I figured it out! The breaker I installed is a two pole BUT it only attaches to one 120v leg. I tapped into the stove breaker to verify and it works now! Time to get a gas stove lol. Thanks!
yeah I have done that first time it happened the breaker box was fucked up and limits 240 circuits.
I eventually wired the entire house over and bumped from 100 amps to 150 amps with proper spots for 240 circuits.