Anger Management

[SugoiSenpai]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

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[iamabasicboy]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

When I'm full of anger I just take a walk with my blunts for an hour and it dissapear, it helps me to get over the bad/sad things.
I know running drugs isn't they key, but that's my way to get over.

[Kuchiyosenojutsu]

Try to Relax and Hear

Let the angry person to vent his anger first. They need time to express their feelings. Another term is "Give time to smoke all out first".

At this stage you just have to listen to what they say. Be a good listener. Adjust your body language, go stand up while listening (the person who is angry great must be angry while standing).

You can give a verbal response by saying "Hmm ...." Or "Okay ..." plus occasionally nodding the sign really listening.

After all that time, surely the intensity of anger will decrease. Can not people continue to be angry with high notes? One day surely they will feel tired and out of breath.

[Osei Tawiah]

Anger management is a term used to describe the skills you need to recognise that you, or someone else, is becoming angry and take appropriate action to deal with the situation in a positive way.
Sleeping forms an integral part in curtailing anger in an individual. Sleep is an important part of life and good quality sleep can help combat many physical, mental and emotional problems, including anger. When we sleep, the body and mind rest and rebuild damaged cells and neural pathways.  We all know that people often feel better after a good night’s sleep.  The optimum level of good quality sleep is about 7 hours a night, however everybody is different and you may need more or less than this.

[bernashka]

Read Landy Bancroft "Why is he doing this?" (translated gingema, there is another, more complete translation - but for me it is less bright). About male violence, despite the fact that much is really universal. For example, there are no truly out-of-control outbreaks of anger (if it is not a mental pathology) - the one who explodes simply gives himself the green light to act precisely in this situation precisely with these people. Or a simple idea - "respect and humiliation of antonyms." People do not humiliate those who are respected, and vice versa. " Or that. that the cause of outbursts of anger is not emotion, but a worldview. A person considers such behavior permissible for himself. That is, in any outburst of anger, there is a trait that a person does not pass (someone beats utensils, but the TV, computer or let the windows still remain intact), someone beats the child (perfectly measuring the force and the impact site so as not to injure really) .. and so on.

[_SENA_]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

Dealing with people is very hard to do since everyone have  different personality and attitude .
The best example is person who have anger issue is very hard to deal with.But you need to understand his or her attitude why he ir she went through.Undestand his or her condition do not deal on your emotion be open minded and understandable.

[andrei214]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

I much prefer to communicate with that person.If the both sides become angry or mad it can cause them to hurt each other,physically or emotionally.And it is better to communicate cause it has the higher percentage of resolving the problem.

[akishang]

To be honest I think I am experiencing anger management problem. For some reason the people around me can't handle someone who was irate or not in the mood.What I have done is to keep everything to my self and it causes me to have anger management issues. I am trying to recover by being blunt and expressing the thoughts inside my mind. I felt better but sometimes people misinterpret my attitude and whisper behind my back. I am okay with that as long as I am recovering...

[gabmen]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

Most of the time i just ignore them. Communicate and try to fix it and you may very well ve drawn into an argument and lose control yourself. These people need help but they need to get it from the right people.

[Alex12989]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

It depends on yourself and to the person you're having issues with.
Most of the time, it always results in violence when you know you can handle the person violently. If I'm in trouble with a person who's stronger than me, it can still result in violence but only if he's the first to strike. The gender's also important, by the way. But if my mood is good, i'll try to approach a person nicely. I'll try to make things better. And if I already knew a person isn't capable of things like that and I can foretell that it may result only in bigger issues, I'd rather ignore the person.

[Goethe]

I try not to take it too personal. A lot of people who appear angry towards myself are often rather angry about life and sad and disappointed about their life

[Heisenberg8]

I try not to take it too personal. A lot of people who appear angry towards myself are often rather angry about life and sad and disappointed about their life

That's the point, people not satisfied of their life ends up hating everything around them and manifest anger toward people. I tend to show comprehension as long as they are not violent and offer support in form of listening about their problems and trying to give advices if the circoumstances allows it.

[yoseph]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

The best way to respond to a fool is silence, everyone has anger problem in this world but not all of us shouts and get into fights when we are angry. Foolish people are those who quick to react in anger and for me once i know your behavior, i just afford you completely.

[Pumapipa]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

Retaliating with violence will not resolve anything. If that friend or person has anger issues, then might as well don't start up topics that might trogger him or better yet ignore that person. Psychiatric help will be a priority to them so that they might be saved from further effects of anger.

[patarfweefwee]

Honestly if the person's attitude is the issue, then what i do is i talk it out with the person in private. If that person still doesn't get it, i get a mediator to talk it out. After that, that is when i just disconnect myself with the person completely. If you can't get around it then act civil towards them, then have a healthy outlet for you anger after the encounter

[salinizm]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

Absolutely, I am not trying to communicate a person who have serious anger management issues. I am just ignoring this kind of people because they do not know how to communicate properly and They just know to fight. For that reason, people should ignore this kind of humans.

[mimipipi]

Anger is a human nature. However, humans often have difficulty controlling the emotions they feel, and that will make a person emotional. Anger is the right of everyone to express his feelings. But this is certainly not good if made a habit. Faced with angry people should be careful, because people who are angry will not care about common sense. If not careful, we can be hooked to get angry too, then things will get worse. One way to cope with people who have anger problems is to keep calm. Usually angry people do not want to get a response from us. If we reply then our response will not be heard. So we will lose twice, the first our emotions explode and our energy runs out and the second our response is not heard. Pay attention too our body language, try to look relaxed and do not emit an aggressive attitude.

[marinomario]

Talk about the problem and find the solution
After the situation is more calm and conducive, then now you can discuss the problem and find a way out. At this stage the discussion must have started to run because the emotion is no longer dominate.

at the beginning ask more questions, for example:

Can you tell me chronologically what happened?
What do you expect from this condition?
What if I could do to jointly solve the problem?
after that you can discuss, express your opinions and together seek solutions to the problem. In this fourth step more role is problem solving skill,

[markdario112616]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude? Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person?

I literally ignore them. It's better for me not to step down on there level if we engaged in an altercation. Most probably I'll just shut up and leave, It's better to avoid a fight and be the smarter one. Actually, there's no point in arguing with an angry person. It would only contribute to a chaotic argument that could lead to a fight

Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

That will depend if that person is a friend or a relative. I wouldn't want them to be hated by many people because of their attitude. I'll try to talk to them to the best that I can to inform them their issues and I'll try to recommend them if only they'll accept my help.

Anger is already part of us. It's an emotion in which even the most calmness person in the world can't control once it's unleashed. Though the thing is that we can avoid it, if only we wanted to.

[cryptoglam]

Depends on a person
If this is my relative, you know, of course I gotta deal with it and try to fix it
If this is a shitty person with this problem as well - I don't want them in my life so I just end up going away from them

[swordling143]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

I think it is best to let them know first about the issue that they have, that way they'll be aware that they have that kind of problem. When it comes to dealing with people like them, it is also best to not stoop down to their level to avoid conflict and misunderstanding, just leave them be and let them cool for a while.

[troydar05]

Take timeout.Timeouts aren't just for kids.Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful.A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry.

[innocent93]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

If we talk about a person that i have to deal with it every day then a discussion related to his attitude is welcome, but if we talk abount an unknown person then i just choose to ignore it and go forward.

[Marjo04]

Its so hard for me if someone hangry to me or have anger.if that person angry to me because i done mistake i will talk to her/him and i will sorry i will fix the problem.but if they angry to me without any reason i will still cope with them and ask whats the problem.its hard to live happy if someone angry at you

[mylifeisorandom]

If a friend of mine have anger management problems, I don't usually talk to him/her whenever they're having outbursts. I just let them be for a moment and after they've calmed down, that's when the time I'll come and have with them about what's bothering them.

[Irene80]

I try not to take it too personal. A lot of people who appear angry towards myself are often rather angry about life and sad and disappointed about their life

That's the point, people not satisfied of their life ends up hating everything around them and manifest anger toward people. I tend to show comprehension as long as they are not violent and offer support in form of listening about their problems and trying to give advices if the circoumstances allows it.

Agreed. Wish I could put 'like' here. Talking about our concern to give. People with explosive anger mostly need someone else to listen to them. Assault only occurs when there's the trigger where people just judge instead of listening.

[Etrigan212]

I think it depends on the person. We can't generalize people who have anger management issues. Some may be more receptive to direct confrontation wherein they need to let out their pent up frustrations, some may find it more effective to talk about their problems in a rational discussion. My advice is if you have a friend who has anger management issues, you should first consider the type of person he/she is and what kind of approach you should use.

[kabzeon]

Anger is like a practiced skill. So is dealing with it. Speaking from personal experience, its best not to 'just ignore it', but give it a clear time and space for handling it, looking into whatever is causing it then leaving it there. Even if you can't control the causes of it, ritual action can help you manage the personal impact of it. Sitting down, meditating on the issue (just thinking through what is going on, how it has happened, and examining it through the lens of emotion, then following the threads of emotions until you understand the connections and what is causing it to linger) followed by token action to deal with the causes is enough that you can tech your friend/acquaintance to better deal with his anger issues.  Overall when you are in front of an angry person, being calm it s your best choice, as it deflate the tension. Later on you can follow up and try to reason with the same person, when he's/she's in a better state thus more receptive.

 

[universal3ee]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

When someone is hotheaded try to give in if it is not to absurd so as to calm the person down for that moment. If you retaliate back most probably the scenario will become very bad, or like what you say try to walk away first till the person calm down before you fix the issues with him. 90-100% when someone is hot headed a solution will not surface.

[Kolya albina]

I will adjust to who I speak because everyone has different emotions. if the opponent is talking to me is my friend, I will try to tell him to try to control his emotions. and if I talk to people who are not too close then I will listen if it is still in a reasonable portion.

because silent and patience is a better step in dealing with people who have anger problems in their attitude.

[meidut]

I will be silent and listen to what is said, I wait until the emotion subsided.
if it is better then I ask what is the cause of his anger, then I motivate so as not angry anymore.
I know the person who is angry can not be disturbed my own as well, so do not respond with anger too.

[ymirymir]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

In dealing with people who has this kind of attitude, as for me, we don't really need to fix things with them because they should know their mistakes and should correct themselves. I actually ignore those kind of people who are violent and close minded about things for I believe that they would just bring negative effects in my life.

[cr_liev]

It depends on my inner state. If I'm in good mood I tend to ignore such reactions, I know that that is about people, not about me. But when I'm tired or hungry, in most cases I will show that I'm not happy with that reaction. In words, in glances, I will show the opposite side that it's not the way I like they treat me!

[CryptoConduct]

I think anger issues should be discussed with a relative or a close friend. Because you won't help a person by figuring out that he has anger problems. However the best thing to do in such situation is to ignore him

[saberibm3]

I don't just  give the angry man any damn. Let him show his atti But always try to console him to get cooled. As it may be brain impact

[XFlowZion]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

If he or she is just mad and just want to let out his/her anger then it's okay as long as no one is getting hurt. If he or she is angry at someone then I'll stop  him/her.

[Dothyrain]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

When someone is angry,  dont be angry also. The other should be calm. If they are both angry it will result to biolence. The other person should control his emotions and do not be provoke by the situation. If he is already calm,  its about time that you should talk to him. The angry person hears no one and will not accept any explanation. Allow the person and the situation to cool down before you take any action.

[doyyulto]

Controlling anger may not be easy for every human. The sense that happens because the heart is in opposite direction with the thoughts of each person .by drawing closer to God may reduce anger, pray emptying the mind for the positive energy that exists in the body to come out to be the heart. The heart is human because we are only human not God .

[squog]

Dealing with people who have anger issues is a matter of putting on a neutral face. Your outlook should ve that you're not threatened by their outbursts and not fazed by their rage. By that, people with anger issues will know that their anger will not do anything with their situation. Remining them that they are angry doesn't work, same as telling them to calm down doesn't work. If they have outbursts they themselves should have a relaxation technique and should regulate themselves.

[Titus Maximus]

If someone has a short temper and gets irritated quickly the least what you wanna do is trying "fix their issues", you might get a bleeding nose.

[hugoworld]

I don't just  give the angry man any damn. Let him show his atti But always try to console him to get cooled. As it may be brain impact

You are completely right. People should not be care of any angry human being. We should leave them alone when they are really pissed off. Angry people need some to calm down. Later, you can negotiate with them for sure.

[1battermainsheet3]

Its said from a research report that the more angry the man is, the more is he alone from the core. So give him company

[diegz]

Honestly, I've been with people who needs to undergo anger management seminar (if there is)  . They are easily angered with anything, from a simple erasure or wrongly placed items in their tables. Probably they are a bit tired or stressed.

So, with regards to your question OP, you can just ignore them. Patience is virtue, think of it, and you need a lot of it if you are working with them and with a company that don't have time to look at the situation of their workers. Most of the time there is an overload of work, too much for each worker.

[volcanofetusK]

If he would be my friend then I would tie to a chair and beat him and pour cold ice over his head

[resus]

We have encountered many angry people in life. They are not able to control their emotions and reactions. Unfortunately, they often vent their anger on others. When someone is angry, it is difficult for him to control his emotions when dealing with certain situations. Sometimes, anger can get out of control. Communicating with them means that you have to maintain calm and patience. You also need to listen effectively and help them find solutions to their problems.

[Tharel]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

As much as possible, I stay away from them, why? because if I heard them say anything bad over someone, I get to absorb their emotions and later on I felt like there's a heavy, uneasy feeling in me which I hate cause I know it's not good for my heart, as in literally. I'm afraid I will develop a heart condition because I was raised by a family that never shows any anger. But, I believe that any misunderstanding can be solved by open communication, acceptance of mistakes and forgiving heart. These are just what we need to stay away from anger.

[dubberman]

Everyone must have felt angry. Various
events or the existence of other parties can
become the source of this angry emotion. Appearance
angry emotions can not always be avoided,
even more so when faced with a situation that is not
fair and unpleasant. However, emotion
anger needs to be managed and controlled so as not to
causing negative impact for self and environment.
Uncontrolled anger, though only
briefly, can have tremendous impact

[g-unit]

I prefer ignoring for the first time. Then I'll try to communicate with offender and try to solve communication problems. Violence is not a way to solve problems in my opinion. You should better don't give a damn about offender instead of wasting your time on him.

[Lecam]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

I honestly have a short temper and I hate dealing with people who has an attitude problem so I'd rather stay inside my room the whole day rather than facing fake people. However, I'm still tying to cope up with them at times by communicating normally and ignoring their rough attitudes. We all feel angry and it is normal but we must handle it appropriately that we won't be hurting anybody.

[Granxis]

Anger management improves the quality of human life, not only in trading, but in your business life, anger management in traffic will gain you a lot. I am a very angry person, I did not learn to control my anger, but I do not get angry anymore. Yes, very interesting, I learned to control my own anger, I did not do anything extra effort.

[crwth]

I have read that the best response to someone that is easily get angry and just makes the hell out of a single thing is that to ignore it. I know a person that just makes herself so stressed that you don't know you could stress on it too much. It's going to be so much over reaction on things that makes yourself even harder to control. Personally I also have those parts where I easily get angry but there is only a few that could make me really ticked off. It's all about taking a perspective and what your actions could look like and the consequences on it. It's all about having the right thought.

[novakamena]

I have read that the best response to someone that is easily get angry and just makes the hell out of a single thing is that to ignore it. I know a person that just makes herself so stressed that you don't know you could stress on it too much. It's going to be so much over reaction on things that makes yourself even harder to control. Personally I also have those parts where I easily get angry but there is only a few that could make me really ticked off. It's all about taking a perspective and what your actions could look like and the consequences on it. It's all about having the right thought.

If you have a hot temper, you may feel like it’s out of your hands and there’s little you can do to tame the beast. But you have more control over your anger than you think. You can learn to express your emotions without hurting others.

[neya]

im not that kind of person that keep anger in my heart i dont want enemies.if i can fix then i will fix it i will talk to that person and ask why angry to me.and if reaaly angry to me then i will just keep silence and ignore.

[Sidiq SP]

as human beings who live together and are called social beings, then the right thing in my opinion is to advise and accompany if someone who vent their emotions instead of ignoring it, if everyone ignores and does not advise and pay attention to those who have the nature angry, then who else will be advised ?? and how long will he know about his mistakes if we do not tell him in spite of how to be more patient and in a gentle and loving way, that's what I do when faced with an angry person, thank you

[mingsoykitty]

It's so hard to manage anger I think for us to calm down we must first give  time to someone and don't forget to talk and fix for what should be the reason for your angriness . Don't let the situation cause more trouble its makes you both feel bad. If the situation is might not easy to fix I think we must need give time to both and let the time comes for you untill you become friends again. Try also to minimize your pride.

[Harribel03]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

Simply, I don't make a deeper relationship with them. If you will be close to one person, expect that there are always misunderstanding with your companionship. But if  there is too much angry by someone to you, try to avoid him because no matter what will you do, if the person can't manahe his angry, nothing will happens to your relationship.

[Potatohead]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

I'm a kind of person who fights back automatically once I hear people gossiping about me or saying bad things agaisnt me. However, since I can't handle my anger sometimes, I'm just trying to keep calm and relax inside my room and think of good throughts that would make me feel better.

[meidut]

try to relax and calm down, listen to what he says, do not cut the word when he speaks, just listen and do not need to comment better nodded 😂. angry people just want their anger to be heard

[iliev41]

try to relax and calm down, listen to what he says, do not cut the word when he speaks, just listen and do not need to comment better nodded 😂. angry people just want their anger to be heard

Changing the way you think. Angry people tend to curse, swear, or speak in highly colorful terms that reflect their inner thoughts. When you're angry, your thinking can get very exaggerated and overly dramatic. Try replacing these thoughts with more rational ones.

[w33man]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

I believe that it is just normal for us to get angry at times and it is too risky if we can't release the anger that we feel but we must always bear in mind that anger might lead to sin if we can't handle our emotions responsibly. We must try to calm ourselves during uncertain situations which may lead to violence if we can't deal with our emotions.

[reality18]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

Anger is a normal thing with humans but becomes abnormal when it gets out of control. Often, i try the two approaches at the latter and they seem to work perfectly fine for me. At the onset of the anger, i try to calm the person down and explain things in a calm tone of voice, apologize if i have to and settle the issue amicably. But if it turns out that the person is too reluctant to listen, i just ignore and go away and come back when the person is settled. Sometimes, your presence aggravate the anger and the only option is to walk away and come back later.

[Glorious04]

I dont usually meddle when the person is in the height of their emotions, i mean very angry. I try to stay away and when the anger subsides i talk to them in a nice and loving way which ic very effective. Anyway, you cannot put out fire with fire, you will need water to cool what is hot.

[spongegar]

People with anger management problems should know that they do have a problem with their anger. The best way to help them is to direct them to professionals who can actually make a difference in their care. After such we accept them for who they are and what they do. Help them cope and do the therapy. Being sensitive enough to know their triggers and help them calm down or offer them a more productive orncreatibe output for their anger.

[cr_liev]

I had this problem myself. Actually this can be solved by a systematic approach.
In realtion to yourself - lower your expectations from the others. They mustn't act according to YOUR point of view.
In relation to others - their anger is just the mirror of their unsatisfied expectations from the others, their unhappiness and ill-being. It has no relation to you, so be calm...

[raes]

Confronting an angry person is a big deal. It depends on who is angry. If he is a close friend, we can calm him down or even advise him. If he's just an acquaintance, leave it alone. Interfering with other people's business is not a good thing. Anger arises because it has offended someone, so if we don't know it, that means of course we don't know how to admonish it as well. Just ignore it. unless the anger has crossed the line, you're allowed to act.

[Indiast3]

I close my doors and scream at the top of my lungs.

[GradeOne]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

Dealing with the anger of one person was unpredictable. You wouldn't know if it was helpful or not, but the most important is, you should know how to handle your anger so that you couldn't hurt somebody else. We all know that once we hurt them, we can't fix it immediately because the damage has been done. How is you if you don't know how to handle your anger?

[Godgreat95]

We all born of anger either through hereditary or environmental ways, but there exist some way we can control our anger such as by making life become more simple in our ideologies and by listen and reading the words of God which will surely enhanced out thinking faculty.

[Darwinie]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

 People with anger management, well if i feel like a person has that ill try to observe them at first keep a good distance physically mentally and socially. Then if I already know how usually they react on something thats the time i approach them proffessionally with some help of God . Understamding people is mot hard its a choice, im preety sure they do not intend to always showcase that side of them that is how they cope up to their environent

[Babylon]

I have anger management though and sometimes my friend just understanding me what ever it takes , i think its really hard for my friend because understanding or coping up with some problems lime anger managetment , really hard though , but as a friend you will do anything right ? , and my friend become my best friend , and know shes my wife , just sharing though , and i come a lot to many semeniras just to reduce , im gladly or should i say im lucky.

[rumaysho]

The way I deal with a person who is often angry is to let her first get angry.
Silence is also good done if facing people who are angry, because if we join the anger then things will be worse.
Angry is fire, to fight fire we must be water so we do not burn burn.

[Crypto S]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

When I'm full of anger I just take a walk with my blunts for an hour and it dissapear, it helps me to get over the bad/sad things.
I know running drugs isn't they key, but that's my way to get over.

Please let me know if you find another way.I have been doing the exact same thing.it worked fine for 6 years now but ..

[Vinz1978]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

I have personal experiences with these kind of people. They become angry without validating the issue. Sometimes i get carried away and cant help to be angry also. But there are times that I can also control my anger. I talk to the person,  explain my side and pacify him. But there are also people who are hard to pacify,  they are the people who are deaf and dont listen or accept your explanation. I wil just let them cool down and let the issue die down. Maybe time will come that he will be ready to listen.

[alisha123]

When I see a very nervous person I try to let her relax and only afterwards I try to talk to her and explain that violent behavior or aggressive attitude is not helpful in any situation and even causes others and create a certain opinion about you.

[Hube950]

Anyone that i know gets angry a lot... after many attempts to make them realize their flaws and not working... the best thing is to try to get them see a therapist because Extreme Anger breeds bad thing, destroy properties and whatever u can think of. Its not a good thing and it usually is waived away by society.

[startblouse8]

Anger management should be included as a 4 year course because it needs much tactics and literal knowledge

[g-unit]

As I said before – the best way to resolve such situation is calm and ignoring. You can also try a communication with bully to fix issues. Anyway, violence is not recommended way to resolve problems in such daily situation.

[criza]

I therefore sometimes think that there are people who are in nature, have anger issues. But I also believe that is the result of their experiences and fruits of their stories. I, myself have anger issues and for me, anger management is so important. Thus, I will open up myself to those who sre in need of help to manage their anger. The most effective way of coping up with anger is not to immediately respond to what people says or do that make you feel mad. Try the calm-relaxing art of proper breathing;  try to inhale and exhale firat then count one to 10. While counting, think of the consequences you may gain if you have released that anger you are holding in. After the last number, you will be less emotional and you will realize that yoy are not that angry anymore.

[uddyawham]

Anger is caused by two things: pride and lack of respect for the next person. It is because you feel you can do better than your neighbour that is why you would get mad at him for that mistake, but if you recognise that we are all humans and have the tendency to make mistakes, you will approach the matter differently. However it takes humility to brave admitting your weakness openly. Then the second is lack of respect for your neighbour. Most people that exhibit hot temper are those that do not  care about people's feelings. Watch someone that says I used to have temper issues, it is the persons view of others that was changed and not that anything was done on his emotions. So if you know anybody that exhibits bad temper just help that person change his views about himself, help the person realise that admitting his weakness to his neighbour does not mean he has failed. Also help him realise that his neighbour is valuable.

[Luwi]

Everyone can certainly be angry, because the level of patience has no limit. The earliest way to overcome the anger of someone is as soon as possible I must know the character of the person, because the character of each person is different and how to handle it is also different. As much as possible I solve it with fresh mind to make excuses to find the point of trouble. If it can not be solved alone, then I will ask friends to mediate our problems. If I succumb and it still can not, then I will ask what you want?

[GideonGono]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

When I'm full of anger I just take a walk with my blunts for an hour and it dissapear, it helps me to get over the bad/sad things.
I know running drugs isn't they key, but that's my way to get over.

Please let me know if you find another way.I have been doing the exact same thing.it worked fine for 6 years now but ..

I have some website though , I guess you should take a look at it , the website or link that I drop , well the link is down below it consist top 10 tips how to overcome anger management issues or to be precise how to tame your temper , I hope I help.

Link: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/anger-management/art-20045434

[Chusnul]

I think anger always stems from misunderstanding. Whether you are angry at someone or someone is angry at you, a lack of understanding between two parties is usually to blame. This is mostly in regards to other people's thoughts and actions, confusion as to why a certain thing keeps happening is what leads us into frustration and then further into anger. If we open up our minds to try and understand someone else's situation and thoughts on a deeper level, more likely than not we won't react as negatively to a situation purely as a first instinct.

[Jexjatto]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

People with anger issues need space to cool off, now if you are the one with anger issues, first take time to know why you are angry, to be silent is better, you dont need to react to everything, take a walk if you can, talk slowly and thoughtfully,.

And if you wanna deal with someone who is angry, and in a heated discussion, you should be quite in other not to make the whole situation explode in your face, give facts to the issues at hand rather than beat about the bush, give them space if you can as well...

[karinaloren]

I have some website though , I guess you should take a look at it , the website or link that I drop , well the link is down below it consist top 10 tips how to overcome anger management issues or to be precise how to tame your temper , I hope I help.

Link: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/anger-management/art-20045434

Thank you. Good article.

And my best way of dealing with angry person is ignoring him. And waiting till he gets tired. He will. Any attempts of teaching him will be failed. He need to release himself from all negative feelings.So wait for it.
Sure, it's difficult not to be provoked. Try to turn off your mind and think of other things..Even if you are face-to-face with shouting person turn off your mind, you can do anything with yourself. Try to keep an eye on him facial expression while he is shouting... It could be fun.

[mrphilippine]

I myself can prove that I have a anger issue, I usually try to voice it out and without me knowing I'm already hurting the feelings of others. The time that I had realized that it's not healthy for me and for those people around me, I decided to cope up and find some ways how to control my anger issue..  First I will pause for a minute and try to breath in and breath out, next I will cool down, then when I'm feeling better I will try to open it out to my friends, to my family in that case it will make me feel lighter why I did felt angry why I felt upset. If you know a person having an anger issue try to communicate with them, try to talk to them in that way it will lessen the burden to the both of you. Actually it's not easy to have an anger issue but it's just the process of cooling down and knowing how to control yourself.

[mdhedayetullah27t]

 anger is one of the vices that makes our soul impure. It often takes away many precious memories and fills them with hatred. We may misjudge people when we get angry. We must think about the bad part of this vice. To control our anger we must have the quality to forget other's errors. We can forgive them who misbehaved us and can have a chat with them. In return of bad attitude of them we can help them so that they might become friendly with us. It is important to leave the area the so that we may avoid problems with others. We should keep in mind that to err is human. So, we should learn to forgive others.

[DogmaF10]

At first, i try to communicate with that person and trying to solve the problem between us.. But if it didnot wy orks, maybe ignoring the person will be the best way, as we try to avoid any further conflicts
But what i see is, most of the time many people failed to do such things, as a result many conflicts happens just from 2 people who can manage their anger

[nilakshan123]

Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. The greatest remedy for anger is delay.

[a_t_e_e_b]

anger management is a very important factor for a proper development of a human being people loose a lot in anger and they suffer in future people lose their loved ones just due to their anger people loose control and do wrong things due to which they end up behind the bars or even worse ending up their own life so anger management is very important the best way is meditation deep breathing eating other distraction sometimes playing games also releases a lot of stress and decreasing anger

[Mariksa]

It depends on what kind of person this is. If it would be my friend then I would try to talk to him, give him the chance to calm down and say everything that is on his mind. But if it is a person who I do not know personally, then I would probably stay away from him. Because people with anger issues in their attitude can be very dangerous.
 

[bomakot22]

i usually try to anger them further  . jk just take a break from them for a moment and come back later and talk things over calmly

[SkyFlakes]

There are many situations that may arise if a person shows me his/her anger issues. One of it maybe is I might also acquired it, another is that I might try to think why he/she have that attitude. If I were the one who was in the situation of that person showing anger issue. I would be honest to him and make us talk one on one. Instead of adding some anger to the situation, I would try to lower the emotions by having a talk. Through that I might understand his/her reasons of having that attitude. I would listen then I would try to advice especially saying that it is a bad attitude to have anger problems so he/she should minimize it. Remember that attitude would tell us how we are as a person and will also determine the path of our life.

[apolonio]

You can tell him to visit a psychiatrist so the person will learn how he will control his anger. When im angry i just only calm myself, i relaxes and refreshes my mind to think positively.

[lokanot0]

Communicate with the person and try to fix their issues. I think its the best way for no one to get hurt, and you'll know the reasons why he/she is violent, then may be you'll find a way how to fix that issue or may be find a better person to fix it.

[yoseph]

You can tell him to visit a psychiatrist so the person will learn how he will control his anger. When im angry i just only calm myself, i relaxes and refreshes my mind to think positively.

Some people really are prone to get angry quickly and over such trivial matters too and they rage out like the Hulk when that happens. When anger becomes uncontrollable people do heinous things like they go on a shooting rampage.I am certain most of the mass shootings are caused by hatred or anger.

[_Gajah]

How do you cope up with people who have anger issues in their attitude?
Do you retaliate resulting in violence? Do you ignore the person? Or do you communicate with the person and try to fix their issues?

I will try to calm him down, because the fire will be extinguished when doused with water,
And if anyone is angry I will be the water that will cool the person,
By providing the best solution to the problems that are being felt by him.

[quynhdang]

As a moderate person, I usually admit whatever the hot-blooded is shouting. Try not to irritate the person anymore. then find a way to leave him alone. I do not like to argue with people like this. I only resort to violence when I'm out of control LOL.

[charlizesmmes09]

It's quite struggling for me to manage my anger, because when I'm angry, I tend to stay quiet and pile up all my anger, and then it will explode one day, in a horrible way. Planning to go to the therapist.

I think the best way to deal with people like me is to leave me alone, stay calm when I'm shouting and don't point you fingers at me.

[Taras2017]

I prefer ignoring for the first time. Then I'll try to communicate with offender and try to solve communication problems.

[mackhoy]

To be honest it is so ridiculous to be with people who have anger management issue. But as far as I am concern, it is important not to ride in their anger, instead remain calm and let them burst out their emotions. It will be helpful also if you let them release their emotions since they do not know how to manage their emotion. How I wish it is as easy as buying fries in the food chain to buy anger management so it will be easy to stop them.

[FlightyPouch]

For me the best way is to stay as calm as possible and after a while, the angry person will realize how bad his/her reaction is.

Sadly, not all of the people can be that type of person. A lot of people will be angry and after that they will be calming down but most of them don't see their actions as wrong since not all of the people will be staying at that type of state forever. After they calmed down they might be angry again, the best thing to do is to talk to that person when they are calming down, that is the best time to make amends or maybe explain them what to do to them and what could happen if another rage happens.

[alyssaxx]

We can't blame those who are easily get angry. It's not that they always want to do that it's because they can't control their emotions especially if they are provoked, or in case to some women when their menstruation is approaching we become very sensitive, we can't control our emotions even in a smallest mistakes. I am one of them , what i do when i feel that i am sensitive and angry i don't talk so that i can't hurt people around me.

[HarvyDent]

This depends on a lot of factors. When I was a child, my teachers sent me to some anger management group. I never felt like I was that angry of a person. I think the group could have been almost counter productive because I was a pretty good kid, for the most part, but they put me in a room with a bunch of pre-teens who already have problems with alcohol and the law. Whatever anger I may have had I just grew out of, it seems. I think I just didn't like being told what to do and  that it basically what happens to you until you're an adult. To answer the question about how to deal with others with anger issues, if it's a kid, just be patient, loving and understanding. It should pass. If it's an adult, I would just avoid people like that. You don't need those influences in your life.

[McEdward]

It is very important to keep calm in every situation. Peace is what we need in our society. Violence has never solved anything. People think they can get what they want through violence. It is not true. The world does not work like that. We just need to convince ourselves that violence leads nowhere. Being able to control oneself is way better than fighting or killing. What is the difference between us and the caveman? Anger management is modern. Our ancestors were not really in the management of anger. They were warriors. They needed to kill for their territory of food. Nowadays, we do not need it. We have grown up. For that reason, we must control ourselves.

[Diyannice]

sometimes I cannot ignore the person but without doing nothing I say quite or I leave the place because if I starts to act in those moments with anger in front of others they might think wrong way about me