AS A PARENTS IS GOOD TO ARGUE AND FIGHT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN

[AmaGold70]

There is this  case i came across were the family head  gather with the rest of the family settling a conflict between a man and the wife, even the neighbors came to testify that this particular man argue and fight from morning till night in the front of their children and when they asked the why he love arguing and fighting all the time without minding if your children is at home and the man replied and said that when he was growing up that he usually sees his own father biting up his mother every day and he knows that the best way to correct a wife when she is wrong is by biting her up all the time, then family head caution the man and said that he took a wrong side of his father by biting up his wife all the time is wrong and even in the front of the children too, so in that case i learnt that it is not good to do anything that effect your children in future while they are still a child, you should stop doing some certain things in there presence because children learn easily from the parents.

Domestic violence has never been a good way to correct your spouse and it's very wrong to do it especially in the presence of your kids because kids often pick up bad behavior the most , as parents, we are our children's first role model and anything they see us do at home they will definitely do the same outside home hence the saying "charity begins at home" you don't expect a child to behave responsible in public when there was never a display of love and respect at the house they grew up in. Married couple are bound to have their differences but it's never right to rise your voices at each other in the presence of the kids to avoid misleading them into thinking it's okay to be rude and disrespectful to their future partner.

[Joy- maker]

I think I have said this before that according to a research in psychology when children are very  young, most of what they learn comes from their parents and home and that's the truth. Parents have to be careful of the kind of things they do in front of their children because they are role model to their children especially when they very young. Around 60 to 70 percent of things your children know today came from you and your wife and the environment. Parents are not suppose to quarrel in front of their children talk more of fighting in front of them. And any man who is bitting his wife is a weakling  and a disgrace to manhood.

[Iamgoat]

That reasoning shows that whatever we show in front of our kids, they'll remember that and will set as an example to do the same thing as they grow old. It's a bad model to show that kind of argument in front of your kids if the argument is between you and your wife only. Set an example that if the kids have done wrong, that's the time to show it to the siblings on how you're going to discipline them. But things between wives and husbands, it should be kept privately because the kids are easy to remember arguments day and night.

You are right and this is something many people don’t think about deeply of things like this children learn more from what they see than from what they are told. When children witness the constant argument between their parents especially when these arguments are heated ones, it quietly shapes how they understand relationships, communication and even conflicts. Arguments and disagreements between husbands and wives are something which is inevitable but exposing kids to them is where the problem starts. We should know children do not have a strong emotional tool to be able to separate adult issues from themselves.

[POPOLUV]

I think I have said this before that according a research in psychology when children are very  young, most of what they learn comes from their parents and home and that's the truth. Parents have to be careful of the kind of things they do in front of their children because they are role model to their children especially when they very young. Around 60 to 70 percent of things your children know today came from you and your wife and the environment. Parents are not suppose to quarrel in front of their children talk more of fighting in front of them. And any man who is bitting his wife is a weakling  and a disgrace to manhood.

You have just spoken the facts here, i came to understand that the reason why most parents don't care fight in the front of their children most times is because they think as their children is still a child that their brain can't catch what the parents is displaying right in the front of them and most parents that just experience having children for very first time will fall to ask questions from those parents that has been into that system for a very long time now because those newly married couples can be making alot of mistakes thinking that their children can not recall what they often see their parents do, i really kick against parents fighting in front of their children.

[Felicity_Tide]

the man replied and said that when he was growing up that he usually sees his own father biting up his mother every day

Did I just read "biting'" or the OP made a mistake?. Why do we even have to have a conversation like this because it's disgusting?.
Unarguably, parents should never have a fight in the presence of their children, let alone,  engage in physical abuse. The society today is filled with too many people, who grew to be comfortable with assaulting others because that's what makes them better. So many children coming from broken homes because they just happen to have parents who still think that life is all about themselves. Unfortunately, the society is on the receiving end of all these too many irresponsibility.

[Ishicryptic]

Parents are the first role models of their children and whatever you do in front of your kids will remain with them till their adulthood and there is likelihood that they will emulate most of their parents characters. If you have an issue to settle with your spouse you should do it in private without the knowledge of your kids, that shows that you are a responsible parent in front of your children. When couples fight in front of their children they are degrading themselves and it will have psychological effects on the kids till their adulthood. If a child grows up in a happy home they will like their homes to be like their parent's but when a child that grew up in a violent home have their own family they will exhibit what they learnt from their parents.

Exceptionally there are some children that don't follow in the part of their parents, they will grow up and choose their paths either to be good or bad.