Decisions for a better life

[coin-investor]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Everybody wants a better life we all want it, and we always work for it, but you cannot have a better life choosing to gamble and relying on gambling for your everyday needs you need a sustainable income, for you and your family if you cannot provide that, you are useless, your decisions should only be about good life.

[Reatim]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

While the answer may be obvious for most, how would you choose it and why?

you have already mentioned about "Obvious answer" meaning that is family right/so why needed to explain why we choose this and why?but for the sake of argument i will state my answer since i choose family as well.

it is my family because

- they are the one why i am struggling and working to earn.

- they are the love of my life

- i would rather not to gamble than to risk losing my family

[Mometaskers]

Gambling career? Is this from an Onion article? There's pretty much no career in gambling. You'd have to be extremely skilled to have people pay you to play for them and even then, that's few and far apart. The only "career" I can think would be possible within gambling AS a gambler is teaching noobs how to play.

You never really make money from this industry except if you own or bankroll the casino. So knowing that, the choice is pretty clear. But then again people with addiction aren't thinking properly because of their mental state.

[shoreno]

career in gambling ?  when you say career it means that you are a pro on it   . being pro in gambling means you earn good so why stop  ? its far from a real addict because pro players have a time schedule or a routine to follow so that they are in condition before the game begins  . i wont stop it because this can give my family a better future  or a better life   . if not a career or playing for pro gambling , i will still choose both family and gambling but not to the point of playing adictly  .

[Landak]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Obvious answer is surely I'd prefer choose family and make simple life. Career in gambling? in my opinion it is very uncertain because there is no bright future when struggling in the world of gambling.
more important family, there will definitely be a better way than continuing a career in a gambling place.

[Debonaire217]

career in gambling ?  when you say career it means that you are a pro on it   . being pro in gambling means you earn good so why stop  ? its far from a real addict because pro players have a time schedule or a routine to follow so that they are in condition before the game begins  . i wont stop it because this can give my family a better future  or a better life   . if not a career or playing for pro gambling , i will still choose both family and gambling but not to the point of playing adictly  .

A good point indeed, why to choose one if you could choose both right? But the fact that we still need to set priority, we cannot make both sides equal, what is better is to focus on your family and to spend low priority in gambling but to work hard, there are many gambling platforms that allows betting of small amount and winnings with allot. Just to satisfy our hunger in games, we could play but with the awareness of the limitations that we have.

[Webetcoins]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

If I we're to decide I always prefer living a simole life with my family, getting secure and permanent job is a very good options to have. I won't waste every opportunity to provide comfort to my family. Gambling isn't a career to consider, I don't know with other people's vision on gambling, but we should always put first thing first before dealing on some uncertain situations.

That is right. We should not waste the opportunity that can give a better life for our family. We can provide something that can give happiness to our family because it is hard to get happy with them. Gambling is an option for us whether we play or not, but the family will be the most important thing that we should care about. We must prevent ourselves from the addicting to gambling because if that thing is to happen to us, then we will lose the opportunity to feel happy with our family.

Of course the answer is obvious, if you have family then why are we gonna be let ourselves to become a addicted gambler. As a gambler we should control our selves where we should know our limitation. I am the bread winner of my family and my source of income is trading. Gambling for me is just an entertainment and that is why I have control over it.

This is where the major difference lies between successful gamblers and addicted gamblers. The former play for entertainment with positive mindset and limited funds whereas latter play it to seek some easy money. This is so great that you are totally beware of your responsibilities and are relying on much reliable plus rational source of income. Trading is rather far better than gambling as it is skill based.

[Oilacris]

career in gambling ?  when you say career it means that you are a pro on it   . being pro in gambling means you earn good so why stop  ? its far from a real addict because pro players have a time schedule or a routine to follow so that they are in condition before the game begins  . i wont stop it because this can give my family a better future  or a better life   . if not a career or playing for pro gambling , i will still choose both family and gambling but not to the point of playing adictly  .

A good point indeed, why to choose one if you could choose both right? But the fact that we still need to set priority, we cannot make both sides equal, what is better is to focus on your family and to spend low priority in gambling but to work hard, there are many gambling platforms that allows betting of small amount and winnings with allot. Just to satisfy our hunger in games, we could play but with the awareness of the limitations that we have.

Setting up always a limitation is crucial because this thing will really stop you on getting broke or potentially got addicted with gambling.Always set or to focus more on
priorities and as been said which our own leisure seeking should really be controlled up.Be aware on what you are currently doing yet decisions in life and its outcome
will depend on how you do decide into things.

[seoincorporation]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

I would say Family is first, but you know, people act weird when they are addicted to something. And gambling is one of those vices who can destroy your life and leave a bad taste for the family. 

In the past in my country (México), people used to bet their parents in a poker hand. Is nuts and people don't do it nowadays, but is a good example about how the gambling adiction can damage the family.

[LbtalkL]

There is no discussion and choices here, of course, it is always our family that is why we tried to gamble to be able to provide and hope for a better future to our love ones. There is no way someone will choose gambling over his/her family, maybe there is but a total idiot and does not have self control a total gambling addict.

[Aikidoka]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Of course, I chose family because we all know that gambling is a risky activity and it can make our life worst and we'll probably lose a lot of money that we can't afford in the case of addiction, people should be careful and think wisely when it comes to choosing, making a simple life with family is a way much better than earning a huge amount of money that you'll probably lose, it's a high risk and I personally can't take that risk.

[Ayiranorea]

There is no discussion and choices here, of course, it is always our family that is why we tried to gamble to be able to provide and hope for a better future to our love ones. There is no way someone will choose gambling over his/her family, maybe there is but a total idiot and does not have self control a total gambling addict.

Agreed, everyone get into the process of making more money to keep the family members fulfilled with their desires. Very few succeed in this, and myself have tried to make money out of gambling and gift big to my girlfriend. Finally lost what I kept secure for months to buy gift, and this way unexpected sorrow and happiness makes gambling more joyous as well as tearful. When played with control considered as an entertainment source it can help in the betterment of life.

[akirasendo17]

The most important thing is carrer, gambling will only bring suffering and hunger to your family, being hook up to something that there are more chances of loosing is an addiction problem, if you only play for a few bucks and you go homes its okay but if your staying there in the hotel everyday and then playing again after resting thats not good, unless your retired and got lots of money you dont know what to do.with it, but if your an average person, and you're doing that I think you better think twice, thats not a good sign think if your family and choose the right path before its too late

[milewilda]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

I would say Family is first, but you know, people act weird when they are addicted to something. And gambling is one of those vices who can destroy your life and leave a bad taste for the family. 

In the past in my country (México), people used to bet their parents in a poker hand. Is nuts and people don't do it nowadays, but is a good example about how the gambling adiction can damage the family.

It do come to all sorts of things which we arent even expecting for someone to commit due to their gambling addiction which you can say that they are really already out of their minds on doing something which
is out on our expectation or to a person that do have in the right mind and with this choosing up wither your family or gambling then if you are still on the right thinking and realization then you will surely choose up
those persons whose important to you but if you are the one that been consumed with addiction then for sure you wouldnt care to those people anymore.

[NavI_027]

In the past in my country (México), people used to bet their parents in a poker hand. Is nuts and people don't do it nowadays, but is a good example about how the gambling adiction can damage the family.

What the hell! This is the most insane story I've heard so far — gambling addiction at it's finest. How come that there will be a person who have the guts to sell his parents where his own blood and flesh are made from . I can't believe it. Well, I'm glad that this kind of shit is not happening already and I hope it will never happen again.

Anyway, If I have to choose between family and gambling of course I'll pick my family. But if my hobby doesn't affect my family relationship at all then it will stay that way. You don't necessarily need to choose only one if it doesn't harm you at all.

[Finestream]

Anyway, If I have to choose between family and gambling of course I'll pick my family. But if my hobby doesn't affect my family relationship at all then it will stay that way. You don't necessarily need to choose only one if it doesn't harm you at all.

Exactly, but I think gambling is a very expensive hobby.

I am not saying I don't enjoy gambling, I just don't spend a lot of time to it as I know based on my experience that I could be prone to addiction if I do that. Everyone of us has our own hobby which gives us a little entertainment but we should always be responsible all the time especially if its a risky one like gambling.

Family should always be our priority, majority of the gamblers gamble to win and maybe if they win they think of helping their family as if we keep winning then we can say making money is easy, no hard work needed which we can make more money without limitations too, but it's only good if we are really good, so we need to be realistic as well.

[maydna]

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This is where the major difference lies between successful gamblers and addicted gamblers. The former play for entertainment with positive mindset and limited funds whereas latter play it to seek some easy money. This is so great that you are totally beware of your responsibilities and are relying on much reliable plus rational source of income. Trading is rather far better than gambling as it is skill based.

I will think the same by using trading than gambling as a way to make money. But as you know that many gamblers don't have responsibilities in gambling, so that makes them getting deeper into gambling without a chance to stop even if they lose their money.

We can try to be a gambler who will have a positive mindset that gambling is for having fun, and if we have family, we must use family as an important reason why we must not stay for a long time in gambling. We want to stay with our family, spend the time together, and if we have a strong bond with them, we will always think our family and gambling time will not be our reason to have fun because we can have fun with our family in many things.

[Tipstar]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

This is the ultimate question every addicted gambler would come upon on his/her life. It's just you and your money when you are alone but when you have to support a family or be a part of it, you should take your economic decision on mutual understandings. In lack of that the relation won't go smooth.
It's always better to be a responsible gambler from the start and set your limits and rules.

[rodskee]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

I would say Family is first, but you know, people act weird when they are addicted to something. And gambling is one of those vices who can destroy your life and leave a bad taste for the family. 

not only weird but also acting stupid most of the time,addiction turns a person into another human and decides many mistakes than good one.

In the past in my country (México),i[] people used to bet their parents in a poker hand.[/i] Is nuts and people don't do it nowadays, but is a good example about how the gambling adiction can damage the family.

is this for real?what can be benefited if the winners take home the PARENTS?this is the most weird thing i ever heard from gambling world.

[Rosilito]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

Really a tough spot though. If you really a chronic gambler you will find this thing difficult otherwise it is obvious on who to choose. Well, in my case I will choose my family, of course. I won't be letting anyone or anything be a hindrance for a relationship, and in addition gambling can be cause for conflicts thus, it might lead to a worst possible scenario, divorce or any sort of bad relationship, in which majority don't want to happen in the first place. I am willingly to give up my addiction over my family, besides, I don't want my kids be an addicted with this kind of game as well.