Pains and joy all together looking for way to balance it.

[Loveday422]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

[Uhwuchukwu53]

Op I will state categorically base on how I perceive this your topic that I don't really know what the Oxymoron is pointing to I stand to be corrected pain can't be matched with joy pain if pain and is something anyone don't dream of but seek and run after joy everytime. If you need a balance between the two elements that exists in human such as pain and joy the following is necessary;
1. Identify the courses if pay and that of joy
2. Avoid repeat if any one you dislike has occurred to serve as lesson
3. Don't be too earger on what seem to be unrealistic dream because it's a facilitator of pain
4. Associate and seek daily through knowledge, and people who has gone through the process and achieve it to attain and sustain lasting joy this few steps can give you a balance.

[btc78]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

Are you not going to tell the specific situation? Because it could differ from people to people. I would call these situations bittersweet. It’s hard to try and balance these situations especially depending in what kind of situation it is in the first place but in my opinion bittersweet moments need no balancing. It’s called bittersweet for a reason and will always remain a joyous yet sad occasion.

[boyptc]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

With life experiences, there is joy for every ending of the pain. I'm not sure what kind of pain you're going through.

But remember that it's not always pain that you'll feel. Take time to realize of what you have and be grateful for them, there's joy in it trust me.

[Loveday422]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

With life experiences, there is joy for every ending of the pain. I'm not sure what kind of pain you're going through.

But remember that it's not always pain that you'll feel. Take time to realize of what you have and be grateful for them, there's joy in it trust me.

Sure but the other side which is pain 😩 is eating me up gradually,and I never feel or think of to give up on them at all , balancing it is just what am actually searching for .

[boyptc]

With life experiences, there is joy for every ending of the pain. I'm not sure what kind of pain you're going through.

But remember that it's not always pain that you'll feel. Take time to realize of what you have and be grateful for them, there's joy in it trust me.

Sure but the other side which is pain 😩 is eating me up gradually,and I never feel or think of to give up on them at all , balancing it is just what am actually searching for .

Try to do something else.

Take time to do some fun things to do so you will not feel that pain currently. Pain won't last but I know how it feels when it's there.

That's why you need to do it and try to find it.

[jrrsparkles]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

You may feel the joy after long fought struggle so you may get tears of job but not simultaneously. But you have to balance it whenever it happens and don't be overwhelmed with your emotions which is not good and can collude your decisions which can go wrong too.

Just be humble and accept whatever the consequences for your actions and joy is more of a result than a feeling in my opinion.

[bluebit25]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

Anyway, each person has their own way of feeling about life, but one thing that I realized is that the truth is obscured by factors (happiness, suffering...) but the factors are as well as the method. First let us live fully with what they know about it.

I have come into contact with many different people such as the director of a company, a beggar,... and I all know that they always have their own inner sufferings and happiness in each different life. By the way, I have a story about a life that I think is getting balanced, being a farmer who is free with his family life and doesn't have any compelling demands in society ( watch, car, villa, beautiful girl,...) he chooses everything with the things he has, I see a perfect balance with what he has from money money, health, time, soul,... everything is very light.

[kotajikikox]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

With life experiences, there is joy for every ending of the pain. I'm not sure what kind of pain you're going through.

But remember that it's not always pain that you'll feel. Take time to realize of what you have and be grateful for them, there's joy in it trust me.

Sure but the other side which is pain 😩 is eating me up gradually,and I never feel or think of to give up on them at all , balancing it is just what am actually searching for .

It might be easier said than done but I would tell you to focus on the brighter side. Things might seem hard and all but it would help if you did not focus on everything that is wrong. If you were to do that, you are going to become more miserable and depressed.

Go out go for a walk and find things to be grateful for.

[boyptc]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

With life experiences, there is joy for every ending of the pain. I'm not sure what kind of pain you're going through.

But remember that it's not always pain that you'll feel. Take time to realize of what you have and be grateful for them, there's joy in it trust me.

Sure but the other side which is pain 😩 is eating me up gradually,and I never feel or think of to give up on them at all , balancing it is just what am actually searching for .

It might be easier said than done but I would tell you to focus on the brighter side. Things might seem hard and all but it would help if you did not focus on everything that is wrong. If you were to do that, you are going to become more miserable and depressed.

Go out go for a walk and find things to be grateful for.

I agree about going out for a walk or take sometime to jog.

The sweat that will be released will be beneficial for you OP as you releases also the toxins in your body that are making you feel that pain.

It's a relieving feeling, believe me I've been there and felt that joy when I went out to walk and got my body sweaty.

[rodskee]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

You wanna hear the best example of Balancing JOY and PAIN? here it is


 - Women who is Giving Birth , WHY? because she feels so much pain but beside that pain?
she also feels Joy because she is delivering Her precious child specially those first time to become a mother.
they felt so much Joy and so much Pain together but they can handle those for their child.

[bitterguy28]

This topic remind me of so many things that has happened in the past how can we do it  if someone is in a situation of pain and joy ,all we need is results,but in actually sence pain 😩 is pain and joy is joy but they came together how can one balance the situations.

You may feel the joy after long fought struggle so you may get tears of job but not simultaneously. But you have to balance it whenever it happens and don't be overwhelmed with your emotions which is not good and can collude your decisions which can go wrong too.

everything that is over will not bring us better result , so  yeah overwhelming sometimes gives negative result as well.but  Joy and Pain is part of living because there will be no Joy if there is no pain and vise versa .

Just be humble and accept whatever the consequences for your actions and joy is more of a result than a feeling in my opinion.

when we decide for something then we must accept the outcome , life is full of surprises and risks but after every pain there must be a joyful return
so better live with it or else never try at all.