Bitcoin Forum
October 18, 2017, 07:00:06 PM *
News: Latest stable version of Bitcoin Core: 0.15.0.1  [Torrent]. (New!)
 
   Home   Help Search Donate Login Register  
Pages: [1] 2 3 4 5 6 7 »  All
  Print  
Author Topic: how to discipline a child  (Read 3380 times)
Horserg
Newbie
*
Offline Offline

Activity: 21


View Profile
May 30, 2017, 03:08:59 PM
 #1

What are your thoughts on the appropriate techniques in disciplining children? Children grow up to be insecure and shy when they have had a difficult childhood. Studies have shown that the way they have been disciplined in the past affects how they deal with depression or happiness in the future. What do you think?
1508353206
Hero Member
*
Offline Offline

Posts: 1508353206

View Profile Personal Message (Offline)

Ignore
1508353206
Reply with quote  #2

1508353206
Report to moderator
Advertised sites are not endorsed by the Bitcoin Forum. They may be unsafe, untrustworthy, or illegal in your jurisdiction. Advertise here.
gollygosh
Full Member
***
Offline Offline

Activity: 164



View Profile
May 30, 2017, 07:29:05 PM
 #2

Repressive Environments = a disturbed childhood = usually a repressed adult.
Discipline is more about YOU doing your best to understand the kid and why the kid is unruly, rather than getting the kid into the mindset you want the kid to have.

otrkid70
Hero Member
*****
Offline Offline

Activity: 805



View Profile
May 30, 2017, 07:37:20 PM
 #3

Use the old fashion method.....A belt
trubadix
Newbie
*
Offline Offline

Activity: 22


View Profile
May 30, 2017, 07:43:22 PM
 #4

Different kids take different approach. The difficult part is that the kid grows up as an amalgam of what it learns from its parents, school and mostly from it's surroundings. That means that whatever the parents and teachers do, the surrounding world can still screw the child.

Back in ancient times Spartans were taught to be warriors from infants. They had rough childhoods and rough lives as adults, but they were tough and confident men. Nowadays if you try to raise your kid the Spartan way it's highly likely he'll grow up pretty messed in the head. Something more appropriate for today's liberal environment is needed, but things should be balanced, or else you'll be growing yourself a loser.

That said when I did wrong stuff my dad didn't hesitate to slap my face from time to time. It turns out I didn't grow up to be a maniac, so I guess it's fine.
alfredgarsi
Newbie
*
Offline Offline

Activity: 29


View Profile
May 30, 2017, 09:44:06 PM
 #5

You can´t bee too strict but you can´t bee too lenient either. You need to find the balance, it´s important to educate but children need to grow up with a good self steem.
cybersofts
Sr. Member
****
Offline Offline

Activity: 252


The Global Gaming Network


View Profile
May 30, 2017, 10:21:19 PM
 #6

Use the old fashion method.....A belt

Lmaooo Smiley Some kids need some old ways to be fully aware of this life ain't easy, dude! Grin

Lancusters
Sr. Member
****
Offline Offline

Activity: 336


View Profile
May 30, 2017, 11:16:53 PM
 #7

I am a supporter of the repressive methods of education. The child should know what the punishment will be severe and inevitable. Modern liberal views are not justified. It is in childhood lays the Foundation of education. When a child does not apply physical punishment he accustomed to the idea that we can avoid punishment and that is what causes the appearance of maniacs. The harsher you punish the child the better it grows out of a citizen.


                              ████████████████
                           ████████████████████████
                    ████████                      ██████
                   █████                █████       ███████
               █████                 █████████            ███
            ████   █████   ██████████████████████           ████
           ████   █████████████████████████████████          ████
         ███      ███████████         █████████████████         ████
         ██       ███████████        ██████████     ████████████  ███
       ███        ████████████████████       ██       ██████████   ███
      ████      █████████       ██████       ████     ███████████   ██
     ████     ████    ██     ███     ██████████████████████████     ███
     ██       ████   ███     ████    ██████    ███    █████████      ███
   ███      ████     ████████████████████████  ███      ████████      ███
   ███   ███████████████     ███████████████████████   ███   ███      ███
  ████ █████████████   ██   ██████████████████ ███████████   ████     ████
  ████ ███████████     ███████████        ████████    ████   ████       ██
  ████ ███████████     █████ ████          ███████    █████  ████       ██
  ████   ██████████  ████████████          ████████████   ██████████    ██
  ████    █████   ██████   ██████          ████  █████    ███████████   ██
  ████     ████    █████   ███████       █████████████     ██████████ ████
   ███     ████    ██████████ ███████████████████  ███    ███████████ ████
   ███      ████   ██    ██████████████████  ██    ████████████████   ███
   ████     █████████    ████████████████████████ ██████    █████     ███
     ██     █████████      ██    ████████ ████████████     ████      ███
      ███   ████████████████████████████  ████     ███    ███       ██
      ████  ██████████████████████   ████████      ███ █████       ███
       ████ ███████████      ███      █████████████████████      ████
         ███████████████     ████    █████   ██████████████      ███
          ████         ███████████████        ██████████████   ████
           ████         ████████████████     ██████████████  ████
              █████         ███████████████████       ██  █████
               █████         █████████████              █████
                   ██████       ██████             ███████
                        ██████████████  ████████████
                            ██████████████████████
Gaze Coin

  BLOCKCHAIN-VR/AR TOKEN 


=
  [Facebook][Twitter][Telegram]
[Reddit] [Steemit]
dimatu
Member
**
Offline Offline

Activity: 84

ChronoLogic: It might be worth your time


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 04:28:21 AM
 #8

I believe its a battle of wills that starts right from when the baby starts developping its own thoughts. Don't give in to their demands but show them love and generosity when they aren't asking for it. There isn't really much need to be overly strict or hit a child as long as you are firm. And most importantly you need to spend a lot of time with the child so they will have a sense of bonding with you from an early age.

CHRONO LOGIC ■ ▬■The first Proof-of-Time platform■▬ ■ CHRONO LOGIC
Only 3,333 Self-Mining Ethereum Masternodes available
▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ Early Contribution Period Ends Aug 28th ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬
rahmat92
Member
**
Offline Offline

Activity: 84


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 05:04:57 AM
 #9

When a child breaks the rules, tell the child his actions are wrong, and tan additional tasks as a consequence. For example, bathrooms, sweeping pages, cars and so on. Children need to know everything that violates the rules, there must be consequences.
Buerra
Hero Member
*****
Offline Offline

Activity: 882


GET IN - Smart Ticket Protocol - Live in market!


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 08:31:47 AM
 #10

Use the old fashion method.....A belt

Best way is known way.You nailed it Cheesy


               ████
             ███  ███
           ████     ███
         ███  ███    ███
       ████     ███    ███
     ███  ███     ███    ███
   ████     ███     ███   ██
 ███  ███     █████████████████
███     ███     ███           ██
 ███      ███     ██          ██
   ███      ██████████      ███
     ███      ██████      ███
       ███      ██      ███
         ███          ███
           ███      ███
             ███  ███
               ████

GUTS
    ███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
   
smart-ticket protocol for events
live product with market traction!
    ███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
███
   
  BTC ANN
  WEBSITE
  BLOG
   
  SANDBOX
  WHITEPAPER
  BOUNTY
   
BTC4Iphone
Jr. Member
*
Offline Offline

Activity: 32


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 08:37:25 AM
 #11

Charity begins at home.

Discipline should begin with the parent's (mother,father)

Thanks
BTC4Iphone
Jr. Member
*
Offline Offline

Activity: 32


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 08:40:50 AM
 #12

When a child breaks the rules, tell the child his actions are wrong, and tan additional tasks as a consequence. For example, bathrooms, sweeping pages, cars and so on. Children need to know everything that violates the rules, there must be consequences.


@rahmat92, that is not discipline. It's Child abuse.

NOTE : correcting a child With Love is Discipline while, correcting a child Without Love is Child Abuse

Thanks
dina dini
Member
**
Offline Offline

Activity: 112

PoSToken


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 09:11:05 AM
 #13

That discipline can be gained by day-to-day habits and of course the examples of reciprocal behavior from the people around him. But looking for the personality character of the child is itself the goal to get him to know himself.

FomoATH
Full Member
***
Offline Offline

Activity: 122



View Profile
May 31, 2017, 10:05:01 AM
 #14

Use the old fashion method.....A belt

This is a wrong approach, because when children grow up they can apply violence to others and even to their parents. One must learn to talk without physical and psychological violence.

kolloh
Legendary
*
Offline Offline

Activity: 1120


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 01:47:46 PM
 #15

Use the old fashion method.....A belt

This is a wrong approach, because when children grow up they can apply violence to others and even to their parents. One must learn to talk without physical and psychological violence.

There still needs to be consequences of some sort. Just talking likely won't change a child's behavior. Although there are other ways of punishing such as by chores or restricting what they can do, but I'm not sure if those are effective in all cases.
Lenzie
Full Member
***
Offline Offline

Activity: 182



View Profile
May 31, 2017, 03:02:09 PM
 #16

Use the old fashion method.....A belt

Most people think it is cruel. But I grow up with a threat of a belt from my father's hand with more lessons than just words. Some, I am not saying most. But some who haven't experience the pain as a result of doing something wrong, grew up spoiled and tends to repeat the same mistake.

nagobinga
Full Member
***
Offline Offline

Activity: 154



View Profile
May 31, 2017, 09:19:19 PM
 #17

When children break the rules, tell them that the action is wrong and give him the punishment such as sweeping the page and clean the wc  Smiley





Eternu
Sr. Member
****
Online Online

Activity: 308


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 09:23:42 PM
 #18

What are your thoughts on the appropriate techniques in disciplining children? Children grow up to be insecure and shy when they have had a difficult childhood. Studies have shown that the way they have been disciplined in the past affects how they deal with depression or happiness in the future. What do you think?
Children are like sponges when they are little. I think that children looks up on their parents. So if their parents are not so well disciplined, than the child will have hard time understanding good things and good manners. It all comes from home, that is what people say and i agree. If child is mistreated that there is a big chance that it will grow to be a bully.

       ▀
   ▄▄▄   ▄▀
   ███ ▄▄▄▄  ██
       ████
    ▄  ▀▀▀▀
▄▄
      ██    ▀▀
██▄█▄▄▄████████
▄▄▄▄▄▄▄▄▀▀███▀▀▀
██████████████████
████▄▀▄▀▄▀███▀▀▀▀▀
████▄▀▄▀▄▀███ ▀
████▄▀▄▀▄▀████████
▀█████████████████
]
CoinPayments
█████
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████
█████
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████
█████
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████ ██
█████
amaral1977
Sr. Member
****
Offline Offline

Activity: 322


Crypterium- Digital Cryptobank & Credit Platform


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 09:41:59 PM
 #19

A wise man from brasil who had 5 kids. all boys once said. I won´t beat up my kids, i must educate them, otherwise they will outgrow me, never respect me and end up beating me when im old.



░░░░░░░░░░▄▄▄▄▄▄
░░░░░░▄███████████▄
░░░░▄██▀▀░░░░░░░░▀██▄
░░░██▀░░░▄▄▄▄▄▄░░░░▀██
░░██▀░░▄██▀▀▀▀▀░░▄▄
██▀░░██▀░░▄▄▄▄░░▀▀
██▀░░██░░▄██▀▀▀█▄
██░░██░░██▀
██░░▀▀░░██
██░░▄▄░░██
██░░██░░██▄
██▄░░██░░▀██▄▄▄█▀
██▄░░██▄░░▀▀▀▀░░▄▄
░░██▄░░▀██▄▄▄▄▄░░▀▀
░░░██▄░░░▀▀▀▀▀▀░░░░▄██
░░░░▀██▄▄░░░░░░░░▄██▀
░░░░░░▀███████████▀
░░░░░░░░░░▀▀▀▀▀▀


░░░░░░░░░░▄▄▄▄▄▄
░░░░░░▄███████████▄
░░░░▄██▀▀░░░░░░░░▀██▄
░░░██▀░░░▄▄▄▄▄▄░░░░▀██
░░██▀░░▄██▀▀▀▀▀░░▄▄
██▀░░██▀░░▄▄▄▄░░▀▀
██▀░░██░░▄██▀▀▀█▄
██░░██░░██▀
██░░▀▀░░██
██░░▄▄░░██
██░░██░░██▄
██▄░░██░░▀██▄▄▄█▀
██▄░░██▄░░▀▀▀▀░░▄▄
░░██▄░░▀██▄▄▄▄▄░░▀▀
░░░██▄░░░▀▀▀▀▀▀░░░░▄██
░░░░▀██▄▄░░░░░░░░▄██▀
░░░░░░▀███████████▀
░░░░░░░░░░▀▀▀▀▀▀

▀  Twitter
▀  Telegram
▀  Facebook
▀  ANN Thread
▀  Whitepaper
▀  Website

Full
▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀ ▀▀ ▀ ▀ ▀ ▀ ▀ ▀▐ █                    CRYPTERIUM                    █ ▌▀ ▀ ▀ ▀ ▀ ▀ ▀▀ ▀▀▀ ▀▀▀▀▀
▐ █
Deluzi
Jr. Member
*
Offline Offline

Activity: 47


View Profile
May 31, 2017, 11:47:01 PM
 #20

It's a tough one, but if you have a child that is your life so teach him good, be his father not friend, teach him how to life, survive, be tough, be inteligent so that he won't do drugs, but the main part is, be a lot of time with them... if not, i can assure you, if too much free time too many things to happen...

MaskNetwork ◄ START TRADING WITH NO CENTRAL SERVER ►
Pages: [1] 2 3 4 5 6 7 »  All
  Print  
 
Jump to:  

Sponsored by , a Bitcoin-accepting VPN.
Powered by MySQL Powered by PHP Powered by SMF 1.1.19 | SMF © 2006-2009, Simple Machines Valid XHTML 1.0! Valid CSS!