Said if it's unconfirmed ? It doesn't show in my wallet only on the chain. I'm curious I'm want to do this but still lost a Little on the process how
Nodes with default mempool size already dropped it, your wallet's backend server must have dropped it as well.
But that doesn't mean that it'll stay that way since other nodes still have it, most blockexplorers' nodes for example.
Yes I have control over it it's my trustwallet, how do I spend it or trigger it like you
Since it's not showing in your wallet, you'll have to import your seed phrase to another wallet that enables you to pick a server with larger mempool size setting.
The most suggested is Electrum (
electrum.org), you can import it by ticking "
BIP39 seed" option and selecting the correct address type.
From there, you can manually select servers (
instructions) until your transaction appear as "
unconfirmed".
To do CPFP, right click on it and select "
Child Pays for Parent", set the child's fee (
refer to the "Total feerate" below for the effective fee rate);
In the next screen, review the transaction and click "
Sign", then "
Broadcast".