厚非,但应量力而行,摈弃攀比之风,年轻人更应树立奋斗、自强的观念,不做“啃老族”。(完)
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Re: 山东农村部分地区现天价彩礼 专家:莫过分啃老
March 18, 2017, 06:07:11 AM
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不要彩礼的女人看不上拿不起彩礼的男人;拿的起彩礼的男人看不上非得要彩礼的女人。说白了就是内部消化
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Re: 山东农村部分地区现天价彩礼 专家:莫过分啃老
March 18, 2017, 08:10:23 AM
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天价彩礼其实也是一种陋习。年轻人谈情说爱,爱情成熟了就应该谈婚论嫁。本来是你情我愿的事情。但结婚时的彩礼,往往成为男女结婚的障碍。有些农村部分地区索要的彩礼越来越高,男方往往不堪重负。由于彩礼棒打鸳鸯的事时常发生,实在是一个悲剧。这种陋习尽早要改变,要移风易俗。
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Re: 山东农村部分地区现天价彩礼 专家:莫过分啃老
March 18, 2017, 11:23:07 AM
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天价彩礼源于攀比、夸浮的社会风气,年轻人不应过分“啃老”,真是悲剧。
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