Every action, sometimes, doesn't require an opposite reaction.

[Sandra_hakeem]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

[Orpichukwu]

What do you expect from someone who has lost control of how much they can spend on gambling and when they should stop gambling due to how much they have lost, but they will continue gambling until they have nothing left with them? Such people can react to anything because they don't even have self-control.
 
Since that guy paid for his bailout and has spent some time behind bars, at least next time he will be cautious of how he will react to certain things, knowing fully well that there will be a consequence if he misbehaves.

[Hispo]

It is easy to judge that sort of people and call them out for their behavior, that it is true. Though, when I find someone in that state I try to think to myself "What could have led that person to show such outrage?". It could not only be about the money, itself the money lost probably was the straw that broke the camel's back, he went to the betting places seeking for anything positive to happen to him so he could forget about his family problems, his money problems and the stress from work. The opposite happened and he could not help but to destroy other's property as medium to release the anger.
Hopefully, He has learnt the lesson and it won't occur to him again, learning to control his anger properly.

Gambling and betting itself does not turn people into destructive beings by itself, but it can indeed accelerate the process.

[Dewi Aries]

That is one of the reasons why self-control and emotions are very important and must be possessed by gamblers, and that is also the reason why self-acceptance regarding risk must be a mandatory ability for a gambler, because if not then of course emotions will never be able to be contained which of course is very possible for a gambler to vent their emotions on whatever they find or whatever is in front of them and ruin it.

Basically, no matter what, we will never be able to refuse defeat, because it will always be part of the game, so that's why I say that it is better for us to focus on self-acceptance regarding risk, or what I mean is trying not to be a loser by accepting defeat, the last is to control your gambling activities and don't let yourself be controlled by gambling.

[Frankolala]

Who knows if he has gambled with the money for an important purpose and he cannot control himself after losing the funds because what he thought about doubling his money became the opposite.

I have seen gamblers after a big loss almost started fighting with the betshop attendant that it was his bad luck that made him lost the bet. One thing is that we should try to do when gambling is to control our emotion to avoid being aggressive. Or just gamble with the amount of money that you can afford to lose.

[Alphakilo]

I like how it ends.

An uncontrolled anger has gotten many people in trouble which they regret for long. The person in the story should be recommended for an anger management class.

And to the shop owner, they should put up a warning in the shop wall that, whoever damages any of the property out of anger of a loss or anything will be made to pay for it.

[iv4n]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!

Don't let a win get to your head or a loss to your heart!

I think many of us here said the same thing many times, in one form or another... and I think we should repeat that as often as we can, because of the old players who didn't learn, and more importantly for the new players that are starting their gambling journey.

In gambling we win & lose all the time, gambling life is full of ups and downs. We need to keep our heads cool and try not to cross some limits (overspending), that never end up well. I learned that on my skin, like many other experienced gamblers... but if our discussions can save at least one person from getting in that situation it's good, we did something good at least.

[Juse14]

To become a tyrant after losing everything, especially in the context of gambling, represents an unhealthy and unproductive emotional response. True, one can win or lose when gambling; however, it is essential to keep in mind that it is a chance that is involved and not certainty. Loss of self-control and allowing emotions to dictate will only serve to exacerbate matters and will not resolve the issue.

The smashing of property or scapegoating only shows an inability to accept the reality of the game. Such actions are self-injurious in that they harm not only the actor but also those around him, and potentially they may give rise to still more dire results.

On the other hand, one should come to realize that gambling should be considered just a source of entertainment and not business. Setting out on what one expects and feels, as well as ensuring one plays within limits, is the key to effective maintenance which bars destructive behavior. Sensible people will take being a loser in stride and use it as a learning experience without hurting themselves or anyone else in the process.

[uneng]

Well, anger comes with a price. Besides losing the bet, the gambler also has to replace the item he broke and to pass some time in jail. For every action there is a reaction, and individuals must be aware about this basic fact before losing control over themselves. It's important that every person develops and trains emotional intelligence to cope with stressing and aversive situations more efficiently, without causing prejudice for themselves, people around or the environment where they are inserted.

Regards the story mentioned on this thread, we can only hope the gambler learned the lesson the hard way by being punished accordingly, so he won't repeat the same mistakes in the future again. Meanwhile, that his story can also be useful for another grumpy gamblers to not let things get out of control like that.

[adultcrypto]

"I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

So many people ignore the first rule of gambling which is "never gamble with what you cannot afford to lose". Those who ignore this always pay heavy emotional price for it because that is the fastest way to sacrifice peace of mind and happiness. I have seen the character above many times in betting outlets, you will always see someone that have lost money he cannot afford to lose and from the character and reaction to issues, it will become obvious. A lot of gamblers even make these rules but keeping them is the major problem. This made me realize there are people that will always see gambling as bad even when it is obvious that it is from their mistakes they are not making progress in gambling.

[khiholangkang]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

What I see from this case is that a person who does such things as to damage his own property is the result of using money that he cannot lose in gambling.

So the response when he lost was frustrated with what had happened, wanting to get his money back but it was all gone, so he from his defeat blamed the casino for not being fair to him and continuing to give him defeat.

Logically speaking, there will be no person who is very upset without him losing something in him at gambling, even though a person knows that the casino he uses is unfair but if he uses small money he will not explode his emotions.

[Rruchi man]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

Some of the frustration that people let out after losing a bet comes not only from the bet they lost but also from the societal pressure that they feel from the economic hardship around them. Many people are really frustrated, and they take gambling as their way out of this frustration. Most of them use gambling as a way out of this frustration, and when they lose, they become prone to letting out their emotions.

If you're a casino owner or owner of a gambling house, you have to understand that these kinds of people who let their emotions get the better of them will always exist and come to your casino or gambling place to gamble, and you should have adequate security to ensure that these individuals do not become a nuisance to other customers in the building and also so they do not destroy your property.

[AmoreJaz]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

Some of the frustration that people let out after losing a bet comes not only from the bet they lost but also from the societal pressure that they feel from the economic hardship around them. Many people are really frustrated, and they take gambling as their way out of this frustration. Most of them use gambling as a way out of this frustration, and when they lose, they become prone to letting out their emotions.

If you're a casino owner or owner of a gambling house, you have to understand that these kinds of people who let their emotions get the better of them will always exist and come to your casino or gambling place to gamble, and you should have adequate security to ensure that these individuals do not become a nuisance to other customers in the building and also so they do not destroy your property.

This is why most casinos or gambling shops have their own bouncers to contain potential trouble inside the premises. Also, make sure your police or emergency hotline numbers are visible within the area. You'll never know what may possibly happen within your operations or area of jurisdiction.

This kind of trouble will always happen and so putting up your security in place is advisable. Gamblers have their own way of reacting on their losses as well as how they celebrate their winnings.

[Weawant]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

Well this is one of the reasons we always talk about people trying to keep their emotions under control because they tend to be very violent when they loose so much money, gambling with an amount gamblers can be able to loose without turning violent is what is expected of them and if I were to be the owner of the casino, trust me i will do same, he's going to pay for every damage caused regardless of the fact that he's lost a lot already, that wouldn't be enough reasons to destroy anything in thw casino.

[Wiwo]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

No one can stop this, being overly angry when you lose money is a characteristic that most gamblers exhibit a d this is as a result of too much expectancy from them, I dont think anything will change in this direction, just as gambling addiction is hard to get eliminated from gambling same way is anger when there be lose.

So let not be surprise when we see some individuals in the casino, who suddenly becomes uncontrollable due to excess loses that they could no longer bear, but in all, the best form of protection to prevent this thing from happening is gambling with only an amount you can afford to lose and avoid greed or chasing loses.

[Casdinyard]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

When you're already stressed, frustrated, and on the edge of breaking down sometimes the most apt answer is just letting it all out at once. Not that it's the right thing to do, cause who they fuck wants everyone to just smack everything when they're mad and frustrated, that's a stupid thing first and foremost. What I mean here is pretty much the unjust justification of why people do shit like that all the time. In their heads they already lost everything, what more would a few hundred dollars more and possible case in the face of losing their money and dignity? It's just how it is.

What I would suggest people who do this improve upon is how they carry themselves. Problems are real and they're a bitch might I add, but it's no reason to stoop down to your baser instincts and end up being destructive pieces of piss.

[Accardo]

It baffles me how these angry players do not care about the consequences of their actions. A few days ago, I saw a mob lynching a player who may have played more than he could pay for. It's terrible how losses make gamblers forget the repercussions of their actions. Such ill behavior is seen everywhere, even in casinos, where slot machines get slammed by sad gamblers.

[Slow death]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

I think no one likes to lose. If we look at the faces of people in a football stadium before the game starts and at the end of the game, we will see that the fans of the losing team leave with very sad faces and often leave the stadium crying, but these are people who did not bet money, so they did not lose money. They are not crying because they spent money on tickets. But they are crying because the team they like lost. This feeling of defeat is a feeling that no one wants to have. Even when people are with friends playing football or another sport and it does not involve money, when someone loses in many cases they start to fight.

So if people fight when they lose even without having bet money, imagine when they lose money? They get out of control and can destroy anything that is near them. And unfortunately it is difficult to advise someone who is aggressive to become someone who is calm, patient and understanding. This is a task for psychologists and people don't like to have consultations with psychologists. Fortunately I have my self-control and I look at gambling as entertainment, so I don't get angry and I don't break anything when I lose.

[danherbias07]

Well, if you are losing a lot of money this might really happen.

If a gambler is spending way too much and that money is meant for something it's faster to become emotional whenever he loses. Emotional swings do happen in gambling, especially in casino games like slots. Most of the time it happens during a losing streak which makes a gambler think that the game is unfair which is a fact. There's no such thing as fair in gambling, everything is about the business winning and not the player.
It is how it was created and it will never change because gambling sites or physical casinos are not a charity. They will keep on taking our money and it's better if we realize that before we even start betting.

[Dave1]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

It's obvious that it's out of frustration, I have seen gamblers do that in traditional based casinos, as he slammed the screen of that slot games. I do have friends inside the casino and they said that if you destroyed them you have to paid them in full and most likely you are going to be ban from that casino.

It stick to my mind what my friend told me, and so I will never do that slamming of monitor regardless of my frustrations.

And those slot machines are very expensive, so just imagine if you are just a regular gambler, but out of frustrations you destroyed and then you don't have money to pay? For sure you will get jail time for that.