We don't grow when life is easier but we grow when life is hard

[Hewlet]

once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school.

This is relatively dependent on the kind of rich kid you are talking of and the kind of poor child you are talking of. there are youths that are from a well to do home that are still serious with their academics far more than the ones that are from poor homes. some rich kids will even use the resources and connection they have as a advantage and take their life's so seriously that they easily give the poor kid serious gap in life within a short time.

do not even start to imagine that because you are a poor kid that there is any advantage that you have over a kid that has wealth running in his vain. if a child that grows up from a well to do home has parents that has good moral, and took time to give him the right orientation about life, such a child will see freedom and will never misbehave. there is nothing good about leaving a hard life. if you are living in an area where people are naturally wealthy and at the same time industrious, you will know that wealthy people are at the same hard working.

[Rockstarguy]

That's life for you. The truth is that comfort in life is very sweet; if you come to this life and all you are supposed to struggle for has already been provided for you, you won't bother to struggle for anything. I don't blame most people because parents have already built generational wealth for them, and they wouldn't want to struggle to go through what others have passed through in struggling for life.

Some parents who have worked so hard will always make their children aware that they also need to work hard because they know they can succeed with a good foundation.

[mvdheuvel1983]

Some parents who have worked so hard will always make their children aware that they also need to work hard because they know they can succeed with a good foundation.

Regardless of inheriting wealth from parents kids need to be taught the right thing and part of it is how to work hard to make their own money because the experience is different. You aren't helping your children or all you do is allow them enjoy what you have laboured to get without them having any real experience about working for many, it's high time parents starts helping them kids so they don't end up becoming too comfortable with what they can't afford working for.

[programmer3666]

Many of the rich men children don't grow the way they are meant to be because they see everything coming to them once they mention what they want and some time if the father notices early that this particular child will not do well because of too much pampering and the mother will claim that father is too hard on that particular child and without the mother knowing that the father want the best for the child, and most the rich men children end up growing out from the plan the father have for them once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school, inclusion i advise that parents are in the best position to know in which child that is growing in the wrong direction and such child should be corrected immediately when he/she is a kids and avoid too much pampering when you know on what to do when the child did wrong and parents don't fail to apply such caution that will help your children in future when they have come to ages.

Generally when life becomes hard!! people tend to learn discipline and take things more seriously. But if everything comes too easy, the some people wl likely not learn the act of responsibility. Parents need to balance love and discipline in the upbringingof their children, because too much pampering can spoil a child, while correcting mistakes early helps them grow into responsible adults. Hard times  surely build stronger character than easy times

[icebar]

When a child grows up, family members have to take special responsibility for him. When the child is young, he is unable to understand his own good and bad. At that time, if a parent does not discipline him, he will suffer in the future. There are many parents who love their children excessively, which should definitely be avoided. Because if they get excessive love, the children will not be able to understand anything about adversity. They will only give their desires the highest priority and make decisions more emotionally, which should definitely be avoided. When loving a child, it should not be excessive in any way.

[fortelen]

Many of the rich men children don't grow the way they are meant to be because they see everything coming to them once they mention what they want and some time if the father notices early that this particular child will not do well because of too much pampering and the mother will claim that father is too hard on that particular child and without the mother knowing that the father want the best for the child, and most the rich men children end up growing out from the plan the father have for them once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school, inclusion i advise that parents are in the best position to know in which child that is growing in the wrong direction and such child should be corrected immediately when he/she is a kids and avoid too much pampering when you know on what to do when the child did wrong and parents don't fail to apply such caution that will help your children in future when they have come to ages.

well said totally agree with you when your growing up and things are constantly handed to you how are you meant to learn. rich children rebel rather then grow from the plan their parents wanted for them because they finally reach and age where the start to listen to their own mind and realis this is the plan their parent want not the plan they want. they end up doing what they want because they are spoilt and selfish but they know no better so whos really at fault. pampering a child is not allowing them to learn and grow correct the mistake before it to late lead them to the right path where they learn from experience

[RealNoblee]

Many of the rich men children don't grow the way they are meant to be because they see everything coming to them once they mention what they want and some time if the father notices early that this particular child will not do well because of too much pampering and the mother will claim that father is too hard on that particular child and without the mother knowing that the father want the best for the child, and most the rich men children end up growing out from the plan the father have for them once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school, inclusion i advise that parents are in the best position to know in which child that is growing in the wrong direction and such child should be corrected immediately when he/she is a kids and avoid too much pampering when you know on what to do when the child did wrong and parents don't fail to apply such caution that will help your children in future when they have come to ages.

My view here is, those who are born of a rich parents not doing well in life and those who are born of a poor parents doing well all depends on mindset.
No matter the level of training, wealth and good upbringing a rich or a poor man gives to a child with a wrong mindset, your quest is as good as mine. There will not be any productive and positive result

More over, many have missed it in hard times because they failed not to seize the opportunities it presents.
While many habe entered into fortune because they did not take for granted the opportunity it also present.

[Gozie51]

inclusion i advise that parents are in the best position to know in which child that is growing in the wrong direction and such child should be corrected immediately when he/she is a kids and avoid too much pampering when you know on what to do when the child did wrong and parents don't fail to apply such caution that will help your children in future when they have come to ages.

But sometimes I think the way a child turns out has to do with destiny. Although, the Bible teaches that a child should be trained in the way that when they grow they won't depart from it, another say spear the rod and spoil the child, but have we not seen the children of "God's servants and ministers" the way they go at the end? Does it mean that those parents that are close to God didn't train the children well? Of course they trained them in the way of the lord but at the long run when the children become adults, they go differently from their home bringing. Parents will do their best but the whole of the way a child behaves is up to the child. Adulthood is a very decisive period for any child and that is when parents should put more effort because if they allow socialization and peer group pressure suade them from home bringing then they would follow what their pairs are doing.

[Creeper0]

Rich and poor are not the main issue here, but how the family teaches a child is the big issue. Whether you have money or not, whether you are poor or rich, always make it difficult for your child to feel deprived and make it difficult for them to meet their needs. Despite being able to do so, do not fulfill unnecessary obligations of your child, rather make excuses for lack of money and try to ignore unnecessary obligations. However, you should not hesitate to bear the necessary expenses.

Encourage him to earn money at a young age, although his income should not be the main thing but a process to protect him from the negative effects of society. Learning to earn money from a young age will increase his experience and he will be able to learn new things regularly which are not taught in any institution. Undoubtedly, happy children refrain from these teachings and later that effect falls on the parents. Education does not depend on money, whether you have money or not, you can still teach your child moral education.

[Dunamisx]

Life taught us so many things, which we still continue to learn more form it, but we may tend to get discouraged the movement the situation gets more harder and tougher beyond our ability to cope, that is why we need support and help from each other, so that we can lean on ourselves in challenging times, life is not difficult, but we can decide to make it more easier when we don't get things more complicated for ourselves.

[Sim_card]

Regardless of inheriting wealth from parents kids need to be taught the right thing and part of it is how to work hard to make their own money because the experience is different. You aren't helping your children or all you do is allow them enjoy what you have laboured to get without them having any real experience about working for many, it's high time parents starts helping them kids so they don't end up becoming too comfortable with what they can't afford working for.

When you don't show them what life is all about by allowing them to work and do their chores themselves, you are the one destroying their future because they wouldn't know how to make money and what it takes to preserve wealth. When yiu die, they'll sell all your properties and lavish the money. What you toll for all through your life.

[btc78]

once they have the opportunity to stay alone while going through high school, and once such is giving to they will doing clubbing and taking hard drugs without attending any of the licture any day because his father money, while the poor children grow well even things are hard and grap every little opportunity they have in the high school and they take lictures more serious because they know their family background and has been motivating them to be more serious in school.

This is relatively dependent on the kind of rich kid you are talking of and the kind of poor child you are talking of. there are youths that are from a well to do home that are still serious with their academics far more than the ones that are from poor homes. some rich kids will even use the resources and connection they have as a advantage and take their life's so seriously that they easily give the poor kid serious gap in life within a short time.

one way to look at this is that there are many kinds of struggles in life. poor kids will struggle financially but rich kids may struggle in terms of mental and emotional stability. rich kids often complain or resent their parents for being too strict, too pressuring, or too distant

[Cryptoprincess101]

It's not every rich kid that got spoiled by either of their parents through pampering. What spoils children is the environment that they find themselves when they leave home and i think that is the area that most rich parents don't pay attention to, all they want is for their children to attend the best luxury schools without finding out what morals does student of such institution exposed to. There are some rich families that also disciplines their children and makes sure that they don't get so much pampering and also expose them to the outside world to know that life isn't easy but some of those children also get lured by friends to join bad groups and bad gangs that corrupts their mindset. It is the duty of every child to become responsible especially those that have good upbringing.
    A good child train and nurture themselves to become useful and productive to the society so it's not only about coming from a rich home, some children from poor homes who got good upbringing also do backslide along the way, so this is not an issue about rich kids or poor kids, it's general after all some poor kids also get pampering from their parents especially from those families that have just one kid.

[POPOLUV]

It's not every rich kid that got spoiled by either of their parents through pampering. What spoils children is the environment that they find themselves when they leave home and i think that is the area that most rich parents don't pay attention to, all they want is for their children to attend the best luxury schools without finding out what morals does student of such institution exposed to. There are some rich families that also disciplines their children and makes sure that they don't get so much pampering and also expose them to the outside world to know that life isn't easy but some of those children also get lured by friends to join bad groups and bad gangs that corrupts their mindset. It is the duty of every child to become responsible especially those that have good upbringing.
    A good child train and nurture themselves to become useful and productive to the society so it's not only about coming from a rich home, some children from poor homes who got good upbringing also do backslide along the way, so this is not an issue about rich kids or poor kids, it's general after all some poor kids also get pampering from their parents especially from those families that have just one kid.

You are very correct about what you have said earlier and i also agree with you that a rich kids that is well trained and well recognized as peaceful person because he is still under their parents and the very moment kids grown up to a stage of leaving the parents for schooling and still maintain his kindness of coming from a good home within first semester and friends that is leaving around him will start influence the boy that is well to start smoking, drinking and keeping later nights, before you could know it the well trained person has turned to terrorist to the society, i understand that the best way to train up a child is to allow your children associate with others and you as the parents your duties is to watch what your children is capable of when they are with you.

[Tmoonz]

Regardless of inheriting wealth from parents kids need to be taught the right thing and part of it is how to work hard to make their own money because the experience is different. You aren't helping your children or all you do is allow them enjoy what you have laboured to get without them having any real experience about working for many, it's high time parents starts helping them kids so they don't end up becoming too comfortable with what they can't afford working for.

When you don't show them what life is all about by allowing them to work and do their chores themselves, you are the one destroying their future because they wouldn't know how to make money and what it takes to preserve wealth. When yiu die, they'll sell all your properties and lavish the money. What you toll for all through your life.

You are right about this because we see this things happening every day in our society, even what is meant to sustain a generational wealth will be brought to dust as a result of lack of good management system after many years it took the business or investment to grow up a certain point, there is nothing wrong teaching and showing children that life doesn't only revolves around a particular way, life revolves around in various kind of ways hence when they understand this even growing up in a rich and wealthy homes they will still know about the other side of life.

[Iamgoat]

That is why there is a huge difference from the kids that have lived poor and then grown up in life, they know how to deal with hardship. Compared to the kids that have lived a good life when they're young. But I won't blame those rich kids, their parents worked hard for that to give them the better life that they can. Now it will only differ on how they will be dealing with things. They're stronger and opportunities are there for the rich kids because of the connection of their parents and how they've been groomed to be young professionals.

One thing is also for sure, hardship does build resilience. If a person is facing hardship today and they work hard to face it and fight it, it makes them stronger to resist such hardships in the future even though every hardship also comes with its own challenges and struggles. Also, it is important to mention you don’t have to conclude saying it is only the poor children who suffer because even the rich children do face difficulties too and it is safe and okay to recognize the difficulties of both of them as it goes along way to make them stronger in life. It is not all children who grew up from a rich family is over pampered, some of them actually faced the difficulties of life and were trained to deal with it.

[OgNasty]

I understand what is being said here but I’m not sure I agree. As an adult, you are very capable of doing things to better yourself and are usually limited by available time. When life is easy, you have the time to workout regularly, read, learn new skills… Many men are trapped in lives of desperation. Never getting to find time to work on themselves or their situation. For people with strong work ethics, free time is gold.

[POPOLUV]

Rich and poor are not the main issue here, but how the family teaches a child is the big issue. Whether you have money or not, whether you are poor or rich, always make it difficult for your child to feel deprived and make it difficult for them to meet their needs. Despite being able to do so, do not fulfill unnecessary obligations of your child, rather make excuses for lack of money and try to ignore unnecessary obligations. However, you should not hesitate to bear the necessary expenses.

Encourage him to earn money at a young age, although his income should not be the main thing but a process to protect him from the negative effects of society. Learning to earn money from a young age will increase his experience and he will be able to learn new things regularly which are not taught in any institution. Undoubtedly, happy children refrain from these teachings and later that effect falls on the parents. Education does not depend on money, whether you have money or not, you can still teach your child moral education.

You are very right of with the fact you have illustrated that it doesn't matter if you are rich or poor and what matters is how you are being trained from home and which i will not argue much on that because i have a child that has been trained very well infact the example I'm giving you is my a very close friend of my that the both parents trained this my  friend so much love and with fear of God but his mind and attitudes change from our year one in his high school, why because the parents are not in the school to monitor his activities while in school, and the boy that smoking and drinking as well, and i try to talk to him but he couldn't give me a listen ears because he is so deeply attached with bad friends around him, so could graduate with us, so i must said that it is by the grace of God that so many are not influenced by bad friends while in school.