Gambling Then vs Now

[Johnlomape]

Maybe some of us never thought of being a gambler today if we are to recall on the past and how we have been advised by others to desist from gambling, but the more we grow, we tend to understand things more better and make discovery also by our own self and see they were actually wrong then.

Gambling is all about having the opportunity of being entertained, we should learn more to know more about it, now that we have more ideas about what it is, we can choose to enjoy the best from it and enjoy playing always as a responsible gambler, because it's no more seen as we taught it was in the past.

How fun life is especially for those of us that though gambling was evil and never meant for the public. Gambling was seen as an activities of gangsters and cultists then but now it has evolved to what we can have access to online from the traditional way of gambling many years ago.

Many gamblers I know then was gangsters and hooligans betting on anything they see. They can bet on a woman, who will be the first to date her putting huge sum of money on the stake. Sometimes they could bet using their assets or families to prove that they know what they are doing. Gambling was never fun then and it was mostly bloody because it's mostly lead to conflicts. Happy that gambling has evolved from the street activities to online activities.

[Odogwu-Blockchain]

Just curious, for those who started gambling before you were even allowed to.. how does it feel now that you’re finally 18+ or 21+ and can actually do it legally?

When I was younger, it had that “forbidden fun” feeling, like doing something you knew you shouldn’t. The thrill is different, and I never really thought about the risks or losses back then. Now that I’m older, it’s not as wild.. I take my time before betting, think about bankroll, and I’m more aware of what could go wrong.

For those who’ve gone through both stages, what changed for you? Do you still get that same excitement, or does gambling feel more like strategy and control now?

I wasn't restricted when I started playing because I was out of the reach of my parents and so I didn't experience any thrilling effects on my gambling excitement. The only excitement I had was winning the third trial even when the winning was small.

Over the time, I discovered that gambling becomes more addictive and distracted me heavily.

[allthebitandbobs]

Being underage also means that we have less maturity and would not really think about the downsides or even the money. It will just be for fun or only because our friends spend a good time gambling and we want to give it a try. Because youth will usually get carried away much easily and they would just try new things because their friends re into it. But now, we have financial responsibility and can't just go for it because it is fun. Yes, we still would love having fun but at the end we will be taking mature decisions and will avoid our feelings be a part of our bets.

Gambling is still quite exciting for me but also does make me worried sometimes about losing so I would prefer keeping my excitement away which helps me not gamble extensively.

[Judith87403]

Just curious, for those who started gambling before you were even allowed to.. how does it feel now that you’re finally 18+ or 21+ and can actually do it legally?

Anyone who started gambling from his early stage down to this current stage must have go through alot, I'm sure that majority of this guys that started gambling when they're not qualified to do so ended up as a gambling addict. Because since they're too small and naive they won't be able to apply self control, and chasing after thier loses will be a very common thing to them because I could remember those days after using our money to buy snacks immediately after eating the snacks we will still want to go for refund. I know this is very crazy but yeah, that's children's mentality then how much more gambling that you will be looking at your money going helplessly  and you think they won't think of fighting back? Though some kid's act like adult so they can be able to apply self control while gambling at their early stage.

[Cityhunter34]

This has always been our experienced back then because we were not yet mature enough even though their was no responsibility for us then. So is quite a normal thing, but the most important thing in gambling is realizing your past mistakes and take correction to avoid making the same mistake in the future because even till now most gamblers still do not want to take correction is not good at all because what determines you a good gambler is your maturity.

[MRY]

Just curious, for those who started gambling before you were even allowed to.. how does it feel now that you’re finally 18+ or 21+ and can actually do it legally?

Anyone who started gambling from his early stage down to this current stage must have go through alot, I'm sure that majority of this guys that started gambling when they're not qualified to do so ended up as a gambling addict. Because since they're too small and naive they won't be able to apply self control, and chasing after thier loses will be a very common thing to them because I could remember those days after using our money to buy snacks immediately after eating the snacks we will still want to go for refund. I know this is very crazy but yeah, that's children's mentality then how much more gambling that you will be looking at your money going helplessly  and you think they won't think of fighting back? Though some kid's act like adult so they can be able to apply self control while gambling at their early stage.

I know very well how you fear the effect of gambling and more so at such a tender age. The concept that part of the exposure to gambling may make a person more susceptible to gambling addiction at a relatively young age when the person is emotionally and cognitively underdeveloped, appears to be quite realistic, as the self control of children and adolescents is not full yet. It is an easy going mentality, or the cycle of chasing losses, which is characteristic of problem gambling, regardless of age, yet in young people, the severity of dangers is increased because they do not have adequate experience in processing financial losses and mental pressure.

Little long term thinking and impulsiveness soon can cause children and adolescents to fall into this cycle of action and burn out their resources without fully understanding the implications of long term effects. This does not imply that they are mentally incapable of resisting, they just have such a development of the brain structure that they find it hard to resist the temptation of short pay and the fun of hazard.

[red4slash]

When there are restrictions (usually from parents because we are not old enough) there is always the sensation of wanting to try because it is a transition time when we always want to try everything including gambling. I think this condition is something that almost everyone feels because adolescence is sometimes a period that is almost the same where we want to try no matter the risks or the worst possibilities that occur because we don't think long about it.

The sensation of gambling must be different because what we are aiming for at that time is not only about winning but it is more directed towards wanting to try it ourselves because we want to feel what gambling feels like.
But on the other hand, when we understand more, we will understand why this is not allowed because after all, our minds have not yet reached the stage of thinking from several points of view and are only concerned with our egos and emotions (wanting to try) and when this makes you more addicted, at a young age it will certainly be very difficult to stop this which actually ends more fatal.

[vanesha]

I have experienced both, and it turns out that gambling is not as beautiful as I imagined before, if before I was forbidden to do it, now I am free to do it but not with the sensation, now it is more difficult to think about stopping gambling, the best way is just to restrain yourself and make a strategy

[criptoevangelista]

I used to play slot machines in bars when I was a teenager, and I never had any problem asking for permission or anything like that. I think most people don’t need anyone’s permission to gamble, because even if their parents don’t allow it, they’ll end up doing it secretly anyway ,whether it’s in casinos, video games, or any kind of bet. The world of gambling is much older than anything else.

[Raflesia]

When I was younger, it had that “forbidden fun” feeling, like doing something you knew you shouldn’t. The thrill is different, and I never really thought about the risks or losses back then. Now that I’m older, it’s not as wild.. I take my time before betting, think about bankroll, and I’m more aware of what could go wrong.

The difference in mindset between when we are adults and when we are still at a vulnerable age is the answer in this case because after all we are aware that when we are in our teenage years or at a vulnerable age we want to try things because we naturally want to explore many things. So when something is considered forbidden we are even more eager to try it because we want to experience what it feels like to do something that is forbidden.

On the other hand this kind of thing ultimately depends on the child themselves because not all children behave like that and perhaps I didn't feel that way either. I know that when there are many situations that are considered forbidden even my parents always emphasize not to do them but honestly after that situation occurred I actually had no desire to do it because I thought that I would experience it myself when the time came so my curiosity disappeared when I found out that it was indeed forbidden.
This might be due to my family’s overly strict upbringing but I’m actually grateful for it.

[Sonia_123]

Just curious, for those who started gambling before you were even allowed to.. how does it feel now that you’re finally 18+ or 21+ and can actually do it legally?

When I was younger, it had that “forbidden fun” feeling, like doing something you knew you shouldn’t. The thrill is different, and I never really thought about the risks or losses back then. Now that I’m older, it’s not as wild.. I take my time before betting, think about bankroll, and I’m more aware of what could go wrong.

For those who’ve gone through both stages, what changed for you? Do you still get that same excitement, or does gambling feel more like strategy and control now?

While I was much younger before 18 years, the maturity was not fully there and the understanding also of the game , but the beauty of it is that one really gamble for fun although there was not freedom to gamble as you wish , since one was still a minor, proper monitoring was observed by our Parents, we only gamble at festive seasons, but as as an adult, the freedom, more understanding, maturity also plays moe important roles in our gambling lives also as an adult at times you chose to gambling money not for the fun and you are now responsible for your actions thereby making you more cautious of yourself when gambling.

[SUPERSAIAN]

Just curious, for those who started gambling before you were even allowed to.. how does it feel now that you’re finally 18+ or 21+ and can actually do it legally?

When I was younger, it had that “forbidden fun” feeling, like doing something you knew you shouldn’t. The thrill is different, and I never really thought about the risks or losses back then. Now that I’m older, it’s not as wild.. I take my time before betting, think about bankroll, and I’m more aware of what could go wrong.

For those who’ve gone through both stages, what changed for you? Do you still get that same excitement, or does gambling feel more like strategy and control now?

I'm more controlled when gambling now. When I was younger, under 21, it was pure escapism. A little adrenaline, a little excitement to win money—I don't have as much fun anymore. The truth is, I try to have fun, but I'm much more cautious. I have a lot of responsibilities, and I didn't have much to worry about at that age.

I can't even compare the fun of gambling back then to the fun of gambling I have now. The past is always fun, and people think it's better, but this isn't the case.

[PX-Z]

I started gambling at young age but back then backyard gambling is not strictly regulated by the government so anyone can gamble on their own house.

My only worries that time is my parents caught me playing since I will be punished heavily both physically and mentally. 

This and this lmao. Sometimes, we done it at school (dare devils) even it is strictly not allowed lol, or anywhere, those were just coin and cards related gambling with bets like pennies only, just for fun.

Today? A lot happens, imagine you can gamble anywhere you like without someone interrupting, you just need deposits, which can lead to addiction in very fast manner if not controlled.

[tabas]

Do you still get that same excitement, or does gambling feel more like strategy and control now?

I feel that it's the latter for me now. I have become more cautious with my decisions whenever I gamble although I am not perfect at all. But this time, I'm monitoring how it goes and not easily triggered by emotion if ever my bets are losing.

I started gambling at young age but back then backyard gambling is not strictly regulated by the government so anyone can gamble on their own house.

My only worries that time is my parents caught me playing since I will be punished heavily both physically and mentally.  

This and this lmao. Sometimes, we done it at school (dare devils) even it is strictly not allowed lol, or anywhere, those were just coin and cards related gambling with bets like pennies only, just for fun.

Today? A lot happens, imagine you can gamble anywhere you like without someone interrupting, you just need deposits, which can lead to addiction in very fast manner if not controlled.

I can relate to you guys. I guess that we're carefree when we're younger and there's nothing to worry about except our parents knowing that we have gambled and there's for sure a punishment that we'll be grounded for a week or two when we're caught.

[Mindyspace]

The excitement is even greater because when I was younger, I couldn't understand the feeling of betting, winning, and having money available to withdraw and play more or buy something. It's something totally new, different, but not only that, there are several other aspects involved, like having the money to deposit and play for the first time. It's a great feeling.

[laijsica]

The early days of gambling are a very exciting time a feeling that cannot be compared to anything else. When gambling involves hiding, it is even more exciting. I started gambling early before the age of 18, it was for fun. That time was more suitable for gambling because there was no fear of losing at that time. As I grew older, I became responsible and was busy earning to support my family, so my time for entertainment became very limited. I gamble regularly and am aware of my bankroll because I should be responsible as I grow older because I have to support my family. I still get excited when I play but patience and responsibility are wise.

[Cgrexp]

Just curious, for those who started gambling before you were even allowed to.. how does it feel now that you’re finally 18+ or 21+ and can actually do it legally?
When I was younger, it had that “forbidden fun” feeling, like doing something you knew you shouldn’t. The thrill is different, and I never really thought about the risks or losses back then. Now that I’m older, it’s not as wild.. I take my time before betting, think about bankroll, and I’m more aware of what could go wrong.
For those who’ve gone through both stages, what changed for you? Do you still get that same excitement, or does gambling feel more like strategy and control now?

You are right, in fact, age and experience change the perspective on gambling. As you said, you yourself enjoyed gambling only as a teenager but when you become an adult, you use it with awareness. In fact, this is normal. Due to lack of knowledge about financial risks, economic conditions and strategies, teenagers do not understand the real meaning of losing or losing bets properly. That is why most teenagers fall into gambling addiction and they are the ones who suffer the most. But when an adult and conscious person gambles, he will evaluate his financial condition, budget and risk well, he will take gambling as a plan and control rather than just a curiosity. So with age and experience, the excitement towards a person decreases and he sees it in a different light.

[savetheFORUM]

It is very brave of you to gamble at an age when you are not yet old enough to do so. Honestly, this is not a good thing. Perhaps it is because your parents do not supervise you closely. Did you break the rules at that time? Or perhaps before you reached the legal gambling age of 18+, did you do so or not? I was not born into a family of gamblers; on the contrary, I grew up in an environment that despised gambling. At that time, many people were victims of gambling, which took away the wealth of those around me, especially men who spent their families' money and were often stubborn, sometimes resorting to violence. I realized this after I grew up, and it never crossed my mind to gamble at that time.

Even my parents taught me never to go for gambling and even when I was s kid I was not even allowed to play cards. Can you imagine this? This kind of made me realize the risks my parents see in gambling and there past experiences which have not really been a good one so they decided to teach me to stay away from gambling. But gambling is not really that bad. If we take wrong decisions or just gamble because we want to earn a quick fortune by risking all we have is a bad move but gambling after doing some good research and only gambling because we know the game is something which can still make us have profits.

Gambling is illegal for underage because they can take impulsive decisions which might even end up them losing everything they have which will indirectly affect their guardians.

[junder]

This has always been our experienced back then because we were not yet mature enough even though their was no responsibility for us then. So is quite a normal thing, but the most important thing in gambling is realizing your past mistakes and take correction to avoid making the same mistake in the future because even till now most gamblers still do not want to take correction is not good at all because what determines you a good gambler is your maturity.

You're right, recognizing your mistakes and not repeating them is crucial. I experienced this myself, realizing my excessive gambling mistakes. I spent so much money on one night that I even used my own savings to gamble. This is where I realized my mistake and learned from it to avoid repeating the same thing in the future. So, now I gamble with discipline, and I do it sometimes when I feel like it, and I can even divert my gambling urges to other things quite easily.

[Ricardo11]

This has always been our experienced back then because we were not yet mature enough even though their was no responsibility for us then. So is quite a normal thing, but the most important thing in gambling is realizing your past mistakes and take correction to avoid making the same mistake in the future because even till now most gamblers still do not want to take correction is not good at all because what determines you a good gambler is your maturity.

You're right, recognizing your mistakes and not repeating them is crucial. I experienced this myself, realizing my excessive gambling mistakes. I spent so much money on one night that I even used my own savings to gamble. This is where I realized my mistake and learned from it to avoid repeating the same thing in the future. So, now I gamble with discipline, and I do it sometimes when I feel like it, and I can even divert my gambling urges to other things quite easily.

And this is how a small wrong decision can lead to a big loss, like you lost your savings in a single night of gambling. Gambling is always like that, if you expect too much, it will take more from you.
You have accepted your mistake and learned from it and you are now careful, this is a very responsible behavior, but the sad thing is, many people face such a situation and get involved in gambling even deeper.
This is the case with most gamblers, they have faced a lot of losses in gambling through wrong decisions, but instead of learning from it and being careful, they start making emotional decisions about it.
And this is their biggest weakness, they cannot learn from their mistakes, and because of this they never understand the difference between right and wrong, and because of this they cannot get out of gambling, but instead they get more deeply addicted to it.
A person can enjoy entertainment while maintaining their mental balance, and as a result, they will never become addicted to gambling, but they can never be responsible due to their own negligence, and become addicted to gambling.