I Didn’t Change, I Just Stopped Performing for You😔

[CamilaStar]

Here's what I have learned, 😔people who start saying you changed the moment you stop tolerating their behavior, they don't miss who you were, they miss what you allowed. Boundaries feel like betrayal to people who benefited from your silence. Your growth exposes their stagnation, and instead of rising with you, they resent you because someone who loves you will never say you changed, they'll say you've grown

[NotATether]

At some point you have to acknowledge that you have to cut ties with some people for your own mental sanity's sake. Could be people you've known for years, or people you love, and so on. Because if that respect is not reciprocated then eventually you're going to get stressed out and that's really destructive for your body health.

It can be as simple as not talking to them anymore or seeing them. But the truth is that many of us eventually have to confront this feeling at some point in our lives.

[pliego]

At some point you have to acknowledge that you have to cut ties with some people for your own mental sanity's sake. Could be people you've known for years, or people you love, and so on. Because if that respect is not reciprocated then eventually you're going to get stressed out and that's really destructive for your body health.

It can be as simple as not talking to them anymore or seeing them. But the truth is that many of us eventually have to confront this feeling at some point in our lives.

Yeah, boundaries are underrated. You don’t owe constant access to anyone at the cost of your sanity

[Berry2d]

At some point you have to acknowledge that you have to cut ties with some people for your own mental sanity's sake. Could be people you've known for years, or people you love, and so on. Because if that respect is not reciprocated then eventually you're going to get stressed out and that's really destructive for your body health.

It can be as simple as not talking to them anymore or seeing them. But the truth is that many of us eventually have to confront this feeling at some point in our lives.

Some we see as friends and families are nothing but parasites waiting and watching to gain from us and never add in one way or the other to our lifes and to keep going forward cutting the ties with them is the only solution to the problem because they won't stop bringing you down until you let go even if its too hard to let go but that is the only option. 
Most challenges encountered by youths are the kinds of friends that surrounds them, most are only there because of what they stand to gain and not for the real purpose of friendship.  The life of a man may be simultaneously moving with a normal and good velocity but when those forces we see are good once comes in things keeps dropping till it finds it difficult moving and the only solution is to separate all from your side if you really wants to move.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

Here's what I have learned, 😔people who start saying you changed the moment you stop tolerating their behavior, they don't miss who you were, they miss what you allowed. Boundaries feel like betrayal to people who benefited from your silence. Your growth exposes their stagnation, and instead of rising with you, they resent you because someone who loves you will never say you changed, they'll say you've grown

There are so many people who will be there because you are above and reaching your goal, they are one of the people who can eat your fruits but when your tree stop bearing fruits for a while they are the one who will be gone fast.
There are so many people around us who will laugh with us but will never share tears, They will always be  there and like you as long as you are helping them and they are  getting something from you but the one who will be gone when you have nothing to give, what worst? with those many favor and blessings you gave to those ungrateful people they will always remember the one time you did not give because you dont have enough to give in.

Life is a long road where we need to learn while we are driving, we  should get those people and allow to get in our car coz they love you and want you to be successful and leave those who just want to ride when you are winning.
If anyone on your wheel wants to take a turn, never do it, just leave them and continue the roadmap you created and want to have.