Lies told to cover up gambling habit

[Reid]

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told  his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

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[EluguHcman]

Hi gamblers, greetings to everyone..

So today, I was scrolling through my reddit feed, and I came across this post in the screenshot I share below..

There is nothing wrong about it as long as it is not one of a marital offence. It is just some source of where the guy derives fun which of course the wife may as well have Source by which she feels fun especially when the husband is not around.

I don't see gambling being an issue to a responsible married man as far as he is also doing the gambling stuffs in the responsible manner. So he can go ahead and tell the wife but should not make the wife feel that the bedtimes with Hera's claimed was not necessary or remarkable.

The wife on her own may even tend to also tell the husband probably that she enjoys doing the house chores especially dealing on the delicacies in a quiet time when alone.
So it does not make any offence of couple telling each other how they finds fun at their leisures.

[alastantiger]

Your neighbours are very lucky. It is not every man that has a great relationship with their spouse. Situations like are possible where the husband and wife have a good understanding and love eachother. They help, support and lookout for eachother. In gambling it is no different. We know that it is not all about playing slots, roullete and other casino games. Some spouse may also want to start a social media page on gambling, write a book about gambling and what have you. A supportive spouse makes everything easy.

[Zadicar]

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told  his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

There are really things which we cant really be able to tell into our wives on which it would really be that something that will really be that not healthy i should say specially if you do keep on hiding just because you are doing something that your wife doesnt known and its not something that i dont really like for me to do and it would be better that you should really be making out some confession that you've been dealing with gambling and this is something that you should really be doing in the first place.

Its really that totally different if you are living a life with your wife without having any secrets or any hiding on which you could really be freely and confidently be dealing up with things
as long you do say on what you are doing. Although there are really things which isnt really that needed to be told but keeping up secrets and making up some gambling or
those kind of behavior when you are on bathroom then this is an another story.

[Dailyscript]

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told  his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

Very sweet of you. At least you choose having a home rather than having a house filled with sad people. Gambling can twist someone who is sincere and honest into someone who wont stop telling lies everyday. And this is as a result of  gambling addiction or perhaps other gambling habit which has planted a negative seed in the heart of the gambler.

In my opinion i feel its normal telling your wife most things especially things that troubles you. Its biblical that the both of you are now one and to share in both pains and happiness. If one is certain in the kind of wife he has, he would have relief and good advice with support from his wife to quit some gambling habit.

[sompitonov]

Your neighbours are very lucky. It is not every man that has a great relationship with their spouse. Situations like are possible where the husband and wife have a good understanding and love eachother. They help, support and lookout for eachother. In gambling it is no different. We know that it is not all about playing slots, roullete and other casino games. Some spouse may also want to start a social media page on gambling, write a book about gambling and what have you. A supportive spouse makes everything easy.

The lie is simply needed so that the wife does not ask unnecessary questions and does not think that we are dependent. Therefore, our brain comes to such unusual simplification and cunning. If we tell the wife the truth, we can spend hours listening to questions from the wife. For example, why do we do this and play, where do we get the money to play and many other similar questions, there will be a thousand of them. Not everyone can stand it and decide to lie, although I never liked telling a lie to anyone in different situations. However, if the wife ultimately understands that we are lying to her and says that she is not against it, then she is the best