man up and stop blaming casinos

[TopT3ns]

However, I think everyone must experience such a phase, but if he continues to always think like that after losing from gambling then it can be said that he is not mature enough in his mindset even though he is old.

Sometimes age does not determine how we can actually mature, sometimes people who are young have had to mature prematurely due to events that have happened , I personally could say that to be in a casino we must know what we are facing , it is known that it is a place where you can Easily lose money and if you lose you must accept it and assume it, all that remains is to improve and nothing more.

What I can see is that life will always teach us to count how prepared we are to assume the reprisals of our decisions. We are still young but the situation makes us ensure that we live like adults. You know very well that there are never smooth sails in any direction, as you will all ways find a risk. The key here is that a person can be certain about how we can deal with the failures when things go wrong, and what we can do to recover that fail without avoiding reality.

Bitter experiences can also be good teachers in case we can position ourselves on the right side. Personally, I think we become much more mature through this process as as of being old enough. Therefore maturity based on actual experience will never be weak when compared to maturity based on numbers.

[Fredomago]

However, I think everyone must experience such a phase, but if he continues to always think like that after losing from gambling then it can be said that he is not mature enough in his mindset even though he is old.

Sometimes age does not determine how we can actually mature, sometimes people who are young have had to mature prematurely due to events that have happened , I personally could say that to be in a casino we must know what we are facing , it is known that it is a place where you can Easily lose money and if you lose you must accept it and assume it, all that remains is to improve and nothing more.

What I can see is that life will always teach us to count how prepared we are to assume the reprisals of our decisions. We are still young but the situation makes us ensure that we live like adults. You know very well that there are never smooth sails in any direction, as you will all ways find a risk. The key here is that a person can be certain about how we can deal with the failures when things go wrong, and what we can do to recover that fail without avoiding reality.

Bitter experiences can also be good teachers in case we can position ourselves on the right side. Personally, I think we become much more mature through this process as as of being old enough. Therefore maturity based on actual experience will never be weak when compared to maturity based on numbers.

If you have a good appreciation and you always turned bad situation as learning process, there are always wisdom in terms of bad decision in life, it can serve as basis in making new decision in terms of avoiding repeating those mistakes, blaming someone and pointing fingers can't help but only to place you to a new risk that you may commit, there are gamblers who still in denial as they don't want to take full responsibilities of their actions.

[danherbias07]

This is great advice for not only casinos, but life. Too many people blame others for influencing their actions instead of blaming themselves for blindly following people without thinking. You don’t have to gamble. I would say a majority of the times I’ve been in a casino I didn’t gamble. It isn’t hard.

Yes, that's correct. At the end of the day, it's always us who makes the decision, and if we make the wrong turn, then it's also up to us to correct it. We cannot point fingers, telling it's their fault because we made a choice. I have also been in a poker room without even playing a single hand, and I felt just fine because I got to watch the thrilling games that were played during the mini-tournament.

I guess it depends on the perspective of a gambler. Sometimes it's enough for a person to just watch games instead of playing them.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

This is great advice for not only casinos, but life. Too many people blame others for influencing their actions instead of blaming themselves for blindly following people without thinking. You don’t have to gamble. I would say a majority of the times I’ve been in a casino I didn’t gamble. It isn’t hard.

Yes, that's correct. At the end of the day, it's always us who makes the decision, and if we make the wrong turn, then it's also up to us to correct it. We cannot point fingers, telling it's their fault because we made a choice. I have also been in a poker room without even playing a single hand, and I felt just fine because I got to watch the thrilling games that were played during the mini-tournament.

I guess it depends on the perspective of a gambler. Sometimes it's enough for a person to just watch games instead of playing them.

Like myself, I do sometimes enjoy watching other gambler play without playing myself, most especially when it comes to games like poker which is a game that can be played by two or more persons, and especially games that I don't know how to play myself, a good example being this poker, and also chess, chess is another very interesting game I am still looking forward to learning how to play since it's one I enjoy watching as well..

And coming back to blaming other people for outcomes of our very own decisions, it's like a habit for some people, that is, it's in their nature to look for something or someone to put blame on for what ever bad experience they have in gambling.
I've seen a person put the blame on a goat that was just passing across the compound for being the reason he lost while playing a slot game, he said he was going to win, but he took his eyes off his phone to see whats passing, and by the time he looked at his phone again, he had lost, we had a good laugh 😂 that day, maybe he was simply joking but he appeared serious...
It is in some person's nature to find something or someone to blame for every single negative thing they experience in life, not just in gambling alone.

[fruktik]

Yes, people tend to blame others for their mistakes and failures. That's just the way their brains work. More precisely, they are not smart enough to understand their mistakes and accept them properly. This is a poorly developed intellect. There's nothing you can do about it. You just have to pass by if you encounter such characters in your life. I know a few of these people. I've come to the conclusion that it's better not to have any contact with them at all.

[Yablee0]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Although am not a regular gambler both when I do experiences some stupid lose due to some lapses at my end, I do admit the fact that I caused it and that's doesn't change anything from me rather it makes me more better and stronger in the game. I have some couple of guys that often gamble at my area each time any of them experience a big win they will take praise that it is their strategy  that earned them the success they are enjoying now, but when ever they lose they don’t like taking responsibility of their actions rather they always wanna shift the blame on either game (casino it self ) or anybody around and that is pretty wrong, accepting blame doesn't make you a weaker person but makes you even stronger and better.

[pancelot]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Yes, I may have done that. It was actually my fault, but I speculated that the system was faulty.
It's true that I only played small amounts and made a small profit, but I kept playing, ultimately losing, far less than my initial investment.
At first, I felt like the system was faulty, a scam, etc.
But after it was over, I thought, if I'd just won a little and left it at that, maybe that mistake wouldn't have happened.

So, I don't think we can unilaterally blame the system, the casino, or the gambling provider. They only provide the venue; we can control how we play.

[fredericktaylor]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Although am not a regular gambler both when I do experiences some stupid lose due to some lapses at my end, I do admit the fact that I caused it and that's doesn't change anything from me rather it makes me more better and stronger in the game. I have some couple of guys that often gamble at my area each time any of them experience a big win they will take praise that it is their strategy  that earned them the success they are enjoying now, but when ever they lose they don’t like taking responsibility of their actions rather they always wanna shift the blame on either game (casino it self ) or anybody around and that is pretty wrong, accepting blame doesn't make you a weaker person but makes you even stronger and better.

Gambling is not a good way to earn money for entertainment or get rich quick, we should gamble with the money we can afford to lose so that we do not put additional financial pressure on ourselves. Mistakes are made by humans, but it is not wise to make the same mistake over and over again, we need to manage gambling with skills and strategies so that we can manage gambling in a disciplined manner while maintaining self-control. Winning while gambling does not depend only on knowledge and strategy, it depends on luck, so we should learn from our mistakes and manage gambling by taking the right steps.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

But gamblers do not want to understand this simple fact, that if you blame others, your losses will never come back, rather, that gambler should have learned the right lesson from it, so that he does not gamble uncontrollably in the future, but this is the only problem with gamblers that they never know how to understand anything properly, or instead of learning the right lesson from it, after they lose, they become more emotional, and this is why they can never bring themselves back on the right path. Until they can admit their mistakes and behave consciously and responsibly, they will never achieve anything good, they will become more deeply addicted to gambling and at one point become completely destitute.

You know that gambling is a game of luck, even if anything good is coming out from it, it doesn't happen according to a gamblers expectations, it doesn't happen all days and the randomness is not uncontrollable. Someone that blames the casino could be luck sometimes but might not really be fooling their self, not knowing what the process of gambling entails.

[xenomorfo]

You know that gambling is a game of luck, even if anything good is coming out from it, it doesn't happen according to a gamblers expectations, it doesn't happen all days and the randomness is not uncontrollable. Someone that blames the casino could be luck sometimes but might not really be fooling their self, not knowing what the process of gambling entails.

Well, when you bet or play games of chance, like poker or blackjack, you always have a big component which is luck, regardless of whether you are good or not.
and this must be taken into account, that's why i am always surprised to see people who think they can live off this

[rachael9385]

But gamblers do not want to understand this simple fact, that if you blame others, your losses will never come back, rather, that gambler should have learned the right lesson from it, so that he does not gamble uncontrollably in the future, but this is the only problem with gamblers that they never know how to understand anything properly, or instead of learning the right lesson from it, after they lose, they become more emotional, and this is why they can never bring themselves back on the right path. Until they can admit their mistakes and behave consciously and responsibly, they will never achieve anything good, they will become more deeply addicted to gambling and at one point become completely destitute.

You know that gambling is a game of luck, even if anything good is coming out from it, it doesn't happen according to a gamblers expectations, it doesn't happen all days and the randomness is not uncontrollable. Someone that blames the casino could be luck sometimes but might not really be fooling their self, not knowing what the process of gambling entails.

There was a case about a gambler that sued an online casino because he felt cheated, what seems to be a normal losing situation was turned to a blame game and he was really working hard to get compensated for his losses. After a while I think he actually won the case but the bottom line of this is that I think only rich people can get lucky when they blame the casino for their losses,  for someone poor or average it won't work

[$weetne$$]

Gambling is not a good way to earn money for entertainment or get rich quick, we should gamble with the money we can afford to lose so that we do not put additional financial pressure on ourselves. Mistakes are made by humans, but it is not wise to make the same mistake over and over again, we need to manage gambling with skills and strategies so that we can manage gambling in a disciplined manner while maintaining self-control. Winning while gambling does not depend only on knowledge and strategy, it depends on luck, so we should learn from our mistakes and manage gambling by taking the right steps.

Gambling  with the money you can afford to loose sometimes does not keep you safe even because you keep gambling  with those chunks to a point  you later understand  that it has accumulated into becoming  a huge sum and then you may want to start chasing loss seeing that you have lost a huge sum from the accumulation of the little chunks you had lost. Onr thing I think if gambling is rather than gambling with the amount you can afford to losoe and eventually get addicted, why not gamble on a budget and set limits with time frame to regulate your habits.

[Royal Cap]

Gambling  with the money you can afford to loose sometimes does not keep you safe even because you keep gambling  with those chunks to a point  you later understand  that it has accumulated into becoming  a huge sum and then you may want to start chasing loss seeing that you have lost a huge sum from the accumulation of the little chunks you had lost. Onr thing I think if gambling is rather than gambling with the amount you can afford to losoe and eventually get addicted, why not gamble on a budget and set limits with time frame to regulate your habits.

Actually, brother, gambling is something that no one who is not addicted to it will understand its pain. In my opinion, the best advice would be that whenever you lose, you should quit the game. Because if you start playing again to recover your losses after a loss. Then you will lose even more.

The best advice is that after losing, withdraw all the money in your account. And if you limit your gambling budget, I think it will gradually not be limited to the limit.

[lienfaye]

But gamblers do not want to understand this simple fact, that if you blame others, your losses will never come back, rather, that gambler should have learned the right lesson from it, so that he does not gamble uncontrollably in the future, but this is the only problem with gamblers that they never know how to understand anything properly, or instead of learning the right lesson from it, after they lose, they become more emotional, and this is why they can never bring themselves back on the right path. Until they can admit their mistakes and behave consciously and responsibly, they will never achieve anything good, they will become more deeply addicted to gambling and at one point become completely destitute.

You know that gambling is a game of luck, even if anything good is coming out from it, it doesn't happen according to a gamblers expectations, it doesn't happen all days and the randomness is not uncontrollable. Someone that blames the casino could be luck sometimes but might not really be fooling their self, not knowing what the process of gambling entails.

There was a case about a gambler that sued an online casino because he felt cheated, what seems to be a normal losing situation was turned to a blame game and he was really working hard to get compensated for his losses. After a while I think he actually won the case but the bottom line of this is that I think only rich people can get lucky when they blame the casino for their losses,  for someone poor or average it won't work

Maybe because rich don't look trying hard and desperate. Moreover they have the resources to hire a good lawyer while poor people are not capable to do so.

Anyway, this is the reason why it's important to gamble base on your limit. So that you can still control how much to spend and won't blame the casino if you're not fortunate to win. It's a game of luck and winning is not guaranteed. We should keep that in mind.

[Accardo]

Yes, people tend to blame others for their mistakes and failures. That's just the way their brains work. More precisely, they are not smart enough to understand their mistakes and accept them properly. This is a poorly developed intellect. There's nothing you can do about it. You just have to pass by if you encounter such characters in your life. I know a few of these people. I've come to the conclusion that it's better not to have any contact with them at all.

Blaming the house is irresponsible, players are better off owning up responsibilities, and accepting results. Players who blame the house always have lesser energy and end up with a crushed problem solving skill, which won't be nice at fighting the little issues or signals that walks most players into the compound of problem gambling.

[sompitonov]

Yes, people tend to blame others for their mistakes and failures. That's just the way their brains work. More precisely, they are not smart enough to understand their mistakes and accept them properly. This is a poorly developed intellect. There's nothing you can do about it. You just have to pass by if you encounter such characters in your life. I know a few of these people. I've come to the conclusion that it's better not to have any contact with them at all.

Blaming the house is irresponsible, players are better off owning up responsibilities, and accepting results. Players who blame the house always have lesser energy and end up with a crushed problem solving skill, which won't be nice at fighting the little issues or signals that walks a player into problem gambling.

Yes, of course it is, but players accumulate negativity and they just want to put it somewhere. Professionals keep this negativity under control or just philosophically treat it, even laughing at themselves, because they understand that their created and invented strategy is really what helps them win. Therefore, you need to learn from the professionals, but I understand that it is easier said than done, so it took me years to calmly accept losses and understand that they only happen in the moment, and what is important is what will happen if I do this thousands of times and do not make gross mistakes that can appear if I start to react too emotionally to the game.

[Accardo]

Therefore, you need to learn from the professionals, but I understand that it is easier said than done, so it took me years to calmly accept losses and understand that they only happen in the moment, and what is important is what will happen if I do this thousands of times and do not make gross mistakes that can appear if I start to react too emotionally to the game.

Holding on to responsible is a powerful strategy that professionals initiate into their gambling lifestyle. It revitalize the player's thought and clears a ground for stronger decision making. Flying out of a responsibility that was actualized because the player placed a game, has no relationship with the house. The casino would deserve the blame if those games were booked and wagered at the absence of the gambler. That must be a whole new chapter of irresponsibility on the house.

But it has never been recorded, why then does a gamer not understand they made the choice before betting. The griminess of not taking responsibility is quite an uncomfortable atmosphere.

[AmoreJaz]

Actually, brother, gambling is something that no one who is not addicted to it will understand its pain. In my opinion, the best advice would be that whenever you lose, you should quit the game. Because if you start playing again to recover your losses after a loss. Then you will lose even more.

The best advice is that after losing, withdraw all the money in your account. And if you limit your gambling budget, I think it will gradually not be limited to the limit.

Or once you busted your allocated bankroll, it means, you need to call it a day. Because if you will push thru your luck and borrow from others just to continue your games, you are just starting to give yourself a headache. Knowing your boundaries would be like saving you from potential money issues later on.

Yes, people tend to blame others for their mistakes and failures. That's just the way their brains work. More precisely, they are not smart enough to understand their mistakes and accept them properly. This is a poorly developed intellect. There's nothing you can do about it. You just have to pass by if you encounter such characters in your life. I know a few of these people. I've come to the conclusion that it's better not to have any contact with them at all.

Those are not owning their mistakes in life, and more than likely, sooner or later, they will understand that they will be surrounded by fake friends. Because no real friend can just accept the mistake of their friend, he will surely react and let him know about his shortcomings. And face the reality of what he has been doing with his life. Because a sincere friend will help his friend see the realities of what he's been doing and not tolerating his wrongdoings.

[Odusko]

Sometimes making the decision to move on regardless of your loses, this is not about not being able to make it up back but at some point one need to reflect on the reality of the game and make amend, for that to happen a gambler need to take time out and relax recover from the loses and then move onto the next game using the experience gotten above all gambling with a low amount that you can afford to lose is the ultimate way to stay at peace.

[GIF-JOBS]

Yes, people tend to blame others for their mistakes and failures. That's just the way their brains work. More precisely, they are not smart enough to understand their mistakes and accept them properly. This is a poorly developed intellect. There's nothing you can do about it. You just have to pass by if you encounter such characters in your life. I know a few of these people. I've come to the conclusion that it's better not to have any contact with them at all.

Blaming the house is irresponsible, players are better off owning up responsibilities, and accepting results. Players who blame the house always have lesser energy and end up with a crushed problem solving skill, which won't be nice at fighting the little issues or signals that walks most players into the compound of problem gambling.

There is no point in blaming the casino house for any loss, those who do such baseless activities are actually fools, the casino house is never responsible for any loss, so instead of behaving irresponsibly towards yourself, be aware while gambling and pay attention to your ability, do not gamble with such an amount of money that if you lose, you have to face a difficult situation, due to which you get emotional and start blaming the casino house for no reason, if you are responsible towards yourself and play according to your ability, you can accept any loss and keep yourself away from gambling, as a result, you will never suffer a big loss.