Gay Marriage and Adoption

[Xester]

If homosexuals are legalized, what I fear is the future of more and more people who want to be gay and lesbian. Why am I afraid? Because gays and lesbians can not bear children. Think about it, nobody gives birth - no children - gays and lesbians can not adopt children. Gay and Lesbians aging, then die, humans were gone lol.

In my country if you want to adopt a child, you should prove that you are married - and it should a man and a woman. Therefore if you are gay or lesbian and you want to adopt a child, the government will not allow you.

Really?  Here in our country the only requirement is a paper that will authorized you to adopt the child coming from a poster house.  The staff from poster house will conduct a survey to the person or couple or anyone who would like to adopt a child.  They will based their investigation on the income, place, the life of the person who will adopt, the salary I think.  These are done so that there is assurance that the child will have a good future and in good hands.

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[Kulang]

I have nothing against gay marriage and gay couple adopting. I have gay friends and they are very successful, happy, and contented with their lives. Here in our country, gay marriage is not yet accepted but I hope that someday, there will be a time where it will be accepted. And them adopting a child is not an issue as long as they are really eager to adopt and raise a child and they really can provide the needs of the child.

[Boys27]

I think same sex marriage is not good, Because god creates man and woman, man is not created by god to be able to change the genitals naturally like worms, so how can having children if having the same sex?

[karisiak123]

When married to the same sex must be polapikirnya already insane indeed do not want what have the offspring like normal people ,, very in pity if there is same sex marriage.

[eagleman]

This is why we are experiencing disasters, because things that people should not adopt are being adopted and done. Just like Sodom and Gomorrah, gay marriage, same sex marriage, this isn't right.

[ApocalypseNow]

In many countries of the world homosexuality is still illegal and is sometimes even punished with death. (https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d1/World_laws_pertaining_to_homosexual_relationships_and_expression.svg/1035px-World_laws_pertaining_to_homosexual_relationships_and_expression.svg.png)

In most Western countries, same sex marriage is now permitted. Adoption has also been allowed in some countries. There are no studies that show that children grow up badly in homosexual relationships.

Why do you think that so many Western countries have problems with same rights for homosexual ppl?
And what do you think about it personally?

Just imagine how many child abuse or sexual abuse will be reported when those gay couples adopted a baby boy. I'm seeing a future where gay couples repeatedly rape their sons when nobody is around.

[kodes88]

 for gays and lesbians, we who fight homosexuals can not deny that the existence of gays and lesbians can not be prevented, because when we talk about this sort of thing, we always associate it with human rights, even though it is a deviant thing. But I think if you want to live with your gay / lesbian couple, stay, but do not need to marry because it is against fate, and do not also adopt a child

[Sithara007]

When married to the same sex must be polapikirnya already insane indeed do not want what have the offspring like normal people ,, very in pity if there is same sex marriage.

They can have offspring from surrogacy. But even then, how can the children call them as parents? Even these children will have only one father and the biological mother will be a surrogate or an egg donor woman.

[Nakakapagpabagabag]

They have a different cause of why homosexual is prohibited and adoption, For other people says they favor to that gay marriage because they want only happy in their life but that so selfish. In other people part is same sex marriage is sin in our god.

[Senkuli]

In many countries of the world homosexuality is still illegal and is sometimes even punished with death. (https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d1/World_laws_pertaining_to_homosexual_relationships_and_expression.svg/1035px-World_laws_pertaining_to_homosexual_relationships_and_expression.svg.png)

In most Western countries, same sex marriage is now permitted. Adoption has also been allowed in some countries. There are no studies that show that children grow up badly in homosexual relationships.

Why do you think that so many Western countries have problems with same rights for homosexual ppl?
And what do you think about it personally?

I disagree about same-sex marriage, but because everyone has a thing to decide on his life choices then it's all up to what they choose.
About adoption of children, of course there are rules that govern the process and supervision in the adoption of children by the government.
It is likely that children adopted by gay families will have a different life than children raised by normal families, surely the child will have a tendency to behave like a gay parent.

[bcnaranjo]

Gay marriage and adopting this social situation is a matter of respect and human rights. Religion dictates what is presumed to be religiously acceptable based on the perception of others. But we have to be true to ourselves and respect the rights of others and their preference in how they will journey life and who will make them happy. If Gay Marriage doesn't harm the society, then why do we have to judge them? What is important is that they are good citizens.

[SonOfNorth]

If homosexuals are legalized, what I fear is the future of more and more people who want to be gay and lesbian. Why am I afraid? Because gays and lesbians can not bear children. Think about it, nobody gives birth - no children - gays and lesbians can not adopt children. Gay and Lesbians aging, then die, humans were gone lol.

You do understand that sexuality is not a choice, right?

You also don't need to worry about the human race going extinct, people are multiplying with exponential growth, so if anything we'd need to slow it down. Granted those are uneducated, uncivilized people from religion-infected countries, but still.

[SushiMonster]

As long gay parents can provide a good life on the child and responsible enough to care one, there's nothing wrong with it.
People should just get over the fact that some people choose to love the same gender.
As long that their decisions doesn't affect your life, then there's nothing wrong with it.
People have their own personal beliefs and just learn to respect one another. Just because you don't believe in gay marriage, you need shove it to other people's mind that it's wrong.
Homosexuality is not a disease, being homophobic is one. Homophobic people needs to go to see a doctor or something.

[Vishnu.Reang]

If Gay Marriage doesn't harm the society, then why do we have to judge them? What is important is that they are good citizens.

How can you be so sure that gay marriage doesn't harm the society? IMO, recognition of homosexual marriage can have a negative effect on the family values, and it will reduce the sanctity of marriage overall.

[Xester]

As long gay parents can provide a good life on the child and responsible enough to care one, there's nothing wrong with it.
People should just get over the fact that some people choose to love the same gender.
As long that their decisions doesn't affect your life, then there's nothing wrong with it.
People have their own personal beliefs and just learn to respect one another. Just because you don't believe in gay marriage, you need shove it to other people's mind that it's wrong.
Homosexuality is not a disease, being homophobic is one. Homophobic people needs to go to see a doctor or something.

Nowadays, many people are turn into gay. I don't see any problem with that because they don't commits any mistakes to other people's lives. Similarly, if two person loves each other they should be marry. And if a two gays want to have a baby, they should adopt a child from some management. If they can provide better future and if they can provide the things that the baby needed they can adopt a baby.

[Chikitita2004]

What made the western countries agree to it is probobly because they are mor liberals. Most of the countries that do not yet accept it and legalize it are the religious countries. Christians and Muslims alike do not tolerate it but the Jewish though they don't have same sex marriages yet but they don't condemn 2 same sex living together. They also allow child adoption to same sex couples. Personally i don't see adoption as something normal. I am thinking of the child's social well being. I don't think it is healthy for the child to be bullied for having same sex parents. 

[The_prodigy]

In many countries of the world homosexuality is still illegal and is sometimes even punished with death. (https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d1/World_laws_pertaining_to_homosexual_relationships_and_expression.svg/1035px-World_laws_pertaining_to_homosexual_relationships_and_expression.svg.png)

In most Western countries, same sex marriage is now permitted. Adoption has also been allowed in some countries. There are no studies that show that children grow up badly in homosexual relationships.

Why do you think that so many Western countries have problems with same rights for homosexual ppl?
And what do you think about it personally?

I think that today, there is no problem with homosexuality. The problem lies on the belief of people rooted for such a long time that marriage is for one man and one woman only. It is still frowned upon to have gay marriages work as people still believe that within that person they are still male and femae no matter what they say. However for adoption I believe that gender should not be an issue for that as gender does not kean better parents.

[Prem.Soorajpaul]

And if a two gays want to have a baby, they should adopt a child from some management.

Not this one. I am not in favor of gay adoption. The gay parents are much more likely to abuse their children, when compared to the heterosexual parents. Studies indicate that they are almost 50 times more likely to abuse children.

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And if a two gays want to have a baby, they should adopt a child from some management.

Not this one. I am not in favor of gay adoption. The gay parents are much more likely to abuse their children, when compared to the heterosexual parents. Studies indicate that they are almost 50 times more likely to abuse children.

Please link the studies.