Heart broken 💔 from loved ones.

[AYIMAN]

Have you ever experienced or face betrayal from loved ones?it is so heart broken.
In fact, one of the worst things that kill someone emotionally, mentally and even physically is being betrayed hated by your loved ones expecially when it if coming from your family.

It is so demoralising and heart broken when every member of your family team up against you.at that point in time,no one is ready to listen to you or to know how you feel..
The worst is when you just got married they will say you are under the influence of something or your wife. Expecially when you refused to give any member of your family the chance of talking down on your wife.this is the same family you don't joke with,the same family that you want to please everybody...it will shock you how everyone in the family will turn against you.

It is a very dangerous experience that anybody can have....
Now the question is,why is this hatred, problems and betrayal mostly coming once a man gets married?

[Rgram]

Over the course of human history, there have being and still is an existential threat. It might be in how the species do interact or the value we have amongst ourselves.

If you are someone that believes in the scriptures, it’s said through marriage, two individuals leaves their family to start a family of their own. That right there is a value placement and rightly so. Of course there would be a little tension because, the family gap has widen and over the years, it would be tested to be of good or not to every member of the nuclear and extended family. How you choose to manage it in these times of turbulence makes all the difference.

It is indeed demoralizing when all that is within you tells you it isn’t as they say but, you’ve got to allow them own their opinions and not let their opinions change who you’ve always being or cause a strain on your growth. Mind you, it’s never about marriage, it’s about growth (even marriage itself is a growth phase), when you growth in wealth and otherwise, it sets a lot of phases at play for value placement, it’s up to you to manage everyone without any problems and don’t chose to please everyone in the process, just be the same person you’ve always being with a little aura match it.

[ZeroVinsonN]

It's most likely because they are used to you being a particular version of yourself, a version that somehow no longer manifests itself to them once you get married, they probably feel like they've lost you, not to death but to a woman that for most of your life was nonexistent to you or to anyone of them. Your priorities have shifted and they are no longer necessarily the most important group of people in your life, especially when you and your wife already have children of your own, their best guess is that she has taken you from them and is the reason why you don't prioritize them as much as you used to.
Mentalities like this can really lead people into believing they have been left behind, betrayal comes very easily at that point.

Also maybe move this thread to Politics and Society