Some members would think that you fabricated this story if you can't post a link on who is your husband. I would just give you a benefit of the doubt and make my self believe that this whole scenario is true.
My first impression is that i am shock because it is you and your husband that is doing bounty hunting and if you don't have a regular job then it would be risky to just rely on here for the financial needs of your family. Though it could be profitable at times but somehow i would not recommend that you and your husband will make this job full time. You are like putting the future of your family on uncertainty.
Please can you deny your wife just 1 merit to rank up to Jr member?
Your husband just made a wise decision on not giving you a merit because it would be obvious that someone gives you merit on a topic that is not worth meriting for and that would make your husband's account on a limelight, DT will think that you are his farm account.
But i am also a believer of the saying "Happy wife, happy life". Guess, your husband's life now is not happy.