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September 26, 2017, 11:35:09 PM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
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September 27, 2017, 12:32:20 AM
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yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair  LIFE is.

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September 27, 2017, 12:37:30 AM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
I think you need to seek therapy for this but if you don't have the money to see a psychiatrist, Group therapy is also a wonderful idea, sharing your problems with the group will help you to get over it .
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September 27, 2017, 01:41:49 AM
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Nope. I have never felt anything like that. I am enjoying my life like I want, and no one is controlling me. Whatever the consequences I am facing are a direct result of my own actions and therefore I don't have any regret. Sometimes I take advice from my friends and relatives. But that doesn't mean that they are controlling me. I am the sole person who is controlling my life.

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September 27, 2017, 02:31:35 AM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.


     Well, I think I am lucky to not experience that abusive relationship even if I have a multiple failed relationship I can still enjoying my own life. People around me can advise me what to do, what is wrong for me, and what is right for me to do but still the decisions is in ourselves and no one can control us.

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September 27, 2017, 04:12:17 AM
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yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair  LIFE is.

Agree its our parents and for me not just them its my God aswell but He do not control the way we pick our path it is we who will let walk through the path we pick. Why its because God give us our own mind and not to forget our parents who will guide me and you as we grow.
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September 27, 2017, 01:36:06 PM
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yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair  LIFE is.
Not at times, but often feel that his life is controlled by others. When you work for salaries, that is inevitable. You are subject to strict regulations where you work. Only with bitcoin you will not be controlled but will be mastered and become rich.

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September 27, 2017, 03:39:30 PM
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I try as much as i can to control my own life that i dont leave to anyone to decide for me because i want the consequences of my own action be blamed on me, me alone and nobody else so i control my own life. People might have some influence on me at some point like my parents, siblings, boss, colleagues and the guy who i bust into conservation with at the soccer stadium but they dont control me.

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September 27, 2017, 03:50:10 PM
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I never experienced it. my principle, this is my life, this is my nature, this is my body. cuman me who knows where I want to go. indeed many in this world are controlled by others, but first seen the intent and purpose of the person. whether for good or evil. life is difficult, but first look at the meaning of the person who controls us.like a boss controlling you in a company, surely it's for a better job, and for the betterment of the company. but if someone else controls you by passing the limit, then you should leave. remember this is your life, you who have to decide it is not someone else who determines you. indeed the reality is difficult, but all must be full of struggle

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September 27, 2017, 11:37:14 PM
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yes i felt someone was controlling my life.My family tried to check me before college.My boss tried to check on me after I got into the job.my wife tried to control me when I got married.Everyone is trying to control the other person.İt is important that we do not accept this.

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September 27, 2017, 11:47:49 PM
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Sometimes I feel my mom wants to control my life and I always revolt. She doesn't seem to understand that I'm not a child anymore so we end up having a lot of misunderstanding. I think all of us should learn that no one is on earth for us to always do our biddings. Life and love should be by freewill not compulsion.

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September 28, 2017, 04:30:52 PM
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No . Because no one is allowed to control anybody's life . It's her/his life .
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September 28, 2017, 04:43:33 PM
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Yes, first when i didnt realize that she already controlling me becausw i love him, i do all things she want and avoid the things she didnt want but when i finally realize that its too hard living this way, i choose to leave.

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September 29, 2017, 01:26:13 PM
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Sometimes I feel my mom wants to control my life and I always revolt. She doesn't seem to understand that I'm not a child anymore so we end up having a lot of misunderstanding. I think all of us should learn that no one is on earth for us to always do our biddings. Life and love should be by freewill not compulsion.

It seems to me that many parents do not understand that children are already adults and should independently manage their lives, because I also have the same situation.

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October 01, 2017, 01:03:56 PM
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No. I tend to br quite sensitive to thing like that and before it even goes to that point, i do something about it. When you're in a relationship, for it to be healthy, we shouldn't be afraid to talk about these things to our partner. Talk to them about how you feel and vice versa

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October 01, 2017, 09:41:44 PM
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Yes I already feel it and I still feel it now a days. Specially in my work, every time my boss ask me to do something even if it is not part of my job responsibility. I do not have a choice because he is my boss. Every time he do it I feel that he controls me and all of us in work.

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October 03, 2017, 08:20:25 AM
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Yes, it's my bad habits, negative thinking, fear, feeling down, these are the people have controlled my life, but now I left these guys out of my life.
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October 03, 2017, 09:35:15 AM
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Yes I already feel it and I still feel it now a days. Specially in my work, every time my boss ask me to do something even if it is not part of my job responsibility. I do not have a choice because he is my boss. Every time he do it I feel that he controls me and all of us in work.

I never feel that way. I always feel that I am the one who taking control of my own life. I do not want anyone or anything control my life, except God. I used to work and hate my boss just like you. Hahaha, back then my boss was so cruel to me. She always look at me and monitor my job all the time. Even though I already done all my job, she always find a way to give me more job even though that is not my job desk.

So basically, we have the same position and situtation. But I think that just the way it is to an employed people. So I decided to resign and focus on my online job, and Bitcoin. Not all company is like that, of course. There are company that will be fun and you will be happy to work with.

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October 03, 2017, 09:39:29 AM
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yes i felt and its really good for life cause freedom makes people more responsible if you have someone who has capacity to control you that good for future ...

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October 05, 2017, 12:40:10 PM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.

Yes, I experienced that before when I have a girlfriend She wanted to control my life, where I need to follow all what she want to me to do.
But after a months of doing that to me, I'll ended it because I realized that we have our owned free will decision. And she nothing to do with me, neither God gave that free will to each everyone of us.

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October 05, 2017, 03:44:29 PM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.

Always. I think that it might come as a gorm of a parent. Or a higher authority that would be interfering woth your life's decisions. But O think to some extent they control us because we let them and its paramount that we know when to take the steering wheel from them.

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October 06, 2017, 04:25:52 PM
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yes i felt and its really good for life cause freedom makes people more responsible if you have someone who has capacity to control you that good for future ...

Sometimes control is really useful for a person to learn to be more responsible. Although it still depends on the nature of the person, some simply do not notice when they are controlled.

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October 06, 2017, 04:39:38 PM
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Yes i understand these sometimes when you ve been a really bad situation and you ve been abused really bad in that relationship you end up getting frightened even by human contact

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Controlling useful for limiting what we do out there so its goods its important 
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October 14, 2017, 08:52:06 PM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.

Always. I think that it might come as a gorm of a parent. Or a higher authority that would be interfering woth your life's decisions. But O think to some extent they control us because we let them and its paramount that we know when to take the steering wheel from them.

I hate when I'm controlled. Even if very close people do it. It makes me angry and I become a secretive person. No one has the right to interfere in a person's private life. And it does not matter for what purposes

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October 14, 2017, 09:31:39 PM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.


I did had that thought really strong after I watched the Matrix! It really got to me and I literally had to go look outside my window to actually see if someone was out there watching me. But really, spiritually, God is watching us and has control over our lives too. So, it is good to have that consciousness that God is watching me but not overruling that there might be others watching with a contrary motive.

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October 15, 2017, 03:40:24 AM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.


Yes many times. At home and at work. My aubt always controlling me,dictating me what to do. I cant even have my own decision and own action she is always controlling me. . While ar work I always feel that I'm a robot controlled by my boss. Do that do this call that call this report that report this etc. Feel so exhausted already

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October 15, 2017, 04:34:30 AM
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Nope. I have never felt anything like that. I am enjoying my life like I want, and no one is controlling me. Whatever the consequences I am facing are a direct result of my own actions and therefore I don't have any regret. Sometimes I take advice from my friends and relatives. But that doesn't mean that they are controlling me. I am the sole person who is controlling my life.
Yes,  I feel like I have been controlled by someone ot something . I feel like I was brainwashed.  I don't even know what I really wanted. Social media and religion seems to control my life like whatever I feel was right was dependent to what I hear and read from social media television  and churches.

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October 17, 2017, 10:17:15 AM
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I have never felt anything like that. I am enjoying my life like I want, and no one is controlling me.
I think that such people should be treated seriously and that no one has the right to be so obsessed with someone.
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October 17, 2017, 10:23:09 AM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
Yes.  The social media was now controlling my life.  My needs were controlling me. I don't know whether I'm doing what i want or i am just doing things because i need to.  That not everything i do were those things that brings me happiness.  It was hard but i can't have a life without being controlled by my needs

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October 17, 2017, 12:16:05 PM
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.

To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.

I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
I think there's no one controlling my life. Even if we're in a relationship, we don't need to depend ourselves on the person right beside us because this is our life and no one can control but you. This is my life so I'm the only on eto manage it. Maybe yes our family made a decision for us but not always. We're matured enough to think and decide for our self. We couldn't give our life to the person who control us. From the start we owe our life so we end up controlling ourself and not controlling by others.

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October 17, 2017, 12:19:29 PM
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yes, I have. I can solve my problem. I share the problems to someone who want to hear me and surely believable. If I were in that position, I can not be alone, I should find friends. I think it needs for you to find a friends who are believable and want to hear your problems. You could not fix your problems unless you share it to one else.

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October 18, 2017, 07:15:45 PM
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yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair  LIFE is.

Yes, I experienced it once in my life. I felt that someone is controlling my life since I gave him the permission. I didn't notice that that person isn't giving me any freedom to do what I am supposed to do. That was my worse relationship so far.

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October 19, 2017, 06:12:29 AM
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Fortunately not for me. Though i can imagine how traumatic this can be for some. If it's not doing you any good, get away from it or don't be afraid to ask for help.

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October 19, 2017, 09:30:55 AM
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I had experienced being abused and having no control over My own personal life. And this happened to Me when I was still a kid. I have never grown up as a person who has free will, I only have to follow what My parents desired and have no rights to complain. I was so traumatized that even today, I don't like to be questioned anything about what I should and should not do.

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