Can I hide all my assets from my wife using Bitcoin and what's the best way?

[mrust_mobile]

It is not wise to advise anything that’s against the law in a public forum no matter what you think about this. I too think betrayal needs to have a price tag  but if that’s agreement the OP signed 20 years ago, he should honor it.

Getting married is no joke and it is indeed a business. Some folk up there asked a question if marriages are a business, yes they are.

Think it like 2 corporations having a merger. That’s what a marriage is.

If you fail to honor the contract, you are pretty much stealing from your partner company. It is almost the same as maxxing out your credit cards and leaving the country. You might get away with it but it makes you a thief according to the law.

[Uhwuchukwu53]

Op this very idea is extremely ridiculous, you don't endangered  yourself.Marriage has never be a persuasion but conceptional, the terms and conditions to Court marriage is clear it's never mandatory, in my country it's not, except European nations. If you have chosen the terms on the marriage while do otherwise, seeking to hide all your assets to the knowledge of your wife shows zero love and care, this really signifies that the marriage was not conceptional but persuasion.

Op don't forget in a hurry that the consequences of breaching a contract may be more deadly than you think because there will be no claim of ignorance on already signed documents by you. If you have said few assets I would have seen it as human nature but hiding all is a sign of lack of love and greed, advising you to carry on such act is dangerous.

[Satofan44]

You don't need to do that analysis because splitting was their contract.

The side discussion here is that this default contract and divorce laws are terrible in almost every location on the planet. They are biased towards one side, but this has economic reasons for it. I wonder how divorce rates would change if one would get nothing if they cheat or otherwise deeply betray their partner. Perhaps there would be much fewer marriages to begin with.

The issue in this thread isn't the cheating -- which sucks-- but OP's dishonorable conduct.

None of his options are good as I have detailed in an earlier post. Neither legal or illegal. This is why you always marry with complete asset separation if you want to marry for love, even if it ends up being transient. No matter what happens down the road between the two of you, neither partner can scheme against the other one for malicious purposes relating to assets. You also have to keep in mind that a lot of people come from countries where contract law is very weak and many of them haven't really encountered any contracts in their lives except the usual (work, marriage, wills).

Contract is contract and that is the rule of every contract, it was all signed by both parties, yes the man will have to share in half after divorce, but to me it is unfavorable to my conduct. I wouldn't get into the contract in the first place or go in without a prenuptial agreement.

That is the point. Your best and fairest chance is having a good marriage contract. Then whatever happens you won't need to break the contract or worse become a criminal. With a good contract if you want revenge after being betrayed you can just simply walk away with all your assets. The story could be as simple as that, but people watch too many romantic movies on TV instead of educating themselves. On the other hand, while this is not his fault you can see it as him trying to escape his own responsibility. He made the mistake of marrying this way and now he wants to escape the consequences of his actions (divorce). What triggered the divorce is not necessarily relevant to the argument of responsibility.

[r_victory]

Unfortunately, even proving adultery doesn't interfere with the division of assets, at least here in Brazil. Revenge isn't the best solution; just expose what you know to her and get it over with, brother. It will be the best decision of your life; leave this relationship and move on. I know it's difficult, it's sad, but dwelling on this kind of thinking will only hurt you. Even if you run away, you'll still be married to her, and in the end, the tables will turn against you...

[bitzizzix]

Be a true man and uphold your sense of responsibility in carrying out your duties and the law.

Twenty years is not a short time, and during those 20 years, you were able to build a fortune, thanks to your wife's blessing and the rights God has given you. I understand your disappointment, and I think any man would. You need to know that in long-standing marriages, many wives have affairs without their partners' knowledge, and you should be grateful you found out.
My advice: Accept it with an open heart. If you feel hurt, try to talk it out with your wife to find a solution. If you still need to reconcile, that's up to you. If not, resolve it amicably and give her her due. Because we never know, maybe you'll find someone better, or maybe you'll become richer with your new partner.

[GoldBitcoin112]

I am 45 and have A LOT of money invested in the stock market. Enough to never work another day in my life. Recently I found out that my wife of 20 years was having an affair with a friend. I am heartbroken, devastated and want revenge. She doesn't know that I found out about her affair and don't plan on telling her anytime soon.

Here's the problem: If I divorce her I will have to give her half of my assets. I don't think it's fair at all that somebody can cheat and then take half a man's money.

Solution: I plan on selling all my stock market investments, putting all that money in a bitcoin cold wallet then moving permanently to Iraq where all my cousins and siblings live. By the time my wife realizes what had happened, I will be in a different continent and no police organization would bother tracking someone down for something this minor.

I've been interested in bitcoin for years and this is my chance to pull the trigger. Has anyone done something similar and what's the best way to buy bitcoin so that the courts can't track down where I moved that cash? From my research I am planning on withdrawing my cash then going to bitcoin ATM's across my state, buying bitcoin then transferring it to my cold wallet. Is this possible and is there a better way?

Thanks in advance Bitcoiners!

If you scared of your wife , hiding the password is not the best option, remember death can heat anyone at anytime,think about this ,show her the password encase of any mis fortune

[AmaGold70]

It's very heartbreaking to see that you wasted 20 years in marriage with someone that doesn't deserve it, but the only question I have for you is, have you secretly cheated on your wife before in the past? If your answer is No then it is very unfair to you as a faithful partner. But I don't think divorcing her and giving her half of your assets is a bad thing though, she has been in the marriage with you for two decades and I'm sure there are sacrifices that she has made for you along the line so I think you should pay her off with half of your assets and have your peace and live your life.

[coolcoinz]

It is not wise to advise anything that’s against the law in a public forum no matter what you think about this. I too think betrayal needs to have a price tag  but if that’s agreement the OP signed 20 years ago, he should honor it.

Getting married is no joke and it is indeed a business. Some folk up there asked a question if marriages are a business, yes they are.

Think it like 2 corporations having a merger. That’s what a marriage is.

If you fail to honor the contract, you are pretty much stealing from your partner company. It is almost the same as maxxing out your credit cards and leaving the country. You might get away with it but it makes you a thief according to the law.

What law? The law is not equal in every country, so telling him how to hide his assets might be punished in one part of the world and completely ignored by authorities in another.

Yes, it more or less makes him a thief, but that's what he's willing to live with. It's a matter of ethics, I suppose. In his view his wife cheating and him stealing makes it even.

[Powerjumboo]

I am 45 and have A LOT of money invested in the stock market. Enough to never work another day in my life. Recently I found out that my wife of 20 years was having an affair with a friend. I am heartbroken, devastated and want revenge. She doesn't know that I found out about her affair and don't plan on telling her anytime soon.

Here's the problem: If I divorce her I will have to give her half of my assets. I don't think it's fair at all that somebody can cheat and then take half a man's money.

Solution: I plan on selling all my stock market investments, putting all that money in a bitcoin cold wallet then moving permanently to Iraq where all my cousins and siblings live. By the time my wife realizes what had happened, I will be in a different continent and no police organization would bother tracking someone down for something this minor.

I've been interested in bitcoin for years and this is my chance to pull the trigger. Has anyone done something similar and what's the best way to buy bitcoin so that the courts can't track down where I moved that cash? From my research I am planning on withdrawing my cash then going to bitcoin ATM's across my state, buying bitcoin then transferring it to my cold wallet. Is this possible and is there a better way?

Thanks in advance Bitcoiners!

There is a big difference between your wife's age and yours as you mentioned here you are 45 years old and your wife is 20 years old this age difference is becoming a reason for divorce between you and your wife. Any person should get married keeping a certain age limit your wife is more than half younger than you due to which despite you having a lot of money your wife is not happy with you she may have got involved in a relationship somewhere else to be happy. Here you can talk to your wife and clear the matter if your wife wants to be with you then you should discuss it with her and if she does not want to be with you then you should still discuss it with her and resolve it.

Here your wife is the owner of your property like you, she has full right to enjoy the property like you. However, if you want to divorce her, then you must give her some of your property and if you can solve the problem with her by talking to her, then you can live happily. However, I think it is better to clear the matter between the two of you and solve the problem because when a person is explained, he will definitely understand.

Here you should not cheat on your wife like this because if you want to convert your entire property into Bitcoin, you can definitely convert it into Bitcoin and you can travel anywhere with your Bitcoin without any problem, but if you do this, you will be cheating on your wife.

[Minor Miner]

It's very heartbreaking to see that you wasted 20 years in marriage with someone that doesn't deserve it, but the only question I have for you is, have you secretly cheated on your wife before in the past? If your answer is No then it is very unfair to you as a faithful partner. But I don't think divorcing her and giving her half of your assets is a bad thing though, she has been in the marriage with you for two decades and I'm sure there are sacrifices that she has made for you along the line so I think you should pay her off with half of your assets and have your peace and live your life.

There are many issues that can cause a woman to have an affair, it could be an unhappy marriage or her husband having another woman outside. Or maybe it was all her fault. We are not insiders and cannot know exactly what happened to them. So we should not just listen to one side and rush to judge without knowing the truth behind it.

In this case, in my opinion, the best way is to let the court and the law handle it. I don't support OP's idea of ​​trying to embezzle all the money the two of you built together. Regardless of who is right or wrong, his wife certainly contributed a lot to that fortune and she deserves a small share.

[reagansimms]

Your wife's mistake of cheating cannot be tolerated, in this situation she has betrayed you, clearly this behavior is unacceptable. However, wanting to hide or run away with all your assets is also not the right decision because he also has the right to some of your assets based on the age of marriage which has reached 20 years.
Anger has made you think narrowly, isn't it true that all this wealth you have acquired is due to his help and support, so let him have what is rightfully his and invest the rest in Bitcoin. Be a wise person in making decisions and managing finances for the future. If you have been interested in Bitcoin for a long time, why are you only now starting to invest? This clearly indicates that you want to run away with all assets that are under joint ownership. In my country, this is against the law.

[traderethereum]

Giving her half of your total money seems to be unfair but she lived with you for 20 years. You can search for the money after you divorce and I am sure you will get more than what you gave to your wife. No need to think about whether it's fair or not because that is your wife with you who has shared many things for years. So it is better to follow the law and all things needed because after that, you can use your money to get more than before. That is just a suggestion but if you feel that is not right for you and you want to use the other advice, that will be up to you.

[GigaBit]

Solution: I plan on selling all my stock market investments, putting all that money in a bitcoin cold wallet then moving permanently to Iraq where all my cousins and siblings live. By the time my wife realizes what had happened, I will be in a different continent and no police organization would bother tracking someone down for something this minor.

There is a high chance of making wrong if you do anything in anger. So first you have to calm down and take a good decision on the whole matter. You may get angry at your wife's actions, but the more you are strategic at this time, the more you will be able to get out of trouble. If you understand that your wife is cheating, then you should also keep the proof of it. Only running away will indicate a kind of crime because you have not yet taken legal action regarding her cheating. If she cheats, then whatever happens according to the law is better. You should not do anything that goes beyond the law.

[Webutxo]

There are many issues that can cause a woman to have an affair, it could be an unhappy marriage or her husband having another woman outside. Or maybe it was all her fault. We are not insiders and cannot know exactly what happened to them. So we should not just listen to one side and rush to judge without knowing the truth behind it.

In this case, in my opinion, the best way is to let the court and the law handle it. I don't support OP's idea of ​​trying to embezzle all the money the two of you built together. Regardless of who is right or wrong, his wife certainly contributed a lot to that fortune and she deserves a small share.

I like your way of thinking. So far, everyone on this post has been supporting the husband to be man enough and divorced her which is not bad but we have only heard one side of the truth. There may be more in his marriage that is not disclosed. I know human beings can't be trusted 100% but someone that you profess to can't change one day and start cheating, there must be something the husband was doing before that he is not doing again, until we hear her own side of the story before we can judge her marital home.

If you have a cheating spouse and you have a divorce on your mind, it's going to be painful to see that you are going to give half of your asset to them and when you have children especially females that are not 18 years old yet, you will have to provide for their custody and support until they are age of 18 before you can decide whether they can stay with you or not.

The husband really thinks that it's a safe practice to hide his investment in Bitcoin, but as far as he is going to sell his assets, there is going to be evidence of transaction about his investment, it can be prove in court if they found out. What is going to happen if the court find out he has been lying if that is finds out, not going to be funny.

[mindrust]

The main issue is that 50-50 asset division garbage in marriages and it needs a fix. If the husband contributes much more to the family funds then his share needs to be bigger proportionally.

A low earning wife (or a husband) has a big advantage here. It is like they are owning half of the company even though they contributed 20-30% (if that) to their equity.

It is a scam and people have no idea what they are signing.


What we need is a separate company that is responsible for the family expenses. Every family needs to start one and whatever money the parents deposit, they need to know that they’ll be getting only the half in case of a divorce.

Every other saving needs to stay personal under their own name and nobody needs to pay anything to the other party from their own personal funds when a divorce occurs.

Right now every earning from both husband and wife is considered family funds and that’s bullshit. People don’t lose their personal life when they form a family.

[LDL]

If he runs away from home without divorcing his wife, he will be doing a very wrong thing. For now, he should either end the relationship or seek a solution through the guardians of both parties. If you leave the country without ending the relationship or getting a divorce, there are many things your wife can do if she files a case against you and your passport may be cancelled. In this case, you will be arrested by the immigration police and brought back to the country, and you will have to face a difficult legal situation.

[Slitters riot]

@gmaxwell I am calling you out because what you contributed on this topic has got me thinking so much, I wish there is a way to know if you are a male or a female, it would have help even better.

Have you ever seen where ladies intentionally go into marriage and relationship solely for what you have? knowing fully well that they would cheat on you and you will never know? But if you find out they are so sure that they aren't leaving empty handed? Many of them had this planned all along, men are the ones that love unconditionally.

I don't even care if you are a male or female, I am  still going to say what I want, I hope your household is full of male children from you and your partner and I pray that those ladies come into their lives and pretend to love them all for this end game.

Was Sex enjoyable only by man? All those times they spent together that man did nothing for her? She can't work and have good things to her name? I doubt you are a man, and if you are then I  sure you must be raising your daughters as bitches.

This is not a way to proof a tough man, go and serve your country in the military where you can die at any moment and leave your wife at home, this is called been a man, and imagine you come back home to see that your wife cheated on you still.

[woez]

Solution: I plan on selling all my stock market investments, putting all that money in a bitcoin cold wallet then moving permanently to Iraq where all my cousins and siblings live. By the time my wife realizes what had happened, I will be in a different continent and no police organization would bother tracking someone down for something this minor.

Thanks in advance Bitcoiners!

I understand the situation, but don't be rash, even if you have the initiative and it's considered natural that the plan will eventually be discovered. Remember, crypto isn't a traceless or anonymous "black hole." Many people now understand how to track blockchain-based transaction flow, and if caught, it could add two more problems to your life.

If you're not comfortable, just choose a safe route. After reviewing everything you've written and the evidence that proves the incident is real, I think there will be good and legal action. Yes, of course, there are costs involved in making this happen. Make it legal and legal, and I think that's the safest way.

[purple_sparkles]

We all have secrets from our spouses, but I’m a supporter of a shared budget. It’s very unhealthy when partners don’t trust each other and try to hide their assets. If there are any doubts, it’s better to sign a prenuptial agreement where both can outline their concerns, but it should always be done by mutual consent.Otherwise, such a relationship is doomed to a sad ending even before it begins.

[Satofan44]

Unfortunately, even proving adultery doesn't interfere with the division of assets, at least here in Brazil. Revenge isn't the best solution; just expose what you know to her and get it over with, brother. It will be the best decision of your life; leave this relationship and move on. I know it's difficult, it's sad, but dwelling on this kind of thinking will only hurt you. Even if you run away, you'll still be married to her, and in the end, the tables will turn against you...

Yet another place where the laws are not good.

Be a true man and uphold your sense of responsibility in carrying out your duties and the law.

Don't write nonsense like this as it is not true. This has nothing to do with being a man, any duties or any gods. The only part that is true is that he contractually owes his wife 50% because of his prior naivety.

It's very heartbreaking to see that you wasted 20 years in marriage with someone that doesn't deserve it, but the only question I have for you is, have you secretly cheated on your wife before in the past? If your answer is No then it is very unfair to you as a faithful partner. But I don't think divorcing her and giving her half of your assets is a bad thing though, she has been in the marriage with you for two decades and I'm sure there are sacrifices that she has made for you along the line so I think you should pay her off with half of your assets and have your peace and live your life.

Existing and doing cleaning or cooking is not a sacrifice though.   You can't be sure that she has contributed anything significant to this, and most definitely 20 years of average sacrifice or work does not earn you $1.5M.

There is a big difference between your wife's age and yours as you mentioned here you are 45 years old and your wife is 20 years old this age difference is becoming a reason for divorce between you and your wife.

No, you didn't understand him. His wife is not 20 years old, they have been married for 20 years.

@gmaxwell I am calling you out because what you contributed on this topic has got me thinking so much, I wish there is a way to know if you are a male or a female, it would have help even better.

He is a male, this is easy to find out.

Have you ever seen where ladies intentionally go into marriage and relationship solely for what you have? knowing fully well that they would cheat on you and you will never know? But if you find out they are so sure that they aren't leaving empty handed? Many of them had this planned all along, men are the ones that love unconditionally.

I am pretty sure that he is aware of this, but what about it? There are many people always trying to cheat and intentionally defraud others. You will encounter many of these in your life. It is your own responsibility to protect yourself from them, the current laws are not very well designed to help with many cases. In this particular example that you have written you can see it as the failure of the husband to protect himself on time through a prenup. I hate cheaters as much as anybody but that does not change the fact that the person themselves has made a grave mistake here for whatever reason. Never get married without a prenup. It solves most problems ahead of time.

Was Sex enjoyable only by man? All those times they spent together that man did nothing for her? She can't work and have good things to her name? I doubt you are a man, and if you are then I  sure you must be raising your daughters as bitches.

Did someone cheat on your and he touched upon a nerve? What is this supposed to be?