If you have experienced failure in your relationship with people that it is very difficult to let go is never enough reason the classify all relationship as fuckup as what failed you may not fail Mr b but may become an advantage and vice versa. Some fails out of luck that makes them believe every relationship they get involved in always ends disastrous without leaving a gap for rebuilding in the future while others are favoured and blessed in relationship, is not enough reason to give up on relationship as one faithful day it can fall to your favour. We are the reasons behind others predicament, at times we are carried away by unimaginable thought that gives us unforgettable memories that stands as a scar in the life of others, so let us try to know when we are right or wrong to others as it's a good practice
You honestly sound like a truly insufferable piece of shit who is unwilling to admit that humans are worthless shit creatures that will all go to hell and be sexually abused by the demons there.
Regards,
-Joseph Van Name Ph.D.