To quit gambling is to quit yourself

[stadus]

Quit gambling is the best choice, because gambling is not good for our self. We can lose more money in gambling if we addict in gambling, can't control our emotional in gambling and can't control the budget for play. Quit gambling is not easy for addict people, but must do it for better future.

When I was new in gambling and I keep losing, I always thought of quitting for good but I was not able to do it and until
now I am still surviving but the good thing now is that I am more matured and I know how to gamble based on my limit.
I also understand that I have less chance to win so I just enjoy it and forget my losses.

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[livingfree]

Quit gambling is the best choice, because gambling is not good for our self. We can lose more money in gambling if we addict in gambling, can't control our emotional in gambling and can't control the budget for play. Quit gambling is not easy for addict people, but must do it for better future.

Reverse what you said and others will say that gambling must be fine if you can;

1. Control your emotion.
2. Control your budget.
3. You are winning.
4. You're not addicted.

[DPrillio]

For me gambilng is funny, im trying to have fun when im bored, usually im gambling with low bets, but to everyone who is addicted and saying to yourself ill have luck next time you wont probably, i dont know a person who is rich now from gambilng, just try to stop 

It is not everyone that sees gambling that way. A lot of people have opened topics about profiting from gambling like it is some investment that would just keep raking in cash for them and that is how it all starts. It is actually easy for us to say they can quit all by themselves, but in the real fact, it is either they make that determination and have someone to assist with that. Addiction is a crazy thing, and it is always hard to quit alone.

Yes it was really hard to quit where we are addicted. Once we get addict from one thing it was like part of our daily life now. Yes at first gambling was funny and enjoying, but as the time goes by and you put your time here it will slowly get you. Get your time and your money as well. Only few become rich because of gambling most of them fail and lose lot of their money, because even you win as you continue playing it, it can be get from you again.

When you formed that habit, whether it is gambling or any other things, you will really having hard time to change it.

Maybe the word changing self is referring to change one's life view in terms of vision,goals and recreational activity because if we found out gambling as for entertainment then I think there other way like engaging sports. This is not an easy thing to do since people in this new generations are mostly living in online world therefore Online gambling and earnings and even online games are there way of life at ease.

[Rinsend]

Quit gambling is the best choice, because gambling is not good for our self. We can lose more money in gambling if we addict in gambling, can't control our emotional in gambling and can't control the budget for play. Quit gambling is not easy for addict people, but must do it for better future.

When I was new in gambling and I keep losing, I always thought of quitting for good but I was not able to do it and until
now I am still surviving but the good thing now is that I am more matured and I know how to gamble based on my limit.
I also understand that I have less chance to win so I just enjoy it and forget my losses.

For gamblers who are still difficult to control themselves, should stop gambling, but for gamblers who are used to control themselves, it can still continue to gamble as long as it is still disciplined in doing so. Gambling is both bad and good depending on how we do it.

[Rizky Aditya]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

Only week people need the support of other people. If you really have a strong personality including a strong willpower and determination with the will to no giving up easily, then you surely will get out of addiction. It is not wrong to get help from others, but why do you need to get one if you can solve it on your own? You have a brain, you have a free will. You can use it and change yourself like you change others with words.

No it's not a sign of a weak person, I'm sure with the lord and support of a close person, we can stop gambling quickly. Humans are social beings, we live together and need help from others. If anyone can ask for help, why not?

First of all, the God almighty is the one who can let or allow the person to leave the gambling because he is the creator and he knows everything. But you said after God with the help of your closer one, you can leave gambling. I want to say here that closer person couldn’t prove much more effective than a good psychiatrist because he is the person who knows on the earth how to cure this disease rather than a closer one.

[ubitcoin]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

Help is needed, definitely. No one can say that he only becomes good fighter to this game. We may need big support system like our parents and brothers and sisters, our friends, sometimes your teachers play an immense role to stop a child from being an addict of gambling. So all these support systems when put a combine effort along with the personal resistance of individual, it will become easy to drop gambling.

[gamalzour]

For me gambilng is funny, im trying to have fun when im bored, usually im gambling with low bets, but to everyone who is addicted and saying to yourself ill have luck next time you wont probably, i dont know a person who is rich now from gambilng, just try to stop 

It is not everyone that sees gambling that way. A lot of people have opened topics about profiting from gambling like it is some investment that would just keep raking in cash for them and that is how it all starts. It is actually easy for us to say they can quit all by themselves, but in the real fact, it is either they make that determination and have someone to assist with that. Addiction is a crazy thing, and it is always hard to quit alone.

Just for this reason, experts of gambling always advice to get aside from this thing. They had spent a long life in this gambling thing and ultimate results they found are, gambling is just hurting them since the first day till the last day of their quitting. So better is to learn how to save yourself from this game. And once you are compelled to quit, just do it. Don’t find anything lame for that.

[ethereumhunter]

Quit gambling is the best choice, because gambling is not good for our self. We can lose more money in gambling if we addict in gambling, can't control our emotional in gambling and can't control the budget for play. Quit gambling is not easy for addict people, but must do it for better future.

When I was new in gambling and I keep losing, I always thought of quitting for good but I was not able to do it and until
now I am still surviving but the good thing now is that I am more matured and I know how to gamble based on my limit.
I also understand that I have less chance to win so I just enjoy it and forget my losses.

For gamblers who are still difficult to control themselves, should stop gambling, but for gamblers who are used to control themselves, it can still continue to gamble as long as it is still disciplined in doing so. Gambling is both bad and good depending on how we do it.

but it's still better to them to quit from gambling before it's too late so he doesn't have any problem in the gambling. as long as he can know the time to quit and the time to play, it's not be a problem but most of gambler have this situations that makes them hard to quit. they will have many reason to not quit from gambling and they will deny that they are losing a big money in the gambling games.

[carodupuis]

Quit gambling is the best choice, because gambling is not good for our self. We can lose more money in gambling if we addict in gambling, can't control our emotional in gambling and can't control the budget for play. Quit gambling is not easy for addict people, but must do it for better future.

When someone wants to get in any field of life, he or she must research properly about it. What are the goods and bad of that particular thing must be known to you. so accordingly, if a person with even little mind  and capacity to draw a line between good and bad, would research about this gambling, he will be ending with worst and negative results to go for this. So leave it, it is harmful.

[reliable]

Quit gambling is the best choice, because gambling is not good for our self. We can lose more money in gambling if we addict in gambling, can't control our emotional in gambling and can't control the budget for play. Quit gambling is not easy for addict people, but must do it for better future.

If people do have the discipline in life they would be matured enough to take the right decision as when to play or stop . But when it comes to money majorly people play for it to make money rather than to have some fun and move away. This is the mental problem of many people as they cannot control themselves.

[geopolisch]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

Yeah, but quitting is the only way to have a better future and to save money. There is no reason for anyone to continue to play gambling if he is losing most of the time, he must be smart and considering all the things before he decides what to do next in gambling. I've witnessed myself losing a lot of money in gambling, and continuing is so confusing to do that is why I've decided to quit gambling instead and try another way to earn money.

I agree. I was also losing a lot of money before and even though I thought of quitting, the impulse to play was still there - that is why I really understand how others find it really difficult to quit. It was only when I finally realized that I already have a son and that I need to take care of his future when the realization and the greater urge to finally quit kicks in and the rest is history

No gambler can quit gambling on his own because it has become a universal truth and we can easily observe that from every gamblers story. However, when the gambler tries to leave this gambling on his own, his love for the gambling increases then it was before because he starts thinking about the advantages of gambling which are obviously crated by his own as there are no advantages of gambling.

[alfs75]

Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.

So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.

Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.

I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!

Actually in my ow thoughts quitting in gambling is not quitting also of yourself,because for me life is precious and that gambling vices is only a part of life and fullfillment of yourself satisfaction,so why should we commit suicide if we full in debt because of gambling, theres another way to escape of that.while in other hand,this your advise  that you filled your time with various activities would also give us a good example to us on how to stop gambling,maybe this is your strategy to divert your mind or your intention to make another way to avoid back in gambling again.

[Harper6]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system for parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

I think parents will not support us if they know that we are gambling, through gambling many people are addicted and when the money people will get depressed and start thinking the negative way that they are not lucky enough to make money through gambling.

Usually we will not let them know that we are gambling but in the event that we face problems that is the time
that we should be honest because it's only our family that can help us.
Accept the fact that we commit mistakes because if not, this will only lead to more problems because addiction could affect your daily living.

Well even if the people around you will excert efforts to help you out, just like what the title indicated, it's all going to be about you. Once you've become so addicted, it will take tremendous determination to ne able to recover. You have to really want it for yourself.

If you find some sort of relaxation in any activity then you intend to do it again and again even if the disadvantages always outnumber the benefits from this very act and gambling is one of these examples. So if one wants to get out of it then he has to find some substitute to attain the same joy via some other reliable method.

[Apes]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

Only week people need the support of other people. If you really have a strong personality including a strong willpower and determination with the will to no giving up easily, then you surely will get out of addiction. It is not wrong to get help from others, but why do you need to get one if you can solve it on your own? You have a brain, you have a free will. You can use it and change yourself like you change others with words.

No it's not a sign of a weak person, I'm sure with the lord and support of a close person, we can stop gambling quickly. Humans are social beings, we live together and need help from others. If anyone can ask for help, why not?

Stop gambling, if it is not good for yourself or make you lose everything and you have to do it with a strong intention, you must get used to it or change it by doing positive activities if it needs to be profitable or productive and strengthen faith, and should be more familiar with religion or belief You. and you ask support for the people closest to you so always remind him that you do not want to gamble anymore .. basically you have intentions in your heart and promise yourself that you will not do it again ..

[PETES]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

Yeah, but quitting is the only way to have a better future and to save money. There is no reason for anyone to continue to play gambling if he is losing most of the time, he must be smart and considering all the things before he decides what to do next in gambling. I've witnessed myself losing a lot of money in gambling, and continuing is so confusing to do that is why I've decided to quit gambling instead and try another way to earn money.

I agree. I was also losing a lot of money before and even though I thought of quitting, the impulse to play was still there - that is why I really understand how others find it really difficult to quit. It was only when I finally realized that I already have a son and that I need to take care of his future when the realization and the greater urge to finally quit kicks in and the rest is history

No gambler can quit gambling on his own because it has become a universal truth and we can easily observe that from every gamblers story. However, when the gambler tries to leave this gambling on his own, his love for the gambling increases then it was before because he starts thinking about the advantages of gambling which are obviously crated by his own as there are no advantages of gambling.

I don't think so because if a gambler really wanted to quit then he can. I know it's not easy as it seem but when a person really want a change then it will start from his self. He'll seek motivation and uses this to move forward, it's crucial at first but eventually he will be used to the new changes in his life. There's no impossible for someone if he really determined to make a change nor no more excuses

[Supercrypt]

We may need big support system like our parents and brothers and sisters, our friends, sometimes your teachers play an immense role to stop a child from being an addict of gambling. So all these support systems when put a combine effort along with the personal resistance of individual, it will become easy to drop gambling.

We cannot dispute the fact that sometimes help may be needed or one who is addicted may need to join some support group or visit a shrink for help but I still believe that anyone who wants to get out of the whole mess they have single handedly placed themselves in will have to first put themselves in that right state of mind first before they can even start thinking of helping yourself. If you are not ready to help yourself, I do not believe such a person can ever get help.

When I was new in gambling and I keep losing, I always thought of quitting for good but I was not able to do it and until
now I am still surviving but the good thing now is that I am more matured and I know how to gamble based on my limit.
I also understand that I have less chance to win so I just enjoy it and forget my losses.

I guess maturity sometimes comes based on experience and based on the fact that you allowed yourself to be matured. Once anyone is able to understand the plain truth when it comes to gambling like you did, then it is going to be easy for them to see gambling for what it really is which is what so many people always find hard to do. Just like the OP said, which I would rephrase, to quit addiction of gambling, is to quit the state of mind yourself.

[Rajamuda]

Someone will not be easy to stop gambling if it's often accompanied by a winning on certain bets on a game though not often, I'm sure it is.
But for the people who are really got a high depressed because of losing a lot of money, it has more chance/a bit easy of leaving from gambling.

[crwth]

Someone will not be easy to stop gambling if it's often accompanied by a winning on certain bets on a game though not often, I'm sure it is.
But for the people who are really got a high depressed because of losing a lot of money, it has more chance/a bit easy of leaving from gambling.

Of course it's a benefit of oneself. I think once you have experienced winning then you would really know how it feels and how gambling can help you in certain ways. You should be careful to control yourself and put limit to your settings when gambling.

[logicgate]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

Yeah, but quitting is the only way to have a better future and to save money. There is no reason for anyone to continue to play gambling if he is losing most of the time, he must be smart and considering all the things before he decides what to do next in gambling. I've witnessed myself losing a lot of money in gambling, and continuing is so confusing to do that is why I've decided to quit gambling instead and try another way to earn money.

I agree. I was also losing a lot of money before and even though I thought of quitting, the impulse to play was still there - that is why I really understand how others find it really difficult to quit. It was only when I finally realized that I already have a son and that I need to take care of his future when the realization and the greater urge to finally quit kicks in and the rest is history

No gambler can quit gambling on his own because it has become a universal truth and we can easily observe that from every gamblers story. However, when the gambler tries to leave this gambling on his own, his love for the gambling increases then it was before because he starts thinking about the advantages of gambling which are obviously crated by his own as there are no advantages of gambling.

I don't think so because if a gambler really wanted to quit then he can. I know it's not easy as it seem but when a person really want a change then it will start from his self. He'll seek motivation and uses this to move forward, it's crucial at first but eventually he will be used to the new changes in his life. There's no impossible for someone if he really determined to make a change nor no more excuses

If the gambler really wants to quit gambling, so then he can quit it because there’s nothing impossible in this world. Also, there’s no such disease that cannot be cured, then what this gambling addiction has the importance. Those people who say that I wanted to quit gambling but I wasn’t able to do so, basically such people are not taking off their hands from gambling properly. They are continuing gamble like playing gambling games on mobile.

[Rinsend]

It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.

Only week people need the support of other people. If you really have a strong personality including a strong willpower and determination with the will to no giving up easily, then you surely will get out of addiction. It is not wrong to get help from others, but why do you need to get one if you can solve it on your own? You have a brain, you have a free will. You can use it and change yourself like you change others with words.

No it's not a sign of a weak person, I'm sure with the lord and support of a close person, we can stop gambling quickly. Humans are social beings, we live together and need help from others. If anyone can ask for help, why not?

First of all, the God almighty is the one who can let or allow the person to leave the gambling because he is the creator and he knows everything. But you said after God with the help of your closer one, you can leave gambling. I want to say here that closer person couldn’t prove much more effective than a good psychiatrist because he is the person who knows on the earth how to cure this disease rather than a closer one.

Find a close friend to be asked for help is a close friend who does not gamble. He must be the one who prevents you from gambling when you want to. Psychiatrists would be more helpful, but I think it's just the last option, so before you go to a psychiatrist, maybe your best friend can help you.