True commands and criticism may get on your nerves,but should you conclude that nothing you do is ever good enough or that you're a complete failure simply because your parents have pointed out a few of your flaws? Whatever is behind the criticism the question is:How can you cope with it? How can you remain cool of spirit when your being criticized at home or in the society?
There is this video online which you must have also come across about a young boy within the range of 7 years old who called the police on her mom for disciplining him with few strokes of cane and on the arrival of the policemen the older police asked who she is to the child and she said she's the mom then further asked, what happened and she narrated the boy was jumping classes or so and he was reported to her and she tried to discipline him against such bad attitude and the next thing, the boy called on the police. The policeman then called the boy to a side, collected the belt and warned the boy never to try such thing again of reporting his mom to the police for trying to bring him to the right path. I've seen so many cases where parents avoid to discipline or criticize a child from his childhood and allow him to grow up and become uncontrollable at home and in the society.
No one can be loved by all and it's not everything that you do will be appreciated by all. So expect critics from people close to you in order for you to become better tomorrow. If you people don't criticize you, it means you're nobody. Your Mom is doing all that monitoring to make sure that you are carrying the task correctly. Maybe, you are the stubborn type.
Yes, most of the time, it's the stubborn one who face criticism at home and who also don't want to be corrected by their parents. I wonder why is it children tend to react to their moms when being disciplined by them than the way they will be scared of the dad. Children tend to be less afraid and more confrontational to their mom than the way they will do to their dad in most homes and you will find situation whereby a mom will scold a child and the child would want to react badly and rudely back to her.
