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Solodoski
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October 10, 2025, 02:06:26 PM
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Being nice is a good thing and don't allow people tell you otherwise, but I think you should set boundaries even if you are nice. There should be things you don't take from people and they will just accept you for who you are. You don't allow your being nice affect your personality,  you should be nice, but you should also learn to put people in there place when it's necessary and I assure you that you will be liked for that. I use myself as an example,  I don't want to sing my praises that I am a nice person, but it's just who I am, and I don't let people take advantage of it. I know when to put people in their place and also know when I need to react,  so with that I hardly get issues with people taking advantage of me or disrespecting me unnecessary.

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October 10, 2025, 06:24:51 PM
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I disagree with the statement "Being doesn't really bring disrespect", it is actually being nice and lacking boundaries that brings disrespect. If you are a nice person that has boundaries, people will always give you your regards knowing that there are consequences for them crossing their boundaries.

If boundaries are set,  everyone tend to appreciate your personality knowing that you aren't a stupid person. If you don't set boundaries in your nice personality, people will always take your simplicity for stupidity. Also being Nice comes with discipline and ofcourse discipline is sacrificial.
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October 10, 2025, 10:23:21 PM
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Being a nice person is cool until you get into the hands of an ingrate
Some people may use that advantage to play with your intelligence
So if anyone being nice without boundaries attracts disrespect to his or herself and you gonna look cheap to them and at the tail end you will realize yourself being a fool
You can be a Good Samaritan but with limits
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October 28, 2025, 09:10:32 AM
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I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Especially with the ladies, being playful with every guy out there makes it difficult for them to respect you. Being nice is good but we should learn to apply wisdom and boundaries when it’s necessary. I have actually helped people who decided to pay my kindness with evil in returns and now I find it too difficult to assist people anymore. Not everyone deserves the level of trust you ditch out to them. Now I am very cautious when it comes to assisting people genuinely because of previous lessons learnt.
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November 01, 2025, 11:54:28 PM
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I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.
  Being nice shouldn't be a function of what you espect to get in return as a feedback from the people you are being nice to it should rather be a life style regardless of what any body thinks or does to you in return thats just what I feel .
Life will not always give that which you desire but it doesn't mean you will have to give up on it rather it should be a reason to keep pushing
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