Is it ethical to break your gambling rules

[Accardo]

Breaking your personal gambling rules doesn't affect you in any ways. What if you broke the rule and still win? Will you complain of breaking the rule? Where breaking the rule become a problem is when you have played 4 consecutive weeks without wining and you blatantly refused to stop, them it becomes unethical. That is to say that the gambling has moved from a normal gambling to aggressive gambling. Which might Leed to loosing all fund.

Breaking your personal gambling rules only gives you many problems because you can lose your money, you can eager to chase the win but will not have bigger chances to win, and the worst is you can addicted to gambling without you realize. We will not know if we already break our rule, especially if we lose or win because our feeling will react with what we got in gambling. If you break your rules for many times, that will be the time for you to gets more problems and if you still not realizing your mistake, you will slowly become addicted to gambling and will lose your money. It's better we sticks to our rules so we can prevents many problems that can happens to us and better to used gambling as having fun and entertainment.

It all depends on the new rule and how it works with us in our gambling process. If our previous rule doesn't work fine, moving ahead with a new one would be fine depending on how much funds it fetches us in the game. However, a gambler who switches rules but doesn't earn any substantial amount, and experience increase in loss, should look into his main rules that brought him wins and reduced his losses. Constantly sticking to a strategy has its disadvantages, unless the method is focused on saving up the bankroll, the gambler may face numerous confusing issues, due to changes in the gambling house. I think the casino work hard to change the way machines perform or provide winning results, hence gamblers who feel they've observed enough the way a machine works, can get disappointed, within a week or two, when the statisticians or mathematicians have reprogrammed the machine. Hence, gamblers should focus more on a strategy that saves up money, than that which circles around winning.

[alegotardo]

That being said, this week I noticed that I have continued in the same trend despite that I have a personal gambling rule, not to gamble for two weeks consecutively,  but unknowingly for me I am already in the third week without adhering to my own rule.

So this led me to ask the general public if I am gambling too much, although this excess didn't affect my finances in any way since I still managed to come out with little winning at the end of the day and at some level, my losses are still below 30 percent of my set out money.

About being ethical or not breaking your own rules!? I don't know that, I confess that this is a very strange question and the answer to it, if there is one, would be even stranger.

However, I believe that you need help to control yourself in games, because if you can't do it on your own then you need to rely on someone else to help you with this or some technological tool (password lock/computer/wallet) that prevents you from playing as much after reaching the pre-defined goal.
You see... goals need to be met regardless of their results in the game. At this moment you are chasing a 30% loss, but you could be making a 200% profit and still stop playing after a week, in order to avoid losing all that profit hastily.

As I said, seek help... because even if your expenses are still reasonable, gambling addiction can quickly take you to much more complicated stages.

[ethereumhunter]

Rules are made to be obeyed not broken. When we set a rule, it means that we already know that there are risks so we make rules and surely we already realize when we break the rules that we have set at the beginning it will be a problem in the future. Rules are made not without certain reasons, of course the rules exist because they are based on certain things and usually it concerns things that will harm.

If we break the rules that we have set, it means that we are inconsistent in sticking to them. And in life the commitment to a rule for me is something that must always be carried out and must be fully obeyed. Especially when it comes to gambling which is closely related to our financial situation. Simply put when we make a rule for the gambling we do, then it's like saving our money from being too drained due to irregular gambling. My question is, what's the point of making rules and breaking them? What kind of commitment did we plan for in the beginning? Isn't that not the case?

But that doesn't means we have to break the rules because we will know what happens to us. We don't want to sees ourselves in the worst situation such as losing much money because breaking our rules. However, playing gambling doesn't needs to use much money. If we can playing gambling with limitations, we will have a chance to enjoy the gambling games without a problem and we will not see a big loss. We make our rules so we must obey it for our own good because playing gambling can make us forget about everything.

We will only lose more money if we break our rules and don't even think to try to break the rule even for one time. If we already break our rules, we must back to our rules and sticking to that to prevents the other losses. We can't gets a bigger risk on playing gambling because that can make our financial situations in a bad situation. We make that rules to prevent ourselves getting deeper in gambling so we can also prevent ourselves become addiction. If we lose control and break our rules many times, we can become addiction easily even without we can realize.

yeah, I agree. Breaking the rules is the beginning of big problems in the future. This has been proven by many incidents both on the forum and outside the forum. They break the rules (deposit limits, for example), one to a hundred times will not have a significant effect, but when emotions have entered the effort to catch up on all losses, breaking the rules will become more serious. From an initial deposit of $10, it will increase to $100 and will continue to be increased until it exceeds the limit that cannot be covered by his income. In the end he became addicted to gambling, because he wanted to catch up on previous losses. If it's like this, don't you regret it? Maybe some will regret it and stop gambling, but the other will continue with more higher risk.

We already sees many gamblers breaking their rules and made them losing much money besides of the other problems that they had. They lose their money, their self-control, and makes them become addicted to gambling because that will happens to them if they breaks their rules many times. We don't want to see that happens to us so we must prevent that before it's happens. When the emotion becomes high and we lose control, that will the time for us to break the rules without we realizes. Our initials deposit will be bigger because losing control to limits the money we used to playing gambling. But the worst thing that we can get is we will become addicted to gambling and if that's happens, we will difficult to recognize.

[Hirose UK]

That being said, this week I noticed that I have continued in the same trend despite that I have a personal gambling rule, not to gamble for two weeks consecutively,  but unknowingly for me I am already in the third week without adhering to my own rule.

So this led me to ask the general public if I am gambling too much, although this excess didn't affect my finances in any way since I still managed to come out with little winning at the end of the day and at some level, my losses are still below 30 percent of my set out money.

It's hard to be committed to rules especially when it comes to gambling, especially when you're having a winning run you are depriving your chance of the opportunity to regain your losses so it's okay as long as you can always get back to your habit and you are satisfied and enjoy your activity, if you treat gambling as a form of entertainment you should have full enjoyment of it and breaking your own rule from time to time is part of it as long as you're not losing money.

That the point that gamblers always do, they have rules that they make themselves with the belief that by obeying them they can minimize the occurrence of bad things such as big losses and also various attitudes such as greed and also attempts to recover losses if they lose big.
But basically the rules will only apply at the beginning because under certain conditions after several gaming or betting sessions they will forget the existing rules and it will be difficult to remain committed to what has been set.
Certain conditions will give different feelings and thought patterns, gamblers feel that they can get better results or improve results that were previously only defeats and this is the attitude that will always coexist with individual gamblers.

I myself think that being free from the limits and conditions that have been made when deciding to gamble is not problem as long as are able and willing to accept the risks and consequences that have to face.
Everything will be much worse if cannot accept every result have, when lose try to recover it and if win greed appears and it is even worse if this continues for long time.

[Zoomic]

My recent experience from gambling, prompted me to ask this question,  and just as the title stated clearly,  you can easily deduce what I am trying to ask in this thread


My experience
In the last two weeks, I have been on a steady roll in gambling and most of the stakes I placed are mostly in sports bets, dice, and spin, all these games are luck-based games unless for football that requires a little bit of analysis.


That being said, this week I noticed that I have continued in the same trend despite that I have a personal gambling rule, not to gamble for two weeks consecutively,  but unknowingly for me I am already in the third week without adhering to my own rule.


So this led me to ask the general public if I am gambling too much, although this excess didn't affect my finances in any way since I still managed to come out with little winning at the end of the day and at some level, my losses are still below 30 percent of my set out money.

There are reasons for setting rules but most times, rules can be broken for the right reason. When rules are broken for the wrong reasons, there is nothing ethical about it. You alone know the reason why you made this rule for yourself,  if you don't feel safe breaking this rule of yours, then you should consider being more strict on yourself in adhering to your gambling rule. Rules can always be amended if the need arises but you need to be careful so as not to stretch beyond your limit and face negative consequences. It is very easy to abuse gambling out of excitement, greed or quest to recover what was lost, this is the more reason every gambler should set good standards for themselves and abide by those standards too inorder to avoid falling into a gambling problem.

[Ojima-ojo]

There are reasons for setting rules but most times, rules can be broken for the right reason. When rules are broken for the wrong reasons, there is nothing ethical about it. You alone know the reason why you made this rule for yourself,  if you don't feel safe breaking this rule of yours, then you should consider being more strict on yourself in adhering to your gambling rule. Rules can always be amended if the need arises but you need to be careful so as not to stretch beyond your limit and face negative consequences. It is very easy to abuse gambling out of excitement, greed or quest to recover what was lost, this is the more reason every gambler should set good standards for themselves and abide by those standards too inorder to avoid falling into a gambling problem.

You right man, its all about the attempt for success or luck and higher risks, with possible big rewards, this is not just an exciting thing but also a risk that could ruin your life if not properly checked and put in place.


Breaking my own rules is quite an unethical thing to do because, my instinct pushed me to place the rules in the first place, knowing that gambling is a risk on its own, and breaking your limit rules will multiply your risk level.

[LUCKMCFLY]

You made those rules for yourself. I assume they’re supposed to keep you in check so as not to go overboard with your activities. I would would recommend that you stick to your rules. You set those rules for a good reason I suspect so therefore, you should adhere to it.

You wouldn’t think not to follow those rules if you were suffering heavy losses now, would you? The rules would be easier to follow if you were suffering losses but now you’re having more wins, the rules doesn’t seem to matter and you’re likely thinking of bending the rules a bit.  Don’t.

Break it today, what stops you from breaking it some more tomorrow? When you’ve gone against your own rules over and over again, you won’t see any need to have such rules anymore and would likely do away with it.

Success is built on rules, not chains. Did you set them purposefully? Beware the hubris speaking sweet nothings about bending them. Holding fast when it's hardest is more important than following rules when it's easy

Consider. Your discipline is eroded when you breach your own rules. The slope is steep. Tomorrow, you'll doubt their existence after bending them today. What then? Friends, you're lost in fancies, far from rationality and prosperity. Remember, constancy is your armor in the war of wills against complacency

When one breaks one's own rules within the game, that means that the bad guys can suffer losses, there is no other way that it can be seen, it is always like that, personally I have always said, because when I have My proposed rules, it was not easy to comply with them, because emotions sometimes make us go through difficult moments because thanks to them we can lose and things are seen differently, therefore when we also make our own rules, it gets out of control Everything, I can talk about breaking rules under our own discretion, but talking about breaking the rules in a casino, that is another level, and it is something that is not recommended, because casinos have many facets of security, and it is very bad. Seen, also cheating inside a casino, the reputation you get as a player is one of caution, of being a dangerous person and of being an unwelcome person, and that is really ugly.

In this order of days we alone take control of knowing which side we can be on, or which side we can define ourselves on, because being on the side where the doors are closed to us is a very bad thing.

When I'm playing, what I do is define all my plans, my palan 'to play, with my money with my strategy to play the games that I like, and within this the most important thing for me is money, the geton of that For me it is only the most important, for that reason I say that when we are looking for different ways to see and play, if we lose that direction, we are not doing anything, and if we look for the 5 legs of the cat we will have more bad consequences, then it's not worth it to be like that, first of all the casino will always have its bullying advantage and sooner or later they will realize if they are cheating or not, in fact the games will be designed so that Andy can cheat , and that is improving every day in the games.

When you do break your own rules then of course it would really be having that kind of feel of guilt or something that unease feeling but if you are really just that doing still fine when it comes into your gambling activity then i dont see anything wrong with this. It is really just that there are people who are really that too sensitive whenever they do break their own rules. Well, breaking rules is never been good, you have set those rules since you do know that gambling could be potentially be giving out that kind of negative effect into you but since you are still wary about your actions
and into your condition then i must say that you are really just that still doing  fine compared into those people who do make those impulsive actions just because they are already losing much.

Well, in reality, I have seen a lot that order in things works, and I am not naturally very orderly nor do I always follow the rules, but I learned to follow my own rules in the casino and anywhere else. I work because it is the easiest way to do my job, because that way I don't forget anything, and in the casino I have to do it that way because it is money that I am risking and because of the experience when one loses a lot of money, well, I already know. They have to have rules so as not to fall into the same mistakes again, that is why I have always said that things with money are delicate and one as a player has to be responsible, firstly responsible with myself, and secondly being responsible with everyone , in order to have total control.

I don't know if you've seen it, but one way I found to control everything better is with money. If we limit our budget, we are willing to win in a casino, because things are easier than trying to control our emotions, emotions are very difficult to manage. check.

I can't deny that sometimes I break the rules and yes, sometimes you feel bad because you lose a little more money, but not more than the money you are willing to lose, just that you lose the profits from other days, that's Which at least gives me pain, that's why I try to comply with my own rules.

[stomachgrowls]

There are reasons for setting rules but most times, rules can be broken for the right reason. When rules are broken for the wrong reasons, there is nothing ethical about it. You alone know the reason why you made this rule for yourself,  if you don't feel safe breaking this rule of yours, then you should consider being more strict on yourself in adhering to your gambling rule. Rules can always be amended if the need arises but you need to be careful so as not to stretch beyond your limit and face negative consequences. It is very easy to abuse gambling out of excitement, greed or quest to recover what was lost, this is the more reason every gambler should set good standards for themselves and abide by those standards too inorder to avoid falling into a gambling problem.

You right man, its all about the attempt for success or luck and higher risks, with possible big rewards, this is not just an exciting thing but also a risk that could ruin your life if not properly checked and put in place.


Breaking my own rules is quite an unethical thing to do because, my instinct pushed me to place the rules in the first place, knowing that gambling is a risk on its own, and breaking your limit rules will multiply your risk level.

On the time that you had break up your own rules then you would really be setting those bars high and you would really be tending to change it on point on the time that you had break it. Its up to someones approach
whether they would really be tolerating such thing or wont really be tending to do it again and would really be staying up into those rules that had been set? It would really be  that actually be that depending on you
on which not all would really be sticking into the rules because some people would be thinking that rules are meant to be broken but i do agree on what you have said that you are the ones who do set out those
rules since you do already know the risks on what gambling could give out on a certain individual if he would really be having that excessive engagement.

[Dewi Aries]

You right man, its all about the attempt for success or luck and higher risks, with possible big rewards, this is not just an exciting thing but also a risk that could ruin your life if not properly checked and put in place.

Breaking my own rules is quite an unethical thing to do because, my instinct pushed me to place the rules in the first place, knowing that gambling is a risk on its own, and breaking your limit rules will multiply your risk level.

On the time that you had break up your own rules then you would really be setting those bars high and you would really be tending to change it on point on the time that you had break it. Its up to someones approach
whether they would really be tolerating such thing or wont really be tending to do it again and would really be staying up into those rules that had been set? It would really be  that actually be that depending on you
on which not all would really be sticking into the rules because some people would be thinking that rules are meant to be broken but i do agree on what you have said that you are the ones who do set out those
rules since you do already know the risks on what gambling could give out on a certain individual if he would really be having that excessive engagement.

I think only those who are able to maintain their awareness will really consider or say that breaking their own rules is wrong and should not be repeated, so the point is awareness in my opinion. Because it could be that they think that breaking the rules they have made is not a problem and it thinks in their minds when they manage to get a win when breaking the rules, or simply when they break rules such as increasing the amount of budget in gambling and then at that time luck comes so that makes them get a win.

Such a situation can easily change their mindset, which initially thinks that breaking the rules is wrong but when they get a win it is very possible for them not to think that breaking the rules is wrong, most likely they might do it again, and that happens because of the hope of getting the same win as before when they broke their own rules. So the point is that maintaining an awareness of the dangers of gambling in my opinion can make you always focus on avoiding such violations, no matter if you got a win in the previous session when you broke your own rules.

[Negotiation]

Not only gambling but all activities generally have rules and regulations so every person should go through the rules. Breaking the rules will create various problems that will affect yo there are many casinos that have penalties for breaking the rules. It is true that discipline is important and breaking rules is never a good thing it helps develop self-control responsibility and respect for others. Disciplinary law also plays an important role in maintaining law and order it is important to understand that discipline is not punishment but a way of life that ensures order and harmony. So discipline is the foundation of a successful and fulfilled life.

[Rampagoe004]

Not only gambling but all activities generally have rules and regulations so every person should go through the rules. Breaking the rules will create various problems that will affect yo there are many casinos that have penalties for breaking the rules. It is true that discipline is important and breaking rules is never a good thing it helps develop self-control responsibility and respect for others. Disciplinary law also plays an important role in maintaining law and order it is important to understand that discipline is not punishment but a way of life that ensures order and harmony. So discipline is the foundation of a successful and fulfilled life.

Therefore, whatever aspect of your life, never break the rules or make concessions. That will make you undisciplined. And then you will continue to break the rules until finally you no longer obey the rules. When you have decided to make rules about your gambling, I think it is good because you have anticipated not getting addicted. But if you're thinking about breaking the rules because you can't stick to them, I think you should stop thinking about doing that.

[rodskee]

Not only gambling but all activities generally have rules and regulations so every person should go through the rules. Breaking the rules will create various problems that will affect yo there are many casinos that have penalties for breaking the rules. It is true that discipline is important and breaking rules is never a good thing it helps develop self-control responsibility and respect for others. Disciplinary law also plays an important role in maintaining law and order it is important to understand that discipline is not punishment but a way of life that ensures order and harmony. So discipline is the foundation of a successful and fulfilled life.

Therefore, whatever aspect of your life, never break the rules or make concessions. That will make you undisciplined. And then you will continue to break the rules until finally you no longer obey the rules. When you have decided to make rules about your gambling, I think it is good because you have anticipated not getting addicted. But if you're thinking about breaking the rules because you can't stick to them, I think you should stop thinking about doing that.

correct , when you started breaking your own rules then that will let you break other rules as
well that will lead you to become not that good person, if we set these or that rules then we must be
the first to follow and act on it so others will follow.
this is how I also let my children learn and understand so when they grow up then they knew how to
value rules and how to become a better person than just a non follower.

[wxa7115]

My recent experience from gambling, prompted me to ask this question,  and just as the title stated clearly,  you can easily deduce what I am trying to ask in this thread


My experience
In the last two weeks, I have been on a steady roll in gambling and most of the stakes I placed are mostly in sports bets, dice, and spin, all these games are luck-based games unless for football that requires a little bit of analysis.


That being said, this week I noticed that I have continued in the same trend despite that I have a personal gambling rule, not to gamble for two weeks consecutively,  but unknowingly for me I am already in the third week without adhering to my own rule.


So this led me to ask the general public if I am gambling too much, although this excess didn't affect my finances in any way since I still managed to come out with little winning at the end of the day and at some level, my losses are still below 30 percent of my set out money.

Money is not the only way to measure whether you have been gambling too much or not, another common measure is to use the time you have been gambling over a period of time, which is one of your personal rules already.

So according to your own standards you are in fact gambling too much, now you have two choices, you either modify your rule or you stop gambling immediately, however you must not worry needlessly either, since you are not doing anything which is morally or ethically wrong, and in my opinion you are just enjoying your hobby a little too much.

[shasan]

Why do you set a rule that you need to have a break after playing 2 weeks consecutively?

When there is no rule they don't need to be broken. But when there is any rule it needs to be broken for various reasons and there might be changes. Op has changed or tried to change the rule as it does not fit his/her demand/expectation.

[Ojima-ojo]

Why do you set a rule that you need to have a break after playing 2 weeks consecutively?

When there is no rule they don't need to be broken. But when there is any rule it needs to be broken for various reasons and there might be changes. Op has changed or tried to change the rule as it does not fit his/her demand/expectation.

Guess amending our rules is what makes us a rational being, this is because at some point one may have made those rules without consideration of some factors that may become prevolulence in the future and by then you have to work to adjust to them at such level, so when you already have a rules, it best to make it flexible enough to take some changes as time goes on, so as to place yourself in a better position to be at advantage and not becoming a slave to your own rules.


I use to feel bad before when I break my rules but lately I am beginning to become more at ease and comfortable when changing a few things as time goes on and there is demands for it at that point.

[teamsherry]

My recent experience from gambling, prompted me to ask this question,  and just as the title stated clearly,  you can easily deduce what I am trying to ask in this thread


My experience
In the last two weeks, I have been on a steady roll in gambling and most of the stakes I placed are mostly in sports bets, dice, and spin, all these games are luck-based games unless for football that requires a little bit of analysis.


That being said, this week I noticed that I have continued in the same trend despite that I have a personal gambling rule, not to gamble for two weeks consecutively,  but unknowingly for me I am already in the third week without adhering to my own rule.


So this led me to ask the general public if I am gambling too much, although this excess didn't affect my finances in any way since I still managed to come out with little winning at the end of the day and at some level, my losses are still below 30 percent of my set out money.

Mate to be honest, this is how all gambling addiction starts, first you start with breaking the limit one and then twice and then you make a little excuse for it and soon you would have to adjust your rule to suite it.

Rules are set to place a limit on how much we can do and thsi should be strictly adherd to, I myself have broken my rule some times but I always reaffirm myself and get back on my feet, do the same for yourself and watch out for gambling addiction.

[Ojima-ojo]

My recent experience from gambling, prompted me to ask this question,  and just as the title stated clearly,  you can easily deduce what I am trying to ask in this thread


My experience
In the last two weeks, I have been on a steady roll in gambling and most of the stakes I placed are mostly in sports bets, dice, and spin, all these games are luck-based games unless for football that requires a little bit of analysis.


That being said, this week I noticed that I have continued in the same trend despite that I have a personal gambling rule, not to gamble for two weeks consecutively,  but unknowingly for me I am already in the third week without adhering to my own rule.


So this led me to ask the general public if I am gambling too much, although this excess didn't affect my finances in any way since I still managed to come out with little winning at the end of the day and at some level, my losses are still below 30 percent of my set out money.

Mate to be honest, this is how all gambling addiction starts, first you start with breaking the limit one and then twice and then you make a little excuse for it and soon you would have to adjust your rule to suite it.

Rules are set to place a limit on how much we can do and thsi should be strictly adherd to, I myself have broken my rule some times but I always reaffirm myself and get back on my feet, do the same for yourself and watch out for gambling addiction.

Best thing to do for me right now is to look away from the possibility of sliding into too much gambling since I have began to see the signs of that happening from the experience, but from the last time I shared this thoughts of mind I read through all the comments and come to notice that indeed I was deeply getting overly involved in gambling and at that I choose to take a brake for a while before getting involved in gambling again since I have already noticed that tendency.


There shouldn't be a reason whatsoever that can lead one to breaking his own rules most especially when the rules we properly thought out before setting them in place.

[Mr.suevie]

IMO, it's never ethical to go against any rule you have put and agreed with yourself be it gambling related or anything at all in a general sense because  it's show that you are not strict and can end up doing crazy things that might well affect you in turn and when we talk about gambling this is definitely the area you don't want to mess with. You might start with having policy not to ever gambling on some games or having strict time but the moment you flinch on that descipline that means you are slowly pushing yourself to addiction.

[Zadicar]

IMO, it's never ethical to go against any rule you have put and agreed with yourself be it gambling related or anything at all in a general sense because  it's show that you are not strict and can end up doing crazy things that might well affect you in turn and when we talk about gambling this is definitely the area you don't want to mess with. You might start with having policy not to ever gambling on some games or having strict time but the moment you flinch on that descipline that means you are slowly pushing yourself to addiction.

Ethical or not, you are the ones who would really be making out such judgment and pretty sure you would really be that making yourself that making those reasoning that you are really just that doing it on one time
and wont really be that be happening again until you would really be doing it all over again until you would really be revoking those rules that you had set into yourself on which it would really be that a common
thing for you to deal up with. So it would really be just that depending on how you would really be making yourself that trying out to have such control whenever you do tend to involved with gambling.

If you have set those rules then it would really be just that right that you should really be that strict on trying out to apply on whatever those rules that had been set out.
You cant really just that break them easily which does shows that you arent that true into your words.

[milewilda]

IMO, it's never ethical to go against any rule you have put and agreed with yourself be it gambling related or anything at all in a general sense because  it's show that you are not strict and can end up doing crazy things that might well affect you in turn and when we talk about gambling this is definitely the area you don't want to mess with. You might start with having policy not to ever gambling on some games or having strict time but the moment you flinch on that descipline that means you are slowly pushing yourself to addiction.

Ethical or not, you are the ones who would really be making out such judgment and pretty sure you would really be that making yourself that making those reasoning that you are really just that doing it on one time
and wont really be that be happening again until you would really be doing it all over again until you would really be revoking those rules that you had set into yourself on which it would really be that a common
thing for you to deal up with. So it would really be just that depending on how you would really be making yourself that trying out to have such control whenever you do tend to involved with gambling.

If you have set those rules then it would really be just that right that you should really be that strict on trying out to apply on whatever those rules that had been set out.
You cant really just that break them easily which does shows that you arent that true into your words.

Definitely!

You would be just telling into yourself that its just fine because you are the ones who do set those rules and not other people. If someone like your wife or family members who would really be telling you this then for sure you would really be serious on avoiding it out as much as you could but when gambling addiction do really urges then it would really be that so hard for you to have that kind of control on which we know that this is something that will really be depending into someones self control and discipline on which each person does have that different level when it comes to this. Some cant be able to control but there are ones who are really that good when it comes to moderation and control. You wont really be messing up your life if you are really that aware on the things that you are dealing on which same as you said that if you had set out those rules then it is really just that right that you should really be following it and be strict towards it.