Showing your seed phrase or wallet password to your next of kin while your alive

[reagansimms]

I was thinking about all those ideas and I came up with a thought that leads to questions.
1. Is it good to give our seed phrase or wallet password to our next of kin while we are alive since death is inevitable?

2. If the answer to the first question is Yes, what then happens to us if the next of kin defraud us of our hard earn wealth while we're alive?

Betrayal between relatives has been happening long before Bitcoin appeared, when it comes to money, the eyes of greedy people will be closed and cannot distinguish who will be cheated. Giving your seed phrase or wallet password to a close relative while you're still alive can be a good option, rather than dying without anyone having access to your assets, but you need to carefully consider which relatives to choose as heirs. You should look for a relative who is trustworthy and respects your every wish (not misusing the assets stored in the wallet), then it will be a good choice.
However, if the worst case scenario happens, and a relative abuses your trust by taking all the assets you have stored in your wallet, it will be a big problem. In my opinion, the solution to overcome problems like this is to consider having other plans, such as making a will or designating a trusted heir.

[suzanne5223]

I have been reading a lot of post and replies where people debates on the safest way to store up Bitcoin seed phrase, some folks said writing it on paper and storing the paper in a secret places is the safest means there by preventing Cyber attacks while other folks said storing the seed phrase in a special hard ware device is the best way.

What people said about the best way to store private wallet information is just an opinion, and it is not everything said is always correct so you need to do your own research.
Having said that, the writing of wallet seeds on paper was advised to practise airgap storage, and it is not considered the safest means for storing a seed phrase. However, one of the safest means is still the use of an austenitic stainless steel with grade 316L, which has the potential to resist different stress or disasters.
Nevertheless, you'll still need a safe location to keep the metal plate.

1. Is it good to give our seed phrase or wallet password to our next of kin while we are alive since death is inevitable?

Do this if you're looking for a quick die.
Why not get a bank safe deposit box?

2. If the answer to the first question is Yes, what then happens to us if the next of kin defraud us of our hard earn wealth while we're alive?

You should have will happen which is bankruptcy.

[Antona]

I was thinking about all those ideas and I came up with a thought that leads to questions.
1. Is it good to give our seed phrase or wallet password to our next of kin while we are alive since death is inevitable?

2. If the answer to the first question is Yes, what then happens to us if the next of kin defraud us of our hard earn wealth while we're alive?

Betrayal between relatives has been happening long before Bitcoin appeared, when it comes to money, the eyes of greedy people will be closed and cannot distinguish who will be cheated. Giving your seed phrase or wallet password to a close relative while you're still alive can be a good option, rather than dying without anyone having access to your assets, but you need to carefully consider which relatives to choose as heirs. You should look for a relative who is trustworthy and respects your every wish (not misusing the assets stored in the wallet), then it will be a good choice.
However, if the worst case scenario happens, and a relative abuses your trust by taking all the assets you have stored in your wallet, it will be a big problem. In my opinion, the solution to overcome problems like this is to consider having other plans, such as making a will or designating a trusted heir.

True but the "carefully consider" part is a minefield a trust or a timed transaction via a service might be better. That way they only get access after a confirmed event (like your death) not the second you give them the seed it removes the temptation while you're alive

[Achalugo BTC]

This is something that comes to my mind anytime I hear people talking about time lock in these kind of threads.. What matters the most isn't even passing on the coins to your next of kin but passing on your knowledge of bitcoin to them.

That's because even if you have successfully planned everything while you are alive and it seems all is fine, if they don't have sound knowledge on what to do with the locked coins, they might end up losing it to scammers or don't even bother much about it since it seems impossible to get the coins out..

But yet again knowledge of bitcoin has to be the first thing to cross your mind so we don't waste efforts while trying to pass on these coins to our loved ones..

You are right, this has become some issues for people because of lack of planning, no matter how rich one is, its important for people to always has a will and teach them what they know, so that even if they are not alive again, there will not be a problem again between their relatives.
Because, life can at times take one unaware that you might not straighten up things before one will die, and teaching or passing the knowledge one has about Bitcoin by letting them the pros and the cons of it, will make them to know and have the understanding of it, so that even though they are not around again, they can still hold onto it and make sure it doesn't crashing.