women goes through a lot when they don't get married

[Bushdark]

I don't think all women are meant to get married, there are insufficient numbers of men in the society because many of the men are in the prison and some are working hard to get a better lifestyle for themselves in the future. We need to understand that women are fragile and they needed to be treated well in the society but majority of the girls especially the ones that have no respect would never even care about what the society is taking about them.

[jrrsparkles]

There's a need for encouraging one another in life, some people can be doing something that is not right and yet they may not know until someone take their notice of such thing then they make a new turn on it, marriage is by privilege and determination as well, if a woman is set in for that and alligned herself towards the way such man can come into her life and ask for her hand in marriage, then she may not experience any difficult time before getting settled maritally in her life.

Not every part of the world has the same culture, some don't ask for possession of assets while some are mandatory like in Africa the groom has to give a certain number of cattle to the family of the bride to get married. So getting married becomes a stressful event for most of men too still we don't really care about those men and we tag them as unsuccessful or losers.

[Miles2006]

In my opinion, a lot of single ladies just have this mindset of not getting married and that's their choice, have seen a lot of them and they're doing well without a partner, talking about kids they're many means of getting kids now but still it's not advisable. From my observation seeing this type of ladies now seems rare cause everyone wants to get married and that's just the best, fear of what the society will say is nobody business and if a lot of people will have this same mindset the women who suffer from domestic violence will choose to end the marriage but still they decide to endure and suffer just because of the society and the end result is death.

The issue with gender discrimination is very common and a lot of independent women manage to escape from gender discrimination but it's best if everyone will be treated rightly and just.

[Hispo]

Nowadays, or at least in the Western World getting married is not longer something which is tightly tired to cultural aspects or obligations which a woman is supposed to fulfill. Actually, I have seen some news articles claiming unmarried young women are happier because they can pursue careers and do other things which they would otherwise not be able to, though the authentizity of that information is a subject of debate, because I am sure there will be group of people in the same western republics which wont agree on the positive effects some women could experiment on delaying their marriage.

On the other hand, I believe men in the West are easier stigmatized when comes to being unmarried, there are some negative stereotypes applied to them which are very difficult to get rid of in the short term, people may tag them as undesirable, etc.
Nonetheless, I have also learnt marriage is more a serious business in countries like Nigeria and Africa in general, where such step of life is tightly associated with the local culture and whatnot. In the end, it is about doing what ones feels more comfortable with and the pursue of happiness.

[acener]

Is marriage a do or die afair? Because most culture and ways of life has made it look like it. women to a man is not just a companion but also a helper. In some part of the world it's a very big deal if a woman is not married when she is up to marriageable age, women goes through a lot in that aspect when not married, she will be talk down on, direspected, she will receive all manner's of insult just because she is not married.

I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly  even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.

To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world,  women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.

The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.

Are we still living in those kind of times where woman depends too much on man?
They are already fighting for gender equality so I think staying single or unmarried is also their choice, woman who could support their own doesn't need to put up or stay in an abusive partner, for me those who choose to stay are either martyr or couldn't provide for their own.
Because if they could and they know their worth they would get out of that relationship no matter what.

[Sanugarid]

Is marriage a do or die afair? Because most culture and ways of life has made it look like it. women to a man is not just a companion but also a helper. In some part of the world it's a very big deal if a woman is not married when she is up to marriageable age, women goes through a lot in that aspect when not married, she will be talk down on, direspected, she will receive all manner's of insult just because she is not married.

I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly  even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.

To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world,  women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.

The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.

It's up to the woman, the woman's choice whether to marry or not. I also see many women who choose their career first rather than getting married right away, there are also those who want to grow old single because they prioritize helping their family more than themselves. There are people like this and my aunt is one of them. It's also not easy to find someone to marry now.

[Mate2237]

Op marriage is not do or die something even the Holy Bible said it in the book of 1 Corinthians 7:8-9.it says " if you can control yourself and feeling then don't marry as he is but you can't then you can get married to avoid fornication. And in the Holy Bible Genesis chapter 2:18, and that interpreted that women are to assist their husband in all ramifications of life. Marriage is very important in some families and traditions. In some traditions if a woman is of the age to get married and she has not married then it becomes a taboo. And also child bearing is an another one.

When a woman got married and she could not bear a child then the boys family would not take it likely with the woman. But in some tribes of the girl is 50+ years and not yet married, it is not their business. Everyone focus mind their business and do their things.

[Ndabagi01]

Marriage is a loving relationship that everyone desires. Only a few people alive today will tell you that they are not interested in marriage, but the vast majority of them are already planning to marry. Marriage is not something that can be forced; both parties must agree that they want to be joined as one.

How people treat women and how marriage treats women varies depending on their society, family, culture, and religion. The majority of the factors that shape the marriage play a significant role in how the woman is treated at home. If all of these factors have failed the woman, only her husband's character can save her marriage. I oppose abusive or maltreatment in marriage.

[johnsaributua]

Marrying quickly is not an obligation because marriage is allowed if you are mature in thought and mature, I think age is just a number not about ability. If the tradition in some families is just to fight over inheritance and fear of not getting a share it's funny, unless the inheritance is from her husband.
How can you be harmonious and focus on getting through old age with time together, of course it will focus on money.

Not all marriages lead to violent or abusive situations, depending on mutual understanding, love and filling in the gaps, when it comes to the potential for discord even single people can experience if things get out of hand.

Marriage will indeed get what rights between women and men, build cooperation under one roof, and make a sense of security, comfort and control together. If the dispute is okay as long as it is still a reasonable condition, and does not drag on in anger, marriage brings together two people with different mindsets, different communication and different in feeling a condition.

If you are forced to marry because of inheritance it is not good, also if you are forced not to marry because it is already there will also be no point, the world is beautiful if you are with the right person and are loved.

[Y3shot]

In some parts of the world, discrimination on such matters is ongoing. There are still some areas where a woman faces social harassment for not getting married even after the age of thirty. I think everyone has their own reasons for their life choices and their marital status is no exception. It's not fair to judge or shame someone for deciding not to get married, and it's certainly not polite to pry into someone's personal life. People should be free to make their own decisions about their relationships and their future without fear of judgment or ridicule from others. Respect for each individual's personal preferences and privacy should always be a priority.

It is not everyone that will get married but in some areas it is like a tradition that a woman must get married in her middle 20's , if at this age no husband she will start feeling society pressure from her family and and friends and this becomes very serious issue for the woman . In my country marriage is seen to be huge achievement for ladies and when a woman has no husband the society read so may meaning why the woman is still single.