What will you do if you find yourself in a similar situation like this?

[348Judah]

If I get myself in the situation like OP has posted, the only thing that is left to do is to work. Pretty simple solution. Tell parents truth, apologies and dedicate next years of life working. There is no other way to solve this situation. When a person lost and owes money it does not mean that his life is over. It definitely going to change and be more complicated, but life continues. Find work, quit gambling, clear mind, focus on the goal (repay money lost) and dont try to search for quick solution. Those next years that are going to be spend in saving and limiting yourself in many things is a punishment.

Some people wouldn't have that kind of courage to make such confrontation to their parents on the wrong they have done, not everyone can have this kind of boldness in approaching them, the more we should be mindful on how we gambles, we are to always remember that gambling is what we needed money to do, but we shouldn't engahe on fund misappropriation for this purpose, as for me, I don't even think i can't manage to wait and see this day coming, not at all.

[hedgeh0g]

Of course, parents should not trust him after such an act, although many say that a second chance should always be given, I am against this idea. When it comes to money, even with relatives or family members, various problems arise and many, of course, do not expect them. If you collect the amount in your son’s account for example and replenish it with your own money, there is a very high probability that he simply will not value it, because he does not understand what work was done and how it was earned. It would be better if they taught him how to work and that he himself thought about where to get the money, this is much more interesting and it shapes him and accustoms him to work. I observed such situations a couple of times and everything was fine. In short, my best point of view is that it is better not to open such accounts at all, and if this happens, never give a second chance. It may sound a little harsh, but that's how it is.

[AnonBitCoiner]

Parents will not trust him again because there is not a matter of just losing money but their son is involved in gambling and one cannot easily trust a gambler in future. Gambler will show you that he has changed his whole lifestyle and now he will not gamble but again he will break your trust by doing something worse just to get money for gambling.

Keeping a check on today's generation has become so difficult because they are experts in doing bad activities without letting it know to their parents. So we should not allow our children to be in contact with bad friends and don't allow them such a huge amount of money because money makes the teenager a part of gambling and other bad activities.

[dunfida]

So, ladies and gents,

Here is a dude who parents trusted well enough to save their money in his bank account, that is, father of this dude (according to the dude) saved all his money on his son's (the dude) bank account, the dude went ahead to start doing sports betting with the money, and like this like this normally turns out most of the time, he eventually lost all the money the father saved with him without the parents knowing.

Later on, the parents found out and became very angry with him, he is thinking of how to handle the situation but doesn't know exactly what to do,
And let's say he somehow manages to replace the money, either by means of borrowing or working menial jobs to raise the money, will his parents ever trust him again to save large sum of money with him?
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Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

We do have a saying that once trust is broken then there's no way that you could really be able to get it back 100% and this is something that you should really be putting up into your mind and there would really be
no exemptions whether it would be into your own parents, wife,friends,relatives and other people because you have done something that shows that you cant be trusted. Well, you might be able to get their forgiveness
but doesnt mean that they do totally forgot on what you have done. This is why it would really be better that as much as possible dont make things which you do know that it could break their trust.
Just like been said that they could trust you back but not that 100% just like before, this is why you should really be careful into any condition.

They wont really be trusting you up again on handling out their money specially if you do have the history on making use of it without any permissions. Well, this is the primary
consequence or effect on the things that you have done so better be wary about these stuffs.

[DaNNy001]

And let's say he somehow manages to replace the money, either by means of borrowing or working menial jobs to raise the money, will his parents ever trust him again to save large sum of money with him?

Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

When trust is broken, it takes a miracle for the person you broke his or her trust to believe in you once again.  Let's assume he managed to complete back the money he used for gambling, at first they won't trust him but, he can regain their trust only when he possesses a changed character. Meaning if he quits gambling and keeps up a good behaviour. When it comes to money or any valuable asset it's difficult to trust someone after they must have broken your trust but in this case he is their son and the love of parents towards their children is different from what an outsider can give, that is if your parents actually have parental love. I had a friend who has similar issue and his parents forgave him because he changed his attitude.

[GideonGono]

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Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

Assuming that I would be on the same spot, I honestly don't know how I could face my parents, knowing that the money that I've lost was their hard earned money.
I would try to pay it all of, and avoid gambling to show them that I've changed, even if it isn't to show them at least to make amends on my mistake.
And as a parent if I would be on the situation I also don't know how long would it take for me to get over it.
I don't know how long I could ignore my kid due to that incident and if I would ever trust him again.

[Onyeeze]

Parents always forgive their sons and daughters. Only a few parents will not forgive their kids, but most of the time they will forgive, trusting the money may be another issue. He has to gain the trust and will take a long time.

Eventually, this kid will learn as he has been regretting the entire time, writing his post about his situation. Give it time, his parents will even entrust all their assets for him to take care of. 

you have said it all because some parents do discipline their children whenever they do something wrong and after discipline them they would like to forget and Forgive Them once some other parents to does not like to even discipline them or Forgive Them they do things they feel like based on the no what they have because attender age of a child when it has done something and you continue to forgive the person being the child that will give the child a root to be doing more that is why some parents should show their children difficulties so that they can amend themselves in future but I know quite well that every parents have a forgiving spirit to his child

[Gozie51]

Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

In this situation as the gambler in question, his parents will still have some trust in him as he is their son and if it is only the first time that he has done that then there may not be reason not to distrust him. They may not keep such money with him but the issue of trust have not gone with them, they are still family.

If I'm in his shoes then I would make sure that I make them realize it was a mistake that I relied on gambling to double the money. I will let them know it will also be in their own benefit if the money was increased as a result of the gambling risk taken. Hence every wrong has somethings you need to do to placate others and I will humbly plead mistake.

[Hispo]

To be honest, I don't think I could think clearly if I found myself in a situation like this one. I would feel very guilty and my mind could not make sense on how I would allowed my own greed to mess in such a way to completely lost the trust of my parents, who are the most important people for me on the world.

Though, assuming I could recover from such break down eventually, I believe I would commit myself on working to pay that money back to my parents and completely quit gambling as I manage to save enough money to pay all of it back.
Since we are talking about important amounts of money, I would also probably need to quit other habits and sell some of my things, like some videogames consoles, my computer and some clothing in good shape.

Regardless of what anyone of you would do, I do not wish something like this to ever happen to you.

[uneng]

Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

Lol, this is a very harsh situation be into... First of all, I would try avoiding as maximum as possible to spend money which doesn't belong to me. When the person does this, it's inevitable to no be seen in a negative perspective by the family and everyone else, because it's an action similar to stealing or betraying someone... I fear he is only going to be able to retrieve his reputation and respect towards his father by replacing all the money lost somehow.

He may work and accumulate money to repay his debt with his father. If he is able to do this, even though it takes a long time and a lot of effort from him, I'm pretty sure his father will forgive him and start to respect the son once again, because he has shown to be worthy of through his genuine efforts in an attempt to fix his previous mistake. Maybe he doesn't even need to repay the whole debt, but only his good will can be already enough to show his father he deserves to be trusted once again!

[SatoPrincess]

Once broken, it’s not easy to build trust again. It will take time and effort to get those you have hurt to trust you again. While I don’t think I can ever find myself in such situation, all of us have disappointed our parents in one way of the other. Hypothetically speaking, if I was in such position, I would try to replace the money, if I need to get work multiple jobs in order to make the money I would do it.

[angrybirdy]

So, ladies and gents,

Here is a dude who parents trusted well enough to save their money in his bank account, that is, father of this dude (according to the dude) saved all his money on his son's (the dude) bank account, the dude went ahead to start doing sports betting with the money, and like this like this normally turns out most of the time, he eventually lost all the money the father saved with him without the parents knowing.

Later on, the parents found out and became very angry with him, he is thinking of how to handle the situation but doesn't know exactly what to do,
And let's say he somehow manages to replace the money, either by means of borrowing or working menial jobs to raise the money, will his parents ever trust him again to save large sum of money with him?


Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

when it comes to trust, once it's broken, it's very difficult to restore it or it takes a long time before you trust again, but in this situation, his parents are the ones who lost trust and if I were the parents in the situation, I would be really angry and lost of trust, maybe no matter what the child does, I will always think wrongly. Maybe the better thing to do is to return all the savings that were lost and just understand that there is a process to restore trust, others take a long time and reach many years before being able to completely forgive, so to make up for it, just show that you are sorry for what you did or maybe you should reduce the gambling because once they see you participating in such activity again, there is a greater chance that their lack of trust in you will increase.

[Juse14]

Of course, parents should not trust him after such an act, although many say that a second chance should always be given, I am against this idea. When it comes to money, even with relatives or family members, various problems arise and many, of course, do not expect them. If you collect the amount in your son’s account for example and replenish it with your own money, there is a very high probability that he simply will not value it, because he does not understand what work was done and how it was earned. It would be better if they taught him how to work and that he himself thought about where to get the money, this is much more interesting and it shapes him and accustoms him to work. I observed such situations a couple of times and everything was fine. In short, my best point of view is that it is better not to open such accounts at all, and if this happens, never give a second chance. It may sound a little harsh, but that's how it is.

I find such acts to be trust killers, especially when it comes to the relationship between parents and children. While many advocate for second chances, I stand opposed to the idea. Money issues can lead to various problems even among siblings or family members, not everyone is willing to accept it.

Take this scenario, if you deposit money into your child's account and later replace it with his own without his understanding the value, there's a high chance he won't appreciate it fully. Your child might not comprehend the effort you put into earning that money; hence, it would be more beneficial if he learns how to make his own money. Teaching him responsibility through work will have a greater impact on his character and instill a sense of worth ethic within him.

There have been a few instances where I've come across such scenarios, and all is well. Therefore, I believe the wisest perspective would be to refrain from opening such an account altogether. In the event that such a situation does arise, it might be better not to offer it another opportunity. Though it may sound a tad callous, such is life.

[goaldigger]

Once broken, it’s not easy to build trust again. It will take time and effort to get those you have hurt to trust you again. While I don’t think I can ever find myself in such situation, all of us have disappointed our parents in one way of the other. Hypothetically speaking, if I was in such position, I would try to replace the money, if I need to get work multiple jobs in order to make the money I would do it.

There will always be a trust issues once you broke their trust with you and you have to accept that fact because it’s your fault in the first place. What you can do right now is to promise that you wont do the same mistake again and promise to repay it in time, also you have to show that you’ve changes already, and slowly they might trust you again because after all, you are still their son and they still need them to guide you.

[topbitcoin]

when it comes to trust, once it's broken, it's very difficult to restore it or it takes a long time before you trust again, but in this situation, his parents are the ones who lost trust and if I were the parents in the situation, I would be really angry and lost of trust, maybe no matter what the child does, I will always think wrongly. Maybe the better thing to do is to return all the savings that were lost and just understand that there is a process to restore trust, others take a long time and reach many years before being able to completely forgive, so to make up for it, just show that you are sorry for what you did or maybe you should reduce the gambling because once they see you participating in such activity again, there is a greater chance that their lack of trust in you will increase.

I can try to recover some of the loss, for example, by returning all the money I lost when this happens to me. But it's important to realize that trust cannot be rebuilt overnight. The process of rebuilding trust is time-consuming; it can take years and often demands a significant commitment and effort from both sides.

One way to begin this journey is by demonstrating genuine remorse for your actions. Acknowledging your mistake and showing that you are genuinely sorry can go a long way in the recovery process. In addition, curtailing or quitting gambling altogether could serve as a positive step towards self-improvement. This demonstrates to your parents that you are serious about making amends for the past misdeeds and working towards a better future.

Yet it must be remembered that every individual and circumstance is unique, some individuals take longer than others to forgive and rebuild trust. It is crucial to persist and demonstrate patience, while also recognizing the significance of time and space in facilitating the healing journey.

[Rockstarguy]

Assuming you find yourself in a similar situation as this, what will you do? How will you handle the situation to make your parents trust you again?

I will feel so Dissapointed knowing fully well that I have disappointed my parents, they may let the money go but I'm very sure that the trust they once had towards me won't be their anymore.  In a situation like this I will try my best to see if I can work and raise money to give them back  because it will be so painful to always remember I how I lost money that belongs to my parents on betting.  If I don't pay the money back I don't think I will have  peace of mind.  Paying back the money will make them feel happy and will also make them understand that my action was a mistake which they would see I feel so sorry for myself trying to make amendments.  

But honestly this will be very painful expecially when it is just all the money they have. This not a news any parents are expecting to hear from their children.

[mirakal]

If I get myself in the situation like OP has posted, the only thing that is left to do is to work. Pretty simple solution. Tell parents truth, apologies and dedicate next years of life working. There is no other way to solve this situation. When a person lost and owes money it does not mean that his life is over. It definitely going to change and be more complicated, but life continues. Find work, quit gambling, clear mind, focus on the goal (repay money lost) and dont try to search for quick solution. Those next years that are going to be spend in saving and limiting yourself in many things is a punishment.

Some people wouldn't have that kind of courage to make such confrontation to their parents on the wrong they have done, not everyone can have this kind of boldness in approaching them, the more we should be mindful on how we gambles, we are to always remember that gambling is what we needed money to do, but we shouldn't engahe on fund misappropriation for this purpose, as for me, I don't even think i can't manage to wait and see this day coming, not at all.

However, parents will always be parents that will accept the mistakes of their son and eventually get to trust on him again as long as he will avoid gambling anymore and will just focus on gaining a decent job until he gets to replace all the lost funds. Although this is very shameful for a gambler, but I think in the long run, parents won’t have to trust other people but only their sons or daughters.

[Slow death]

I highly doubt his parents would trust him again, his parents will always be scared of giving him money. I've seen these kinds of things here where I live. I've been to many houses where I live and I've noticed that when I say I'm going to give money to my children, parents immediately tell me not to do that under any circumstances, they don't tell me the reasons. but I suspect it's because the children took that money and will consume alcohol and gamble, unfortunately here in my country these types of stories are happening every day. I don't understand what is happening to young people in my country who in recent months have been asking for loans to play and after losing everything they commit suicide

and there are many cases of young people in my country in which they stole money from their parents to go gambling, these cases are publicized on TV in my country, I even thought that it could be cases of large-scale gaming addiction, and the only explanation that I found. because it is not normal for there to be many cases of suicide and imprisonment of young people in my country related to gambling, a few days ago there was a case in my country in which the parents gave their son money to pay for university, but they found out that the son kept taking that money intended to pay for college and putting it in games of chance and losing, when the son found out that his parents found out, he couldn't handle the disappointment he caused his parents and committed suicide

However, parents will always be parents that will accept the mistakes of their son and eventually get to trust on him again as long as he will avoid gambling anymore and will just focus on gaining a decent job until he gets to replace all the lost funds. Although this is very shameful for a gambler, but I think in the long run, parents won’t have to trust other people but only their sons or daughters.

Parents today are very different from parents 30 years ago, and it is normal for parents today to not forgive their children and put them in jail for stealing money from them. Nowadays parents think more about themselves

[pinggoki]

There will always be a trust issues once you broke their trust with you and you have to accept that fact because it’s your fault in the first place. What you can do right now is to promise that you wont do the same mistake again and promise to repay it in time, also you have to show that you’ve changes already, and slowly they might trust you again because after all, you are still their son and they still need them to guide you.

You're right about the trust issue part but I have to say something about the part where you promise them not to do it again, that's a contradiction to the first claim, even if you're the most sincere to your promise, you will not be able to gain their full trust again, it takes initiative to be able to at least fix the broken bond between you and your parents, show them that you've changed without promising them anything. The factor of you being their flesh and blood would definitely make things much better and easier but if you're from a western country that doesn't value family ties so much, you might have some problems.

[Solosanz]

His father was wrong because "no one can be trusted in this life except yourself", so if you asked or giving something to other people, never expect it will back to you.

What will I do? I will work hard and pay off all the money I used to gamble, there's no reason to regret and not doing anything, there's no turning back in life. But if my father report me to the police or do other thing to punish me, I won't complain because I know I did stupid thing.