Our children should be our first priority

[BADecker]

Make cities big. Then advertise in ways that get people to move there. Then work out plans to steal from the people... who can afford to make skyscrapers? Then change the mindset of the children so that they continue to give their money to their controllers.

Moving out of the big cities, and learning how to live off the land, is one of the best things to do for your children. It will be a lot of work. Should do it before having kids. Freedom in the country is great, watching the sun come up without having to look through smog.

[Kavelj22]

👉👉Creat the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.

The two sentences are almost opposite in meaning.

When you sow fear in the human soul, it is not permissible to talk about happiness after it, except with the logic of blind faith.
Do we really have to instill fears of any kind in the minds of children in order to live fully happiness or to live an enjoyable life experience? I don't think so personally.

I think that it is better to leave the freedom to them to determine their religious and ideological choices, because our right to spread our beliefs and what we believe in must be done with conscious minds that have completed their development and not on the minds of children who we will cancel their right to choose what they would like to be convinced of when they grow up.

[Doan9269]

Just as the sword is strong in the hand of the giant, so are the children to their parents, and also parents must not left their responsibility undone o er the children, we've got a lot of families that have more than three children and they were all well taken care of, while another with just a child and still enjoy parental care, number is not a barrier or excuss, parents must exercise their best of abilities on their children just as it was treated good on them, at the end of it all, they will have part of responsibilities attached to the child upbringings owed on them if they fail to do so.

[chexychukra]

I like everything you have, but why "Creat the fear of God in them"? Do you think fear is a good thing to teach your child?

[BADecker]

The fear of God in everybody is good. Why? Because God blesses those who understand that He exists, and is the sole controller of, and authority over everything.

People respect a police officer. Why? Because he has a gun, and has the authority to use it when necessary. How much more should a person respect God Who has control over their lives in every aspect?

The "fear" part isn't something that needs to be trained into anyone, even children. Kids automatically fear when Dad or Mom gets really angry, and has a stick to strike them with. In the same way, let the reality of the existence of Almighty God be trained into their lives, and they will automatically fear the Great Power, at least to some extent.

The biggest reason why to teach children about God is that God blesses those who understand that He exists. The blessing is found in the fact that He will save them from death when they understand about the Son of God, Jesus. You love your kids. Don't you want them to have eternal life with you in the joys of Heaven?

[sunsilk]

I like everything you have, but why "Creat the fear of God in them"? Do you think fear is a good thing to teach your child?

It all sums up on your belief, if you think that it's good and the best teaching to have them fear God, teach them based on what you belief. But if you don't have any belief when it comes to these things, still teach them to at least obey you as your parent and have them fear of your anger upon doing bad things.

After making them realize that they did the wrong thing as you saw them your anger, you'll just have to calm down and show them that the next time they do it, you'll be the same and there's the comfort that you'll show to them.

It's all about being responsible as a parent but yeah, each parent has their own way of disciplining their children. It may work for the others and not for you so, find your best way to discipline them.

[yhiaali3]

Children are like a small planting that you plant with your hand in suitable soil and nurture and water it every day until it grows and grows, when you will get a beautiful and good plant, but if you plant it in an unsuitable environment and do not take care of it well, it will wither and may die, the same for children whenever you teach them well If you take care of their education and improve their morals, you will get good children who will contribute to the development of their society.
But if there is parental neglect and constant problems at home, it is natural that you will have children who have many problems and may deviate towards criminality and become a burden on society that has to get rid of them.

[BADecker]

I like everything you have, but why "Creat the fear of God in them"? Do you think fear is a good thing to teach your child?

It all sums up on your belief, if you think that it's good and the best teaching to have them fear God, teach them based on what you belief. But if you don't have any belief when it comes to these things, still teach them to at least obey you as your parent and have them fear of your anger upon doing bad things.

After making them realize that they did the wrong thing as you saw them your anger, you'll just have to calm down and show them that the next time they do it, you'll be the same and there's the comfort that you'll show to them.

It's all about being responsible as a parent but yeah, each parent has their own way of disciplining their children. It may work for the others and not for you so, find your best way to discipline them.

The reason to teach the children about God is, it's hard to learn when you are an adult, and have already made up your mind.

The logical reason for teaching about God is something like this...

If people don't know about God, where are they going to get training to live with other people properly? If you don't have training about and from God, what laws are you going to follow? The laws you have are laws that have been set in place because of God training. We all obey those laws naturally, because somewhere in the past, our ancestors believed in God, and the laws from God have been handed down in, at least, some small way.

There isn't any law training without God. Even Buddhism (has no clear God) doesn't clearly and concisely present laws to the people. The simple idea of God is about authority so that laws are required, because a Greater Authority requires them.

So, why do we need laws? Without laws we remain savages regarding other people. With laws we know how to act with other people so that we can form relationships, and can build cities together, and do other great works together.

This whole life is built on God, already. Teach the children about God so that they live in the best relationship with others that they can... so there is peace, and improvement in life.

[Gosgosking]

Children are priority to every parents that's is why parents need to give the best they have to their children. If parents allows children to go in the wrong way, in time coming they will be a problem to their parents that may even cause serious problems to the health of parents. A good child always give parents rest of mind.

[Desmong]

Parenting go along way to affect children's life styles, the community and the society in large. Most country suffer violence due to bad parenting, friend influence and environment factor. But in most cases good parenting may help to overcome other factors earlier mentioned. Imagine when children are abandoned at home without proper care while parents worked, gambled or partied. Such children will have no choice than to later indulge in some criminal act to sustain their life. Such children pick up any life style they want since there isn't anyone to correct their bad behavior. Children deserve to be put first. They shouldn't be worked around mummy's or daddy's more important schedule. Good parenting doesn't stop in providing things for the children. It also includes:
👉👉Being a good listener.
👉👉Keep eye on whatsoever they do and give advice when necessary
👉👉Direct their career path. These doesn't mean you should impose a career on them. Study them to know what they are good at to direct them on the career to choose. One always strive easily when one choose what he loves doing most as ones career.
👉👉Teach them the various norms of the society
👉👉Teach them about your culture.
👉👉Creat the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.

Although some parent claim being poor is the cause of their bad parenting. Everyone in the society can't be rich. You can give the best to your children with the little you have. Let's train our children well as they are the future leaders of our country.

Conclusion
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.

You have written well ams this is the kind of things parents and guidance need to put in place and to do so that children and those that are coming up will never grow up in the wrong and live inappropriate lifestyle. We need to prepare and make sure that we guide children from going astray doing what will be detrimental to there health or lifestyle when they grow up.

[bakasabo]

Conclusion
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.

How much is few ? 2 ? 3 ? 5 is few, compared to families to have 10-20 kids. How did you make that calculation. And why do you think limiting amount of babies is ok? If parents are good persons, why should they have only few? Being rich does not equal having lots of kids. You can be poor, but be a good man, with lots of experience and love to share. It is not about number, but about what kind of parent person is. Parents goal is to give good education/upbringing. Everything else is up to the kid.

[rahmad2nd]

Conclusion
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.

I believe that what we now instill in children in childhood will be a strong foundation for them when they grow up. there are small and simple things in life that actually become good lessons for them in later adulthood, of course the condition is that we are able to bring children to give meaning to simple events experienced in everyday life.
Taking care of children is not an easy job, it is not only the duty of the wife but our duty as the head of the household.
I think this is a big challenge, not easy because it requires unlimited time, not only limited to parenting, priorities, beliefs, culture, but all things that we can give as good knowledge must be given including love.

[BADecker]

Your children don't stop being your children simply because they grow up. The difference may be that they don't require as much support from you.

When they have grown up, this leaves you open to do politics so that you can get laws changed, and make more justice to help them more.

Never stop helping your children and grandchildren.

[Doan9269]

Children will always be children while inbthe presence of their parents as long as they are still alive, a child cannot cease from being the son or daughter to the guardian they taught and brought him/her up right from childhood, children were expected to also make their parents happy by adhering to instructions given, one of the first things a child can give back to his parents is obedient, because they will also turn a parent one day sooner or later.

[BADecker]

^^^ So do the best that you can for your children... get them out of the banking system - https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5410741.msg60932392#msg60932392.

[Uruhara]

based on my experience. if you love your child then never let someone else take care of your child. because the child will learn from who raised him. Hiring a nanny is great. but don't let your child spend more time with the caregiver. it will affect the harmony between children and parents in the future. when the child is an adult. different from children who are always cared for by their parents. then the harmony between children and parents will be very strong and even stronger in the future. Children become indifferent to their parents because in the past the parents were also indifferent to their children. children just imitate. if your child wants to watch over you in the future. So be a parent who always pays attention to his child. without having to be asked. and do it voluntarily based on affection.

[Spontaneous]

  As a parent we should know our obligation that we must be responsible to our child. It's true that it really hard to care an raise a child, but since we enter an made a family it's important that we prioritize our child care. It's really difficult when child grown up undisciplined we can not please them to do what is good for them because they independs on their self decision unlike that we give an attention to our child we're able to guide them and discipline. Don't waste time if we're able to keep our child safe and security's.

[ThemePen]

👉👉Being a good listener.
👉👉Keep eye on whatsoever they do and give advice when necessary
👉👉Direct their career path. These doesn't mean you should impose a career on them. Study them to know what they are good at to direct them on the career to choose. One always strive easily when one choose what he loves doing most as ones career.
👉👉Teach them the various norms of the society
👉👉Teach them about your culture.
👉👉Creat the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.

Let me add something more.
👉👉 Always keep eye on their company, see whome they are meeting and if they have wrong friends so keep them away.
👉👉 Teach them to respect the elders and olders.

[Marykeller]

Our children should be your priority first. That's why it is always advised to be financially, physically, spiritually and mentally ready before you go in for parenting. Parenting is a whole lot of job that takes your whole being to be involved in it.
My advice to people is that don't go into parenting when you are not capable of catering and sacrificing for your family. That's why you see parents doing their best to see their children succeed more than them in life.

[BADecker]

Our children should be our first priority


Second priority. First priority would be to personally get right with God's salvation. After than, one will know how to teach the most important thing to his (and other) children.