Every action, sometimes, doesn't require an opposite reaction.

[betswift]

Well, if you are losing a lot of money this might really happen.

If a gambler is spending way too much and that money is meant for something it's faster to become emotional whenever he loses. Emotional swings do happen in gambling, especially in casino games like slots. Most of the time it happens during a losing streak which makes a gambler think that the game is unfair which is a fact. There's no such thing as fair in gambling, everything is about the business winning and not the player.
It is how it was created and it will never change because gambling sites or physical casinos are not a charity. They will keep on taking our money and it's better if we realize that before we even start betting.

Yeah, that's why we should only use the money we are willing to spend on it. That way, it still would be a bit frustrating, but no as much knowing that we spent only the sum we planned out to.

[DaNNy001]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

Winning isn't really nice it comes with a lot of anger and frustration especially if you are left with nothing, I have been in that situation several times so I know what It feels like..first of all people need to understand that no one forced them to fund their account or be in a casino, you made the decision yourself so you should hold yourself accountable and be responsible for your actions.. Making the conscious decision to gamble means that you are ready to lose because the outcome is uncertain...what a lot of gamblers need to learn is emotional discipline

[Sandra_hakeem]

What do you expect from someone who has lost control of how much they can spend on gambling and when they should stop gambling due to how much they have lost, but they will continue gambling until they have nothing left with them?

it's not about someone who has lost control of how he wagers, it's about the gambler's personality - like I said earlier, some people just enjoy being a tyrant and that doesn't sit well with anyone under their ego.

Since that guy paid for his bailout and has spent some time behind bars, at least next time he will be cautious of how he will react to certain things, knowing fully well that there will be a consequence if he misbehaves.

exactly!! Play stupid games, win stupid prices. These bullies don't still wanna quit after they've been taught different lessons...

I do have friends inside the casino and they said that if you destroyed them you have to paid them in full and most likely you are going to be ban from that casino.

he doesn't even have to be banned from the casino... It was already the talk of the small town and, in shame, he sat behind the vehicle and they drove him away in cuffs. He didn't dare to come back.

[Majestic-milf]

 In gambling, you have to understand that there are days when you'd win and some times you lose but sometimes the loss outweighs the winnings and it's kind of frustrating because sometimes you bet with your last money and put all your hopes on it, wishing it will come out good. And to further your frustrations, put of four or five picks, four have played remaining one and that is how hopeful they will want you to be but at the end of the day, that remaining one is the one to cut your slip.
 I don't blame the guy who felt the best way to pour out his frustration is to destroy property but the sad part is he added more debt to his loss.

[lovesmayfamilis]

HA -HA. I remembered my brother. It's just impossible to forget . He was playing in a casino at the monitor, at a very good and expensive monitor that he dreamed of buying for himself 4K and something there...
But then, while he was playing, his wife started calling him to help with something around the house. He answered several times that he would come soon, and then she came to him with a reminder to help, and then there was an explosion. He loses, and his wife is to blame for this... 
Likewise, he hits the mouse on the table; the mouse jumps up and hits the monitor. The monitor is dead.
Emotions and the inability to control yourself in moments when something goes wrong are to blame for everything. Who suffers in the end, except the owner?
There was a good lesson that was given to my brother: if you sit down to gamble, be able to control yourself and be prepared for the unexpected.

[betswift]

HA -HA. I remembered my brother. It's just impossible to forget . He was playing in a casino at the monitor, at a very good and expensive monitor that he dreamed of buying for himself 4K and something there...
But then, while he was playing, his wife started calling him to help with something around the house. He answered several times that he would come soon, and then she came to him with a reminder to help, and then there was an explosion. He loses, and his wife is to blame for this... 
Likewise, he hits the mouse on the table; the mouse jumps up and hits the monitor. The monitor is dead.
Emotions and the inability to control yourself in moments when something goes wrong are to blame for everything. Who suffers in the end, except the owner?
There was a good lesson that was given to my brother: if you sit down to gamble, be able to control yourself and be prepared for the unexpected.

That's a very good and hard-to-forget lesson. I hope his wife got it too

[coin-investor]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them.

We are just human, and emotions play a big factor when we are gambling; what makes gambling addictive is the enhanced excitement; we sometimes forget who we are and where we are when the emotions are too high, especially when the winning or losing amount is too high.

We cannot blame these people as long as they are responsible for any damage they incur when the emotion is too high and as long as they are not physically hurting anyone.

[Wexnident]

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Hey, emotions run high in both ways, whether you're winning or losing. Now I wouldn't say they're not to blame for their actions, ofc they're to be blamed. Just that such actions, frustrations, and whatnot is pretty normal. Story ends well in your sample story op though since he still paid for the monitor. I myself have sometimes let emotions run wild. Usually my fix is to just go outside and scream my voice out. Definitely would recommend it. Or if you have money, buy a punching bag and some gloves. Definitely helps.

[Dewi Aries]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

Winning isn't really nice it comes with a lot of anger and frustration especially if you are left with nothing, I have been in that situation several times so I know what It feels like..first of all people need to understand that no one forced them to fund their account or be in a casino, you made the decision yourself so you should hold yourself accountable and be responsible for your actions.. Making the conscious decision to gamble means that you are ready to lose because the outcome is uncertain...what a lot of gamblers need to learn is emotional discipline

Yes and also victory is not an easy result to achieve, a gambler must go through a lot of tension and frustration in the gambling process before they finally achieve victory, so I think we should appreciate the luck that we managed to get compared to applying greed or compared to pursuing something bigger, because it's the same as you repeating everything with a 50-50 chance of winning again or losing, so this is why we always suggest it's better to cash out at the right time before everything ends in regret.

And yes what you said is true, that no one including the casino tells or even forces us to always gamble, all decisions are in our hands and those decisions are made of our own will, so make sure that you don't end up being a loser who only wants to win but is not ready to lose, we need to understand that losing is part of the game of probability.

[rahmad2nd]

interesting, is there no other expression than choosing the word "tyrant" associated with gambling. responding to the OP's post, we would certainly regret such things, especially if it was done by people close to us or even ourselves. but what is certain is that psychologically humans are vulnerable creatures and tend to be contaminated by feelings that often result in loss of control. excessive frustration usually goes through several phases or series that are the background. usually, someone experiences an unpleasant defeat. for example, maybe in a certain period of time someone has lost a lot of money on their gambling. when losing for the umpteenth time, he cannot control his angry emotions which have an impact on actions that are out of control. a simple example, as you wrote in this post. sometimes, there are phases that make someone or even us out of control. when emotions play a full role, it is not uncommon for reckless actions that end up being detrimental. well, what gamblers need to know and understand is how to avoid doing something beyond our limits. whether it is from our attitude, or the gambling we do.

[Sandra_hakeem]

Likewise, he hits the mouse on the table; the mouse jumps up and hits the monitor. The monitor is dead.
Emotions and the inability to control yourself in moments when something goes wrong are to blame for everything. Who suffers in the end, except the owner?
There was a good lesson that was given to my brother: if you sit down to gamble, be able to control yourself and be prepared for the unexpected.

This is a very hilarious story and, I don't even know how to react to it... Do I begin to pity him for his loss, or do I ROTFL? .
His wife must be a pain in his ass for too long, but then, why did he decide to gamble at that time - just when he knew he had to help her with some house chores? I mean, he's the man and everything depends on how he restructures it.

interesting, is there no other expression than choosing the word "tyrant" associated with gambling. responding to the OP's post, we would certainly regret such things, especially if it was done by people close to us or even ourselves.

Last time I checked, that was my own write-up.. Do you have a problem with that? Tyranny is a collective word for such act - others could even go as far as attacking and burning down the casino house. What do you call that, Mr lexicon?

[lovesmayfamilis]

Likewise, he hits the mouse on the table; the mouse jumps up and hits the monitor. The monitor is dead.
Emotions and the inability to control yourself in moments when something goes wrong are to blame for everything. Who suffers in the end, except the owner?
There was a good lesson that was given to my brother: if you sit down to gamble, be able to control yourself and be prepared for the unexpected.

This is a very hilarious story and, I don't even know how to react to it... Do I begin to pity him for his loss, or do I ROTFL? .
His wife must be a pain in his ass for too long, but then, why did he decide to gamble at that time - just when he knew he had to help her with some house chores? I mean, he's the man and everything depends on how he restructures it.

I also laughed for a long time. All his unrestrained behavior only shows that he is passionate and cannot stop in time. Probably, it is not worth speaking very badly about his wife, since living with such a nervous person who thinks only about games, you can feel sorry for her. But yes, I will not feel sorry for him, and this story always makes me laugh out loud.

[virasog]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

Regarding your statement that whatever happens, we should not lose ourselves is really a good one but it will be much good that people think of the bad and good possible outcomes before putting their money into gambling. If only the gambler know that he can lose the money he is betting with, he will be careful and will only bet which he can afford to lose.
When gamblers play and bet blindly and will only think that they will win, that is where the real problem arises. It is the expectations from gambling that make people gamble with huge money. 

[Sandra_hakeem]

I also laughed for a long time. All his unrestrained behavior only shows that he is passionate and cannot stop in time. Probably, it is not worth speaking very badly about his wife, since living with such a nervous person who thinks only about games, you can feel sorry for her. But yes, I will not feel sorry for him, and this story always makes me laugh out loud.

Yeahhhh,... You're right. I see things from that perspective as well... Cause, what if she made an irrevocable request that he either stops gambling, or forget about making any rites on becoming a couple? That'd definitely be for good and although he may find it offensive, he'd realize how helpful that has been in future.

Do you also agree that he may have had a problem with is anger management?  A bit temperamental but I think, if he's quick to anger, that'll always be the case.

[alani123]

People sometimes can't understand their anger and won't be able to control it until they've been met with dire consequences.

Couple that with a bad gambling addiction and for sure there exist several problems. Whenever someone starts losing and they can't control their temper, there needs to be some intervention otherwise things could spiral out of control in any time. They'll lose some dollars, and instead of stopping they'll double and triple down all until they're really crazy in anger and will hit whatever comes up to them first.

It's a dangerous situation really and these people should honestly just accept any help they can get.

[tread93]

Why do people become tyrants after losing everything in them? First of all, we have a grand rule in gambling -- casinos may not tell you about it but, you gotta know this; In the game, you can either win or lose. Whatever happens, don't lose yourself!
It becomes troubling to see that people allow their emotions to control them. Read the illustration below for further comprehension.

 "I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

Its true that emotions can get the best of us we are only human now, its important to roll with punches and not to let them knock us down onto a lower level of morality. We have to maintain control, even if you have to fake it until you make it. If you lose then there is a lot of added pressure so it is surely difficult. The best thing is to not gamble in the first place perhaps?!

[Davidvictorson]

It's obvious that it's out of frustration, I have seen gamblers do that in traditional based casinos, as he slammed the screen of that slot games. I do have friends inside the casino and they said that if you destroyed them you have to paid them in full and most likely you are going to be ban from that casino.

An outright ban is the perfect reward for such reactive and ill thought behavior. I would not only ban the gambler, I'd extend the ban to his friends or anyone who walked into the casino with him. At least the ban would straighten him up. And if it doesn't then that's his business.

And those slot machines are very expensive, so just imagine if you are just a regular gambler, but out of frustrations you destroyed and then you don't have money to pay? For sure you will get jail time for that.

Even if it were not expensive those behavior will not be permitted on my property. What happens next engage in a fist fight with my staff or fellow gambler?

[Coyster]

If people gambled responsibly, they would be able to effectively keep their emotions in check, outbursts like the one you explained is mostly due to frustrations of losing a lot of money, money that they cannot afford to lose. The fun of gambling is when one gambles responsibly and not when they go broke because they have emptied their pockets to the bookmakers. I love to gamble, but i know my limits and i don't cross them and that's that.

[rachael9385]

"I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

Many people does this things and it's probably because they are frustrated about their losses. I wonder why they don't smash their phones when they gamble online and lose
One main reason for them smashing on the monitor is probably because it's not there's to claim, if not they wouldn't have been banging on them when they lose. However, that's a sigh that the gambler is not a responsible gambler either. If I were the boss of the betting shop I would have arrested the gambler or restricted him from coming to gamble at my place again.

[Antotena]

"I remember when an outer monitor was destroyed in our stall due to excessive slamming on the counter... The slamming was out of frustration and complaints to how unfair the game had been and how much he's lost, just for that day. When he was asked why he had to touch the counter in the first place, he began to rant, telling the boss that he's spend alot and shouldn't be questioned - The culprit paid for his bail and replaced the monitor, that happened within 48 hours"

Physical gambling shop right? You are lucky that one isn't the type that loves to gamble on credit, we have many of them that exhibit those behaviors, they will gamble and when they lose, they wouldn't want to pay and because if the familiarity they do established with the representative of the shop, they are allowed sometimes to gamble on credit but they pay you back by not wanting to pay anytime they lose until you involved law enforcement or the popular police person to get your money.

I have a friend that once had similar encounter with a gambler that broke the screen of their TV where games are been booked, he made sure the guy paid back the money and has now placed "any property broken here must be paid before you leave the vicinity" and since then, all those rubbish behaviors has stopped because you are must pay back whether you lose or win the game you came to play.