Have you ever felt remorse after gambling?

[livingfree]

Regret only for gamblers who have limited money or money spent at the gambling table for other needs.

This is what I am thinking, remorse or regret is only happening to those gamblers that are guilty to themselves that they've spent the money that's not for them and not for gambling.

We get to see these stories a lot of times and they'll never show that when they're feeling happy at the start of their gamble. But then, when they're losing and it's about to empty their bankrolls, that's when the remorse starts to exist for them.

[maydna]

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Once you do feel out that deep regret then for sure you would already have learnt up something basing up on what you had done.Good thing? Yes,.if you do make out some realizations on which it did give out that kind of learning on which it would really be making you more wiser and much aware on next sessions that you would make on which you would really be needing to draw a line when it comes to limitation on dealing up with gambling. Bad thing is that on the time that you would really be ignoring out such stuff and still continue and desperately push up yourself just because you are trying out to prove something on whats into your mind.
Its really a very common scenario on which you would really be having that kind of regret on the time that you do lose money. You would be mainly thinking that what if those money that had lost should be used on
other means or much more worth on where it do make out this kind of feeling that it should really be retrieve it back and this is where it do starts on chasing up losses.

That means he can feel what it feels like to lose money. If he could realize it, he would think he could use the money for something other than just gambling. If he could feel prolonged regret, maybe his mind would immediately say that he should just stop gambling instead of losing money which, if calculated, the total amount could be bigger than he imagined. But most people will not listen to his heart and think it is nonsense because later they can get victory too. Let's hope that doesn't happen to us so we don't experience too many defeats and can still control ourselves.

[len01]

depending on what the person is gambling for?
I mean everyone has different goals like gambling for fun or gambling to double the money.

so, from these 2 options, you can make sure that gamblers who gamble are just for fun, of course they use money that they can afford to lose, so every time they lose or lose money, they won't regret it. but on the one hand someone who considers gambling as a place to multiply money, of course they always increase the amount of bets and will always regret after losing all their money and think about not continuing gambling. but I'm sure that kind of person will continue to gamble when he has money in his savings.

[inthelongrun]

There was a time when I think about the days when I was betting $2k max as my daily gambling budget. Maybe it was not that of a big deal that time when I had the luxury to do it but yeah, I did some thinking before if I only invested or HODL those coins for the long term. But did not come to a point where I felt remorseful.

Anyways, I don't have to delve into the past since there is nothing we can do to change it. But people that felt remorse might be a good sign since they realized that they gambled beyond their means. I will never say gambling is bad since I am doing it at a young age and even up to now and I am fine with it for as long as we gamble responsibly. Gambling is just a form of entertainment just like when we are spending money to drink and party, travel, and many more. Everything is not good when overdone.

[Iroh]

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

I don't see any reason on why someone would knowingly use some funds to gamble and then feel remorse later on. In most cases, remorse is felt when there is a loss after gambling and also when the funds used in gambling was originally budgeted for something important.

In lots of cases, people go out of their way to borrow funds believing in some sort of luck that they would make a profit and be able to pay back the loan. And when things doesn't go as thought out and there are losses, that's when you would then be thinking more clearly and remorse sets in.

[Davidvictorson]

I saw this online and thought maybe i should bring on to bitcointalk for discussion.

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

Remorse is guilt.
The only times when I have felt remorse after gambling was the times that I gambled at the times i was supposed to be working on some important project. That is, I used the time allocated for something important to gambling and didn't get the task done as at when I said I would get it done.

The second time I felt remorse was when I gambled out of my budget. I had already set my gambling budget for the week and everything was going well. But the after experiencing a few losses, I thought let me try one last time. I would win. I used the money slated for something else to gamble. I lost again. I felt guilt and ashamed of myself.

[demonica]

Well I think it's normal to have that sort of feeling when you lose, thinking you could've done better, bet on the other side, or bet a smaller amount. However, I think most gamblers don't really think about it too much unless they lose a big amount of money. I do experience it sometimes, regretting my decisions but I always try to move on and not to think about it that much.

It could be either a bad thing or a good thing. It becomes a bad thing when the person cannot move on from it and keep on thinking/worrying about his losses cause it may lead to a bigger problem. On the other hand, it becomes a good thing when the person takes it positively and learns about the situation. They can use the experience to avoid being in the same situation again when it comes to gambling.

[piebeyb]

depending on what the person is gambling for?
I mean everyone has different goals like gambling for fun or gambling to double the money.

Most gamblers who regret at the end of the game are on average gamblers who want to double their money or make a living at gambling, because if they gamble just for fun they will not regret it when they lose, especially at the end of the game, gamblers who are just having fun will usually stop when they have reached own satisfaction and feel happy when playing.

But gamblers who are looking for money usually never feel satisfied when they win a little where they should stop playing but instead continue playing and eventually experience defeat, then realize at the end of the game and regret it.

[Sterbens]

I don't see any reason on why someone would knowingly use some funds to gamble and then feel remorse later on. In most cases, remorse is felt when there is a loss after gambling and also when the funds used in gambling was originally budgeted for something important.

In lots of cases, people go out of their way to borrow funds believing in some sort of luck that they would make a profit and be able to pay back the loan. And when things doesn't go as thought out and there are losses, that's when you would then be thinking more clearly and remorse sets in.

One strong reason that makes them so sure is that their money will be able to multiply if they manage to win, but most people only see the victory, never once thinking that they can too and really can experience defeat. You said very true things, it's not uncommon for me to see someone willing to take out a loan just to gamble, and they have the belief that they will get a win to pay off their debt. I don't understand why they can be so sure, it's a gamble, that they can win if luck comes their way.

[molsewid]

One strong reason that makes them so sure is that their money will be able to multiply if they manage to win, but most people only see the victory, never once thinking that they can too and really can experience defeat. You said very true things, it's not uncommon for me to see someone willing to take out a loan just to gamble, and they have the belief that they will get a win to pay off their debt. I don't understand why they can be so sure, it's a gamble, that they can win if luck comes their way.

It is better to let them understand that they will experience that losses there's no other person that doesn't experience that win streak. People will only feel remorse or guilt if they surpass their limits. But the feeling of regret is the most painful thing and also sometimes this thing will lead into addiction because the feeling of guild will lead them to borrow more to play more.

[macson]

i have never regretted gambling because in here gambling is illegal and normal, i have only once regretted using my emergency money to gamble, it made me have to suffer a sizable loss.  Gambling is an activity that should not be regretted, you have to enjoy it so that the results you get can make you satisfied, but before that, make sure the money you are using is not your only money to suppress severe losses and avoid using borrowed money to gamble.

[klidex]

Sometimes someone who gambles with the hope of winning or chasing defeat will always regret it in the end after gambling like I have experienced this problem many times.
When gambling, gamblers often feel emotional when they lose, after that they make another deposit and lose the money again. After they finish gambling, they will regret that they had wasted money just chasing defeat.

[Smack That Ace]

i have never regretted gambling because in here gambling is illegal and normal, i have only once regretted using my emergency money to gamble, it made me have to suffer a sizable loss.  Gambling is an activity that should not be regretted, you have to enjoy it so that the results you get can make you satisfied, but before that, make sure the money you are using is not your only money to suppress severe losses and avoid using borrowed money to gamble.

There is no doubt that some people enjoy gambling and may not regret their decision to gamble, but it's also important to admit that gambling can have negative consequences for many individuals, even if they enjoy it. Before doing gambling you have to be aware of Addiction, Illegal Gambling, Financial Risks, and Social Impact. Making informed decisions about gambling is one of the most important aspects of approaching the game with caution. In the event that you or someone you know is experiencing an addiction to gambling, it's very important that you seek help from a professional or support group if you or they are having difficulty.

regards

duke

[Wrathofcoins]

If you feel remorse or guilt, its because you are not full commited or you dont trust on that behavior, or you spend money that you dont have to spend on gambling.

And i recomend to you to avoid gambling if this feel its recurrent.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I think that one should only feel that way when they have gambled off the money they are not supposed to and if they have encountered several losses without making any wins. Other than that, gambling is something that comes along with fun, so someone who enjoys gambling should even be excited after gambling because they really did have fun, but if they had the wrong approach towards gambling, that's only when they feel remorseful about the money they have lost in gambling.

Whoever is not ready to lose money should not even venture into gambling, and whoever is already into gambling should practice self-control so that they don't get so addicted to gambling with other people's money, which they are not supposed to gamble with.

Cheers 🥂, Dr.Bitcoin_Strange 👺👺

[romero121]

I think that one should only feel that way when they have gambled off the money they are not supposed to and if they have encountered several losses without making any wins. Other than that, gambling is something that comes along with fun, so someone who enjoys gambling should even be excited after gambling because they really did have fun, but if they had the wrong approach towards gambling, that's only when they feel remorseful about the money they have lost in gambling.

Whoever is not ready to lose money should not even venture into gambling, and whoever is already into gambling should practice self-control so that they don't get so addicted to gambling with other people's money, which they are not supposed to gamble with.

Cheers 🥂, Dr.Bitcoin_Strange 👺👺

Out of greed or due to improper understanding about gambling, people spend big money and the money that is supposed to be spent on some other purpose. At the beginning they've got misconceptions that gambling makes them rich and pours money borrowing and through other ways. When they come across the reality it hurts and they can't accept it. This is where most of the people feel guilt of getting into gambling and spending big.

[harizen]

I saw this online and thought maybe i should bring on to bitcointalk for discussion.

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

It depends on the results, obviously if that person is winning how come he will end up feeling remorse? On the other hand, if the results are unfortunate, it's just common to feel sorry or regret as to who wants to experience losing in the first place.

Anyways, it's not a big deal to start with since that's human nature or should I say, just a common approach.

They can go back to gambling whenever they want but being responsible should always be the priority.

[Casdinyard]

Do not use the money you need for other things on gambling. Do not disappoint your parent by using the money they gave you to pay for school for gambling. Just use the amount that you can afford to lose to gamble and you will not feel remorseful if you lose. But if you lose a big amount of money, or the money meant for your parent or relative to gamble and you can not lay back, that can make you feel more than remorseful because you will be depressed and be looking for ways to get the money back.

I think it's a general thing that all gamblers feel when they lose a considerable sum of money. All the "should have and could have" will start playing on your head over and over cause you felt stupid for pushing that bet when your gut feeling tells you not to anymore. It's a normal thing that doesn't just happen to people who lost money they should've spent on something more worthwhile or more important. I myself keep a dedicated bankroll for gambling sometimes and yet I still feel awful every time I tank a huge loss. It's just a normal thing basically.

Now that doesn't mean it's a good thing as well, feeling remorse after gambling basically means that you have went overboard this time which made you lose this bet, listen to this next time and never go for revenge gambling. If you can't win it that time you won't win it next time.

[goinmerry]

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

That person is surely losing that's why they start to feel remorse.

If they are having good luck in the process, they won't feel any damn regrets about what they are doing as money is just continuously flowing. That is just a normal feeling that if we are losing, there's a part of our mind that makes us feel regrets.

Nothing to be alerted. It's part of the experience. The key here is, how to control our behavior if we are losing. Losing is part of the gambling and shit just happened if we tend to aggressively chase those losses without thinking about what's right or wrong.

[TelolettOm]

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

It is a normal feeling, no one feels happy when he loses money. Moreover, if someone loses a big amount of money, they not only feel remorse but to feel frustrated. That's why we don't use big money for gambling, so we don't feel remorse too much. It is because we are almost impossible to avoid losses in gambling, especially in luck-based games. I don't think feeling remorse is a serious problem, but feeling frustrated is a big matter. So, we must limit our money to use in gambling, use small money only.