In my case, I have seen things differently. You rightly said that women can't control their emotions for long, so when they start losing, they start becoming emotional while having mixed emotions, anger, sadness, stress, and anxiety to name a few, and when that happens, they start becoming confused and out of that confusion along with all other emotions, they start making bets recklessly with the mindset that they would either recover everything or lose whatever is left of their balance.
If women can't control their emotions in gambling but how can you say that men can control emotions either
I thought women were more mentally strong and they had the ability to quit (when in loss or achieved reasonable profit). Also, i thought that women are more responsible and they won't overspend when they know that the money need to be spent for other important purposes than gambling.
So I don't think that women withdraw when they see they are not winning, and how can we forget? Women never like losing, be it an argument or gambling, so they want to win all the time, and when they start gambling, they want to leave the casino with at least some profit.
It's a fact that both Men and Women won't like losing and may show similar behavior while gambling. I think both men and women gamblers need to go through some experience and mental exercise so they won't easily lost control over their emotions while gambling.
I think we cannot conclude whether Men are more responsible gamblers or women, it can be both or none
(depending on case to case basis).