With the facts of observations and my research, once u start dey hustle as an oyibo, u hustle on ur own and u owe no one responsibilities of bills bcuz every 1 dey ok & contented with themselves without living to hope say anyone go take charge of their bills for them where family and relatives takes their financial responsibilities upon themselves.
I am sure this situation alone go allow person plan himself as him want.
Com to Africa, our 9ja in question, we dey papa house marry, bear kids and grand Pa takes all responsibilities.
How him want take establish or make increments in his income?
Pikin or person go dey in position of earning attractive amount of money, na so u go see responsibilities spreaded from the East, West, North and the South for u.
No just space for savings in order to establish and reach to a dream.
By this, I find out say responsibilities dey play a major role in our societies when we considers about forward ness.
Believe me, this na the legit. Everything way you cap here dey within the context of watin dey worry us and very valid at that.
Despite the fact say, we no get a very good or leveled foundation for success in we country, the load of responsibility way dey on top man Pikin head too plenty. In fact I believe say the poor get rest of mind via say, people dey just believe say them no get and cucuma leave them alone to face there wahala way no dey pass watin them go eat to pass the day.
Once e con be say you dey make small money way never even set you up, na there you go see responsibilities coming left, right front, back and center. No be just one man needs you dey carter for but, a generational need. That kind thing, e cast wella.
To escape this, one needs to make hard choices because. When you fail if you fail, them no go still recall the helping hand way you give them. Na the one way you no give and the one way you give other people aside from themselves go dey there head. Human being na just something else!
E Dey very important say make you grow yourself and help only with what you can leverage. No go dey over do yourself because, responsibilities no dey finish for the life.
Make them call you wicked even, accept am with pride and improve yourself, make watin people go talk or feel about you no stop you from the progress you got bring to yourself. When you archive, them go try associate and learn from you. This life, na per head!
