Adulthood is a scam, wish I could stay young forever

[CryptopreneurBrainboss]

It has been just 6 years (18-23) into my adulthood and I'm already regretting growing up. Don't get me wrong, it feels great been able to take decision on my own without been yelled at but why does being an adult feels this hard. Things I could do before I could no longer do them as I need to adjust to being called an adult. Back in the days I could manage equivalent $300 for weeks but now it finishes even before I received it. The expenses is just too much. Being an adult kinda sucks. Tell your kids growing up let them not get too excited, adulthood is just a scam. You get enslave to expense. Although you can help ease the pain by planning their future and what better way to do that then educating them on bitcoin and start hoarding coins for them.

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[Jet Cash]

Your past life, including childhood and adolescence, contain the experiences that you draw on to maximise on the pleasures and benefits of your current life. I'm just hitting middle age ( I'm 77 ), and I've learnt that there are 3 things to avoid in life - debt, ill health, and bad neighbours. You can even arrange your affairs to minimise the effects of a rubbish and dishonest government such as the current one in the UK.

In order to remain debt free, there are only two options - increase your income, and/or reduce your expenditure. I'm a great believer in hedgerow cuisine. It's much healthier, and it's free. Nettles, dandelions, ground elder and wild garlic are great sources of minerals. The odd road kill pheasant or deer can make a real gourmet meal as well.

I'm reminded of the old schoolboy joke - What is the definition of adultery? - The state of being grown up. 

[DireWolfM14]

This thread reminds me of a quote from Mark Twain:

When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.

I think the point Mr. Twain is trying to make is that what we believe we know is often wrong, and as we learn we start to realize how ignorant we really are.

Your past life, including childhood and adolescence, contain the experiences that you draw on to maximise on the pleasures and benefits of your current life. I'm just hitting middle age ( I'm 77 ), and I've learnt that there are 3 things to avoid in life - debt, ill health, and bad neighbours. You can even arrange your affairs to minimise the effects of a rubbish and dishonest government such as the current one in the UK.

In order to remain debt free, there are only two options - increase your income, and/or reduce your expenditure. I'm a great believer in hedgerow cuisine. It's much healthier, and it's free. Nettles, dandelions, ground elder and wild garlic are great sources of minerals. The odd road kill pheasant or deer can make a real gourmet meal as well.

I'm reminded of the old schoolboy joke - What is the definition of adultery? - The state of being grown up. 

The difference between knowledge and wisdom is often lost on youth.  If you're middle aged, can I still refer to myself as an adolescent at 47?

[AverageGlabella]

Growing up is a choice a choice that you made as an adult I truly believe that keeping that inner child as well as acting as a responsible adult is the most meaningful and full life that one can live. That inner child will bring joy to the times that you need it but the adult point of view will make sure that you are actually doing something in your life and progressing. There is nothing worse than seeing someone who is completely one sided. Either a adult or is completely serious about everything or a man child who doesn't take responsibility for anything both of these types of people regret life on their deathbed. "Oh I wish I had more fun...all I did was work" or "I wish I saved enough money up so my children could manage on their own".

Don't ever be one sided people always strive to be the most diverse and interesting person you can be and then you will have a fulfilling life that you can look back on and be happy.

[vapourminer]

It has been just 6 years (18-23) into my adulthood and I'm already regretting growing up.

just wait till you turn into your father/mother.

[mikeywith]

it might sound a bit weird , but i do prefer my Adulthood to my childhood, maybe because I have not had a pleasant childhood.

it feels good to be totally independent and make my own decisions, the increase of expenditure is certainly a problem, but as Jetcash mentioned you can fix it by increasing your income ( work smarter ) .

[qwertyup23]

Remember the times when we used to play outside as kids, playing games with friends, eating and sleeping, without knowing the harsh and dangers of the world? Those are just some fragments of my past and innocent life.

Adulting, is indeed scary. I have to embrace every decision that I make including all the consequences it follows. I have made bad decisions while growing-up, I regretted most of the things that I chose not to engage myself with, and I missed a lot of opportunities that could have made my life easier now. But all of those experiences and regrets taught me an important lesson: the only failure is when I stop trying/striving.

OP, change is the only thing that is constant in this world and we do not have any choice but to follow it. The world will never revolve around us but we adapt depending on the situation.  If we live by the shadows of our past, then what would become of our tomorrow and future?
You are right. Expenses are piling up, bills everywhere, debts incurring, and obligations that we need to meet every now and then are a pain to deal with but this is just the start of life. Do not let this sway or deviate from what your true goal is. True success starts from the mind and slowly from your actions.

I wish you guys good luck in the future and may adulthood bring good health to everyone.

[nutildah]

Your past life, including childhood and adolescence, contain the experiences that you draw on to maximise on the pleasures and benefits of your current life. I'm just hitting middle age ( I'm 77 ), and I've learnt that there are 3 things to avoid in life - debt, ill health, and bad neighbours. You can even arrange your affairs to minimise the effects of a rubbish and dishonest government such as the current one in the UK.

Thanks for the sagely advice. I have 2 of the 3 things going for me, so far so good. There's really no getting around bad neighbors besides moving, you're certainly correct about that, and you can't very well wait for them to move first.

To OP: you hit the nail on the head. I stayed in school for as long as possible to avoid growing up, but alas it is inevitable. Don't discount your chances of making it out of the rat race. Also, just remember that money isn't everything. There's plenty of people that have it made and are still completely miserable (a lot of them are on this forum, lol).

[Pmalek]

I remember when I was still is school and I would get a bad grade or didn't feel like studying my parents would tell me 'Your only Job is to study! We will take care of the rest, all you need to do is study and do your homework'.
It took a few years before I understood the importance of what they were trying to say and how easy life was when you have a mum and dad taking care of you and doing everything for you. 

"Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again". - C.S. Lewis

[CryptopreneurBrainboss]

just wait till you turn into your father/mother.

Lol hoping to get my life figured out before I get to that stage. Thanks to bitcoin.

To others, thanks for the advice and encouragements never knew this topic will be considered decent. I was even thinking of posting it on Off topic board as it has to do with me just fustrated and redirecting my anger into words.

[Cryptotina]

Hahahahhahahahahahahahahah forget it man! There's no going back now 😂 Remember, what we don't have we always wish for and aim for.. So like they said, be careful what you wish for 😄

[libert19]

Childhoods are overrated, humans have tendency to get blinded by nostalgia.

However, thing I liked about being child is being free from societal expectations. When you become adult society wants you to behave in some way.

[vapourminer]

Childhoods are overrated, humans have tendency to get blinded by nostalgia.

childhood overrated? no way. there are limitations but on the whole i loved mine.

no real responsibility. no learned risk avoidance so anything that looks like fun just Do It ("hold muh chocolate milk" moments: anything you survive, was fun, and if it resulted in less than a few non essential body parts being damaged or removed was all good. plus you now had data for a better run later), and even then you now had a baseline of fun vs damage probabilities. free money (allowance). free food/housing/limited transportation. imagination has not yet met reality, so dreams and wild ideas are a big part, and who knows where that will lead one later.

i mean all you had to do is obey the house rules the parents set down. mine were reasonable. of course i disobeyed the ones i thought were ridiculous. sometimes i even got away with some of it although much later in life one of my parents would spring the "remember when you did <whatever> when you were..." and i would be like "uh you knew about that??" "of course" would be the reply. never underestimate the parents observational powers or their network of informants friends.

anyway, childhood is arguably the most important learning point in your life. experience and pain  are good teachers. books/school sometimes just dont cut it vs the real experience.

disclaimer: everyone who knows me, without exception, says i have never grown up. high praise to me.. even if sometimes they didnt mean it that way.

[jackg]

It's taken you 6 years what I've learnt in a few months.

All I end up eith it paying for stuff and going "did I really need that". I need to stop earning money and live off my student loan entirely and then the principles of money can disappear somewhere again. I'm guessing the downhill trend it's taking now will last for a while lol - I also don't know what I have money wise because I diversified everything i only know for January when I need to calculate profits/losses).

I have less of an enjoyment and less of a freeness to life. Sure I can go wherever I want whenever I want but it's not everything... I cut down on food spending by eating fairly bland stuff too and chucking things like garlic and pepper in to give it some sort of flavour (which is definitely a cheap way to go about it ).

I could do with something new and innovative to look into like I had with bitcoin..

@vapourminer I agree with you about the school thing. I didn't find it particularly helpful after a few years (up until about 10 it was useful and then beyond tha tit just became a case of learn this word for word).

[MakeMoneyBtc]

The biggest problem with adulthood from my opinion is money. When you turn into an adult you immediately have to take responsibility of yourself, finding a way to make money in order to sustain your living,unless you were born into a millionaire family and don't have to work for money until you are 30 or so when you parents die.

[greeklogos]

The most of us are lucky, we born in normal families at middle class parents. I would gladly accept back to someone took decisions instead of me and so on. My childhood is totally careless time without a matter for economical crisis in the country.
But the are family with bad kind of parents who do not care about children. I guess for such kids it's better to grow up and care about them themselves on the way they find it better instead of to be depended from bad parents.

[BestSSS]

It has been just 6 years (18-23) into my adulthood and I'm already regretting growing up. Don't get me wrong, it feels great been able to take decision on my own without been yelled at but why does being an adult feels this hard. Things I could do before I could no longer do them as I need to adjust to being called an adult. Back in the days I could manage equivalent $300 for weeks but now it finishes even before I received it. The expenses is just too much. Being an adult kinda sucks. Tell your kids growing up let them not get too excited, adulthood is just a scam. You get enslave to expense. Although you can help ease the pain by planning their future and what better way to do that then educating them on bitcoin and start hoarding coins for them.

Life goes by very quickly and nothing can be done about it.
When we were little we dreamed that "Here I will grow up and become an engineer, designer, driver". But having waited for majority we accept this world not as it would be desirable in the childhood. There are constant problems that need to be solved, to look for money for life and take care of their loved ones.
Yes, this is certainly not what we dreamed of, but damn it here, too, there are many advantages of which in childhood did not even dream of.
If we talk about the income which is not enough it is true, but no matter how much you do not earn money will always be enough.
If you get $ 500 you will miss them, if you get $ 1000 you will miss them too. and even if you start to get $ 5,000 you still will not be enough, because when the money is the requests are quite different and it does not matter that when you were 18 years old you had enough $ 300.

[UserU]

It has been just 6 years (18-23) into my adulthood and I'm already regretting growing up. Don't get me wrong, it feels great been able to take decision on my own without been yelled at but why does being an adult feels this hard. Things I could do before I could no longer do them as I need to adjust to being called an adult. Back in the days I could manage equivalent $300 for weeks but now it finishes even before I received it. The expenses is just too much. Being an adult kinda sucks. Tell your kids growing up let them not get too excited, adulthood is just a scam. You get enslave to expense. Although you can help ease the pain by planning their future and what better way to do that then educating them on bitcoin and start hoarding coins for them.

I feel you. At least you're still young though. Once you've reached past your thirties, it's time to start regretting. I bet there are many out there *cough*likeme*cough* willing to trade ages with you.

Until then, live it to the fullest! Hodl, travel, read some book(s), go pick up some sport or interest or find some ways to generate passive income

[marcelocoin]

Not that i agree with your thinking, in fact adult life is more boring and complicated, but it depends on each country, cultural structure, many factors, yes to buy bitcoin for the future always be a good bet!

[GreatArkansas]

The expenses is just too much. Being an adult kinda sucks. Tell your kids growing up let them not get too excited, adulthood is just a scam. You get enslave to expense. Although you can help ease the pain by planning their future and what better way to do that then educating them on bitcoin and start hoarding coins for them.

For me, besides the expenses problem for being an adult. One of the opportunities that I wasted while I was young before, opportunities for learning while I'm still a student before because last year, I just hired on my first job and I found how difficult it is.
When I was a student, I am not really into learning, not focusing while on the school and sometimes skipping classes. When I got hired, on the first day, I told myself "If I just focused on studying or learning before, I couldn't face this kind of difficulty".
But, I'm still thankful, I know it's still not too late to learn even we are adult now. Life must go on.