spiritual or something beyond human explanation

[dansus021]

I dont think isnt just you I forget maybe a month ago there is person that discuss about this one he said that if you chasing the money hardway he feels the money seems far away and vice versa. Not happen to me tho, but in my opinion Just do the normal way, you and your body need to rest and other thing so yeah.

I do believe there is a journal, book or paper that discuss this I mean there is should be explanation

[Mate2237]

OP you should not be deceived by this your observation of about things not working out for you, when ever you are serious putting in effort and everything within your powers, to achieving your goals. But when ever you are relaxed and is not too serious about pursuing your goals that is when things begins to work out for you. I feel like this is a trap that can keep you stagnant if you start buying into this types of believe system. Life is a battle field and so you must put in effort to making sure that what ever you want you should achieve with, not waiting for things to work out for you by relaxing.


I don't see anything spiritual about it, Maybe just call it a coincidence that anytime you are not too focused in , chasing a dream that things work out for you. Maybe things that you have already applied before but should not bring in the element of been spiritual into it.

[TastyChillySauce00]

I don't know if this is just me, why is it that whenever I want to chase a goal with all my might or want to make money with everything I got it always feel like the goal or the money runs even further away from me? But whenever I take the goal less serious, not too determined on it and just decide to live my life things start working out?

This is a strange world indeed, I wonder if anyone went through such before? Or just noticed?

Then you should simply live your life and see things work out.

Hard work doesn't always equal to result, there are combination of opportunity, luck, and hard work. When all these coming at the right time and at the right moment it will work out massively.
We've got no shortage of hardworking people, who work side hustle and did 3 shift yet the one who become rich are the one who gets the right opportunity at the right time with hardwork.

[ColdLava40]

I don't know if this is just me, why is it that whenever I want to chase a goal with all my might or want to make money with everything I got it always feel like the goal or the money runs even further away from me? But whenever I take the goal less serious, not too determined on it and just decide to live my life things start working out?

This is a strange world indeed, I wonder if anyone went through such before? Or just noticed?

Do you have a motivational factor?

Most times it's good while setting out some goals, you have something that motivate you to do better. It can be the reason you want to, maybe you've seen someone who you admire and wants to be like them.

We are humans so I can't say this may be singular to you. In life when we take some actions and there's no results we do intend to give up early. But if you did start with something very compensating, you would want to try again even when it's not working as planned.

[Juicyhome]

I don't know if this is just me, why is it that whenever I want to chase a goal with all my might or want to make money with everything I got it always feel like the goal or the money runs even further away from me? But whenever I take the goal less serious, not too determined on it and just decide to live my life things start working out?

This is a strange world indeed, I wonder if anyone went through such before? Or just noticed?

there's nothing spiritual about this, it's just how you approach matters of important, but at the end you still achieve your goal which most important thing here, it doesn't matter how it delay provided you still meet up your goals.

Spiritual is not for lazy stuff, this blame on spiritual make you weak , you should step up and stop some activities that distract you whenever you set a goal for yourself, you have to stay focus and stop blame game.

[Mhizlove]

Have experienced such thing too, the reason why it do happens like that is because sometimes is when someone hold a goal too  close or strong overthinking and pressure will get in that's when you see yourself forcing things even rushing decisions too and that will make your mind not to be calm, and with this kind of tension your will miss good opportunities along the line. On the other hand when you're relaxed, your head is clear you will act normal, reason much better, in this frame of mind you will see good chances and make use of them well.

So it's not something beyond humans or spiritual thing  is just that your mindset can either block your improvement or help your growth it's all depends on you and your state of mind at the moment

[Shadiq]

I don't know if this is just me, why is it that whenever I want to chase a goal with all my might or want to make money with everything I got it always feel like the goal or the money runs even further away from me? But whenever I take the goal less serious, not too determined on it and just decide to live my life things start working out?

This is a strange world indeed, I wonder if anyone went through such before? Or just noticed?

Either your goal is not achievable from your position or you get frustrated in a very short time or your efforts are lacking in achieving the goal or you lack consistency which is a big reason for failure. But when you do not give importance to any one thing, that thing is realistic or achievable depending on your position.

Remember one thing, it is very difficult to achieve what you want. It is comparatively easy to achieve what you do not want or what you care less about. You must have the determination that you will not let up in your efforts and consistency until you achieve the goal.

[Renampun]

There's a saying that if you focus on developing yourself, the money will come by itself.. I believe this because if someone only focuses on chasing money, they cannot look after themselves, they will lose more chances to make even more money. because of that, they will feel stuck and like money is moving further away from them. when someone is no longer obsessed with money and focuses on themselves instead, they become calmer and more directed. this is more about a growth mindset that makes a person no longer see money as their focus. instead, they care more about their effort and doing what they are working on.

[el kaka22]

I can relate to the fact that whenever I try to pay for my debts and become debt free, the debt just grows. That is something I have faced many times over. It means, there are hundreds of things in everyone's lives which are beyond explanations. Basically in what I do believe is, saving for rainy days. Because, struggling and difficult kind of times on life is most common for everyone but at what level you are prepared for facing it would decide your rest of life.

But in the end, I realize that the world we live in is a very tough on everyone. For this reason, in some culture people do believe into insurance and in some culture people believe into gold as an emergency fund. I hope bitcoin with better ROI and easy liquidity, will become as a saviour to everyone on hard times worldwide.