Love - its just a physical attraction?

[akram143]

Everyone in this world knows what is the meaning of love and it also involved in everyone's life from different relationship but what's your thought about the love.

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[franky1]

lust is the physical attraction

my family are ugly, but i still love them

love is about caring and wanting to help/protect them, wanting to do something positive for others, and the feeling of something positive done to you by others

[Daniel91]

Many people think that love is just a physical attraction but I don't agree.
It's much more, true love gives strength, energy, confidence etc.
Problem is that many people calculate if they will love someone or not and waiting first to receive something before they give.
If other person thinks the same, it will not work.
The source of love is not in us but in God.
In our lives, we just pass on that love to others, and we need to give it unconditionally, because that's how we got it.

[tsaroz]

Love is a broad subject.
Talking about the love among opposite sexes or a (probable) husband and wife relationship, such love experiences are unique for every individuals.
Most people when coming to age, seeks a person from opposite sex to fulfill their physical needs. Whatever you may call it, it's a nature's call to breed.
While going through fulfilling the desire, some people develops an emotional bonding to the partner. In some cases it becomes so strong that the physical relation feels like a secondary activity and keeping each others happy becomes the prime one.

[akram143]

Here I want to mention about love between the couple,someone who got attracted or love each other and want to get married which is really true love or they got attracted?

I feel today's relationship(love) between the opposite sex is only happening due to their attrative physical appearance,maybe some exceptions but lets talk about the majority here.

[darkangel11]

There's a number of things that add to being with someone. You can feel attraction at first sight but it's not love. Love develops over time. You can't really love someone you haven't talked to. Teenagers see someone and like to say they fell in love but it's just the first stage. If you don't keep meeting and talking to each other the feeling will disappear or get redirected to someone else.

[akram143]

There's a number of things that add to being with someone. You can feel attraction at first sight but it's not love. Love develops over time. You can't really love someone you haven't talked to. Teenagers see someone and like to say they fell in love but it's just the first stage. If you don't keep meeting and talking to each other the feeling will disappear or get redirected to someone else.

Its called infatuation correct me if I am wrong but it just happens with matured people as well,how many couple who got married after loving each other for years but want to get divorced in few months or years once they get life bored with the partner,I think it happens at every corner of the world.

Then financial status of the partner,even if we say it is not true love more people tend to fall in love with an ugly guy if he is rich.

[yazher]

love is to have affection of someone, you don't really care how she look, this time, physical appearance doesn't matter anymore. also you will feel unease if she is not around, in other words you are afraid to lose her. you only want to see her, every minute with her is like a treasure. what i'm saying here is, love for a woman.that love is what we always feel as a man when we were young.

[coolcoinz]

At first it's pure chemistry. You can google the chemical reactions that go inside our bodies when we are in love. It's funny but people in love are like on mild drugs. I've been there and I still remember this feeling of pleasure and relaxation when I was with my partner. It's that pleasure you feel right after a good sex, when in love you're like that for days. If there was a pill simulating this feeling I'd probably try it out (for scientific purposes of course).

[BADecker]

Love is a physical repulsion that is just so amazing and intriguing to people, that they just have to dive into it to find out what it's all about.

 

[mindrust]

Not always completely physical but usually starts as a physical attraction.

This is our instincts. We are clever animals. I know there are certain things which separate us from the animals but we sometimes ignore these and just go with our instincts.

To fall in love with someone, you first need to know that person. To know him/her, you need to see or feel him/her in some way. Our eyes give us the first impression about somebody. Usually everything starts with our eyes. Then the other stuff comes...

[akram143]

At first it's pure chemistry. You can google the chemical reactions that go inside our bodies when we are in love. It's funny but people in love are like on mild drugs. I've been there and I still remember this feeling of pleasure and relaxation when I was with my partner. It's that pleasure you feel right after a good sex, when in love you're like that for days. If there was a pill simulating this feeling I'd probably try it out (for scientific purposes of course).

I did also read about the chemical reactions happening in our brain when we are falling for someone so its something normal right,this thing also can be replaced and could be.Still why many goes heart broken and end up their life when their partner broke up with them.I just want to laugh at those people.

Is love is that much serious for anyone?

[chaoscoinz]

Everyone in this world knows what is the meaning of love and it also involved in everyone's life from different relationship but what's your thought about the love.

They say there are a lot of definitions on what the word love could really mean. For some reason, Love seems subjective, it's actual meaning often varies depending on a person's point of view/ life experience. For a mother, it could be the joy of giving birth, to a father it may be seeing his son follow in his footsteps, etc.

[franky1]

alot of people think love is about finding a spouse... its not
love is much mor simple.. it can be the non sexual thing. you know to love a family member. or to love th taste of chocolate

so love is not physical attraction. it doesnt even have to be someone that mentally inspires you.

but in most different categories of 'love' one thing remains
the desire to have someone/something to care for and keep for your and their benefit

that covers things like the love of a father to keep family safe. the love of a career to take care of ones lifestyle. the love of chocolate for the desire of the benefit of its taste

physical attraction does not apply. as i know people who are obese, rotton teeth, bad smell smoke breath.. but they love each other and been together for decades

[styca]

I think attraction is quite complex. There is the common saying that 'opposites attract', which does have some scientific corroboration. A small study (90 couples) found less genetic similarity between couple than between random strangers.

[akram143]

physical attraction does not apply. as i know people who are obese, rotton teeth, bad smell smoke breath.. but they love each other and been together for decades

Yes,I did also met the couples who were black and white,obese and skinny and more exact opposite but still they got attracted and for that they would use world heart.But in reality heart has any job with love. It is supposed to pump the blood to make us alive right?

[BADecker]

lust is the physical attraction

my family are ugly, but i still love them

love is about caring and wanting to help/protect them, wanting to do something positive for others, and the feeling of something positive done to you by others

Uugh?! Your family are beautiful. See? I love them more than you do. Why do you talk about them that way?

Lust is not the physical attraction!

lust
[ luhst ]

noun

1. intense sexual desire or appetite.

2. uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.

3. a passionate or overmastering desire or craving (usually followed by for): a lust for power.

4. ardent enthusiasm; zest; relish: an enviable lust for life.

Physical attraction is simply the recognition of beauty.

[yoseph]

I think attraction is quite complex. There is the common saying that 'opposites attract', which does have some scientific corroboration. A small study (90 couples) found less genetic similarity between couple than between random strangers.

Opposite sides doesn't necessarily attract when it comes to relationships but I see a trend where people tend to find traits in their partners that they seem to lack or want. Physical attractions is the basis at which every relationship begins.

[styca]

I think attraction is quite complex. There is the common saying that 'opposites attract', which does have some scientific corroboration. A small study (90 couples) found less genetic similarity between couple than between random strangers.

Opposite sides doesn't necessarily attract when it comes to relationships but I see a trend where people tend to find traits in their partners that they seem to lack or want. Physical attractions is the basis at which every relationship begins.

There is the question of why we are physically attracted to certain people (beyond those who are stereotypically good looking, symmetrical features, slim, etc.)
I suspect there is a genetic basis to why we like who we like, whether it's certain pheromones or whatever, I don't know, I'm not aware of any studies into it, just a suspicion.

[n0ne]

Love is physical attraction, but it has got care with it. Lust is the one that has got only physical attraction. When you're with Lust over someone you'll never feel his/her feelings and care about them. All that required is the physical pleasure out of the body. With love the same happens, but there will be lot of sharing and care for each other.