Your life partner is a financial decision too.

[Dareo]

The person with whom you decide to spend your life can either tremendously affect your income status. A good companion would raise you, make good choices and be an all-around good idea, whereas a mismatch may cause issues and may even cause loss. It is amazing how this key consideration is not considered many times when individuals discuss personal finance but as a matter of fact, it has to be included in the discussion. It is important to make the right choices.

[milewilda]

It isn't about women who aren't working it's complicated. If you don't have a partner who's sharing the same ideas you're going to get hurt. If one's saving & the other's spending it's going to end with breaking hearts. You've got to marry after you're sure you've got an understanding.

But the truth is that most women are savers and they like to save, which is the opposite of many men. There are many men who would not think twice about spending money on a bottle of alcohol, but there are many women who think and plan multiple times before spending ten rupees. In this regard, if someone can marry a girl who is a good planner, then the saving spirit that she will have will definitely bring financial prosperity to a man's family.

I think it should be good women and not women generally. When it comes to extravagant spending I think it's not gender specific. There are also women who find it difficult to save and manage finances. Some even create debts for their spouse. Most of this things reveal themselves during courtship but we ignore them thinking it doesn't matter until it begins to choke.

We should not only limit this to women itself but also in men too on which we do know that not all would be that a perfect being on which there would be those lapses and errors when it comes to behaviors and planning.
There's nothing we can do specially on changing them out directly but we can actually have that gradual changes if ever you are that serious with someone or you do really love him/her.
The only thing here is that you do need up to consider into those qualities on which you do really like on a certain person but always think that you arent that also a perfect being. We might be that having
those preferences but you should always reflect out yourself whether you do have lapses too. Always be considerate and the most important of all on which you do need up to adjust on whatever
those lapses in between you and your partner.

[arabspaceship123]

It's important we don't talk about women like they're the problem. We know men aren't worse or better than women they're the same they can make mistakes. You've got to consider every thing before choosing your partner you'll have to decide if you're compatible after talking & sharing your thoughts.

We should not only limit this to women itself but also in men too on which we do know that not all would be that a perfect being on which there would be those lapses and errors when it comes to behaviors and planning.
There's nothing we can do specially on changing them out directly but we can actually have that gradual changes if ever you are that serious with someone or you do really love him/her.
The only thing here is that you do need up to consider into those qualities on which you do really like on a certain person but always think that you arent that also a perfect being. We might be that having
those preferences but you should always reflect out yourself whether you do have lapses too. Always be considerate and the most important of all on which you do need up to adjust on whatever
those lapses in between you and your partner.

[TopT3ns]

It's important we don't talk about women like they're the problem. We know men aren't worse or better than women they're the same they can make mistakes. You've got to consider every thing before choosing your partner you'll have to decide if you're compatible after talking & sharing your thoughts.

Parents cannot judge the quality of a person based on the bad things that he or she tells them, since each relationship has its own history. In my opinion, every couple has its own set of values, personality traits, and prospective plans to achieve some goals. To create the relationship on the healthy grounds we should first establish the truthful and secure dialog. We must be able to discuss what we feel comfortable with as we should be able to discuss what irritates us, without the fear of being judged. It is possible to agree that lots of difficulties come as people are just seeing what is on the surface without knowing the possible cause of behavior of their partner.

When we listen to one another, and ask questions, this is a more fair judgment that we have. It is not only in the first reactions that we can determine that a partner would be a good or bad fit, but also during the process that takes place once we socialize with each other in different circumstances. Relationships mature because there is a need to know the direction of life. It should be kept in mind that there is no such thing like a perfect partner, only the ones who would like to develop together. This means that we will make more concrete decisions of being with someone as we will be operating on complete awareness and having respect to the other person.

[arabspaceship123]

It's love so it isn't like a job interview but 2 ppl have to talk with out being shy. There's feelings & emotions attached so they've got to talk or they won't understand which things are important. If perfect partners aren't real they've got to be open at the beginning of the relationship because they don't want to have misunderstanding later. If their values are the same they'll be happy but they've got to ask questions to know if they're compatible.

[summonerrk]

It's love so it isn't like a job interview but 2 ppl have to talk with out being shy. There's feelings & emotions attached so they've got to talk or they won't understand which things are important. If perfect partners aren't real they've got to be open at the beginning of the relationship because they don't want to have misunderstanding later. If their values are the same they'll be happy but they've got to ask questions to know if they're compatible.

Absolutely right, and that's why good couples are often those that are formed from colleagues who work together at work. Because they both already know each other's characters and know very well the attitude to work that each of them has.
And, of course, they are both informed that their partner can earn a normal income. The only weakness of such a marriage is that if they break up, they will continue to see each other at work.

[Helena Yu]

Absolutely right, and that's why good couples are often those that are formed from colleagues who work together at work. Because they both already know each other's characters and know very well the attitude to work that each of them has.
And, of course, they are both informed that their partner can earn a normal income. The only weakness of such a marriage is that if they break up, they will continue to see each other at work.

There are so many rules about relationship in this generation.

Like, if a woman see a a good man who willing to help people, charismatic etc which make the woman interested. But the woman realize if they both are eating in cheap restaurant, which make she think that man is broke and can't fulfill her needs.

Another example if what you said above, people now avoid to find a spouse in their workplace because for them workplace only for money, not for making friends, getting married etc.

[MRY]

Absolutely right, and that's why good couples are often those that are formed from colleagues who work together at work. Because they both already know each other's characters and know very well the attitude to work that each of them has.
And, of course, they are both informed that their partner can earn a normal income. The only weakness of such a marriage is that if they break up, they will continue to see each other at work.

There are so many rules about relationship in this generation.

Like, if a woman see a a good man who willing to help people, charismatic etc which make the woman interested. But the woman realize if they both are eating in cheap restaurant, which make she think that man is broke and can't fulfill her needs.

Another example if what you said above, people now avoid to find a spouse in their workplace because for them workplace only for money, not for making friends, getting married etc.

Looking closer, one must admit relationships in this generation are also a balance between the two forces, on the one hand, the urge to seek a true connection, and on the other, the need to unconditionally meet sometimes too strict social norms. Another example is the consumption of affordable restaurants which is seen as an indicator of having low income though it is not always so. Others receive money and decide to go to small places since they desire a more comfortable surrounding, or seek to test whether the person they are conversing with cares about the firm they are holding as opposed to the status. In regard to workplace it is understandable that most people would not seek partners at work since they wish to retain professionalism as well as evade issues that may interfere with job performance.

However, in case of natural interaction all possibilities are restricted by anxiety we lose the chance of developing names of organic relationships. I think that the current generation has to be taught how to distinguish between restricting attitudes and protective regulations. A healthy relationship depends on mutual respect, uncensored communication and the ability to look at a person as he or she is on the inside, not the judgment made on things that one has eaten, eaten with whom or even the place of meeting.

[Zackz5000]

The person with whom you decide to spend your life can either tremendously affect your income status. A good companion would raise you, make good choices and be an all-around good idea, whereas a mismatch may cause issues and may even cause loss. It is amazing how this key consideration is not considered many times when individuals discuss personal finance but as a matter of fact, it has to be included in the discussion. It is important to make the right choices.

Getting a better parthen most times comes through relationship most men go beauty even after knowing their parthen can't manage money properly when they were dating. The worst mistake a man will make is getting himself a lazy parthen instead of cooking they prefer buying from local food vendors taking clothes to the laundry to be washed instead of them doing it their self, a good woman will advise her husband to make more of investment instead of using money unnecessarily.

[IjawMan]

The person with whom you decide to spend your life can either tremendously affect your income status. A good companion would raise you, make good choices and be an all-around good idea, whereas a mismatch may cause issues and may even cause loss. It is amazing how this key consideration is not considered many times when individuals discuss personal finance but as a matter of fact, it has to be included in the discussion. It is important to make the right choices.

Our life partners has a role in determining if will love longer with our days on earth or it is going to be short. That's if he or she gives you peace or trouble. Life will be miserable and a living hell with the wrong partner which can affect your health.

Your partner can either make you or mar you. You can move from a trillionaire to a thousand-naira by marry the wrong partner and you can in the same turn from nothing to a billionaire with the right partner that can and is everything ready to assist you with your ideas to fix things together.

Life is too short to marry wrong, let be careful who we choose to spend the rest of our life with, for we deserve all the happiness amd peace we need in a marriage.

[9ja Amaka]

Our life partners has a role in determining if will love longer with our days on earth or it is going to be short. That's if he or she gives you peace or trouble. Life will be miserable and a living hell with the wrong partner which can affect your health.

Do you know why I wont agree with what you said here?  Modern day marriage has shown us another part to freedom. If you feel your partner dont give you peace and your life could be cut short with the way things are going, file for a divorce, simple and short. Every life is precious and we have just one life to live on this earth so we ought to make the best out of it.

No man is forced to leave with one woman for the rest of his life even if there is trouble in the marriage and vice versa. This way I wont tolerate any form of nonsense at all and if my partner cant give me the rest of mind i deserve that might just be the end of us.

[milewilda]

It's important we don't talk about women like they're the problem. We know men aren't worse or better than women they're the same they can make mistakes. You've got to consider every thing before choosing your partner you'll have to decide if you're compatible after talking & sharing your thoughts.

We should not only limit this to women itself but also in men too on which we do know that not all would be that a perfect being on which there would be those lapses and errors when it comes to behaviors and planning.
There's nothing we can do specially on changing them out directly but we can actually have that gradual changes if ever you are that serious with someone or you do really love him/her.
The only thing here is that you do need up to consider into those qualities on which you do really like on a certain person but always think that you arent that also a perfect being. We might be that having
those preferences but you should always reflect out yourself whether you do have lapses too. Always be considerate and the most important of all on which you do need up to adjust on whatever
those lapses in between you and your partner.

This is why we do have that dating period, right? ON this time on which we are that trying out to know more on someone that we do love. Yes, we arent that perfect but its always been recommended that you should be showing yourself on who you are and on what are the behavior and traits we do have rather than to be with someone and trying to make yourself look cool and perfect, but on the time about marriage then this is where things becomes that getting busted and ending up on having those divorces just because the other one didnt expect that he's or she's something like that and there's nothing we can do about it when things got that more messy. Its true that its not good to make out some judgment already specially we arent that knowing each other on which there would be those traits that we arent been able to seen before we can make out some judgment. Also, whom we are to judge? If you dont like him/her then do just simply tell about their traits or what and if you do love the person then you can make out those changes and adjustments along the way. Not all the time on which everything could be resolved out with having that separation or break ups just because you dont like a certain minimal trait on which your partner do have. Its important that you do think up on the bigger picture.

[Hewlet]

It is amazing how this key consideration is not considered many times when individuals discuss personal finance but as a matter of fact, it has to be included in the discussion. It is important to make the right choices.

the thing is that people dont get married because they want to be better positioned financially, he primary reason why people get married is for companionship and for the sake of procreation. it is because of that reason that the angle of your partner being a financial help mate for you is not paid much priority to. we still have a lot of house wives that will just take of the family and children and contribute little to nothing in terms of the growth of the families income. as long as shes taking good careof the home, most men are actually okay that way.

if that is what you want, then that is okay but the truth is, it takes two to run the home so your wife should generally be concerned about the families finance as much as she's is concerned about taking care of the home because if anything is wrong with the families finance, it is going to affect every other aspect of the home.

[jems]

The person with whom you decide to spend your life can either tremendously affect your income status. A good companion would raise you, make good choices and be an all-around good idea, whereas a mismatch may cause issues and may even cause loss. It is amazing how this key consideration is not considered many times when individuals discuss personal finance but as a matter of fact, it has to be included in the discussion. It is important to make the right choices.

Getting a better parthen most times comes through relationship most men go beauty even after knowing their parthen can't manage money properly when they were dating. The worst mistake a man will make is getting himself a lazy parthen instead of cooking they prefer buying from local food vendors taking clothes to the laundry to be washed instead of them doing it their self, a good woman will advise her husband to make more of investment instead of using money unnecessarily.

On the other hand, a partner can also influence a man's motivation to strive for greater heights to fulfill his greater desires.

It's undeniable that a life partner will significantly influence financial decisions, both now and in the future. As you mentioned, a wasteful partner who spends a lot of money on unnecessary things is a small example of how it can negatively impact our financial stability.

That's why many recommend choosing a life partner who is smart about managing finances and encourages us to work harder to manage our finances for the future.

[Juicyhome]

who you marry determine your success, as a man you must marry at your level. The first thing you must consider is if she someone you can manage both in character and in finance. If she is more expensive to manage then do not marry her, she will drain you down. Women are most dangerous, they are like gambling, they can mars and made you. Depending on your choice. Do not rush to marry any girl you see for pleasure sake, think of your finance first, if is not enough to care for yourself do not marry. Even if the girl want to support the marriage hold on till you are mentality and financially stable.

Many men finances are collapsed because of bad wife, learn from them and wise up when you when to choose a wife, we are in a messed generation, no good women any more, the Genz has no pity for money,no respect.

[Inwestour]

Getting a better parthen most times comes through relationship most men go beauty even after knowing their parthen can't manage money properly when they were dating. The worst mistake a man will make is getting himself a lazy parthen instead of cooking they prefer buying from local food vendors taking clothes to the laundry to be washed instead of them doing it their self, a good woman will advise her husband to make more of investment instead of using money unnecessarily.

When you are in love, you don't think about the consequences, but you are right, all this needs to be taken into account, if your partner is used to other rules, then this can lead to frequent conflicts over time, especially if no one wants to make peace and change. I like it when the house is tidy, and when I see that there is a mess that no one pays attention to, it can make me nervous, because of this there are quarrels, although I did not pay attention to this before. I am very glad that in financial matters our views are similar.

[bettercrypto]

Based on the saying from the elders in our community, when you're a family man, you are the padre de pamilya or the head of the household, while your wife is the light of the home.
The man is said to be the breadwinner, and the wife is the treasurer.

With this concept, the roles of the husband and wife are designed. So, of course, as the husband, our wife is our assistant. If we are going to make a decision,
we always consult our partners to get their opinion about the decision we are planning to make.

[Adams0001]

The person with whom you decide to spend your life can either tremendously affect your income status. A good companion would raise you, make good choices and be an all-around good idea, whereas a mismatch may cause issues and may even cause loss. It is amazing how this key consideration is not considered many times when individuals discuss personal finance but as a matter of fact, it has to be included in the discussion. It is important to make the right choices.

Getting a better parthen most times comes through relationship most men go beauty even after knowing their parthen can't manage money properly when they were dating. The worst mistake a man will make is getting himself a lazy parthen instead of cooking they prefer buying from local food vendors taking clothes to the laundry to be washed instead of them doing it their self, a good woman will advise her husband to make more of investment instead of using money unnecessarily.

Getting a better partner is every man dreams,  because that will definitely help you alot and she will support you financially if she have the opportunity to do that, because some partner don't care they always depend on there husband even they have the chance to help, they won't they will always want you to provide. Having a good woman you will find peace and encouragement and help you financially. They are many woman that have the capacity and helping there husband when they Don't have funds, they support them with money to solve the problems. That is why you need to get into relationship before marriage, so that you will know your partner characters and see if he can take your responsibility when you don't have anymore. Getting a partner that is lazy is the worst thing a man will regret, because you won't understand your self about financial planning, because your partner will always bill you to get are luxuries things without focusing about your goals, she can never give you advice to invest or business that will double your funds, Getting a good partner will always have your backup.

[Adiljutt156]

Our life partners has a role in determining if will love longer with our days on earth or it is going to be short. That's if he or she gives you peace or trouble. Life will be miserable and a living hell with the wrong partner which can affect your health.

Do you know why I wont agree with what you said here?  Modern day marriage has shown us another part to freedom. If you feel your partner dont give you peace and your life could be cut short with the way things are going, file for a divorce, simple and short. Every life is precious and we have just one life to live on this earth so we ought to make the best out of it.

No man is forced to leave with one woman for the rest of his life even if there is trouble in the marriage and vice versa. This way I wont tolerate any form of nonsense at all and if my partner cant give me the rest of mind i deserve that might just be the end of us.

Life partner can handle many different things which are important for the finance . Financial freedom is necessary for everyone because money plays vital role in life and we can earn money from different ways. Many people are doing different things for earning money but money has its own value and people always judge us by our money. It people will judge by our sincerity then World could be different but there are also many expenses and people want to enjoy luxurious life which is not easy for everyone and one should be serious to become rich in life.And your partner should be educated because she will do less mistakes and she will judge people with her mind . She will have to face more challenges but it will be good for her .

[hedgeh0g]

The world is full of different ways to find your other half and it is worth remembering that in many countries parents find a wife for a husband and vice versa, it is like a job interview, when two candidates are considered from both sides.
At the same time, this method of creating a family couple is very productive from the financial side. After all, no one wants to marry a poor person and parents, of course, will pay attention not only to the appearance of their future relative but also to the money of this family, their security.