you think these flaws "only affect one user" yet you are foolish to ignore that no one makes an app and gets it put on google play/apple store for just one user.
These flaws affect only the user. Just as any malware (on-chain and off-chain) affects only the user that installs it.
when many users are using mobile apps, where they are stuck using a hub allotting them(giving inbound) value they end up having to use the app the services offers them, where whats not seen on the GUI can affect those users end result they think they are promised. but never get delivered
Sure, but this is like saying Bitcoin is a scam, because
some people forfeit their ownership to centralized exchanges. People have the freedom to do whatever they want with their money. Some might choose to forfeit their custody to a lightning hub. Some others might just run their own node, and lose no custody.
your desires to break the rules of a network structure, and then just say "its the users fault" is your lame scapegoat every time
You went off the deep end this time. You seriously propose we shouldn't have lightning network-- a protocol that is also decentralized, peer-to-peer and self-custody insuring-- just because some people might not use it correctly, contradicting completely the fact that this is already happening in bitcoin, and that it's natural for every protocol.