Ever Hated someone because he/she win too much, when you are constantly losing?

[STT]

Seems a natural reaction to be jealous but I mostly hope the friend repaid the money they were given at least.  Surely its better to be cursed with a rich friend then a poor one, they can buy drinks and the trip home every time where as losing means you might walk.

Copying or learning in some way from their bets surely there is some valid path there though I would not bet much while learning by copying as its not ideal, I sympathise as I doubt it will be so easy.

   There is the classic example of just copying the numbers bet on a roulette wheel but its an illusion that anyone could know  perfectly.  I expect they are just managing risk in some way that helps them retain their winnings.

[KTChampions]

A made-up topic to attract likes/attention. I doubt that such a situation can arise in reality and continue for a long time. If his friend is so lucky, then why haven't they become high rollers and made a lot of money? If you believe the post, then in a couple (where the loser works as a lucky amulet) they can win all the time. I think this is either a completely made up story or greatly exaggerated.

[erep]

A made-up topic to attract likes/attention. I doubt that such a situation can arise in reality and continue for a long time. If his friend is so lucky, then why haven't they become high rollers and made a lot of money? If you believe the post, then in a couple (where the loser works as a lucky amulet) they can win all the time. I think this is either a completely made up story or greatly exaggerated.

Any gambler will not be able to achieve continuous winnings unless he has the luck of winning several high bets so that he makes a profit, I am sure it will be impossible to win continuously at online casinos, even physical casinos are also not very impossible. I also assume the story above is too exaggerated to attract reader interaction because in real conditions no gambler can achieve that luck.

However, the story is just a post on social media but not a reliable news source, so don't trust him completely if he doesn't publish the winning history of his gambling account.

[shivansps]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.



- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

It's very simple, he wants it himself. He wants to visit gambling establishments and play there for money next to this friend. Otherwise why do it? I don’t understand how you can do something if something doesn’t suit you? If this person does not want to go with this friend, then simply not go there with him or not go at all. What's the question? If he believes that he is his talisman, then let him pay a percentage of the winnings, I will tell you that by some mystical accident his friend will suddenly stop winning and the need to go to the gambling establishment will stop

[mr_random]

Being jealous is not ok for a mentally healthy person, just think of it as a lucky winning series that may happen to you one day too. Learning from a friend and understanding his betting principles also can increase your winning chance, so better stick to the plan that can make both of you rich in the future. Everything is possible in gambling, we just have to learn how to play with the odds and control our emotions. Just my 2 cents.

[serjent05]

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will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend?

If we are having fun why not.  I will continue to accompany my friend if he asked me to go with him in a casino establishment. How much I am losing is dependent on me since it was I who decides whether I will play or not.

And continue to lose your money?

Losing money is my fault since my friend only asked me to go with him and does not tell me to gamble my money away.  I think this is dependent on how I control the urge of gambling in me.  So for me I can avoid this issue while enjoying and be happy with the winnings of my friend.

- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him?

Why not, if I do not feel like going no one can force me.  It is my decision and only me can decide whether I go with my friend or not.

How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

I never envy my friend's success, in fact, I am happy for him so I believe there won't come a time that I won't be happy about my friend winning his gambling engagement.

Being jealous is not ok for a mentally healthy person, just think of it as a lucky winning series that may happen to you one day too. Learning from a friend and understanding his betting principles also can increase your winning chance, so better stick to the plan that can make both of you rich in the future. Everything is possible in gambling, we just have to learn how to play with the odds and control our emotions. Just my 2 cents.

I believe the reaction of the person on @OP's example is the real character of that person.  The person is selfish and envious of others' success.  The person put the blame for him losing in gambling on his friend when he has all the authority over his gambling activities.  If that person don't want to lose big amount of money he should stop gambling or control his gambling bankroll amount at least.

[Doan9269]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.



- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

Its only a jealous person that will see his friend winning and be angry about it, we have to also consider ourself if we are in his shoe and others were angry about our success, we have to support and encourage each other instead because in so doing, ours might be around the corner as well, life is turn by turn and we shouldn't get jealous for seeing our friends winning while we are losing, there might be a secret behind the pattern they are using in which we don't, instead we should seek their opinion and support maybe we could also be more closer to winning or wait for our time to come.

[carlfebz2]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

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- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

If you are someone who do get easily jealous on things around on which you are really that showing your true color and you do give out more importance with money in compared into the relation you do have with your friend and since he/she's winning that much and you aren't then you do really start out on making up some gaps just because you cant really just that accept such condition or situation.

If you are someone whose really that whose really that greedy type of person then you would really be that trying out to cut ties or would really be avoiding someone just because you cant really just
that bare up that jealousy that you are really that feeling on. Actually it would really be that understandable since we are just having those questions in mind but it would really be having no sense
that you would really be just that almost cursing someone because you are really that cant just be able to make yourself that same as lucky as he/she is. lol

[darkangel11]

A made-up topic to attract likes/attention. I doubt that such a situation can arise in reality and continue for a long time. If his friend is so lucky, then why haven't they become high rollers and made a lot of money? If you believe the post, then in a couple (where the loser works as a lucky amulet) they can win all the time. I think this is either a completely made up story or greatly exaggerated.

It could be made up, but it also could be real. I've seen strange things in my life and this wouldn't be the strangest.
What the guy who loses feels is just good old envy. The same envy you feel when you and your friend like the same girl and you feel like you're better than him, more attractive, with a better job and stuff and she chooses him. Of course you'll feel bad about it. There's a simple fix to this. Stop going to the casino with him if you know how it ends every time. I don't get why the author punishes himself by continuing to do the activity that leads him to loss and regret.

[Fortify]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

This doesn't sound like a bad person, just someone with an extremely distorted view on casinos and most likely the actual money their friend is managing to haul in. There is a slight hint of jealous and envy in there, but ultimately it comes back to greed - nothing is forcing them to play with money that they insist they keep losing. They could just accompany their friend and leave their wallet at home, yet they always seem to think they can beat the house. The reality is that this winning streak they claim their friend is on is unlikely to last forever, they may win 3 times, 5 times or 10 times in gambling sessions but the pendulum eventually swings the other way into losses unless they are playing genuine skill driven games where they can get an advantage, usually over other players and not the house.

[Mahanton]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

This doesn't sound like a bad person, just someone with an extremely distorted view on casinos and most likely the actual money their friend is managing to haul in. There is a slight hint of jealous and envy in there, but ultimately it comes back to greed - nothing is forcing them to play with money that they insist they keep losing. They could just accompany their friend and leave their wallet at home, yet they always seem to think they can beat the house. The reality is that this winning streak they claim their friend is on is unlikely to last forever, they may win 3 times, 5 times or 10 times in gambling sessions but the pendulum eventually swings the other way into losses unless they are playing genuine skill driven games where they can get an advantage, usually over other players and not the house.

If you are someone whose really that been that playing in together with your friend on the same time and moment but sees up that he's that winning more than you on which you would be having those questions on mind
on how the hell it did happen that he's that been winning or raking up profits while you are really that losing tons of money on which it would really be raising up those kind of questions on which it would really be just that a normal reaction to have since we are just humans and we would be making out those kind questions into our mind on whats the difference between you an him? If you are someone which a type of person who do easily
get moved on and do accepts on whatever the results that gambling could give then you wont really be having those kind of approach in the first place.

Losing could really be that something that will put you into such frustration on which it would really be leading up with those questioning on which its normal but having that excessive
approach on which it do ends up that you do avoid him already because of extreme jealous then this is where issues do begin.

[livingfree]

When hates get in, you're going to have more problem to yourself. The hate will circulate not just to your mind but to your surroundings too.

That guy hates his best friend for being lucky instead of showing support and being happy for him. Maybe he wants to get some chunk and ask for some giveaway thinking that he was the lucky charm.

No, he ain't lucky charm for that guy but that guy clearly tells that he's got some bad moments in the past and that's why fate is deciding to give him better rounds.

[Mr.right85]

Hate is such a strong word, I wouldn’t want to use it but then, should your friend be winning or having his best time while gambling, I think that’s something you should be proud of and happy about.

Got the record, I gamble and I’ve had to go gamble in a physical bookie with some friends a couple of times. I’ve got this one friend from back in the day, he really had good predictions when it came to virtual EPL/Liga gamblings. In matter of a minute, the Gameweek is turned over and his got his wins.

Sure I tried a couple of times and not just on one accession but severally and each time, I find myself loosing over and over. It was agreeable for me to understand that, this wasn’t my niche and I should rather stick to what am more familiar with and that is, the actual bookies where I can rate the players and team. Not just some virtual stuff.

Instead of hating or having some jealous attitude towards your friend, find a niche your good at and stick to it. It would serve you better.

[Sandra_hakeem]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?

I don't have any reasons to put up an envy simply because they're winning all the time and I'm losing. Always understand that you're a gambler; it's like staying in a jungle and, the only way to survive is to HUNT. 75% of hunts end in failure, but you could win big by catching up with a buffalo or bison on a good days. Does that really mean that everyone makes it big on the same trail - NO.

- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

it could be for any other reason - maybe to minimize my staking power and reduce the frequency in which I gamble, but certainly not because he's on his winning spree.

[GeorgeJohn]

Don't we know that not everyone who comes around you and smiles with you is your friend, it might be your friend physically but in spirit is your hater, so as a human being we need to know how we share our progress to people especially when we have much way of achieving success, what OP narrated here happens and I will use myself as example, people who feed and dash money will be hating you but you will not know except they show their ways to you, so from my ways of understanding the procedures of gambling we should know that gambling is an opportunity and whosoever that wins gambling let us not have a grudges in mind base on it success, even some of us done it to hate someone because it has been selected in signature before them, so what happens in gambling and also in business also happens everywhere.

[Assface16678]

Well, it looks like the person who posted that just feel insecure and feel envy of his friend, its normal especially if his friend is actually winning more than he do, and it will be more extreme if that friend is actually flexing to him, maybe thr intention of the friend is not to brag or anything, its just that the one who posted is taking in wrongly and feeling that way because of the frustration when it comes to gambling, I think in his mind he is questioning why his friend is getting a win while he is not, I think the poster should talk to his friend, or be distance if he want to stay friend with his friend, because for sure there will be a point that their relationship might be affected because one is being envy and insecure. That will not be a healthy relationship between friends anymore.

[SatoPrincess]

I think it is perfect to feel some degree of jealousy in such situation. Friends  are usually competitive with each other in subtle ways, it’s important that you are able to differentiate between positive and negative envy. Unhealthy competition is no good for any friendship. I think you should learn to tell your friend ‘No’. Would you put your hand in fire just because your friend asked? So when next he asks you to accompany him to a casino, you should put yourself first and tell him no.

[Wexnident]

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Holy, can I be his friend? Even just a day would do.

Kidding aside, I'd probably continue. I'm not THAT personally affected by them winning and me losing, I guess I'd be pissed by the end of the day but the next day I'd probably be the first one to invite him over if I'm in the mood for playing lol. Sides it's probably a biased take? I'd say it's not that he loses all the time just that he doesn't win as often as his friend which is different. He still wins, but not as much.

And if he's really pissed at what's happening, just straight up tell him. Bottling it up like that can make things turn sour. Especially in this case where gambling is involved, it'd be much better to talk about it when minds are clear than when your dopamine is high due to gambling.

[Pandorak]

it is kinda weird when feeling jealous to someone that has lucky in gambling, because it is all about luckiness. Basically, all kind of gambling is about luck. I ever got that similar situation, and i never felt that bad feeling of the jealous, i just feel so angry at my bad luck. But then, i keep my limitation on gambling, and never think to revenge or willing to get more bankroll than my friend, because i know that it will be worst if i continue to play.

So the point is, never feel so jealous to someone's luck, because it will be bad for our mentality as a gambler, and it just make ourself get into the deep. So, be wise and be a responsible gambler.

[junder]

A made-up topic to attract likes/attention. I doubt that such a situation can arise in reality and continue for a long time. If his friend is so lucky, then why haven't they become high rollers and made a lot of money? If you believe the post, then in a couple (where the loser works as a lucky amulet) they can win all the time. I think this is either a completely made up story or greatly exaggerated.

Any gambler will not be able to achieve continuous winnings unless he has the luck of winning several high bets so that he makes a profit, I am sure it will be impossible to win continuously at online casinos, even physical casinos are also not very impossible. I also assume the story above is too exaggerated to attract reader interaction because in real conditions no gambler can achieve that luck.

However, the story is just a post on social media but not a reliable news source, so don't trust him completely if he doesn't publish the winning history of his gambling account.

It is indeed very unlikely that you will be able to win continuously at gambling, because winning based on luck is indeed difficult to obtain, especially since gambling is a business whose aim is to reap profits from the large number of people who gamble. It is impossible to be lucky continuously, because luck will only happen occasionally. With those who can win, perhaps the maximum is two or three wins in a row. This applies not only to online gambling, physical gambling also means winning is based on luck.

discussing the title I myself have experienced this. where I play online gambling with my friends at the same time, sometimes I lose and my friends win, it doesn't make me hate it but rather just annoyed. Moreover, hating a friend who wins won't change anything, apart from that I think losing has become a normal thing that happens in gambling, if I lose, that means it's not time for me to just get lucky because when it's time for luck to be on my side then you can win.