how to get over it

[ChiBitCTy]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

It sounds like that's your problem, betting too much.  If you want to get to 1,000,000, than do so carefully.  One of my favorite financial books I've ever bought/read was titled "How to get rich carefully".  It is a play on the words "get rich quick".  Strong and steady, but not taking too huge of risk tend to be a better route.  If you win 80, save 40 of it, and bet the other 40, and so on.  I know it's easier said than done but that's just my two.

[Wiwo]

I see a strong case of addictions in ops behavior because no normal gambker will go all in since the is nothing like sure bet so why then will anyone want to risk it.

I am sure that turning the $1000 into 10,000 was so easy for rhe ops to jave gone all in and at the end lost the bet, but alsoe far more the risk associated with higher wagerer because at some oiint this all contribute to the outcome of the game.

[qwertyup23]

Unrealistic expectations and a lack of satisfaction in life's pursuits can be fatal. How can someone win a lot of money playing gambling and have nothing to show for it? Isn't that a horrible, shameful story that shouldn't be shared with the public?

If all the figures (money) you won at the bet had been saved, they would have amounted to close to $800,000. What is needed to meet the $1 million goals? The greed of $200k didn't allow you

You made a very big mistake of not being able to save or use the principle of always placing small bets or quitting a bet when you are at a loss but your desire to win $1 million blinded you to knowing when to stop. 

This boils down to the greed of the person on wanting to accumulate more profits but at the end he suffered the price and lost it all.

I think this story is a testament to everyone who wishes to gamble at their disposal. As soon as you have accumulated profit, that should be a warning sign for you to stop and re-evaluate the situation whether you want to proceed or not. Remember, gambling can only go two (2) directions: either you win or lose. Depending on the outcome, this can literally make or break your situation like what happened to OP.

Remember that perfect is the enemy of good- as soon as you win, take out all the profits and bet on small amounts to avoid incurring any big losses from there.

[Josefjix]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

Everything we do is risks, no risks no rewards that's the system formulation. You're a genius, converting a small sum into a large number, and at the end of the day, you've lost everything; that's just not planning or sticking to your objectives. Furthermore, for disciplinary reasons, principles should be established prior to betting. Everything that happens is your fault, and you're desperate to do what? The little you gain, you keep or reinvest in little quantities while growing and learning. That is how you become a profitable gambler, not an addicted one with nothing but complaints and regrets.

[Casdinyard]

I see a strong case of addictions in ops behavior because no normal gambker will go all in since the is nothing like sure bet so why then will anyone want to risk it.

I am sure that turning the $1000 into 10,000 was so easy for rhe ops to jave gone all in and at the end lost the bet, but alsoe far more the risk associated with higher wagerer because at some oiint this all contribute to the outcome of the game.

I wouldn't be so sure about pulling the addiction card too early. He's a dedicated gambler and I for sure think he's gambling with a goal in mind and not just for profit. I saw a previous post of his where he's shooting for a million dollar win, so with that being said it makes sense that he's making these bets that's a little unconventional to say the least. Just cause you're gambling high amounts doesn't necessarily mean that you're addicted to gambling, and inversely just cause you have a deep bankroll that you're not burning through doesn't necessarily mean that you're not addicted to gambling. As with NAPK1NS he has a goal that he's trying to push through, he probably knows his limits and is just making this post out of the frustration one feels when their goal's a little too hard to attain.

[wxa7115]

I see a strong case of addictions in ops behavior because no normal gambker will go all in since the is nothing like sure bet so why then will anyone want to risk it.

I am sure that turning the $1000 into 10,000 was so easy for rhe ops to jave gone all in and at the end lost the bet, but alsoe far more the risk associated with higher wagerer because at some oiint this all contribute to the outcome of the game.

I wouldn't be so sure about pulling the addiction card too early. He's a dedicated gambler and I for sure think he's gambling with a goal in mind and not just for profit. I saw a previous post of his where he's shooting for a million dollar win, so with that being said it makes sense that he's making these bets that's a little unconventional to say the least. Just cause you're gambling high amounts doesn't necessarily mean that you're addicted to gambling, and inversely just cause you have a deep bankroll that you're not burning through doesn't necessarily mean that you're not addicted to gambling. As with NAPK1NS he has a goal that he's trying to push through, he probably knows his limits and is just making this post out of the frustration one feels when their goal's a little too hard to attain.

At the end the only one that knows the full story is the OP, as we will need to know more than what we can read there to know if they actually have a problem.

As it is possible they are just the kind of gambler which can afford those kind of high bets without too much of a problem and losing that money does not strain their finances, so as long as they have the money they spend gambling under control then we cannot say they have any problem at all.

[len01]

At the end the only one that knows the full story is the OP, as we will need to know more than what we can read there to know if they actually have a problem.

As it is possible they are just the kind of gambler which can afford those kind of high bets without too much of a problem and losing that money does not strain their finances, so as long as they have the money they spend gambling under control then we cannot say they have any problem at all.

looking at his posting track record I think the OP has no issues whatsoever except wanting to make history about a $1 million win. if OP has a problem there's no way he'll bet a large amount and on the other hand OP also gets sponsors for his bets from some people out there so there's not a bit of a problem to be seen.

I also fully support your statement that all the problems the OP told me about, I'm sure only he himself knows the solution.

[swogerino]

At the end the only one that knows the full story is the OP, as we will need to know more than what we can read there to know if they actually have a problem.

As it is possible they are just the kind of gambler which can afford those kind of high bets without too much of a problem and losing that money does not strain their finances, so as long as they have the money they spend gambling under control then we cannot say they have any problem at all.

looking at his posting track record I think the OP has no issues whatsoever except wanting to make history about a $1 million win. if OP has a problem there's no way he'll bet a large amount and on the other hand OP also gets sponsors for his bets from some people out there so there's not a bit of a problem to be seen.

I also fully support your statement that all the problems the OP told me about, I'm sure only he himself knows the solution.

The OP is doing well in what is wanting to achieve,there is nothing wrong with someone who wants to win 1 million dollar pure profit,I admire such persons and of course the OP.I have seen not that many long ago though in the casino where I play that some guy had put 600 ETH as a bet and won 1370 ETH which was a great amount,this guy had played sport bets,tennis bets,2-3 of them with the odd of 1.25-1.50 (with this I am not recommending such odds as even 1.01 odds can result fatal and losing ones).That made me curious and I saw that this guy only played this type of bets from what I learned in the chat there,OP is that you  ?

[ethereumhunter]

As it is possible they are just the kind of gambler which can afford those kind of high bets without too much of a problem and losing that money does not strain their finances, so as long as they have the money they spend gambling under control then we cannot say they have any problem at all.

If a gambler has a lot of money and is willing to risk losing his money, they will not find it difficult to bet high because when they lose, they will still have money to gamble again. But if they don't have a lot of money but still force themselves to bet high, they will just spend money quickly with no guarantee of winning. And many people have tried this method but lost all their money at the gambling table. And it looks like @OP took the risk of losing that much money so he's willing to place a bet with a lot of money.

[piebeyb]

I see a strong case of addictions in ops behavior because no normal gambker will go all in since the is nothing like sure bet so why then will anyone want to risk it.

I am sure that turning the $1000 into 10,000 was so easy for rhe ops to jave gone all in and at the end lost the bet, but alsoe far more the risk associated with higher wagerer because at some oiint this all contribute to the outcome of the game.

Op has said that he will never be satisfied until he reaches a certain point he wants to reach up to 1 million dollars , that's why for him it might be possible to win a few matches but it seems the bookies know how to beat this guy, because in the end he will lose too, he is betting to bigger money goals so I think he will continue to fail.

I know that any betting platform won't let him win big either, OP's behavior is not good to emulate for those who are not mentally strong, because of course other people will feel crazy when they suffer a big loss after a winning streak and in the end losing hurts but it's not to the OP it looks like he just kept repeating the stakes. I like seeing people like this, OP does seem to look like a gambling addict so people won't be surprised at how he gambles 

[Mr.suevie]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

Everything we do is risks, no risks no rewards that's the system formulation. You're a genius, converting a small sum into a large number, and at the end of the day, you've lost everything; that's just not planning or sticking to your objectives. Furthermore, for disciplinary reasons, principles should be established prior to betting. Everything that happens is your fault, and you're desperate to do what? The little you gain, you keep or reinvest in little quantities while growing and learning. That is how you become a profitable gambler, not an addicted one with nothing but complaints and regrets.

I think greed also contributed to this behavior as it is a common traits among gamblers, you might start up with a little budget then on reaching that target your greed kicks in and the want for more keep playing in your mind and only a well discipline gambler can resist such urge and the worst part of this is that almost all the time we tend to go higher than our target we tend to always end up losing all the little that we have gatheredm and if this act is not put in check it gradually turns into an addiction case.

[molsewid]

As it is possible they are just the kind of gambler which can afford those kind of high bets without too much of a problem and losing that money does not strain their finances, so as long as they have the money they spend gambling under control then we cannot say they have any problem at all.

If a gambler has a lot of money and is willing to risk losing his money, they will not find it difficult to bet high because when they lose, they will still have money to gamble again. But if they don't have a lot of money but still force themselves to bet high, they will just spend money quickly with no guarantee of winning. And many people have tried this method but lost all their money at the gambling table. And it looks like @OP took the risk of losing that much money so he's willing to place a bet with a lot of money.

But then if they are even rich they need to be careful and they need to be not so impulsive enough to go all in or to give a large amount of money in just one go, most of the time they are wise enough they will not risk so hard . But yeah, we should always apply that you should also accept what will happen to your money , lose any money that you cannot afraid to lose, if you're not ready and fully decided then do not risk too much.

[fullhdpixel]

Getting over it is not that easy to achieve but we need to erase our minds over it and move on with life, we have to stop moving or thinking in the same direction while gambling, some will make looses and yet you will hardly noticed this with them because they have learnt how to move on with life while some will for some time remained ever noticed due to the intensity of how they were being affected by gambling losses and they cannot just let go or move on because of the cost it has left on them, yet we still needs to keep moving no matter the outcome so we can always get over it.

But, that isn't actually the case with OP as he isn't always losing but he is losing everything because of his own mistakes of going all in after every win which is not how it should be done. I know that it's not easy to let go when you are losing constantly and your mind keeps telling you that you need to recover everything you've lost before you quit which never happens, but making $550k with only $11k and then losing it all in a single bet really hurts.

One should have enough self-control to not to that even if they have a goal to achieve, it becomes easier to achieve your target if you have more chances to try and reach there, after reaching $500k, one could just go with $50k or at most $100k per match so that if they lost one, they could still keep their hopes up.

[rahmad2nd]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

It sounds like that's your problem, betting too much.  If you want to get to 1,000,000, than do so carefully.  One of my favorite financial books I've ever bought/read was titled "How to get rich carefully".  It is a play on the words "get rich quick".  Strong and steady, but not taking too huge of risk tend to be a better route.  If you win 80, save 40 of it, and bet the other 40, and so on.  I know it's easier said than done but that's just my two.

Well, i like what you have to say. and yes, we agree. and, it sounds like that's your problem "OP".
OP bet too much, even I don't really understand what OP is doing in gambling. I will quote what the OP said, How do I get over the countless failures? I've been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.
first, OP must realize that every bet that is made always carries the risk of losing. with the OP's betting style, and the targets he's aiming for, something I didn't even think about. if, OP can do it like he did step by step, why don't he try to do it again. provided that the betting session is carried out wisely, and every analysis and research is carried out very carefully.

Well, the point you said seems to be often applied by gamblers. if we win 80, save 40, and bet another 40.  and, this idea is ideal. unfortunately in practice, it is not as easy as we say. in fact, to win 1-2 matches in a single bet, the risk is quite large. IMO, the most fun thing is betting without burden.

[Youngkhngdiddy]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

  I feel if you've encountered countless failures and still find it hard to quit it might only mean that you're an addict or gradually turning into a gambling addict, no offence please and before you aired our it means you're really in need of help, we'll I don't know you in person but I could leave you with some good advices that could help you, but first off I want you to know that asides from the gambling strategies you use there are other means you can use to earn a living and meet up your target, the bitcoin halving is fast approaching you can buy now and hodl until the halving, you can as well invest in real estate or buy shares if you still have some cash available, though some people have been lucky and had success in gambling but it should be seen as a means of lively hood but rather for fun and done with spare money.
 Now my advise for you is that, you should know when to quit and I think now is the right time to do that, seek help from therapists, you can as well seek a support group that would help you get over gambling, quitting gambling might not seem easy so you could postpone gambling for a while so as to keep a stable mental health, seek advise or get closers to family members and discuss about your addiction. I believe this few advise of mine would help you get over it, goodluck.

[borovichok]

But then if they are even rich they need to be careful and they need to be not so impulsive enough to go all in or to give a large amount of money in just one go, most of the time they are wise enough they will not risk so hard . But yeah, we should always apply that you should also accept what will happen to your money , lose any money that you cannot afraid to lose, if you're not ready and fully decided then do not risk too much.

Riches are generated within a day or an hour, the moment we learned to adapt to all circumstances, the more speedy we get our problems solved. I'm not frightened to lose my money; as I keep saying, losing money is nothing as long as we continue to make it conveniently. There's an old proverb that says if you can make $10, you can make $100 or even a thousand dollars. We are prepared to confront the worst, but it is always preferable to have a positive mindset toward the system. It might make one more financially balanced and confident, but it can also be one of the reasons why some gamblers are in debt today.

[ethereumhunter]

But then if they are even rich they need to be careful and they need to be not so impulsive enough to go all in or to give a large amount of money in just one go, most of the time they are wise enough they will not risk so hard . But yeah, we should always apply that you should also accept what will happen to your money , lose any money that you cannot afraid to lose, if you're not ready and fully decided then do not risk too much.

It doesn't matter if they are rich or poor; if they decide to gamble, they must realize that their money can be lost at the gambling table. And that's why they must be ready to accept it and not make a big deal. And if they end up losing their money, they should not try to recover it because it will be difficult for them and there is no guarantee they will be able to get it at the gambling table. There is a risk of losing money at gambling but most gamblers are not ready to accept that loss and if they end up losing their money, they even try to recover it, which will not be easy.

[Solosanz]

It doesn't matter if they are rich or poor; if they decide to gamble, they must realize that their money can be lost at the gambling table. And that's why they must be ready to accept it and not make a big deal. And if they end up losing their money, they should not try to recover it because it will be difficult for them and there is no guarantee they will be able to get it at the gambling table. There is a risk of losing money at gambling but most gamblers are not ready to accept that loss and if they end up losing their money, they even try to recover it, which will not be easy.

Yep, rich people do have a lot money than the poor, but it's not mean these rich people have unlimited money. If the rich people keep gamble and lose all of their money, they would become poor. But it's quite rare for rich people become an addict and lose all of their money since they have a good financial management and know every risk before doing anything. I think it's only for rich people who come from their parents' wealth, usually their kids don't know how to manage their money.

[stomachgrowls]

It doesn't matter if they are rich or poor; if they decide to gamble, they must realize that their money can be lost at the gambling table. And that's why they must be ready to accept it and not make a big deal. And if they end up losing their money, they should not try to recover it because it will be difficult for them and there is no guarantee they will be able to get it at the gambling table. There is a risk of losing money at gambling but most gamblers are not ready to accept that loss and if they end up losing their money, they even try to recover it, which will not be easy.

Yep, rich people do have a lot money than the poor, but it's not mean these rich people have unlimited money. If the rich people keep gamble and lose all of their money, they would become poor. But it's quite rare for rich people become an addict and lose all of their money since they have a good financial management and know every risk before doing anything. I think it's only for rich people who come from their parents' wealth, usually their kids don't know how to manage their money.

There's no such thing about unlimited fund but we do know that we do really have that so called ranking or financial status or capability on which the amount that a certain rich person would possess is something that cant be

known on which means that if someone do make out these kind of huge big bets in certain gambling activity on which we poor people would really be just that amazed on how these rich people would be making out these bets.If they could be able to afford on doing such thing then just let them be because its their money and incase they lost then its their money that had been used. There are really just those people
who are really that having those kind of mindset and targets on achieving on something on their gambling activity.

It is really that just too drooling on how much money that they are really that betting on on which it cant really be avoided sometimes for you not to make out any comments or any advises on how they are really that spending.

[wiss19]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

Everything we do is risks, no risks no rewards that's the system formulation. You're a genius, converting a small sum into a large number, and at the end of the day, you've lost everything; that's just not planning or sticking to your objectives. Furthermore, for disciplinary reasons, principles should be established prior to betting. Everything that happens is your fault, and you're desperate to do what? The little you gain, you keep or reinvest in little quantities while growing and learning. That is how you become a profitable gambler, not an addicted one with nothing but complaints and regrets.

A genius with no discipline is not a genius in my opinion, he could achieve great things if he could do things in a more organized way. When it comes to betting and winning, he surely is a genius and his win percentage is probably higher than his lost percentage and that is the reason why he is being able to convert small amounts into big ones, but what does he do at the end is what makes him start over every single time which isn't what should be done.

I understand that he has a goal of achieving $1m through this method but he can do it with more discipline, maybe cut down the betting percentage after a big win, like if he has managed to win $500k for discussion's sake, he should make the next bet with just $100k and leave $400k behind so that he gets to have 4 more shots left if he loses.