In life, people are not the same. People are not kind the same way. The manner someone can approach you can be very different. But if a newbie is corrected which might be harsh, I will advice the newbie to see it as a constructive criticism if the correction is right.
If you see when I started on this forum, I was corrected uncountable number of times and sometimes I do not like it. But I amended and there become a time that I see corrections as what should be posted on a forum because why are we on Bitcointalk if we can not correct ourselves and learn from each other.
Part of the better ways that I am posting today is because of the corrections I accepted in the past. I like the English boards for that.
This reminded me back then in school where some students personally dislikes a few lecturer because the lecturers are in fund of causing a public disgrace to the set of students whom they feels are only coming to occupy the seats in the classroom without the willingness to acquiring the goal of being in the classroom as to learning.
In subsequent time, these categories of persons decided to keep being absent from the said lecturers classes with a show of prides (big-guys) but fails to acknowledge exam would come where everyone is responsible to its remarks value.
Also, my inability to fit recite the 2 letters words. Eg. (it, if, is & in) during my primary schools days, my teacher termed to pour the chorus " shame -shame-shame on me before my classmates.
I was restricted to going break during school hours but to face the blackboard til break time runs out.
As time goes, I limited my free time (playing times) at home while dedicated to reciting the words til I could make it a success.
Otherwise, I was contented to being a dump head
But here in the forum, you ain't paying anyone for any means of aspirations and impactation to per individual benefits so you just have to accept it on whatever tune it is served.
When you realizes the values of what you want, you would resists to negative energies insighting oppressions with the tendency to depress your you from your goals.
Though, abuses could serve a bully which is liable to mental touch.