In the world of hoping on someone disappointment is paramount.
Haven had several experiences as a confider entrusting my Sporter who promises to stand by me on the journey of making my family proud haven been disappeared, it is sad to say every efforts is hopeless and my family need to find someone else who can make them proud as I am already disappointed so I am also a disappointment.
I see no reasons blaming someone for disappointing when it matters most, yes it is very difficult to forget but have you thought of his present condition when that was done to you. One of the characteristics of a man is his ability to withstand pains without letting the cat out of the bag, at times someone may be willing to help as promised but because of some challenges doing it becomes very difficult because his hands are tied but can never tell you as you can never believe his stories.
I use myself as a case study, I promised to pay the school fees of some poor student on December but on entering January ending I lost my job when I have spent almost all during the festive period and fulfilling that promise becomes very difficult for me. To them it looks as if a have scammed them but to me I know what i am going through