Why Many Gamblers Keep Returning After Saying “I’m Done”

[BitBakerr1]

It is very difficult for a gambler to stop gambling totally some set of people may be thinking it is easy to do, but if you’re a gambler and you want to stop, that is when you will see how difficult it is, the only way you can totally forget about gambling is when you have created or have seen another thing that you are doing that is giving you same fun gambling was giving you, apart from this I don’t think it’s possible to stop gambling totally.

[ImGenius]

I think the biggest reason is that gambling make a type of cycle in mind. Losses definitely make us feel pain but the memory of one big win keep giving hope all the time that we always thought the next chance may fix everything. Boredom also play a big role because when betting become part of our daily routine quitting gambling feel like removing a very important activity, Crypto gambling makes it way more worse because access to gambling is too easy with crypto.

[Accardo]

It is very difficult for a gambler to stop gambling totally some set of people may be thinking it is easy to do, but if you’re a gambler and you want to stop, that is when you will see how difficult it is, the only way you can totally forget about gambling is when you have created or have seen another thing that you are doing that is giving you same fun gambling was giving you, apart from this I don’t think it’s possible to stop gambling totally.

For addicts quitting instantly is not real and not advisable, giving the process some timing and playing from time to time would do the player a big favor. Calling it to an end would cause the gambler much harm emotionally, which could be a bigger trouble whenever they find themself in a situation that promotes gaming, when the player goes back to gaming during this encounter, it's always difficult to call them back to normalcy.

[YOSHIE]

Almost every gambler has said  “I’m Done” but they usually come back and sometimes it takes them few days, weeks or months to come back.

I think there are a lot of incentives and factors if someone goes back to the gambling behavior they promised after they said stop, The points you say are indeed factors that hook them back into gambling.

However, apart from what you mentioned, there is something called (Sensation Addiction). In fact, I see some gamblers who come back after stopping for months, they are just looking for sensation, their tension is not actually for money, There are also those who I often see who are curious, they say they have lost often, but they feel that this time their comeback will be really big, even though they know they have experienced a losing streak, I see gamblers' curiosity/mistakes very often and are often experienced by those who return to gambling.

[nara1892]

Everything you said is true, OP, especially point number one. I truly feel it and just discovered this fact, and I think point number one is what makes gambling successful and has grown to be as big as it is today.
In gambling, the result of winning provides an incredible dopamine rush to the brain, which is very pleasurable and exhilarating, while the dopamine is absent in losing. On the other hand, the brain usually works more easily to remember something pleasant than something painful, and indeed, this is the reason why gamblers keep coming back.

That is it, the way brains do works at times is really amazing, but its important for gamblers to be at alert, as their brains might mislead them due to how their emotions or their minds react to a particular situation. That is why they always grew more urge to gamble more, even when they know their plans its not certain, they just want to give it a try and this moment makes them to feel more frustrated and worried to make sure they got what they want in gambling.

Of course, therefore it is really very important to always maintain awareness and understanding regarding what and how gambling actually is, do not let the previous fun moments that you remember control yourself because the decisions you will take will certainly tend to be aggressive while the results are not guaranteed to be the same as in the previous time, maintaining the understanding and awareness that no matter how we try and whatever method we use, it does not guarantee results is the right attitude to face gambling.

[Zadicar]

2. The Desire to Recover Losses.

This is the main reason on why people do keeps on coming back just because they are really that trying out to recover on their loses just because they dont want to ending up their day to end up on losing money. This is why it would be that resulting into further deposits on which we know that this is something that a very common action on most gamblers would be doing. You would be saying your done when you do lose money or rolls but on the moment that you are winning up then it would be wiping out that frustration or thoughts then you would be that doing all over again and again on which the cycle continues. You would literally just stop at the moment or time that you would really be having no money to play and thats where most gamblers do really ends up on this case. This is why its important that you should be setting out limits and you do really know on when to call it a day and never go beyond into the amount that you had set for that gambling session. This is why self control and moderation would be always the key into this kind of situation.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

I think the biggest reason is that gambling make a type of cycle in mind. Losses definitely make us feel pain but the memory of one big win keep giving hope all the time that we always thought the next chance may fix everything. Boredom also play a big role because when betting become part of our daily routine quitting gambling feel like removing a very important activity, Crypto gambling makes it way more worse because access to gambling is too easy with crypto.

Well, like I've said before in my previous comment on this thread, this will depend on the gambler and how he or she has gotten used to gambling, because I am here trying to imagine myself declaring I won't ever gamble again, if I ever make such a declaration, then trust me, nothing will ever make me get involved in gambling again so long as I meant it when I said it..

Not even the thought of my previous winning and know that I could potentially win again will make me change my mind after I've declared that I am quitting gambling for good, because one thing we must understand is that there are always the possibility of two outcomes from gambling..
1. The outcome of winning
2. The outcome of losing
And the outcome of losing is way more common than the outcome of winning, so when ever we think about our previous win and feel tempted to gamble again, simply think about your previous loses as well and remember that that bet you are about to stake could end up as a loss as well..

[alastantiger]

It is very difficult for a gambler to stop gambling totally some set of people may be thinking it is easy to do, but if you’re a gambler and you want to stop, that is when you will see how difficult it is, the only way you can totally forget about gambling is when you have created or have seen another thing that you are doing that is giving you same fun gambling was giving you, apart from this I don’t think it’s possible to stop gambling totally.

It is simply addiction as addiction is the only reason why someone who has decided to stop gambling will always return back. It is not a matter of if they are profiting from the gamble that they are playing or not but for the fact that they keep returning back to gambling then they must obviously love it and if they don't love it then they have no choice by the decision that they are making and that is how an addict can be identified. A lot of people put themselves in situations that they can't get out off because of their greediness, if when they started gambling they were discipline and did not over spend their money on betting then they won't have gotten addicted but still be in control of the decisions that they make hence.

[Findingnemo]

There are many reasons why people gamble after they announced that they are done and it is mostly the financial reason, they just want to recover what they lost because they feel like one more magical bet will make it possible which is true but when that magical bet will happen? Maybe after another 1000 more bets before that big win.

[Dogedegen]

You are right in everything you have said there. However, just to add mine, I think financial desperation could also be the biggest reason why gamblers keep returning after deciding to leave gambling.

With their debts piled up due to gambling, some have already assumed that the best way to resolve their financial crisis is to become non-stop from gambling. For them, that's the only possible way that they can quickly regain what they have lost, that's probably one of the reasons why gamblers keep returning after so much losses and countless frustrations they feel when they are deeply at loss.

There cases do exist but I question how often they come across, because we tend to give this advice a lot. Only the most foolish people would believe that they can get out of debt by continuing to gamble. It is such that we consider this error very basic, and to know how to avoid digging your own grave should not be hard. There are ways to work on debts, but gambling is not a way through which this can happen. The question in the thread is why many gamblers return, and I would think it wants us to list reasons that apply to many individuals but it may not be so because there are many reasons given here. The one that you provide is valid but I don't think it really is the case for even like 1 percent of return gamblers.

In cases where the "I am done" was a result of the gambler wanting to take a break from gambling, I don't see them coming back as an issue. The only time this becomes an issue is when the "I am done" was a result of them wanting to be permanently away from gambling, but yet return after a few months or a few weeks of taking that BREAK.

I could say I am done simply because I have experienced so many losses and just want to take some time off gambling to clear my mind, and then return, probably after a few months. That doesn't mean this is because I am coming back because I couldn't take the losses, or because I feel I have more control over my gambler though it might be true. Taking some time off from gambling will make you see things differently compared to someone who just keeps gambling nonstop for months or years.

It may be so but you have to consider that people who just decide to take a break can also be people who should permanently walk away from gambling, there are many people who have sacrificed a lot for gambling already even if they don't see it. This means that this can be a problem for some of those people in the group that decide to take a small break too.

[MorganaX]

There are many reasons why people gamble after they announced that they are done and it is mostly the financial reason, they just want to recover what they lost because they feel like one more magical bet will make it possible which is true but when that magical bet will happen? Maybe after another 1000 more bets before that big win.

The number reason why gamblers tend to go back to their gambler habits even after they have announced that they aren't gambling anymore is the fact that they believe and have the hope that one day they can replicate a similar winning that they have experienced before or possibly the wins that they have been hearing from other gamblers because sometimes gamblers tend to get delusional and feel they can also experience that big win they hear about when other gamblers get to win such.