Invest on your dependants if you too must grow further

[AVE5]

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

If you're too proud of yourself, delightful and relaxed without being bothered on how to ease your responsibilities within your home when  you've the capacities to lucrate everyones minds by introducing them or encouraging them on how they can also breakthrough their financial reliances, you'd either end up struggling to have more values to your finances or your relentness engagement on always being the provider could picture you as one of a kind who have the potential to elevate others but chooses to let everyone settled beneath your foots which can actually inspire some negative thoughts on people envying your success.

Buttressing the whole fact, to help people of your responsibilities in staying financially reliable when you've the capacities would as much reduce the level of your expenses with the people in concerned and would enable you to flexibly focus on your personal issues hopefully in your projects of gaining more wealth and enlarging your incomes.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

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[Churchillvv]

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

If you want to be successful then your people have to be successful, you have to take care of your family, friends etc that as so dear to you to the next level for you to go more high. In general we should always extend our hands to people who needs it as it will guarantee our success too.

[peter0425]

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

I agree.

Many breadwinners also burn out through this method where they take on every and all responsibility and they just let the rest of their family slack off. It’s not only unhealthy to yourself but it is also incredibly unhelpful to other members of your family.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

We can say the same for asian families. especially those coming from third world nations.

asians have this culture of family being tied together and helping each other out at all times. It might have caused a problem or two over time.

[Zaguru12]

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

Let me add an old proverb that says do not give them fish rather teach them how to fish, so that your basket of fish can be much. One way to be financially stable in a family is atleast Almost everyone in the family earns a living themselves. This way you have all the money you earn to yourself or to carter for just few people which could be the old ones and younger ones who can’t work anymore.

A lone person earning will easily worn them down and some could get frustrated which most at times lead to family feuds. But every member of the family having something to do only reduces each other’s dependency and to me create more peace in the family as no one is tied to another financially

[Egii Nna]

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

Mostly, it actually happens in African countries due to the high number of family members that will always be dependent on the breadwinner of the family. Even if the breadwinner tries to help them, they will use the opportunity in the wrong way, which will make him feel like they don't want to help themselves and will make him feel like living in poverty is the best solution for them. because some of them will try to outshine you who is trying to help them and make you the one that needs the help, not them any more because they will do what it takes to see your downfall. That is why, in some cases, even if you want to help someone, don't show everything, but show him a bit of what you are doing in order for him to get a bit that can sustain him.

For instance, I witnessed a scenario that happened some year ago where the younger brother of the families was the one that got the wealth through the exporting of raw materials, and he decided to introduce his elder brother to the business. In the process, he showed everything to the elder brother, and the elder brother went to the extent that he started envying his younger brother because of his success. So the elder brother puts some hard drugs in the younger brother's goods that will be exported, and in the process, they end up arresting the younger brother, but due to investigation, they find out that the elder brother was the one found guilty of the act. So this is not a story, but a lesson that you need to learn from, and have more knowledge of so that next time you will know how to help people.
 
 

[Coyster]

If you have financial knowledge/intelligence, you can try to teach people who are dear to you, suggest finance books to them and support them financially in the little way you can. But i don't think you should "invest" in them, if you take up too many responsibilities, you might run the risk of going broke yourself, i always advise people to live for themselves and help people only in a way that would not affect you financially.

[kryptqnick]

If we're talking about dependants meaning children, they need to be taken care of until they fully grow up, and if one can afford it, it's good to provide good education to children and try to help them roughly figure out their career paths. But dependants can also be people who are already too old to work or incapable due to other reasons, in which cases it might be impossible to help them become financially independent.
Having the mindset of helping others is great, but I also think it should extend beyond dependants and cover pretty much any people you can help a bit with job opportunities when they need those opportunities.

[harapan]

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

If you want to be successful then your people have to be successful, you have to take care of your family, friends etc that as so dear to you to the next level for you to go more high. In general we should always extend our hands to people who needs it as it will guarantee our success too.
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Exactly mate,this quotes and contribution reminds me so much about someone.😊Let me also add another quote that I always use to encourage myself. The greatest achievement of a man is not who he is or how wealthy he has become,his biggest achievement is the person that he raised/lifted.This statement keeps me going and makes me want to do more for people,it always helps me to do and show more kindness no matter what happens.

It's essential to always show kindness to people whether financially and otherwise.You assist them with knowledgeable financial advice so that they can learn how to generate income for themselves which in turn reduces various billings and financial assistance/pressures from your shoulders entirely.In one way or the other,there's a lift;you lift someone from been Dependant to become independent,whereas
You lift yourself from or against uncountable responsibilities.
Its pretty much a good idea to support someone when you're opportune and  in position to help.

[topbitcoin]

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

Let me add an old proverb that says do not give them fish rather teach them how to fish, so that your basket of fish can be much. One way to be financially stable in a family is atleast Almost everyone in the family earns a living themselves. This way you have all the money you earn to yourself or to carter for just few people which could be the old ones and younger ones who can’t work anymore.

A lone person earning will easily worn them down and some could get frustrated which most at times lead to family feuds. But every member of the family having something to do only reduces each other’s dependency and to me create more peace in the family as no one is tied to another financially

And when someone gets used to being given fish, they will come back to ask for the fish. Because they don't know how to catch fish. However, when we don't just give them fish but also teach them how to catch it, they will slowly leave their dependence on the person who gave it, because they can catch fish themselves.

In a family, not everyone has to earn a living, but each family member must be able to play a different role. Where a father and eldest son are in charge of earning a living, and a wife is in charge of taking care of the house, looking after the children and managing the family's needs and finances. and even if a wife wants to have additional income, in this modern era someone can make a profit just by staying at home, such as selling online or other things. In a family relationship, financial and economic problems are always quite crucial and sensitive issues, and even in the large number of divorce cases that occur, most of them are motivated by family financial and economic problems.

[Juse14]

If we're talking about dependants meaning children, they need to be taken care of until they fully grow up, and if one can afford it, it's good to provide good education to children and try to help them roughly figure out their career paths. But dependants can also be people who are already too old to work or incapable due to other reasons, in which cases it might be impossible to help them become financially independent.
Having the mindset of helping others is great, but I also think it should extend beyond dependants and cover pretty much any people you can help a bit with job opportunities when they need those opportunities.

Ensuring quality education for children and supporting them to make informed choices about their career prospects is a way towards equipping them with the necessary skills they will need in the future. Dependents can also be individuals who cannot work because of their age or other constraints. While it is noble to assist others, it should not end with dependents only. It would be great if we create possibilities for all those in need, including giving job opportunities to people who require these services.

It is a belief that opens up our minds and hearts to offer support and care for whoever requires it without being limited by boundaries, therefore widening and deepening the impact that can be had on society.

[Hyphen(-)]

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

No matter the amount of money you are earning, if people around you are not earning any amount and they depend on you, then you just one step away from poverty because I don’t think you can be able to save some for rainy days. The best way to be financially stable is to have various streams of income and also look for opportunities for people around you that depend on you so that they can be taking care of themselves and you will have the chance to be financially stable.

For people working and depending only on salary, they are always not financially stable because the amount been paid is small and most of the money will be used to take care of their needs, which means there is no room for investment.

The best thing to do is to go into tech and learn skills that you can do and get paid, join it with your physical work payment to earn survula.

[dothebeats]

It's equally important to let those who depend on you know how to make their own financial moves as well. If they know how to make use of the money they have and make it work for them, it will ease the burden of your financial responsibilities to them in the long run. This way, they will learn how to be financially independent from you and not depend everything on you as the breadwinner since they are making their own money anyway.

People who only know how to provide material things but not provide knowledge are usually the ones who end up as exhausted in what they do. Since those who are depending on them only know how to receive but not work for themselves, they will end up depending on these providers for a long time which might eventually turn relationships sour.

A lot of avenues and resources are available nowadays to learn a skill or two. It's best to spark their interest in learning how to make money and teach them everything you can, and it's up to them if they'll do something about that knowledge or not.

[STT]

Invest in growth would the be easiest way to look at that idea.  Its true imo that humans especially are an investment in growth and if you can raise a family and invest in their fortune then its ideal for making the most of your fortune across your lifetime.

until everyone around you is rich then your still poor.

Never heard that one but I recognize that would relate to the nature of capitalism that despite appearing sometimes as a negative that favors the rich we should find society benefits from free open honest trade done.   A product is most successful when its mass produced and available across an entire nation, this might not occur at first but take a decade or more but eventually everyone gains from the productivity correctly rewarded in a capitalist system.

[wxa7115]

It's equally important to let those who depend on you know how to make their own financial moves as well. If they know how to make use of the money they have and make it work for them, it will ease the burden of your financial responsibilities to them in the long run. This way, they will learn how to be financially independent from you and not depend everything on you as the breadwinner since they are making their own money anyway.

People who only know how to provide material things but not provide knowledge are usually the ones who end up as exhausted in what they do. Since those who are depending on them only know how to receive but not work for themselves, they will end up depending on these providers for a long time which might eventually turn relationships sour.

A lot of avenues and resources are available nowadays to learn a skill or two. It's best to spark their interest in learning how to make money and teach them everything you can, and it's up to them if they'll do something about that knowledge or not.

I agree, over the years I have got to know a lot of parents which eventually complain about their kids not spreading their wings and learning how to earn a living on their own, but while those parents believe they gave everything to their kids by supplying them with whatever they wanted.

The truth is that they did not gave them some of the most important things parents can give to their kids, which is their guidance and advice about life in general, which is way more valuable, as those lessons are what allows a kid to mature and eventually find a way to sustain themselves and their own families.

[jossiel]

I like to watch a lot of videos about how lifestyle and people are doing in different nations. And one thing in common is that, regardless on which country you are right now, there's a struggle economically.

Lesser jobs, lesser opportunities and people struggling with the minimum wage that we all need to budget for our needs and expenses.

If there are people that are dependent on you and they're able to work, much better to encourage them start working their ass off so that they'll able to contribute to your personal economy and help less the expenses.

[GigaBit]

True freedom does not depend only on one's financial freedom. You yourself earn a lot of money, but if people around you do not get the opportunity to earn money, then somehow they can depend on you. You get a lot of money there but fail to retain that money. Moreover, a person can never fully support others financially. In order to improve one's own position, one must advance in the improvement of the people around him. Especially those who depend on it. Therefore, a person should help others to the maximum extent in various matters. If their educational system can change their position by focusing fully on income system etc. then a person can improve overall. A family may have many members where not all are earning but if they are given an opportunity to earn then they can certainly contribute well there. As one's expenses will decrease personally, they will gain financial independence.

[AVE5]

If you have financial knowledge/intelligence, you can try to teach people who are dear to you, suggest finance books to them and support them financially in the little way you can. But i don't think you should "invest" in them, if you take up too many responsibilities, you might run the risk of going broke yourself, i always advise people to live for themselves and help people only in a way that would not affect you financially.

You're right and so much we're of the same lines yet. Just making it clear to you, investing on others maybe not really mean you must spend your physical funds on them but as much resources such as your dedicated ability to breed and educate their poor minds to be utilized and engages of potential activities that leads to gaining incomes is such an Investments too because even your own time is worth treasuring of values just as usually saying that time is money when utilized.

[lovesmayfamilis]

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

Perhaps Africans have such a vision as a cold calculation about not being dependent on those people to whom they, in principle, owe. But in my country, there is a slightly softer definition of everything that the OP wrote.
The fact that parents should raise their children, teach them, and give them an education, the value of which children will understand when they become adults, is natural! This is normal, and this is correct. Telling children they are dependents? No. It was you who gave birth to them. And you owe it to them. And if children grow up to be slackers, it’s again your fault, not theirs.
Family involves relatives, and what kind of family relationships you have will be visible in the children you raise. The more successful they are, the more you realize that you gave them everything you had to give, namely love and the desire for a better life for them.

[Marvell1]

If we're talking about dependants meaning children, they need to be taken care of until they fully grow up, and if one can afford it, it's good to provide good education to children and try to help them roughly figure out their career paths. But dependants can also be people who are already too old to work or incapable due to other reasons, in which cases it might be impossible to help them become financially independent.
Having the mindset of helping others is great, but I also think it should extend beyond dependants and cover pretty much any people you can help a bit with job opportunities when they need those opportunities.

I'm not from Africa so I don't know what the situation is like there, but I have the same question as you. If we are the person with the best health and knowledge in the family and the rest of the family are elderly parents and children, then we are the breadwinner and the one who bears all the responsibilities of family life, what's wrong with that? If we cannot take care of our elderly parents, or cannot raise our children adequately, it is our fault. That is our weakness and failure, don't try to blame them because we cannot succeed or go further in society.

As a man, even being filial to his parents and raising his children until they grow up cannot really be the biggest failure of a man's life. If we can't do even those simple things, then don't think about having a high position in society, and don't rush to blame others just because we failed.

[mirakal]

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

Let me add an old proverb that says do not give them fish rather teach them how to fish, so that your basket of fish can be much. One way to be financially stable in a family is atleast Almost everyone in the family earns a living themselves. This way you have all the money you earn to yourself or to carter for just few people which could be the old ones and younger ones who can’t work anymore.

A lone person earning will easily worn them down and some could get frustrated which most at times lead to family feuds. But every member of the family having something to do only reduces each other’s dependency and to me create more peace in the family as no one is tied to another financially

Well, you’re right there. Don’t provide them with everything they need because they will only get lazy to provide on their own, but encourage them to find their own source of living as well so that they will be able to stand on their own feet when time comes that you’re no longer capable to provide them. If this will be taken positively by your members of the family, I guess no one will stay struggling for funds because each of them will definitely focus on their own hustle.

However, not every family member is open about it. The reason why it’s hard to get out from poverty because when one member is in progress and is starting to be financially stable, other members will definitely rely on him for survival, one thing which is a very common trait in my own country.

[Gozie51]

If you have financial knowledge/intelligence, you can try to teach people who are dear to you, suggest finance books to them and support them financially in the little way you can. But i don't think you should "invest" in them, if you take up too many responsibilities, you might run the risk of going broke yourself, i always advise people to live for themselves and help people only in a way that would not affect you financially.

Rightly said but I think the investment in them is also to do those things that they can't have both the financial resources to do or the contacts they need to grow, that is investment. It is not to give out money for food or clothing but to help them become useful either by vocational training or education but to help and see that they are able to help themselves and grow in life. To me I believe human capital development is the best kind of investment someone can do because if for instance you need support yourself, those that you have helped would come to your aid. But however, it is not because of future support in return that you help people but you do that as you have capacity to help.

[Casdinyard]

It's too much work honestly, and by that point, you're already exhausted beyond repair. In the Philippines where this breadwinner culture is more prominent than any other place on the planet, you'd see young adults not even having the time for themselves nor the opportunity to start a family of their own because their parents and their families are so tethered to them for support and financial assistance, which is so disheartening. I'm almost stuck in the same cycle if not for the fact that my father finally saw the error in this kind of mindset and stood up for himself.

Breadwinners are good and all, but they shouldn't be a staple for ever family nor should they be expected to carry the dependents until they're able to support themselves like a mother bird tending upon her chicks. People got their own lives to live and if you're going to give birth to a child just so it could support you when you're unable to get your ass off to work anymore then you deserve a massive fuck you in the face, nobody deserves to be an insurance plan.

Not insinuating anything here, I get the idea of the post and for the most part, I stand behind it, especially since this is something that could work for people who are already subjected to this situation out of their own will, but for the most part, this is abusive, and nobody should experience being the breadwinner of the family.

[Sorryfor]

Yes, I totally agree with that. If only one person is fulfilling the financial needs of the family then it acts as a big challenge for him/her. On the contrary, if the people of the family are well educated or properly trained and provide them with financial support, employment is arranged in a good place, then due to the arrangement of earning money for everyone, the financial improvement of the family will be achieved gradually and at the end of the day, it will be possible to touch poverty and it will be reduced a thousand times. will go  I am clear that you have seen that in all the families that depend on one person for the money, those families cannot be prosperous easily, on the contrary, the family gradually suffers from poverty and at the end of the day they have to spend their days in extreme hardship. Trustworthy people who are trustworthy and at the same time likely to be hardworking and efficient should be helped if desired. Especially your family members.

[Kelward]

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

Let me add an old proverb that says do not give them fish rather teach them how to fish, so that your basket of fish can be much. One way to be financially stable in a family is atleast Almost everyone in the family earns a living themselves. This way you have all the money you earn to yourself or to carter for just few people which could be the old ones and younger ones who can’t work anymore.

A lone person earning will easily worn them down and some could get frustrated which most at times lead to family feuds. But every member of the family having something to do only reduces each other’s dependency and to me create more peace in the family as no one is tied to another financially

When you empower people around you especially friends and most importantly your family members, then you'll have peace of mind to enjoy your wealth, like you said, teach or empower them on how to fish, and they'll be independent and not go hungry. It's easier to have enemies, envy and jealousy within the circle of family and friends when you're very rich and they're very poor, hatred will breed in the relationship and some evil minded ones can go as far as planning harm or death for you.


Money is very important but it's not everything, relationships can be more important because no man is an island, there can be a time of need when you'll want your loved ones around you, to show you love and support, if you're not nice or kind to them, they might not be beside you to support emotionally and physically

[Dunamisx]

I use to say this more often to people around me, that if you want to help a person in life, then learn to know and identify the strategic place of need in such persons life and fixed it, if you give them bread, they will soon eat it up and be hungry again, but when you make decision in alleviating them and helping them to start an investment that could be profitable for them to depend on for financial survival, they will always earn through such instead of coming back to you for more help.

[alani123]

Treating your children well and providing them with the means to one day stand up in their own feet by helping with education,.schooling and skills is important. However I am kinda skeptical oh how much of these should be a responsibility of a parent. For instance, if education and university aren't free, how can we promote our society's growth as a whole? If I live well but my neighbor lives in squalor it contributes to my own long term demise as well. So maybe if we value our own children we should also promote quality widely available services such as education, healthcare and transportation to be accessible for all.

[Adbitco]

You can have all the chances to chose lifting people where they are to other point but sometimes you walk to success not success walk to you, in other words what do I mean? People are more concerned about what they want instantly than how to work to be self dependent, and I also believe that those who aren't ready for changes can never take the bold steps to make out ways for themselves. No matter how you tried hard you can never pleased everyone on what they wanted in life, so what next? filter out the one person who truly needs the assistance or help and placed a value on him because I understand whenever one person rises in the family he surely effects the next person be it financially and academically with this we turned out to be good people instead of having that whole time of want to pick up everyone.

[Reatim]

Treating your children well and providing them with the means to one day stand up in their own feet by helping with education,.schooling and skills is important. However I am kinda skeptical oh how much of these should be a responsibility of a parent. For instance, if education and university aren't free, how can we promote our society's growth as a whole? If I live well but my neighbor lives in squalor it contributes to my own long term demise as well. So maybe if we value our own children we should also promote quality widely available services such as education, healthcare and transportation to be accessible for all.

I agree of course that the government should have a play in here. As citizens, we can only do so much to provide the best service available but it is still going to depend in how much of these services are available to common people.

However I also think that if you already know that the government and you yourself would not be able to provide the best things to your children, why still have children?

You are only going to be making yourself and your children miserable

[Fortify]

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

If you're too proud of yourself, delightful and relaxed without being bothered on how to ease your responsibilities within your home when  you've the capacities to lucrate everyones minds by introducing them or encouraging them on how they can also breakthrough their financial reliances, you'd either end up struggling to have more values to your finances or your relentness engagement on always being the provider could picture you as one of a kind who have the potential to elevate others but chooses to let everyone settled beneath your foots which can actually inspire some negative thoughts on people envying your success.

Buttressing the whole fact, to help people of your responsibilities in staying financially reliable when you've the capacities would as much reduce the level of your expenses with the people in concerned and would enable you to flexibly focus on your personal issues hopefully in your projects of gaining more wealth and enlarging your incomes.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

This sounds like some AI written trash, but there is a small grain of value worth addressing within it. It's a very fine balance to be had - sometimes friends and family need a helping had, if you're in a position to give it to them you should give it a go as it could come back the other way at one point. You mention Africa but unfortunately many people on that continent are dragged into the world of work and will never get a rounded education that would make them much more useful in the jobs market. They take whatever opportunities come their way and grasp it, in turn helping their family survive. That continent has the full range of absolute poverty up until unimaginable riches that the leaders will bask in.

[Jatiluhung]

If we have been able to build our own finances very well and other people or people around us pay attention to it, then we ourselves can encourage other people to do the same. or we can motivate other people around us quite easily. Because people always tend to pay attention to and follow people who they consider to have achieved success. So the first thing I always emphasize to myself is that I must be successful first and then I will lead other people to follow me and achieve success together. because when we try to advise other people when we are not successful, believe me, many people will start to stay away from us or they will even start to say that we are just a dreamer. But if we advise other people when we are successful, they will immediately believe our words and follow our advice happily. That's a fact that I found and it is certainly something that most people experience too.

[Stepstowealth]

If we have been able to build our own finances very well and other people or people around us pay attention to it, then we ourselves can encourage other people to do the same. or we can motivate other people around us quite easily. Because people always tend to pay attention to and follow people who they consider to have achieved success. So the first thing I always emphasize to myself is that I must be successful first and then I will lead other people to follow me and achieve success together. because when we try to advise other people when we are not successful, believe me, many people will start to stay away from us or they will even start to say that we are just a dreamer. But if we advise other people when we are successful, they will immediately believe our words and follow our advice happily. That's a fact that I found and it is certainly something that most people experience too.

That's the way the world works now and while it is said that we rise by lifting others, it would be first demanded of us to be first successful before lending a helping hand to others.

One way I think we can invest in our dependants is if we take it upon ourselves to impact them with good financial knowledge and insight that when we introduce them to the real gig, it becomes very easy and like a hobby instead.

[GeorgeJohn]

That is why you don't need to a family function alone when you have not stand firmly, so for you to spend family you will have to strategize very well and the make sure that you put other people that would be dependant on you in a good position where there can be any weekly or monthly in order to support you to carry along with the family issues, so my advice to people is that when you have not stand well you should not carry a responsibility that will bring you down, the downfall of some people today is based on their ignorant so you have to stand well before you carry other people along.

[el kaka22]

This all depends from nation to nation, maybe in Africa and some other poorer nations kids will need to start working and help the family as one as they are old enough to work, this could be very young according to some, and not so much for those nations. While there are some middle level nations where kids start to work and take care of just themselves after 18, like go to college, stay at dorm and pay for all of that, just not take too much money from parents, or maybe none.

The biggest ones would be European nations, most of the kids there get money either from parents, or even scholarship from the country and so forth, and not work until they finish college and start their career, because economy is much better there and this doesn't hurt anyone.

[goaldigger]

This is the cycle that many are still suffering, and the only way to get out of this cycle is to focus and start working on your own.

There's a lot of challenges when it comes to finances and seriously, working alone can't help that much and as a family, you should encourage them to work together as a team and achieve your common goal.

It's hard if you're the only working and the breadwinner, you can't stay longer to that situation or else you'll burn out and might regret a lot of things later on.

[jrrsparkles]

It really depend on who are those dependants, if it's your wife and kids then definitely you should work on how to improve their financial status to reach their independence by teaching the literacy that you have and also let them to explore on their own so that they can have different perspectives from what you have.

While if it's someone who can't do their day to day activities like fell sick then you have to increase your potential to ensure the security of your and their future.

[iBaba]

Buttressing the whole fact, to help people of your responsibilities in staying financially reliable when you've the capacities would as much reduce the level of your expenses with the people in concerned and would enable you to flexibly focus on your personal issues hopefully in your projects of gaining more wealth and enlarging your incomes.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

This is absolutely true. Most Africans are faced with the same issues mentioned here and this is why young entrepreneurs in Africa find it very difficult to sustain their businesses and investments without having to leave their environments or countries to another and even at that, it doesn't stop the taxing from friends and family but it at least reduces burden. This is why I enjoyed the Netflix movie watched yesterday which portrayed a business venture ecosystem that's called the Igbo Apprenticeship System shortened as the IAS which was established after the Civil War in Nigeria and was meant to bring about togetherness in growth in the business environment where successful business merchants amongst Igbo communities accommodate young folks as apprentice and allow them to serve a period of time after which they are given seed capitals and customers to start their own enterprises. This traditional practice within the business ecosystem helped the Igbos to rapidly build their trade markets and strategically depend on each other without becoming burdens to their masters. This is truly admirable and should be encouraged amongst other communities in Africa

[junder]

If we have been able to build our own finances very well and other people or people around us pay attention to it, then we ourselves can encourage other people to do the same. or we can motivate other people around us quite easily. Because people always tend to pay attention to and follow people who they consider to have achieved success. So the first thing I always emphasize to myself is that I must be successful first and then I will lead other people to follow me and achieve success together. because when we try to advise other people when we are not successful, believe me, many people will start to stay away from us or they will even start to say that we are just a dreamer. But if we advise other people when we are successful, they will immediately believe our words and follow our advice happily. That's a fact that I found and it is certainly something that most people experience too.

I myself have the desire to be able to bring my unemployed friends to work with me, where when I am successful with my finances being very stable, I will give them jobs, either by giving them capital to work or by having them work in the business that I own. have. I really want that to happen, because I myself want to be successful and there are other hopes after I am successful. or as you said by motivating other people to be successful in their lives, that is also a good thing.

I once saw a video that motivated me, with a beggar begging on the side of the road. The beggar did not move or do anything at all apart from sitting and hoping that other people would give him money, but when two men approached him, they didn't give him money, but they gave him a box of drinks and gave him a price tag and kept it right in front of the beggar. There I thought, we can't make money by just sitting around, of course we have to be able to have a business or enterprise to be able to make money.

[Finestream]

If you have financial knowledge/intelligence, you can try to teach people who are dear to you, suggest finance books to them and support them financially in the little way you can. But i don't think you should "invest" in them, if you take up too many responsibilities, you might run the risk of going broke yourself, i always advise people to live for themselves and help people only in a way that would not affect you financially.

However, not everyone is interested in the process to get there, like making yourself financially educated, and cutting cost several expenses, but everyone wants to be financially independent and successful. With this, don’t feed them everything but give them opportunities to improve their finances. It’s up to them how they will handle those and grab every opportunity that comes.

[angrybirdy]

If you have financial knowledge/intelligence, you can try to teach people who are dear to you, suggest finance books to them and support them financially in the little way you can. But i don't think you should "invest" in them, if you take up too many responsibilities, you might run the risk of going broke yourself, i always advise people to live for themselves and help people only in a way that would not affect you financially.

However, not everyone is interested in the process to get there, like making yourself financially educated, and cutting cost several expenses, but everyone wants to be financially independent and successful. With this, don’t feed them everything but give them opportunities to improve their finances. It’s up to them how they will handle those and grab every opportunity that comes.

same here, since I have experienced being in this situation, not all people are interested in learning how to become financially literate but it is better that we give them even a little idea and knowledge about that, it is up to them how they will apply it to themselves and how it will help them. Besides, it's also difficult to spoonfeed them because they won't learn on their own if we always give them everything, right, so the minimal advice and guidance from us is enough and let's just focus on ourselves.

[boty]

I use to say this more often to people around me, that if you want to help a person in life, then learn to know and identify the strategic place of need in such persons life and fixed it, if you give them bread, they will soon eat it up and be hungry again, but when you make decision in alleviating them and helping them to start an investment that could be profitable for them to depend on for financial survival, they will always earn through such instead of coming back to you for more help.

If we can help other people according to what they need, of course this will be very pleasant for those we help and also those of us who help them and we also really agree with what you said when we teach other people a skill that can provide them with income. on an ongoing basis, of course this would be very good compared to us just giving them food that can only fill their stomachs for a while, if we can really teach our friends about investing, of course this will be very useful for them in the future for their financial security.

[Promocodeudo]

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

If you want to be successful then your people have to be successful, you have to take care of your family, friends etc that as so dear to you to the next level for you to go more high. In general we should always extend our hands to people who needs it as it will guarantee our success too.

Yes it is very good to invest on people that depends on you for survival but this should with carefulness, if you are doing this you should also know that there are some persons that fall in the category that no matter how you try to push them up they wont stand, though i never said that it is not good to invest in those one too but the best thing to do is to engage each an everyone of them in a good conversation making aure that you know what they can be able to do before engaging them fully in it, i agree with you that for a rich man to be free from some expenses thats not suppose to stand he or she must consider some things like building more pillars in the family so that it will lessen the burden on him, but the truth is that is not everyone that thinks this way, they prefer being worshiped instead helping their relatives to stand.

[Russlenat]

I use to say this more often to people around me, that if you want to help a person in life, then learn to know and identify the strategic place of need in such persons life and fixed it, if you give them bread, they will soon eat it up and be hungry again, but when you make decision in alleviating them and helping them to start an investment that could be profitable for them to depend on for financial survival, they will always earn through such instead of coming back to you for more help.

Know the person’s weakness and help him encourage to overcome it. Teach him to stand on his own foot and not to rely on other person, and by helping him land on a stable job or a reliable side hustle or investment, you are just giving him opportunity to grow and support himself, without feeding him everything he needs. That way, you did invest yourself onto him but in a productive way.

[junder]

Know the person’s weakness and help him encourage to overcome it. Teach him to stand on his own foot and not to rely on other person, and by helping him land on a stable job or a reliable side hustle or investment, you are just giving him opportunity to grow and support himself, without feeding him everything he needs. That way, you did invest yourself onto him but in a productive way.

That's a reasonable solution, I once saw a video that gave me motivation, where there was a beggar who was sitting hoping that everyone who passed by would give him money, but there were two people who gave him a box of drinks and listed the price of one bottle of drink to sell. I think this is indeed a motivation, where we have to be able to try to make money or to change the situation for the better, not just by sitting and hoping for a miracle to happen, if it continues like that it will be difficult for us to change the situation.

by giving them jobs that can actually make money is the solution to being able to change their own lives. rather than making their lives depend on other people, it will not make them progress or change for the better. because I think people whose lives depend on other people are people who don't want to try to change their lives for the better, because they feel that their lives are comfortable with the people who give them comfort in life.

[God bless u]

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

If you're too proud of yourself, delightful and relaxed without being bothered on how to ease your responsibilities within your home when  you've the capacities to lucrate everyones minds by introducing them or encouraging them on how they can also breakthrough their financial reliances, you'd either end up struggling to have more values to your finances or your relentness engagement on always being the provider could picture you as one of a kind who have the potential to elevate others but chooses to let everyone settled beneath your foots which can actually inspire some negative thoughts on people envying your success.

Buttressing the whole fact, to help people of your responsibilities in staying financially reliable when you've the capacities would as much reduce the level of your expenses with the people in concerned and would enable you to flexibly focus on your personal issues hopefully in your projects of gaining more wealth and enlarging your incomes.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

what  things will satisfy this world I don't understand. I mean I don't disagree with even a single word of yours but this world expect too much especially from a men. Our lives pass in thinking for other and that's the most stressful thing for me. We should provide them with basic necessities of life but later on they should do things on their own.

It's my personal opinion and you could differ in that but I think ones life is too short for all these type of affairs and he/she should only be responsible for the basic necessities until the maturity age only. After that siblings must do things on their own to survive and try their own luck.

[Y3shot]

Life is all about empowerment,  raising people up by empowering them. A man is considered to be a great man if the people around him are transformed by him. It can only be greed if one has the power to empower the people around but choose not to do. When you decide not to help people that are around whenever they have any problem they would always run down to you for help. But when you help people by carrying them along by empowering them whenever they have challenge of theirs they will be able to help solve problems themselves.

I think when you help in building people they are just like pillars to you, when you need support they can also be of help to you. This is very important to do for family members and friend because the effectiveness will still exist till the next generation.

[Antotena]

Buttressing the whole fact, to help people of your responsibilities in staying financially reliable when you've the capacities would as much reduce the level of your expenses with the people in concerned and would enable you to flexibly focus on your personal issues hopefully in your projects of gaining more wealth and enlarging your incomes.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

I have this guy who works with my elder brother in their office, they do these same work and in the same department with the same salary but unfortunately, this guy don't have any money left on him before the month do reach even half, and before he will collect the next salary, he would have had debt everywhere under his pillow waiting to be paid and when they got into discussion, he said he has a lot of responsibilities coming from home and are all from his siblings. That's obviously, the family is dependent on him despite having a good job that pays well.

Even if you are earning millions of dollars and the people around you don't have a means to earn will only fustrate your financial stability and you wouldn't be able to grow personally. This is why the adage that says teach how to fish but don't give a fish is one of the best way to remove someone from financial situations around you.

[Die_empty]

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to the responsibility surrounding them.

African culture places some responsibility on wealthy family members to take care of those who are less privileged. The society frowns at individualism because the culture promotes communal living. Depending on the age of the dependants you can assist dependants in some ways. Paying for their school fees, supporting them in business, and recommending relevant skills and Investment platforms, are some areas one could help them become financially independent. 

Know the person’s weakness and help him encourage to overcome it. Teach him to stand on his own foot and not to rely on other person, and by helping him land on a stable job or a reliable side hustle or investment, you are just giving him opportunity to grow and support himself, without feeding him everything he needs. That way, you did invest yourself onto him but in a productive way.

The problem with some dependants is that they don't want to become independent. They always want to receive assistance from people but they don't put any effort into making money and meeting their needs. A family friend has been given assistance several times for him to take responsibility but he ended up misusing all the funds that was given to him severally to start a business.

[doomloop]

If we have been able to build our own finances very well and other people or people around us pay attention to it, then we ourselves can encourage other people to do the same. or we can motivate other people around us quite easily. Because people always tend to pay attention to and follow people who they consider to have achieved success. So the first thing I always emphasize to myself is that I must be successful first and then I will lead other people to follow me and achieve success together. because when we try to advise other people when we are not successful, believe me, many people will start to stay away from us or they will even start to say that we are just a dreamer. But if we advise other people when we are successful, they will immediately believe our words and follow our advice happily. That's a fact that I found and it is certainly something that most people experience too.

Better if it works like that but you forgot there are people who throw stones at a bearing tree, so that its fruits will fall to them. Let's also hope that those who follow what they think are successful won't get scammed because there are scammers who are like this. They like to mislead people for their own gains. I still think that you don't need to be successful first in order for you to convince the people.

Sometimes what you only need is a good social skills and on how to sales talk properly. Since we are not yet successful, we don't have proofs yet but we can always use the proof of other people. It must be fine because our intention is still clean.

[STT]

Life is all about empowerment,  raising people up by empowering them. A man is considered to be a great man if the people around him are transformed by him.

Society only grows great while old men plant trees under whose shade they will never sit.  I forget who said that exactly but I never forget the words because they are absolutely correct.   That's an ironic thing about a rich society, it only really continues to be so while investing in those who are born with nothing.   That goes beyond families it has to be reflected in government, the monetary system everything really.

[TEBTC]

Rightly said and as the saying goes teach me how to fish and not give me fish if one is to attain the level of financial stability there is a great need to empower those looking up to you so the financial burden can be reduced on your part. You need to support those always depending on you so that they too can support others in the chain

[Jegileman]

All what you’ve explained in your post is correct and that’s just the reality of it that we should all be aware of. Building your circle and not just your dependents can lead to reduced dependency on you. It is only when your circle is rich that you can also feel rich to enjoy the luxury of riches with your friends. This is only peculiar to those that care and would love to share but for those that don’t, they won’t care and would the life they desire. Financial stability and freedom of finance is achieved when no one depends on you and have built your circle to be like you also.

[G_Besar]

Rightly said and as the saying goes teach me how to fish and not give me fish if one is to attain the level of financial stability there is a great need to empower those looking up to you so the financial burden can be reduced on your part. You need to support those always depending on you so that they too can support others in the chain

The saying you said has also taught many people that everyone needs to be given the opportunity to work so they can experience how to make money in their own life. Because if a person who depends on other people is immediately given money without being told how to make money, of course one day he will also complain again and depend on other people so that he will never find change in his life except just continuing to depend on other people. So, the important point here is to give them something they can do so that they can expect good results, like the fishing rod you mentioned in the proverb.

[AVE5]

I use to say this more often to people around me, that if you want to help a person in life, then learn to know and identify the strategic place of need in such persons life and fixed it, if you give them bread, they will soon eat it up and be hungry again, but when you make decision in alleviating them and helping them to start an investment that could be profitable for them to depend on for financial survival, they will always earn through such instead of coming back to you for more help.

Know the person’s weakness and help him encourage to overcome it. Teach him to stand on his own foot and not to rely on other person, and by helping him land on a stable job or a reliable side hustle or investment, you are just giving him opportunity to grow and support himself, without feeding him everything he needs. That way, you did invest yourself onto him but in a productive way.

It's as simple as that. You revealed what'd be best and productive to him as you exposed him out to the field where he can actually be nortured and certified to self reliance of making incomes of his own instead of coming to you on basis asking for your assistance.
Even, those little demanding assistance from him can cause distractions to your pursues but if you can get him settled and focused to himself to a source of providing for himself, of course that'd enable you too to focus more undistractedly towards your goals.

[tabas]

Rightly said and as the saying goes teach me how to fish and not give me fish if one is to attain the level of financial stability there is a great need to empower those looking up to you so the financial burden can be reduced on your part. You need to support those always depending on you so that they too can support others in the chain

Many of those that are unable now needs some helping hand. If you as a person believes about that there's no man is an island then you'd also believe that every person that are on their down times need some extra help that will pull them up so that they can stand on their own. I know that this isn't applicable at all times because there are cases that those that have been helped are not grateful and even wasted the opportunity of help that should be a life changing action for them. But it's true, when you teach someone how to fish and be skilled for employment or livelihood, if they will hone that then it is gonna be a lifechanging opportunity for them.

[wxa7115]

Rightly said and as the saying goes teach me how to fish and not give me fish if one is to attain the level of financial stability there is a great need to empower those looking up to you so the financial burden can be reduced on your part. You need to support those always depending on you so that they too can support others in the chain

Many of those that are unable now needs some helping hand. If you as a person believes about that there's no man is an island then you'd also believe that every person that are on their down times need some extra help that will pull them up so that they can stand on their own. I know that this isn't applicable at all times because there are cases that those that have been helped are not grateful and even wasted the opportunity of help that should be a life changing action for them. But it's true, when you teach someone how to fish and be skilled for employment or livelihood, if they will hone that then it is gonna be a lifechanging opportunity for them.

For what I can see around me, a great deal of people want to achieve the success you can see in movies and TV, but they want to make no effort at all to fulfill their goals.

In a way they just hope that somehow everything aligns for them to become rich with no effort on their part, and this is not possible, that being said there are many people which are willing to work hard to reach their dreams, but they have no idea how to do this, and it is those people the ones that can be helped by offering some guidance and then let them figure out the rest on their own.

[poodle63]

Rightly said and as the saying goes teach me how to fish and not give me fish if one is to attain the level of financial stability there is a great need to empower those looking up to you so the financial burden can be reduced on your part. You need to support those always depending on you so that they too can support others in the chain

this exactly what giving back to the community that make us grow means, contributing back for the sake of making the living of those around us better.
but the question is, how difficult it will be to be realized, giving fish is easier than teaching how to fish arguably, even more apparent when we are talking about improving the living of people around us
through elevating the income, even so its not only limited to income that we need to teach people about improving their life there are many thing that could contribute to the betterment of the lives of people.
though sometime people are so selfish that they can only think for themselves, I don't blame them though, sometime the environment that we're growing in really affect our mindset growing up.
but giving back to community, teaching how to fish instead of giving the fish so that we won't get burdened by helping as well as making people create their own opportunity is essential for us to grow as stated by many.

[Jody.Drummer]

For what I can see around me, a great deal of people want to achieve the success you can see in movies and TV, but they want to make no effort at all to fulfill their goals.

In a way they just hope that somehow everything aligns for them to become rich with no effort on their part, and this is not possible, that being said there are many people which are willing to work hard to reach their dreams, but they have no idea how to do this, and it is those people the ones that can be helped by offering some guidance and then let them figure out the rest on their own.

That is nonsense, with everyone of course must want success in his life and if they want success of course there must be effort and even sacrifice to be successful, but if they want to be rich but no effort it will never happen. It is the same with my friend where he always says he wants a change for the better in the future but he himself has no movement that shows progress or effort, I don't know what is in his mind why he wants success but no effort is made.

Those who want to be rich without any effort I think they need to be told that it will not happen magically. Although everyone has a portion of luck, it is not entirely going to give a big positive thing. Of course, whatever you want there must be effort first.

[ferida504]

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

I agree.

Many breadwinners also burn out through this method where they take on every and all responsibility and they just let the rest of their family slack off. It’s not only unhealthy to yourself but it is also incredibly unhelpful to other members of your family.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

We can say the same for asian families. especially those coming from third world nations.

asians have this culture of family being tied together and helping each other out at all times. It might have caused a problem or two over time.

Who is serious, he will succeed, to achieve that is also full of struggle and patience because there are those who are born from parents who are not rich or poor, so the concept of life is to do a job to the maximum extent possible because without a struggle then it is impossible to become rich or successful. After that, take every trust that people give you, never betray other people. Once successful, continue to carry out new mapping and make long-term plans, namely taking advantage of opportunities

[Coyster]

Financial stability and freedom of finance is achieved when no one depends on you and have built your circle to be like you also.

You are not compelled to help everybody, neither can you successfully set up everyone around you, that's basically impossible, like i have said earlier, if you take up too many burden, it will be counterproductive and affect your own financial life and stability.

Mind you that you cannot make someone rich by giving them your own money, you can only teach them how to make money and direct them to finance books that would help them boost their financial knowledge, if you give them money when they have no financial knowledge, they'd keep coming back until they drag you into financial problems.

[stadus]

I use to say this more often to people around me, that if you want to help a person in life, then learn to know and identify the strategic place of need in such persons life and fixed it, if you give them bread, they will soon eat it up and be hungry again, but when you make decision in alleviating them and helping them to start an investment that could be profitable for them to depend on for financial survival, they will always earn through such instead of coming back to you for more help.

Teach them skills first so they can enhance and develop it, until it makes them as their source of income. From there, they can make a stable earnings until they become capable to start their own investments that they are highly knowledgeable to. So you are teaching them to finally stand on their own, and won’t starve to death anymore because they are already earning quite well.

For me, that’s the best way to help. Don’t just give them fish to eat, but let them learn how to catch fish first.

[Dewi Aries]

Who is serious, he will succeed, to achieve that is also full of struggle and patience because there are those who are born from parents who are not rich or poor, so the concept of life is to do a job to the maximum extent possible because without a struggle then it is impossible to become rich or successful. After that, take every trust that people give you, never betray other people. Once successful, continue to carry out new mapping and make long-term plans, namely taking advantage of opportunities

True, everything always depends on how serious you are in dedicating yourself to struggle tirelessly, because on the other hand I think we have often heard about people who want to achieve success in their lives but their dreams are not accompanied by an action then obviously it is nothing more than just empty, And usually I often hear that people want to achieve success when they hear or see other people, especially people around them who have achieved success, and it really seems to motivate them but however motivated you are by the success of others if for example you only "say or dream" without being accompanied by any action then obviously it is nothing more than a hallucination.

However everything must start with thinking and acting, and I understand that there may be people who are less fortunate where they have a more difficult situation such as being in a poor life situation, but actually success does not see what your life situation is, the proof we can see is that there are quite a lot of successful people who were born poor, and what distinguishes them is that they have unusual intentions and seriousness along with having a personality that never gives up and is always willing to work hard, and you have said the right thing above and maybe the last thing from me is someone who has great potential to achieve success is those who can always look for and utilize all opportunities to the maximum.

[crwth]

So are you saying that having to be able to "optimize" your financial growth is the solution to having no problems with financials? Like how you are going to be able to do it with optimization? The reduction of expenses and having a larger income? It's not much of the subject that you are talking about and "invest" is not the right word. Maybe it's better if it's "saving".

[Gozie51]

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

Things as such topic can only be important in an African society or other third world countries where government doesn't provide amenities or equal opportunities for all. Economic hardship in Africa society is only felt in poor homes and people who are not connected to the government but in more developed countries, the government provides enabling environment for every one not just for the few oligarchy controlling the affairs and resources of the country.

[Mpamaegbu]

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

I get your point. The issue you raised presupposes that in a family where only one person is rich, that family is poor. To help oneself become financially stable, one has to better the lot of one's dependants by teaching them how to fish by themselves and not throw fish at them. As Africans, we live communally by the extended family structure and that makes it difficult not to have dependants. We can't escape that. However, wisdom is profitable to direct on how to lift them out of penury without distabilizing one's finances.

[GeorgeJohn]

True freedom does not depend only on one's financial freedom. You yourself earn a lot of money, but if people around you do not get the opportunity to earn money, then somehow they can depend on you. You get a lot of money there but fail to retain that money. Moreover, a person can never fully support others financially. In order to improve one's own position, one must advance in the improvement of the people around him. Especially those who depend on it. Therefore, a person should help others to the maximum extent in various matters. If their educational system can change their position by focusing fully on income system etc. then a person can improve overall. A family may have many members where not all are earning but if they are given an opportunity to earn then they can certainly contribute well there. As one's expenses will decrease personally, they will gain financial independence.

you are right because if you only you is one that is sponsoring your group based on your have money it is obvious that the money you have will not successfy you and they will not solve your problems your need so that is why you have to empower people that is around you in another way they can be able to earn their own personal money without depending on you so when you have done that you have liberated yourself from much expenses from other aspects money that one particular person have is a personal money.

[iBaba]

you are right because if you only you is one that is sponsoring your group based on your have money it is obvious that the money you have will not successfy you and they will not solve your problems your need so that is why you have to empower people that is around you in another way they can be able to earn their own personal money without depending on you so when you have done that you have liberated yourself from much expenses from other aspects money that one particular person have is a personal money.

No matter how rich you claim to be and how supportive you try to be, investing on your circle is the best way to go about sustainable living. This topic is more relevant in today's world of economic uncertainties, where you can be rich but still needs external supports or sources to thrive in the business arena. Having friends who can always stand in as a support system and assets is better than accommodating liabilities.

Although, for truth to be said, you need to have the financial or intellectual capacity to be able to invest in friends first, then, you also need reasonable friends who are interested and ready to tap into the opportunities available to them.

[Yaqs15]

So are you saying that having to be able to "optimize" your financial growth is the solution to having no problems with financials? Like how you are going to be able to do it with optimization? The reduction of expenses and having a larger income? It's not much of the subject that you are talking about and "invest" is not the right word. Maybe it's better if it's "saving".

It's not all about billions of dollars that you have in your bank account, it's not all about cars that you have, and it's not all about mansion that you have, but it's about the positive impact all these your billions of dollars, big cars and mansion have on the people around you.
  it's the best idea for some one to build people around him or her if not for, when they are being built and no more depending on you, you will even have some relief of their responsibility on you which you have settled them of.

Life is all about empowerment,  raising people up by empowering them. A man is considered to be a great man if the people around him are transformed by him. It can only be greed if one has the power to empower the people around but choose not to do. When you decide not to help people that are around whenever they have any problem they would always run down to you for help. But when you help people by carrying them along by empowering them whenever they have challenge of theirs they will be able to help solve problems themselves.

I think when you help in building people they are just like pillars to you, when you need support they can also be of help to you. This is very important to do for family members and friend because the effectiveness will still exist till the next generation.

  When you want to be the very pillar of your family, try to learn how to sacrifice a lot. They said; he who gives never lack. 
what goes around must surely comes around. If you don't have the discipline of sacrifice, you can not be able empower others, because it involves spending of money, time and some time your energy.
  If you want to grow further, spend on your dependents wisely. that is, some time you don't just give them cash, but spend on them by paying their school fees, pay for their skills acquisitions, try to teach them how to make money like doing business, trading on Bitcoin and online businesses which most of these may require funds. Do not hesitate to help them with their need financially emotionally and physically.

[wxa7115]

For what I can see around me, a great deal of people want to achieve the success you can see in movies and TV, but they want to make no effort at all to fulfill their goals.

In a way they just hope that somehow everything aligns for them to become rich with no effort on their part, and this is not possible, that being said there are many people which are willing to work hard to reach their dreams, but they have no idea how to do this, and it is those people the ones that can be helped by offering some guidance and then let them figure out the rest on their own.

That is nonsense, with everyone of course must want success in his life and if they want success of course there must be effort and even sacrifice to be successful, but if they want to be rich but no effort it will never happen. It is the same with my friend where he always says he wants a change for the better in the future but he himself has no movement that shows progress or effort, I don't know what is in his mind why he wants success but no effort is made.

Those who want to be rich without any effort I think they need to be told that it will not happen magically. Although everyone has a portion of luck, it is not entirely going to give a big positive thing. Of course, whatever you want there must be effort first.

It is complete nonsense but on its on way I get why they are like that, as if I was told by a credible source that I was going to be given a billion dollars and I will have to do nothing to gain it, why would I refuse it?

However I know this will never happen, and even if I were to work as hard as I could during my whole life, I would still not achieve those kind of riches, however by doing the best I can, there is no doubt that I can get better outcomes than if I did nothing.

[Zanab247]

If you have financial knowledge/intelligence, you can try to teach people who are dear to you, suggest finance books to them and support them financially in the little way you can. But i don't think you should "invest" in them, if you take up too many responsibilities, you might run the risk of going broke yourself, i always advise people to live for themselves and help people only in a way that would not affect you financially.

It will be difficult for such family to lack wealth, because that is the best way to make family remain wealthy by teaching them how to carry out research before investing in a decentralized currency, and wait for some years before they can supply their  coins to the market to make a good profits that will boost the family wealth.

You can allow them to handle some of your business for them to gain more skills that will help them to function well, when you establish their own business for them and it will make them to be bold in doing the businesses to earn for a living.

If you have so much wealth, and you fail to invest in your family by not creating opportunities for them to earn from , it will reduce your wealth to zero level, and it will bring disrespect to you in the family

[justdimin]

It will be difficult for such family to lack wealth, because that is the best way to make family remain wealthy by teaching them how to carry out research before investing in a decentralized currency, and wait for some years before they can supply their  coins to the market to make a good profits that will boost the family wealth.

You can allow them to handle some of your business for them to gain more skills that will help them to function well, when you establish their own business for them and it will make them to be bold in doing the businesses to earn for a living.

If you have so much wealth, and you fail to invest in your family by not creating opportunities for them to earn from , it will reduce your wealth to zero level, and it will bring disrespect to you in the family

I would assume that if you could teach your kids value of money one way or another, then they would be able to get it more themselves even without your help, but at the same time if you could help them by letting them have something, then it would mean that things could actually be better in the end as well.

I am hoping that we are not going to end up with anything more decent, we shouldn't really end up with crazy situations, it doesn't feel like it would be all that crazy in the end, we need to just focus on the fact that we could do fine if we leave our kids with both education on money and some small inheritance to start. They will not learn about money at school, so that is your own responsibility to teach them.

[Yukyzu]

No matter how rich you claim to be and how supportive you try to be, investing on your circle is the best way to go about sustainable living. This topic is more relevant in today's world of economic uncertainties, where you can be rich but still needs external supports or sources to thrive in the business arena. Having friends who can always stand in as a support system and assets is better than accommodating liabilities.

Although, for truth to be said, you need to have the financial or intellectual capacity to be able to invest in friends first, then, you also need reasonable friends who are interested and ready to tap into the opportunities available to them.

When someone is able to invest, of course they have prepared their future to be better, because if we don't prepare for our future, of course it will be very difficult to meet our needs in the future and to have friends who can help us in various situations. of course this is a very valuable asset rather than choosing to pay off the loans we have to pay, when someone has good capacity and can generate profitable income of course people will be interested in investing in us and this will of course benefit them too .

[AVE5]

So are you saying that having to be able to "optimize" your financial growth is the solution to having no problems with financials? Like how you are going to be able to do it with optimization? The reduction of expenses and having a larger income? It's not much of the subject that you are talking about and "invest" is not the right word. Maybe it's better if it's "saving".

Optimizing your financial growth in the sense that you could invest to be able to accumulate more to your savings is the key point because having savings without increments would do you no good in the future because a source that's no being reproductive would definitely be insufficient to process your needs.
So if you think your financial capacities can as well maintain your expensive expenditures without disrupting your financial increments of course it's good to go. Afterall well all needed all that expensive commodities the conciousness is only based on the future and our network.

[Cryptomultiplier]

No matter how rich you claim to be and how supportive you try to be, investing on your circle is the best way to go about sustainable living. This topic is more relevant in today's world of economic uncertainties, where you can be rich but still needs external supports or sources to thrive in the business arena. Having friends who can always stand in as a support system and assets is better than accommodating liabilities.

Although, for truth to be said, you need to have the financial or intellectual capacity to be able to invest in friends first, then, you also need reasonable friends who are interested and ready to tap into the opportunities available to them.

When someone is able to invest, of course they have prepared their future to be better, because if we don't prepare for our future, of course it will be very difficult to meet our needs in the future and to have friends who can help us in various situations. of course this is a very valuable asset rather than choosing to pay off the loans we have to pay, when someone has good capacity and can generate profitable income of course people will be interested in investing in us and this will of course benefit them too .

You know, investment could be of different types and a wise person knows that investment in an individual either it is someone close or themselves, always goes a long way to yield lasting returns.

Am not saying investment in cryptocurrency or precious stone and gems isn't worth it, but if one gets to educate themselves or others close by, on how to be more knowledgeable in that area and thus can earn from investing in them, i.e they have understood how money is made and can be multiplied with a certain knowledge and skill, then that's the best and most rewarding future and present investment that will pay better than a salaried job.

[MissNonFall9]

"Many a little makes a mickle" talk is very popular in my area. Economic freedom plays a very important role in creating a healthy natural ‍and social environment for a person. Even economic liberation plays an effective role in shaping humanity. So if a family can be shown the path of economic mobility then it can move comfortably in any kind of adverse environment. If the search for such jobs can be shown to all the people around (who are willing to work) then everyone can run the society responsibly.

[Negotiation]

No matter how rich you claim to be and how supportive you try to be, investing on your circle is the best way to go about sustainable living. This topic is more relevant in today's world of economic uncertainties, where you can be rich but still needs external supports or sources to thrive in the business arena. Having friends who can always stand in as a support system and assets is better than accommodating liabilities.

Although, for truth to be said, you need to have the financial or intellectual capacity to be able to invest in friends first, then, you also need reasonable friends who are interested and ready to tap into the opportunities available to them.

When someone is able to invest, of course they have prepared their future to be better, because if we don't prepare for our future, of course it will be very difficult to meet our needs in the future and to have friends who can help us in various situations. of course this is a very valuable asset rather than choosing to pay off the loans we have to pay, when someone has good capacity and can generate profitable income of course people will be interested in investing in us and this will of course benefit them too .

Rightly said investing is the right decision thinking about the future and investing it helps to deal with various bad situations. Each plan individually helps you build wealth which helps you achieve the specific goals of your overall financial plan. For risk hedging savings plans help accumulate money safely over time. Usually this money is kept aside for any emergency purchases or future purchases.

[oktana]

I think in Africa, there’s a stronger will on supporting family members and lifting each other up financially. There are other cultures who do the same but that of Africa seems to stand out to me. But despite what culture it is, it is a good thing to yourself, the society, and the world at large that you can empower others to be able to provide and cater for themselves and not just depending on you. This can go as far as breaking cycles of poverty.

[AVE5]

I think in Africa, there’s a stronger will on supporting family members and lifting each other up financially. There are other cultures who do the same but that of Africa seems to stand out to me. But despite what culture it is, it is a good thing to yourself, the society, and the world at large that you can empower others to be able to provide and cater for themselves and not just depending on you. This can go as far as breaking cycles of poverty.

You're right. Here in Africa, there's is always dependents on the breadwinners and at some cases of having that much of responsibilities, it could, cause setback from meeting with the height of a financial goal.
That's why i clearly stated it that we should invest in how to create productive means of earning to those our relatives if there comes an opportunity because if you're limited to those responsibilities, it's like you've just offloaded those barriers delaying your forwardness.