You can't please everybody

[philipabaku]

For this life I don understand say human beings dey difficult to connect to, to amuse, to even convince. Even despite how hard you try dey can never give you the credit you deserve irrespective of your effort and hard work.

[nelson4lov]

For this life I don understand say human beings dey difficult to connect to, to amuse, to even convince. Even despite how hard you try dey can never give you the credit you deserve irrespective of your effort and hard work.

Exactly as the title says, you can't please everyone. Despite our best efforts, some people are going to always feel left out  or sidelined. I used to try very hard at pleasing people until I didn't and then, I was tagged a bad person. It reminds me of a popular phrase that people use in recent times — "99 good + 1 bad == bad person". In hindsight, I'm of the opinion that you could do a lot of good if you're in a position to do so and don't need to inconvenience yourself to do it because at the end of the day, it's not everyone that will appreciate all the good we do.

TLDR: Don't let ungrateful humans stop you from doing good when you're in a good/better position to do so.

[Judith87403]

For this life I don understand say human beings dey difficult to connect to, to amuse, to even convince. Even despite how hard you try dey can never give you the credit you deserve irrespective of your effort and hard work.

Op, na so e be oo, human dey very hard to please  even if you do 99 percent of something good to them, that 1 wey you no go do, go dey like that 99 good wey you been don do for them i don't know if i will say that one na the nature or characteristics of human.
Well, truth be told even you wey do this thread dey among, just for example now, ona dey 3 for house and e come happen say na you be second born and ona first born never to hold money, him come try train you from secondary till you come graduate from University so him no come dey too show you love again, him come enter ona last born side come dey train that one they bread am well base on say him money don long, no how no how you must talk, you go tell people say your bro no dey give you anything again, you fit talk say him don join Ogboni (cult) self.

[Abbatty]

For this life I don understand say human beings dey difficult to connect to, to amuse, to even convince. Even despite how hard you try dey can never give you the credit you deserve irrespective of your effort and hard work.

Normally for this life you can’t please everybody, just the way everybody no fit please you. No be say them get problem or you get problem na just how God create us be that. You sef just reason am, well all na human beings but no be the food wey I like you sef go like. Me like this no like swallow but some people no fit go a day without eating swallow.
This topic I think is irrelevant here though, because it nothing related to bitcoin, next time create a thread that is related to bitcoin here or you can as well create something like this in the Off-Topic. Since you are a newbie I bet you haven’t really find your way around the forum yet so I urge you to read more in the forum than creating threads already, also try and engage more int the beginners and help sector.

[Abdulzuruku01]

One thing you need to understand about people is that no matter the way they respect and praise you, it is just because of what they are benefiting from you, so put that in the back of your mind any day that whatever benefits from you finish, they will definitely leave you. That is why you should always do the best you can  for them, because even though you will kill yourself for some people, they will still not see it. There is a saying that says, “Make someone smile, but don’t forget that you are also someone,” so anytime you are trying to help someone, it should be limited so that you will not come and regret helping them.
 
That is the main reason why many people don't like wasting their effort on others, and most of the time we usually view it like those that don't like helping are the wicked ones, but that is not how it is they also have their own reasons for believing that anything you see in life has its own reasons. 

I completely agree with you on this. Helping others should be limited in my opinion too, because few people will truly be able to appreciate your efforts no matter how hard you try. People are dynamic, once they are no longer getting anything from you, they will stop praising you and stop talking about you because they realise what you are giving them isn't there anymore. For this reason, you should put your family first in everything you do. Even if life gets difficult, they will be the people you turn to, though I know that family members also have problems of their own, but no matter what, not everyone will turn back to you. We should remember that life is not forever guarantee, because family is what we will leave our children with when we pass away.

Let me share with you the scenario of a man I know in my area i learned from his story. He is a banker, and anytime you visit his home, you will notice that he has changed many people's lives through his kindness. However, he has problems to find time for his family, including his own mother. You know banks with their problems. The man lost his job later, and as a result, no one continued to come to his house because they were no longer benefiting from him. the man suffered a stroke, and the only people who stood by him were his family members, Which made me wonder how ashamed he would feel for what he did, and I believe that would cause him to go into a deep desperation.
As you just said, helping people right now should be limited to prevent regrets.

[Berry2d]

It is very difficult for some people to understand the fact that it's not possible to please everybody. Only few people can get this concept right. So many people believed today that as long as some have the capacity of helping people that it is easy for the help to get across to everyone. Some people today believe that as long as help or assistance have not gotten to them that there is no efforts made by people that have the capacity to help have make in the society. Even when the relation and relative of this kind of person have been giving assistance to he or she still believes that nothing have been done until it get to him. Please the earlier we understand that is not easy to please everybody the better for us to avoid unnecessary bad attention towards our fellow individual.

[Cityhunter34]

For this life I don understand say human beings dey difficult to connect to, to amuse, to even convince. Even despite how hard you try dey can never give you the credit you deserve irrespective of your effort and hard work.

Normally for this life you can’t please everybody, just the way everybody no fit please you. No be say them get problem or you get problem na just how God create us be that. You sef just reason am, well all na human beings but no be the food wey I like you sef go like. Me like this no like swallow but some people no fit go a day without eating swallow.
This topic I think is irrelevant here though, because it nothing related to bitcoin, next time create a thread that is related to bitcoin here or you can as well create something like this in the Off-Topic. Since you are a newbie I bet you haven’t really find your way around the forum yet so I urge you to read more in the forum than creating threads already, also try and engage more int the beginners and help sector.

Absolutely right, as a newbie creating irrelevant topic we going to do you no good in this forum it will be better for you as a newbie to always do more of reading old topics from our senior members and so try as much as possible to ingage your self the beginners and help, because been active in the beginners and help we make you to understand some many things about Bitcoin.

[Uhwuchukwu53]

For this life I don understand say human beings dey difficult to connect to, to amuse, to even convince. Even despite how hard you try dey can never give you the credit you deserve irrespective of your effort and hard work.

Normally for this life you can’t please everybody, just the way everybody no fit please you. No be say them get problem or you get problem na just how God create us be that. You sef just reason am, well all na human beings but no be the food wey I like you sef go like. Me like this no like swallow but some people no fit go a day without eating swallow.
This topic I think is irrelevant here though, because it nothing related to bitcoin, next time create a thread that is related to bitcoin here or you can as well create something like this in the Off-Topic. Since you are a newbie I bet you haven’t really find your way around the forum yet so I urge you to read more in the forum than creating threads already, also try and engage more int the beginners and help sector.

Absolutely right, as a newbie creating irrelevant topic we going to do you no good in this forum it will be better for you as a newbie to always do more of reading old topics from our senior members and so try as much as possible to ingage your self the beginners and help, because been active in the beginners and help we make you to understand some many things about Bitcoin.

That is why most time many who they correct on how they are creating topic felt they hate them but they don't know that there is what is required , I always advice that creating of topic is not mandatory or a tool for reward you can comment others people post and still learn and grow in the forum making haste to create topic that has nothing to learn is like wasting of time as ni reward will be accredited instead endanger your account. It's a natural thing with need of advisers or clavoyant personality to know that no body will satisfy human being as their want is insatiable .

[Pressurizedem]

Omoh,for the life,e no really matter how many person's u please,you only gat to be youself cus e no easy to stand as a man.If you dey do boy boy give person,you gat think of your own self too because u no go remain for the boy boy Forever.As long as you get sense,and u be person wey dey like to grow,just make say u do the things wey u suppose do because if you no doam,e go surely choke you when the time don reach.
Always know say u no fit do pass yourself,you no fit serve everybody,everybody dey entitled to their own opinion about you,do the one you go fit do,and leave the rest to baba God.

[Bitcoinclark]

To please everybody is not easily because we have different sets of person in terms of their life style.you can only please with that set of person that has the same life style with you.we also have a natural hatred,even if you do everything that he/she likes.he /she will not be happy with it.