If it helps, he had written down the seed phrase with the odd numbered words first, even numbered words second. He said that was how it displayed in the wallet he used (perhaps odd on the left, even on the right).
If it's a 12 word seed phrase, there is a 1/16 chance (i.e. not that unlikely) that the wrong order of words produced a valid checksum. Try other orders of the words to see if they are also valid too (i.e. left to right, top to bottom, first column/second column, etc.)
I've tried it with Electrum - no accounts found.
Did you use the "Detect existing accounts" button? If so, it will check the paths listed here:
https://github.com/spesmilo/electrum/blob/88058df409ae67584b9ecfc40adec6909c03ae63/electrum/bip39_wallet_formats.jsonHave you tried not checking the "BIP39" button on Electrum? There is a small chance that an old seed phrase could be both a valid BIP39 phrase and a valid Electrum phrase.
I assume your friend doesn't know what the address you are looking for is? Given that you say this is from 2013-2017, then we are likely looking for a legacy address rather than a segwit one, since segwit was activated midway through 2017.
Copy the xPub or extended public key and paste it to this link below repeat the process to other clients until you find used addresses on the xPub scanner below.
That tool can only derive unhardened paths, which is next to useless for blindly searching for an address from a seed phrase. It is only useful when searching for an address when you already know an extended parent xpub.