Is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling.

[PhilosopherKing]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

You friend is wrong to be thinking that gambling is a sure way to make money. Person cannot transfer luck to another person not even when that person is your spouse. Because he is making money from gambling dosen't mean the wife will also make money too like him.Gambling is not guaranteed of bringing profit, that is why person have to be careful before entering inside it.

And when they are gambling they should gamble with just the money that they can afforded to loose.

[nara1892]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

If the couples understand the consequences associated with their action, then it's fine for them to take the risk, double loss or gain if they are lucky.

I will pass on the idea of introducing my spouse to gambling, if she enjoys sports or gambling and wants to get involved, let her be the one to decide, I wouldn't refer her into what i know has a big risk and could affect both our finance.

That means you're handing over all decisions to your partner. On the one hand, that's good, but on the other hand, there will still be serious repercussions if your partner actually decides to gamble.
Honestly, I'd probably be more inclined to forbid it because, as you said, it ultimately impacts both of our finances. Financial stability in a marriage is something that must be maintained and preserved. Oh, and I also remember just a few weeks ago, my friend divorced his wife due to financial problems stemming from gambling.

[Hatchy]

You friend is wrong to be thinking that gambling is a sure way to make money. Person cannot transfer luck to another person not even when that person is your spouse. Because he is making money from gambling dosen't mean the wife will also make money too like him.Gambling is not guaranteed of bringing profit, that is why person have to be careful before entering inside it.

And when they are gambling they should gamble with just the money that they can afforded to loose.

True, he was lucky, but doesn't mean his wife would be lucky too. He some how is thinking gambling world that way. Even if you teach someone how to gamble, if they are not the type that is lucky, they would still end up in losses. I don't know why most people feel or see gambling as a mean to earn a living. They have to understand why they shouldn't even when money comes from it, you shouldn't consider gambling as a mean to make money on a long term. Whatever money you make from gambling should only be seen as something on a short term win. The kind of risk involved in gambling doesn't allow it to fit in the case of a sustainable source of income. You lose more than you win..

[Royal Cap]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

I would say that your friend's decision is completely wrong and risky. Everything seems very easy because he is addicted to winning now, but being a gambler is not only about winning money, it is also a big cause of mental stress. It may seem okay because he is winning today but very few people are lucky enough to have a winning streak in gambling.  However introducing your spouse to gambling just for fun together would be a different story. But the mindset of earning more money is risky. When one day there is a big loss, it will be difficult to handle the negative impact that this wrong decision will have on their relationship.

[AVE5]

Tell him to quite gambling because he is already on his way to becoming addicted to gambling, why I said this is because.

For someone for start gambling 3 months ago considering to recruit his wife into gambling is really out of place and a sign that he is about to get glued to gambling along side his wife if she ever shown interest in gambling.

I can never allow my spouse to gamble in fact I don't even discuss my gambling activities with my spouse in the first place to avoid building her interest in gambling.

Him that just recently started gambling in the just 3 months doesn't even know what's forthcoming for someone who'd lost control of himself due to high urge for gambling especially when he's lucky to winning like that of the Op's friend.
It's really up to the point to asking him to stop gambling because that spirit of wanting to involve his wife to gamble just shows how he can fall into addiction and won't realize.
So by the time his wife begins to gamble and both falls the addiction victims I bet they'll still take it to be normal because the man himself first doesn't show disciplines and principles of himself.

[SOKO-DEKE]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

No matter the kind of winning I am experiencing in gambling, I will never introduce my spouse to gambling because I know the risks associated with it. I know that gambling will never truly pay me, so I will never introduce my wife to it because I do not want to add more problems to my life.The guy you are talking about may be new to gambling, and because luck is currently on his side, he may think it is his smartness that is resulting in the wins. However, once he starts experiencing losses, he will realize that gambling is not a way of making money and that all the winning was simply luck.

I also have a similar story from the past. There was a period when I was so lucky that I was winning bets back-to-back. I thought it was my analysis and prediction skills that were helping me win consistently. Because of that, I introduced my cousin to gambling and promised him that he would also win because I would be sharing my predictions with him.That is how it started. During the first two weeks, we were lucky and won the bets we played. This encouraged him to introduce his friend as well, telling him that my games were sure to win. However, from that point, we started losing back-to-back. In the long run, the losses became so serious that even my bank account was empty.Eventually, I stopped gambling for a while. Later, I resumed but only for fun and not with the expectation of making money.

[I_Anime]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

He might be on some winning streak doesn’t mean things can’t change anytime. Winning streak can turn losing streak so he should be carefully he shouldn’t think gambling is a quick money scheme, is not something he should take as a source of income , doing so will only position him in the wrong position and to make things worse thinking of introducing his wife to gambling , is not a smart move at all . He shouldn’t introduce to something that rising and uncertain , best  still he should he introduce her to bitcoin.

[Bitcoin Smith]

Yes, if you don't ever want to get into a dispute with your wife over your gambling habit.

Not a good decision, especially he even still new to gambling so he might be still riding his beginners luck and gambling is not a way to make easy money, so just consider doing it for fun not to get rich that is a stupid decision to make.

[ndutndut]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

Introducing or inviting your wife to gamble is a bad idea, especially for most of us, after getting married the wife's role is usually to manage the household finances. If she gets involved in gambling it's very risky for the household finances. Moreover, if the wife has only been gambling for three months, she's still very new and inexperienced.

Therefore, it's best for wives not to get involved in gambling because beginners, especially those who are also wives are very susceptible to chasing losses. Once they lose, emotions run high, wanting to recoup their capital, then increase their capital and so on, which is bad for the household finances. Many people change drastically in a matter of months when gambling, even if they claim they gamble for fun and still have self control. However, in the same household, especially if a husband and wife are involved in gambling for a long time it will be risky even if gambling seems fun at first.

[Powerjumboo]

If he wants to introduce Gambling to his wife, it will be a big mistake, because he won the bet, it’s okay, but is there any guarantee that his wife can win too? I think that because he is considering gambling as a money making way, maybe he has won big now. But in the long run, there is a high possibility of losing it all, because it is impossible to profit continuously from gambling. If he wins big now and continues gambling with it, I think a big loss will happen in the coming days. Gambling is never a source of income; you will join your family here, and they can earn. This is a completely wrong move and also risky.

One of the worse decission that a person can make is teach or drag your wife into gambling, not only they will have no time for the kids and you, they can be expose to something worse, since there are lots of people and we already know what it is, there is lot of vices out there, not only the expenses will go up, but your family will not be happy you guys will be chasing money, and with that, you will spend more than before, and that is the start of bad things to come in your family, dont let them join you in something you already knew the result.

Yes, dragging your wife into gambling is one of the worst things. No matter what anyone says, you should never involve your spouse in gambling. Moreover, since women cannot take much risk and even if they take a little risk, they become very upset, in such a situation, women should never gamble. Women are the queens of the house, they keep the house beautiful and tidy and take care of the children. Now if we involve them in gambling and hope for profit, then there will be a sea of unrest in that family. So, to have a happy family, women must be protected and they should never be made to do risky work.

[Antotena]

A friend of mine told me he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and asked me if it was right to do that, I asked him if he knows and his sure his wife can gamble without becoming addicted to it and he said he those not know and I asked him again why he wants to introduce his wife into gambling and he said so his wife can be making money through it same way his doing and a laughed so loud .
I simply told him not to introduce his wife into gambling and he shouldn’t bother thinking or having this thoughts again if he wants to continue enjoying his marriage.
He has been winning sports bet recently a lot and his even the one giving me bets and I’m winning too, that’s why his thinking of introducing his wife but I know he won’t be winning this way for ever.

Note: he started gambling 3 months ago.

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

How special is he with this gambling thing in 3 months to want to introduce his wife to gambling. It's normal thing to have a win session in gambling but at the same time there will come a time when things will go red and that begs the question if the wife mind is programmable for change. If anything goes wrong, can she still adapt because if it's women that I know, they will gaslight you that you are the person that enrolled them to gambling when things goes wrong.

If the husband knows his wife very well, that's fine boy for me, I will not introduce my wife to any kind of bet. It will not end well and I don't want to bear responsibility of things I am not mentally ready to take. The earlier you don't even start it, the better but if she insist, then the consequences of gambling is on her. If she win, it's her money and I wouldn't interfere but if she lose, she will bear the loss too, at least they are very good in risk management.

[Rgram]

Yes, if you don't ever want to get into a dispute with your wife over your gambling habit.

Well that depends if your spouse gets to pick up fine and I doubt that, not when both of you would end up loosing more often than win and you know who would be left to carry the blame? It’s still going to be you! When things don’t go right, she would blame you to have brought her in at the first place and this time, she would be well aware of most of the losses, losses you could have left bottled up and you don’t get an excuse for not meeting up on family duties, you shouldn’t obviously.
I think it’s actually a very dumb thing to do.

[lionheart78]

What do you guys think is it right to introduce your spouse into gambling just because you are winning.

I am neutral on this. If the partner is not interested in gambling, why introduce the partner to gambling?  It is ok to introduce a person to gambling if the person is interested but it is not a good thing to introduce someone just because you like gambling so much. It is you, not them.

So, I think introducing gambling to other people, specially our partner, is to see whether they are really interested in gambling activities.  if they are curious to know the what abouts of gambling, if they want to learn the feelings, and especially if they said it themselves.