Why there is Bias!

[Findingnemo]

She didn't ask me directly but society in general, I take care of her and she take care of me well too in every way such as emotionally, physically and financially. We both share everything so the shift has happened still why always women got more responsibility when it comes to everything and men get away easily is what her arguement.

Alright, I've got to understand the argument better now.
Tell her, theoretically, men are the stronger sex, and women are meant to be submissive in all ways. However, I am someone who believes in complementary roles. As a man i choose to lead while my woman should support, if anything goes wrong, both parties should take the blame. Each party has to play its own role, and no one will be blamed for it. A gender should be blamed when they do not play their role.

Men are physically strong which doesn't make every women has to be submissive, if we go by the rule of nature which is survival of the fittest then what women does is perfectly fair right? They are not going to stick with a man who can't provide anymore that is how most of the animals react but are we going to assume we are still animals too?

It's not only about cheating but providing equal opportunities while also give them equal accountability is fair in my view.

[Kelward]

Men are polygamous by nature and any man who is faithful to only one woman does so because it is his decision it's not as if he's not attracted to other women, this is what I believe. Aside from western cultures where their tradition is one man one wife, many other cultures allow men to marry as many wives as they can cater for. But I've never seen a culture where a woman can marry more than one husband. I don't know if I can call this tradition bias against women but I believe that nature has made it to be so, same nature also made men to provide for women, if you look at it from that perspective you will see that there is a balance.

[passwordnow]

I think it's all due to the impression of the society that men are masculine and with what I've heard that they're justifying the wrongdoing is that because we're "men". And that's why it seems that women are always the victim that they have no right to do the wrongdoing. We're not tolerating any kind of cheating in a relationship but that's what the society shows, if it's men then they have the pass to do it. But if it's women, you shouldn't do that because that's what the impression with it. This is really the bias in the society and I think it's starting to change and no one deserves to be cheated on.

[Abdulzuruku01]

A discussion sparked with my girl recently about why women always been accountable for everything, for example if someone goes into affiar the woman is accused of wrongdoing more compared to men but both are doing the same thing and choose to be in a relationship while cheating their partners. The same thing goes for every scenario when both genders are involved in that matter, she asked why? And why always women...

Honestly I lost my argument there and didn't know what to reply so let's discuss about it here and if you were in that situation what would you have replied?

Both genders must be accountable for cheating in relationships, but the reasons why people blame female genders more is that, most of our ladies are the one seducing the men due to the so many reasons like poverty ,low sexual drive and structural looks. When a man is poor and he can't cater for woman needs, some of our ladies are not patient enough to manage that man and will be looking for any possible ways to meet up with there needs. And that's why if u are a man and your woman has been requesting from you try and do little even if u can't do all.

[Findingnemo]

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Both genders must be accountable for cheating in relationships, but the reasons why people blame female genders more is that, most of our ladies are the one seducing the men due to the so many reasons like poverty ,low sexual drive and structural looks. When a man is poor and he can't cater for woman needs, some of our ladies are not patient enough to manage that man and will be looking for any possible ways to meet up with there needs. And that's why if u are a man and your woman has been requesting from you try and do little even if u can't do all.

If women were always the one who run behind money then the 90% of the men would be single now because only 10% of them are financially successful yet most of the men are still managed to find a women so it's just a blatant statement that women is the one seduce for the money, no that is not the reality anymore.

It is an impression that moden femist women created while they trying to say they want to be independent while doing OF.

[Nmjut]

We are living in a biased soiety in which woman is always accountable for her actions. Women have limited acccess to resources such as: limited access to education; limited access to economic resources;; and limited access to political opportunities. Women are exploited by cheap labor especially in developing countries. Similarly, they have become a commodity  for capitalist class. They are exploiting women on the name of beauty. This capitalist society is escalating racial discrimination  among wome ,in terms of black and white women. Even women are not allowed to choose the pprofession of their own choice especially in south asian countries.

[programmer3666]

A discussion sparked with my girl recently about why women always been accountable for everything, for example if someone goes into affiar the woman is accused of wrongdoing more compared to men but both are doing the same thing and choose to be in a relationship while cheating their partners. The same thing goes for every scenario when both genders are involved in that matter, she asked why? And why always women...

Honestly I lost my argument there and didn't know what to reply so let's discuss about it here and if you were in that situation what would you have replied?

your girl actually highlighted a very reasonable point, the fact remains that in such matters women are almost generally subjected to public biases simply because of the stereotype mindset and roles that have been in our cultures or societies for generations now. women have been expected to maintain that sense of morality but men on the other hand are given a free pass when they do the same things! which is clearly not fair.

[BADecker]

Why there is Bias!


Because I'm right and you are not but you keep saying you are.

[laijsica]

A discussion sparked with my girl recently about why women always been accountable for everything, for example if someone goes into affiar the woman is accused of wrongdoing more compared to men but both are doing the same thing and choose to be in a relationship while cheating their partners. The same thing goes for every scenario when both genders are involved in that matter, she asked why? And why always women...

Honestly I lost my argument there and didn't know what to reply so let's discuss about it here and if you were in that situation what would you have replied?

It is true that both men and women are responsible, but due to the difference in social context or in a male dominated society women are blamed for adultery. In many societies, men control and dominate women in every way so both are responsible but only women are unjustly blamed.

In the case of extramarital affairs women are blamed for their tendency to indulge men. The reasoning of judges in male dominated societies is that if a woman did not indulge a man, that man would not have had an extramarital affair with her. In most cases, women are dependent on men, so in most cases, women use men to stay financially secure.