Look if you go here
https://mempool.jhoenicke.de/#BTC,4d,countit tells you current tx by sats this is about 5 minutes off which is within reason as it is 2-6 minutes slow on average. it reads 3:29 my post is 3:34
it shows 117,000 tx at 3 sats which mean that won't clear
it shows 2,348 tx at 4 sats which means it could clear with a few quick blocks
it shows. 1,474 tx at 5 sats which is likely to clear in 2-3 blocks
it shows 1,154 tx at 6 sats which is likely to clear in 1-2 blocks
it shows 948 tx at 7 sats which is likely to clear next block
all of the above you can see below and mentally place your best guess.
it pretty fucking easy to do it the way I am saying.
If I was doing an important send I would spend 7.15 sats byte and feel pretty safe
If I was doing a critical time based send I would spend 9.15 sats per byte and not worry at all
If I was consolidating my own wallets where time is unimportant I would do 4.46 sats
I have more than one wallet:
big
medium
small
So consolidating them is not time based as I only do 1 at a time. and I almost never consolidate or add to the big wallet.
I hope this helps