I have a bunch of coins stuck since April '23.. received in a Bitcoin Core wallet with transactions paying only 1 sat/vb. They do not signal RBF, so I can't raise their fees with that method in Core's GUI.
Even with opt-in RBF flag, you still wont have the authority to use "
Increase transaction fee" menu to those transactions since you're the receiver.
Your option is to CPFP that the wallet part of Bitcoin Core can't do directly.
You'll need to use commands and precise computation of amounts and fee:
en.bitcoin.it/wiki/Fee_bumping#I_received_the_stuck_transactionOr do BitMaxz's suggestion to import the address(
es) to Electrum to create a CPFP unsigned transaction, export the PSBT file/string via "
Share" button.
Import it to Bitcoin Core via "
File->Load PSBT from..." menu, sign and broadcast it.
You can also ask the sender to replace those once dropped from his mempool. (
if he's using the default size and there too many transactions in it)
He can do this if he's using Bitcoin Core: the moment their status turn "
0/unconfirmed, not in memory pool", right-click on the transaction and select "
Abandon Transaction".
His overall balance should update accordingly. Then 'Enable coin control features' in "
Settings->Options", 'Wallet' tab.
In the 'Send' tab, click "
Inputs..." select the inputs of the abandoned transactions and send with higher transaction fee.
(
this is for the sender, not the receiver)
But it's better if you can share the transaction IDs because these suggestions may not be enough in some cases, like of long chain of large 1sat/vB transactions.